FabSwingers.com forum: TV/TS verifications off putting?

By *tillNewStillLooking2026 OP Couple
3 weeks ago

bromsgrove

Question, not looking to offend!

We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.

The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.

Are we wrong to be put off by this?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

If it puts you off then it puts you off. It’s not wrong, everyone is entitled to their preferences.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
3 weeks ago

Norwich

"Question, not looking to offend!

We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.

The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.

Are we wrong to be put off by this? "

If they are clearly "play" veris, and you only want to meet straight guys then I'd say you were perfectly right to be put off.

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I think it depends on the circumstances.

If its a social verification.....its irrelevant.

Its its more than a social, then yeah....I see your perspective.

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By *hybuttercup9Woman
3 weeks ago

South West

"Question, not looking to offend!

We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.

The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.

Are we wrong to be put off by this?

If they are clearly "play" veris, and you only want to meet straight guys then I'd say you were perfectly right to be put off. "

This is a very good point because people will quite often leave veris from club meets and parties if you get chatting without play being involved as a sign of activity in the community and being genuine

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

Youre not wrong. Theyre liars. Best to block.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Cheshire

I have had plenty of socials and play dates in which I’ve been asked not to verify the person(s).

I don’t see it as a problem as it’s not a big deal as far as I’m concerned.

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By *erdyHollyTV/TS
3 weeks ago

In a galaxy far far away

Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
3 weeks ago

Chatham

If it bothers you, then that is ok.

It’s access to your body and your time. It is your right to say no for whatever reason.

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Dublin / Sligo

I'm a trans woman and I find it offputting myself! I specify that I'm not into straight men but constantly get guys with straight on their profile messaging me about how they're actually bi (and many of them have play veris from men). To me it shows a certain level of either dishonesty or self-denial.

Everyone is entitled to define their sexuality as they see fit, but you're also entitled to your preferences about who you hook up with (which are worth examining from time to time!).

In my experience nothing you say on your profile will deter the "fab straight" opportunists anyway. Might be worth setting up message filters.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chichester

"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't."

lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 weeks ago

pink panther territory

"Question, not looking to offend!

We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.

The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.

Are we wrong to be put off by this? "

No not at all I'm a straight women looking to meet straight guys and it's totally puts me off

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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3 weeks ago

Central

Everyone has preferences and, if it doesn't originate in bigotry, most people would be okay with it.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
3 weeks ago

rochdale

As a TV I often get 'straight' guys messaging me for sex.

But in all fairness, what does it matter who someone had sex with before they contacted you?

I don't meet straight men because I've done it in the past & the sex wasn't great tbh.

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.

lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles

BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chichester

"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.

lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles

BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀"

Update it to whatever. Most of us make a 5 second visual decision tbh anyway

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By *oeBeansMan
3 weeks ago

Derby

"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.

lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles

BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀

Update it to whatever. Most of us make a 5 second visual decision tbh anyway

That's a "Why are you booing me? I'm right!" statement if I ever saw one 😂

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
3 weeks ago

Hull

"Question, not looking to offend!

We are a couple, looking to meet straight men and bi-women.

The amount of 'straight' men who contact us with loads of verifications from TV/TS is a lot.

Are we wrong to be put off by this? "

Honestly, it is a bit off-putting for us as well.

Couldnt tell you why though, nothing against TV/ts folk at all. Maybe it's as you say... "Straight" men. It sounds like there's some copium going on!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Chichester

"Could you trust someone in real life if they lie on their profile here? I couldn't.

lol I just view everyone is full of shit on their profile by default. Saves the hassles

BRB, just updating my height if that's the case 👀

Update it to whatever. Most of us make a 5 second visual decision tbh anyway

That's a "Why are you booing me? I'm right!" statement if I ever saw one 😂"

No it’s just a statement it has no meaning as I don’t possess emotional care to view something as a boo or not. Just facts based on function is all

humans are visual text is secondary to that

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