FabSwingers.com forum: Red flags

By *gent Coulson OP Man
3 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Chatting to the male part of a couple, getting on reasonably well, got to the point of setting up a meet and I asked him to get the Mrs to ring me as something felt a little off, he has now deleted the thread, definitely dodged a bullet.

So what red flags make you think something isn't quite right.

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By *uckMe12FreeMan
3 weeks ago

(User no longer on site)

The ones on the beach, I think they're no swimming zones. I might be wrong though 🚩🚩

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By *007ManMan
3 weeks ago

Worthing

Assume it's a bloke only unless you cam or meet.

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By *actile TensionMan
3 weeks ago

Sussex

Sincere emotional revelations

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By *oxy-RedWoman
3 weeks ago

pink panther territory

When you have been chatting for awhile and you ask for a face pic,he says yes then vanishes,only to pop up again with no mention of a pic

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

If I gave a list of all my red flags wouldn’t that be useful for someone wanting to bypass them?

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
3 weeks ago

London

"If I gave a list of all my red flags wouldn’t that be useful for someone wanting to bypass them?"

When I hear flags it reminds me of that world cup song, Wave your flag.

When I get older

I will be stronger...

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
3 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"If I gave a list of all my red flags wouldn’t that be useful for someone wanting to bypass them?"
only if they read the thread lol 😆

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

People who keep having to reschedule a social because things get in the way, the first couple of times I'll give them the benefit of the doubt. But when it becomes a cycle I just shut things down.

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By *gent Coulson OP Man
3 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Instant red flag, random messages asking me to beat them.

I occasionally service top but only people I know

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By *issy LanaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Slough

Listen to your gut instincts, they usually serve us well. I've been caught out once or twice by giving peeps the benefit of doubt, only to then realise they plan to let me down; because integrity isn't high on their list of agendas...!

Sometimes that internal alarm bell goes off early, and ignoring it is the easiest way to get let down by peeps who just don't operate with the same moral compass.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

First appearances on here are everything. So what we look out for on a profile is

- Old photos, nothing recent

- Photos that look like they've been taken with a potato

- Fill in later types

- 1 or 2 Verifications from hidden profiles (more often than not, they're alternative profiles and fake verifications)

- When someone clearly doesn't read our profile

- Unwilling to share face pics

That's just a start. There's so many more but that's where we go from.

- Erik

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By *WB85Man
3 weeks ago

Staffordshire

To be fair, we chat and happily share pics, but a phone call before a social is never going to happen.

Mrs gets asked a lot on her solo account, its always a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Bloody hell u lot get to the stage of exchanging messages! Lucky u lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Prior to blocking - couples profiles who ask if your interested and when you politely say no im not interested in couples. All of a sudden the male is allowed to play alone 🚩

Someone who within 2 messages then starts talking about their wife and how she is on a meet right now and he loves it- wank fodder 🚩

Someone with a 12 inch cock pic that is clearly half inched off some porn site 🚩

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

People who want to go into great detail about what you're going to do to them

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