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"Just don't interact with them. We just ignore blank / basic profiles, we treat it as a red flag. People seem to make this process as difficult as possible....they don't get our attention. " Exactly this. Just pass them by and don’t bother. | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't . "This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂 Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess. | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't .
This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂
Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess."Let’s have a gander. Blimey! Do you go out in the daytime?!  | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't .
This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂
Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess."Not the one with the balaclava surely? | |||
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"We like to be disreet but always happy to exchange face pics if someone has attracted our interest. " I’m with you on this  | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't .
This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂
Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess."Its the opposite of you are ugly, Shamalang' you are too good looking and the poor ladies know it. So too avoid their embarrasment, they delete and block so they cant see your beauty. (At least thats what i tell myself) | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't .
This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂
Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess.
Not the one with the balaclava surely? "Of course not. I have Hugh Jackman's face stapled underneath. | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't .
This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂
Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess.
Not the one with the balaclava surely?
Of course not. I have Hugh Jackman's face stapled underneath."Maybe they’re not Hugh Jackman fans? I don’t find him sexy at all. | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't .
This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂
Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess."You can't be everyones cup of tea ,a lot are put off by beards by the way | |||
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"We don't interact with any profile that has no photos, or a profile that says will fill in later. There's a lot of those 🙄" “Will fill in later “? Fine, I’ll message later. Often the same people who complain about too many messages, but don’t use filters or explain what they are looking for | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. " A lot of people dont look good in pics mind they arent photogenic ,you however certainly are gorgeous so it suits you to show your face . | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. A lot of people dont look good in pics mind they arent photogenic ,you however certainly are gorgeous so it suits you to show your face . "You don't have to be photogenic to take a fully clothed picture of yourself. | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. " Exactly agree! | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. Exactly agree! " Us too! We find the close up, indiscernible one's similarly pointless too.. Might be just us of course 😆🤷😘 | |||
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"Just don't interact with them. We just ignore blank / basic profiles, we treat it as a red flag. People seem to make this process as difficult as possible....they don't get our attention. Exactly this. Just pass them by and don’t bother. " This 💯% We also block anyone who sends us a random friends request with zero prior interaction. The majority are long term (over a year) site users with one line profiles, minimal images if any and no verifications. There's a world of porn out there folks. Use that instead of trying to get access to our friends only photos. 🤦🤷♂️ | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. A lot of people dont look good in pics mind they arent photogenic ,you however certainly are gorgeous so it suits you to show your face .
You don't have to be photogenic to take a fully clothed picture of yourself. "True but on the face pic side of things i meant ,i agree too many profiles have no pics at all and that is absolutely pointless ,for them and for us . | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. A lot of people dont look good in pics mind they arent photogenic ,you however certainly are gorgeous so it suits you to show your face .
You don't have to be photogenic to take a fully clothed picture of yourself. True but on the face pic side of things i meant ,i agree too many profiles have no pics at all and that is absolutely pointless ,for them and for us . "You still have to show your face at some point. I can't imagine many people will meet up with someone when they have no idea what they look like. How are they supposed to find them in a bar? Will they be holding up a sign with their username on? At least one picture on a profile should be mandatory. | |||
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"One thing I've never understood with couples. Well not all, but a lot. Why just the pictures of the Mrs. You are a couple. Not a single profile. I get the Mrs probably gets more attention. But it takes two to tango. Include the Nr too. Am I right? Or have I got it all wrong?" I think there are a few exceptions to this. Some couples meet and only the woman plays. I think both face pics should still be shared at some point, but there's less need for many public pics of the man. | |||
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"One thing I've never understood with couples. Well not all, but a lot. Why just the pictures of the Mrs. You are a couple. Not a single profile. I get the Mrs probably gets more attention. But it takes two to tango. Include the Nr too. Am I right? Or have I got it all wrong?" Well 3 technically in that situation (I jest), but a total frustration for me (Mrs) even though I'm 60% lesbian 😉. From personal experience (excluding 'Cuck' or 'Hotwife' scenarios) we find Mr is a lot of the time far less attractive than Mrs and let's face it us ladies 'rule the roost' here.. In addition the single lady profile, that has a minimal reference to the Mr, hidden somewhere in the bio.. Sorry to be honest Yx | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. A lot of people dont look good in pics mind they arent photogenic ,you however certainly are gorgeous so it suits you to show your face .
