FabSwingers.com forum: A button to reset your life

By *ingh89 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

A bit of a deep one for a sunny Sunday morning - If there was a button to reset your life and start over would you press it?

Can be a straight yes or no answer but feel free to include reasoning if you want.

Will be a yes for me.

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

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By *lirtyVampireBellaCouple
2 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Yes ...

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I would not, although I'd happily do it all again. But I think you do have that button, you can start making different choices right now

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By *endall_IronbridgeMan
2 weeks ago

Shropshire

Yes I would have kept someone in my life that I let go

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"A bit of a deep one for a sunny Sunday morning - If there was a button to reset your life and start over would you press it?

Can be a straight yes or no answer but feel free to include reasoning if you want.

Will be a yes for me.

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clarification: does the button offer one or multiple resets?

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By *ysteriousGirlOGWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Alter ti_elines maybe but reset? No. I think everything that happens shapes you as a person and without those things, you may not be the person you are today.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Of course not. No one with any brains would.

Questions :

When our lives are reset do we live the same life over again ?

Are we returned to infancy ?

Will I have to go through all the trauma i've gone through already ?

If I don't have all the life experiences i've already had then who will I be in the end ?

Even Marty knew not to go back and change history .....

Nope i'm leaving well enough alone.

I'd hate to restart and take a left turn instead of a right and discover that I became involved in death or destruction .... i'll just be me thanks.

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By *iver78Man
2 weeks ago

barton upon humber

Yes when I was in my 30s but now a No

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Alter ti_elines maybe but reset? No. I think everything that happens shapes you as a person and without those things, you may not be the person you are today. "
profound! 📚

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By *nmyknees69Man
2 weeks ago

Rushden

"A bit of a deep one for a sunny Sunday morning - If there was a button to reset your life and start over would you press it?

Can be a straight yes or no answer but feel free to include reasoning if you want.

Will be a yes for me.

No. I suffer badly from anxiety and mental depression due to an incident I can’t say publicly when I was young.

I met one woman in 1990 and lived six years of hell. Although I now have three sons and two grandchildren from one of those sons.

This woman is the most toxic bitch ever but if I reset my life id not have these children and offspring.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
2 weeks ago

Bot Farm

If it were the same life (conditions) knowing what I know now, Oh yes please

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

I don't think I'd hit a reset button, although I've made some stupid decisions my life which I'd change.

The stupidest thing I did was smoke, it was a nightmare to quit.

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By *peedyGMan
2 weeks ago

Telford

I would change a few things but not a total reset.. so no.

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By *actile TensionMan
2 weeks ago

Sussex

Nah, I ain't doing all that shit again

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"I don't think I'd hit a reset button, although I've made some stupid decisions my life which I'd change.

The stupidest thing I did was smoke, it was a nightmare to quit."
well done 👏🏼 same here. In this case a reset button is risky, you might take it up again 😂

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By *indsoftimeMan
2 weeks ago

co.antrim

Yes .... well parts of it i guess anyways!

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By *111Woman
2 weeks ago

"A bit of a deep one for a sunny Sunday morning - If there was a button to reset your life and start over would you press it?

Can be a straight yes or no answer but feel free to include reasoning if you want.

Will be a yes for me.

Strong “no”, I’m happy and content, I take all the things that happen as lessons in life 🙂

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By *atteLover82Man
2 weeks ago

BERWICK-UPON-TWEED

As much as there are things in my life I would like to be or have went differently I don't think I would reset. The main reason being that resetting would mean potentially never having or experiencing the good things/ people in my life. Plus the experiences we have shape who we are as people and as much as yes it could go better it could be far worse and I am happy with who I am as a person far from perfect but 100% ok with that.

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

No. There's plenty I would do different, but then I think maybe I wouldn't be me if I hadn't lived the life I have. Actually, maybe that's not a bad thing. Sure let's reset!

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By *ookie46Woman
2 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Strong no even with my incurable cancer diagnosis

I have the most amazing kids, family and friends and I’m still living my life to the fullest ❤️

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By *ackdaw52Man
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

It's not just you that shapes your life; there are loads of other factors.

If you reset you might make all the right choices thus time but still end up worse off.

So unless I could go back with the knowledge, confidence and wisdom I've gained since age 0, then that's a no from me.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

No. Given the chance I would want a better or more perfect life, and that comes with a price for someone else. The job or relationship which I survived through a personal hell will be someone else’s and do it goes on. The better one’s life the more it is paid for by someone else suffering in my place.

I pay my own way, and I’m ok with how I’ve done that.

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By *111Woman
2 weeks ago

"Strong no even with my incurable cancer diagnosis

I have the most amazing kids, family and friends and I’m still living my life to the fullest ❤️"

🥺♥️

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Bedford

Yes

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"Strong no even with my incurable cancer diagnosis

I have the most amazing kids, family and friends and I’m still living my life to the fullest ❤️"

This is humbling to read. 💜

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By *aven3Man
2 weeks ago

Stoford

No.Life has been pretty good,so far,and many have had much worse.A second chance,might not be as good

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By *rWolf619Man
2 weeks ago

Derbyshire

No. While there's a chance some things in my life could be better, there's a good chance things could have been a lot worse too.

