FabSwingers.com forum: Unfaithful

By *elonsplums OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Salisbury

Is it cheating being on here flirting while Ur other half is asleep

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By *aughty234Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

I think having nsa fwb is good rather then cheating

Am looking for one

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By *aarv80Man
3 weeks ago

Crumlin

"Is it cheating being on here flirting while Ur other half is asleep "

If its not part of your agreed boundaries as a couple, I actually would consider it a form of cheating.

Though I have a feeling if you mentioned it to your partner after the fact, they would be okay with it.

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By *ere4playMan
3 weeks ago

Darwen

I'd argue not, it's only chat? Do they know you're on here, that's the main question? If so, then why not?

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By *exywill86Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

Anyone interested in 2 guys now Manchester

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By *ssex fun guyMan
3 weeks ago

travel london essex east

If its just a cock with no emotional connection then he'll noooo lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

"Is it cheating being on here flirting while Ur other half is asleep "

If its the guy posting: yes

If its the lady posting: no

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By *evilinDavina1Man
3 weeks ago

Bristol

"Is it cheating being on here flirting while Ur other half is asleep "

If they know your on then it's all good

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
3 weeks ago

Telford

Depends on your relationship I suppose.

Being on any site that's geared towards sex or dating without a partners knowledge I would say is being pretty sly. If they know then it's all good.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

If you have to hide it, lie about it then yes it's cheating.

If they are aware and happy with what you are doing no it isn't.

Mrs

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By *herrybakewellCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

If its not something you'd openly show your partner, or you have to keep it secret. Then its cheating.

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By *a LunaWoman
3 weeks ago

Wales

"Is it cheating being on here flirting while Ur other half is asleep "

Yeah. If they don’t know about it. If you’re doing it on the sly and lie about it.

And the grass is rarely greener on the other side. So is that flirting worth the risk?

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By *arkJonesMan
3 weeks ago

Bangor

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By *carlettsWoman
3 weeks ago

Harpenden

I love the green arrow

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By *arkJonesMan
3 weeks ago

Bangor

No and neither is having a very quiet wank...as I am now.

Hot pics gratefully received

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By *r1231Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Well you’re on a couples profile so are you feeling like you should be deleting your messages before your other half wakes up? That should give you your answer

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
3 weeks ago

Reading

The only relevant opinion is your partners. It would depend entirely on her. Some women are ok with a bit of flirting others would be very hurt and upset. The fact that you don't knowv is the worrying thing as you have no idea of her boundaries. You need to have honest and open communication to see where your boundaries are. These canchange during a relationship so should be discussed on a regular basis.

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By *issmorganWoman
3 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Not if they know you're here on your joint profile op, no.

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
3 weeks ago

Salisbury

It was the F asking lol

Seem to only be the M online when claiming they are in a MF relationship, that's why I asked sweetie

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By *ssexPaul50Man
3 weeks ago

colchester

I’m in a non sexual and non physical marriage and have been for two years, (separate bedrooms) so I really don’t class coming on here chatting and flirting cheating anymore. It helps the loneliness of not being intimate in life anymore.

God I need a shag 🤣😕

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By *heJam84Man
3 weeks ago

Manchester

some may say cheating, i say if your other half doesn't give what you want then i think it's fine to let someone else give you what you desire and then what they desire. if both parties are happy and the other one doesn't get hur tthen what does it matter.

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By *nmyknees69Man
2 weeks ago

Rushden

"Is it cheating being on here flirting while Ur other half is asleep "

Oh look the alcohol has kicked in. First stupid question of the day.

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By *nmyknees69Man
2 weeks ago

Rushden

"some may say cheating, i say if your other half doesn't give what you want then i think it's fine to let someone else give you what you desire and then what they desire. if both parties are happy and the other one doesn't get hur tthen what does it matter. "

Wrong and you’re saying that just to clear your own conscience…

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If its something that you won't tell your OH about, it's cheating

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

That's what I think babe

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"It was the F asking lol

Seem to only be the M online when claiming they are in a MF relationship, that's why I asked sweetie "

I think if they are on here seriously flirting behind your back and hiding it then yes it’s pushing the boundaries of cheating. Doing it because you are actively seeking out something from another woman whilst your wife is elsewhere/asleep. If however the wife’s given them permission that’s different

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"That's what I think babe "

Has this happened to you? ♥️

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By *tsazzMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

“Infidelity (commonly known as cheating or having an affair) is a breach of a relationship's agreed-upon boundaries of emotional or sexual exclusivity.”

Is it part of your agreed-upon boundaries?

If yes: not cheating

If not: it’s cheating

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

Totally how we think/feel babe xx

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

Has what happened????

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

????????

Question/post

This post was posted 3 days ago

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"Has what happened????"

Sorry thought you were referring to yourself as in the question was about you and hubby

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

I've no problem with man chatting on here if he wants to without me

I am trying to find a real F who's as funny, naughty and horny as me tho

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

No not at all lol

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By *inkyukxxxCouple
2 weeks ago

Nottinghamshire

"I've no problem with man chatting on here if he wants to without me

I am trying to find a real F who's as funny, naughty and horny as me tho"

Oh hi I’m here

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By * D 777Man
2 weeks ago

bathgate

Your only window shopping 🤣

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By *ndyp6969Man
2 weeks ago

manchester

Love window shopping and hot chat

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
2 weeks ago

Bot Farm

Perving is cheating?

Holy Fab Inquisition

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
2 weeks ago

Scotland

"Is it cheating being on here flirting while Ur other half is asleep "

It depends on what boundaries you have set as a couple. If it’s that either can be on fab and message, flirt etc at any time either alone or together then no. If you have an agreement to only be on together then yes I would say you’re pushing that boundary. Likewise if you are hiding the messages at all. For us Alex loves waking up to a stream of flirty texting between myself and another guy however he would not be happy if I was hiding the conversations from him

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