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By *izandpaulCouple
2 weeks ago

merseyside

No, because I have loved my life, including its ups and downs.

Yes, I'd do it all over again in an instant.

You only get one chance, so make sure you put everything into it.

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By *eniescot86Man
2 weeks ago

Bathgate

Minor adjustments maybe, not a reset

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By *a LunaWoman
2 weeks ago

Wales

No. It is what it is.

I have had good times and bad. Who’s to say the reset button makes things easier or better?

It could make things worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

No but a rewind in order to stop at a critic time and moment

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By *hellebelleWoman
2 weeks ago

ashford

No…. My past is what’s forged my present.

I don’t regret my past (even the bad choices I’ve made).

Like everyone in this world, I’ve gone through crap and even went back to have another shitty plough through it, be it with ex partners, bad decisions and even really bad health at times and I even suffered an out of hospital cardiac arrest a few years back.. but rather then think poor me, I think lucky me as I’m part of the 2% club to survive it.

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By *hebigeater95Man
2 weeks ago

brentwood

Do I get to bring the knowledge I have now? I would be placing a lot of winning bets in the literal and less than literal senses

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
2 weeks ago

Louth

Yes plain and simple

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By *os19Man
2 weeks ago

Edmonton

Yes - There are a lot of things I would have done differently from 18 years old to present.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

No. I ain't doing this shit all over again.

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By *asoMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

Only if the button allows multiple resets

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By *idssissyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Nr cricket ground birm

Would prefer a delete button

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

No thanks, happy with who I have become!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester

I’d reset a pivotal moment with a work choice path is all and moving option

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By *elix SightedMan
2 weeks ago

Cloud 8

What, do it all again? 49 long, tedious, miserable years all over again? Christ no. Unless I’m allowed to keep the knowledge I have now to make better decisions.

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By *hunderaceMan
2 weeks ago

Dudley

My near 57yrs have been quite a ride by anyone's standards. Highlights & low include surviving stage 4 cancer when I was given 6 months 36yrs ago, loosing my 27yr old son to suicide, loosing his mother for the same reason 8 months later, A very eventful Army career, living with type 1 diabetes, emigrating to Australia for 10yrs and loosing my left leg 7 inches bellow my knee.

I'll bore you with no more but theres heaps left... would I go through this again? I'm not sure, not even sure someday if I want it now.

However catch me in a good mood and I'll tell you its never been my intention to like James Dean leave a good looking body and die young, I'd rather broadside, skid and wheelie my way across the finishing line in a body used up with excessive debauchery and stories to shame the Angels. Once I think is enough...

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
2 weeks ago

Hampshire

No.

Despite the horrendous events that have occurred in my life, everything has brought me to who I am now. So no, I wouldn't reset or restart.

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

No. I'm proud and happy of where I am, and love the people in my life. I'm quite fortunate. It would have been easier without some of the crap but resetting isn't worth the risk.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Central

You've not explained what the reset process does and its result, so I'd not do it, unless it's explained and I can take an informed decision

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By *adJennyWoman
2 weeks ago

Cougar Village

"You've not explained what the reset process does and its result, so I'd not do it, unless it's explained and I can take an informed decision "

This

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

No, but I'd like a rewind button so I can say goodbye.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"My near 57yrs have been quite a ride by anyone's standards. Highlights & low include surviving stage 4 cancer when I was given 6 months 36yrs ago, loosing my 27yr old son to suicide, loosing his mother for the same reason 8 months later, A very eventful Army career, living with type 1 diabetes, emigrating to Australia for 10yrs and loosing my left leg 7 inches bellow my knee.

I'll bore you with no more but theres heaps left... would I go through this again? I'm not sure, not even sure someday if I want it now.

I already knew your story but I'm still giving you more ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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By *itty14Couple
2 weeks ago

kilkenny

No ..very happy with my lot😊

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Slough

No because God has a plan...!

We are who we are and with each day being a blessing, we live and learn.

Trying to simply be a decent human being, not at all easy, but we try our best...!

In any case, wishing you all continued blessings and an amazing week ahead!

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Slough

I just wish I could've toldy grandma how much I really loved her and grateful for everything she did for us. That's the only one thing I would say I'd change, to have that one opportunity to say thank you and I love you.

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By *itty14Couple
2 weeks ago

kilkenny

"No ..very happy with my lot😊"

I should hope so 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ikeHawkenerMan
2 weeks ago

"A bit of a deep one for a sunny Sunday morning - If there was a button to reset your life and start over would you press it?

Can be a straight yes or no answer but feel free to include reasoning if you want.

Will be a yes for me.

It’s a no from me

I feel everything happens for a reason and it’s what makes us who we are today, plus without knowing what we already know then we’ll surely make the same mistakes and end up here contemplating pressing the reset button….

I’d gladly live it again (despite the ups and downs, losses, heartbreak etc) just to have more time with people who are no longer around and missed

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 weeks ago

Lincs

No.

There's a number of things that have happened to me, or that I've done in life, that I can see have then led onto other things,that whole 'everything happens for a reason' malarkey. And alot of those have been good.

Also, I've gone through my share of rubbish times, life is good nowadays,it may not stay that way, who knows, none of us have a crystal ball, but I'm happy enough with my lot.

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By *verageHoesCouple
2 weeks ago

Bessacarr

Nah

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By *hunderaceMan
2 weeks ago

Dudley

I'll bore you with no more but theres heaps left... would I go through this again? I'm not sure, not even sure someday if I want it now.

I already knew your story but I'm still giving you more ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

If ever I finish my book and it becomes a film, I will be me & you will be my true love... at least our accents will be the same my lip biting gorgeous neighbour xx

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By *ingh89 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'll bore you with no more but theres heaps left... would I go through this again? I'm not sure, not even sure someday if I want it now.

This is humbling to read. 🙏🏾

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By *abulincsCouple
2 weeks ago

near a bridge

No the past has made us who we are today warts and all

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By *igBeardyDanMan
2 weeks ago

Bilston

Not for me, its how I got here and all the lessons learned from the mistakes made along the way

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By * Chubby Btm MinxMan
2 weeks ago

South Ribble area. Currently:

Only if I can restart as a girl!

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By *ivilised matureMan
2 weeks ago

East Sheen/ Barnes

Yes

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By *hunderaceMan
2 weeks ago

Dudley

I think the lesson here is if you said "yes" then the metaphorical button is at the end of this message, while your heart still beats theres an option to change, theres chance, curves balls and bad luck on the way but those are just potholes to steer round. Find a dream, focus on your goal and become single minded in your pursuit. Wishing for a restart is wishing your life away, realising your dream could be your greatest achievement.

Now press here ➡️ 🔴 ⬅️ and be all you can be...

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By *riel13Woman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Fuck no! I don't want to do that again!

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

I'll bore you with no more but theres heaps left... would I go through this again? I'm not sure, not even sure someday if I want it now.

I already knew your story but I'm still giving you more ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

If ever I finish my book and it becomes a film, I will be me & you will be my true love... at least our accents will be the same my lip biting gorgeous neighbour xx"

Yes, they won't understand either of us ❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes

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By *regnantPlayMan
2 weeks ago

Basildon

"A bit of a deep one for a sunny Sunday morning - If there was a button to reset your life and start over would you press it?

Can be a straight yes or no answer but feel free to include reasoning if you want.

Will be a yes for me.

Relive no. Have a go at alternative paths? Perhaps to see....

Imagine the possibilities..

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

It would be wonderful if we could erase some parts of our life, never to think of them again. It's a weird one. I've been through some bad shit, but from that, the best thing in my life happened. Maybe things do happen for a reason. And id go through it all again for that.

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By *ChubsMan
2 weeks ago

West Midlands

I'd have to say yes, but would want to keep my daughter's as they're the best thing that's happened to me in the last 20 odd years

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I've got lots of deep regrets, and heartache. But if I went back there's no guarantee I'd meet my wife, or have our daughter. The joy I've experienced may never occur, and while I'd presumably be none the wiser, I wouldn't lose that for the world.

Who knows, This time I might actually drown in the Tugela, instead of surviving. Or that guy with the shotgun that we pulled up when I was in the army might actually blow my head off. No. I'm fine thanks.

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By *lexm87Man
2 weeks ago

Various

Presses button.

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By *lim_bbcMan
2 weeks ago

barking

Yes

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By *he KakapoMan
2 weeks ago

A nice rock

Crime101?

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By *007ManMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

Yes as long as the good parts happened again!

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory

That's a really tough question, reset a few years,change the outcome then yes my whole life no

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

Not a reset button but I would give almost anything for one particular night as my 18 year old self in 1990.

The night me and my pals went to see James at the avlc it was a great night, and I wouldn’t change a thing, except for when I got home at 2 in the morning and my dad was awake sat in his chair watching some old western, he couldn’t sleep we talked until the sun came up and to this day I wish I had asked him more about his childhood, I remember talking about myself a lot, when I wish I had taken the opportunity to learn more about him and I think that was my only opportunity, he was a man of few words.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

Absolutely no. My kids would vanish.

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By *Effy-Woman
2 weeks ago

Scotland

Am I fuck doing all of this shit again.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

No, simply because ive survived all the challenges in my life and theyve made me the person i am.

Whose to say it wouldnt just be a different set of challenges

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

Surrey

No.

The mistakes and joys i have made and done are what have made me. I am far from perfect but i am unique.

No regrets

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By *avrick180Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypool

Yes I defo would use it

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A button to reset your life - yes or no