You don't have to be photogenic to take a fully clothed picture of yourself. True but on the face pic side of things i meant ,i agree too many profiles have no pics at all and that is absolutely pointless ,for them and for us .
You still have to show your face at some point. I can't imagine many people will meet up with someone when they have no idea what they look like. How are they supposed to find them in a bar? Will they be holding up a sign with their username on? At least one picture on a profile should be mandatory. "Yes absolutely agree a face pic is a must and i only interact with people who give and receive a face pic | |||
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"One thing I've never understood with couples. Well not all, but a lot. Why just the pictures of the Mrs. You are a couple. Not a single profile. I get the Mrs probably gets more attention. But it takes two to tango. Include the Nr too. Am I right? Or have I got it all wrong? I think there are a few exceptions to this. Some couples meet and only the woman plays. I think both face pics should still be shared at some point, but there's less need for many public pics of the man. " You're right Effy, with some couples only the woman engages in sexual activities but if this is the case then their profile should state as such. If the male of the couple engages in sexual activity then there is no excuse to not have any pictures of him. For those couples that have no pics of the man and he gets involved with the sexual side and say "Our profile, we'll run it how we please" or words to that effect, don't let me catch you commenting on threads about how people can improve their profiles. | |||
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"I don't understand why people even bother interacting with those profiles. They put no effort in and expect the best results. I'm also sick of hearing the excuse that they can't upload pictures due to their job or whatever excuse they give. Do what everyone else does, crop your head out and post a fully clothed one. A lot of people dont look good in pics mind they arent photogenic ,you however certainly are gorgeous so it suits you to show your face .
You don't have to be photogenic to take a fully clothed picture of yourself. True but on the face pic side of things i meant ,i agree too many profiles have no pics at all and that is absolutely pointless ,for them and for us .
You still have to show your face at some point. I can't imagine many people will meet up with someone when they have no idea what they look like. How are they supposed to find them in a bar? Will they be holding up a sign with their username on? At least one picture on a profile should be mandatory. Yes absolutely agree a face pic is a must and i only interact with people who give and receive a face pic "Actually i only require this myself if i intend to meet up to that point i'm quite happy to interact . | |||
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"One thing I've never understood with couples. Well not all, but a lot. Why just the pictures of the Mrs. You are a couple. Not a single profile. I get the Mrs probably gets more attention. But it takes two to tango. Include the Nr too. Am I right? Or have I got it all wrong? Well 3 technically in that situation (I jest), but a total frustration for me (Mrs) even though I'm 60% lesbian 😉. From personal experience (excluding 'Cuck' or 'Hotwife' scenarios) we find Mr is a lot of the time far less attractive than Mrs and let's face it us ladies 'rule the roost' here.. In addition the single lady profile, that has a minimal reference to the Mr, hidden somewhere in the bio.. Sorry to be honest Yx" Loving the honesty of your reply. Its soo true. | |||
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"One thing I've never understood with couples. Well not all, but a lot. Why just the pictures of the Mrs. You are a couple. Not a single profile. I get the Mrs probably gets more attention. But it takes two to tango. Include the Nr too. Am I right? Or have I got it all wrong?" This is a bugbear of mine. Even if the couple are only looking for interaction with the woman, the guy is presumably still there and surely everyone want to have an idea of who’s going to be present during play? | |||
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"One thing I've never understood with couples. Well not all, but a lot. Why just the pictures of the Mrs. You are a couple. Not a single profile. I get the Mrs probably gets more attention. But it takes two to tango. Include the Nr too. Am I right? Or have I got it all wrong? Well 3 technically in that situation (I jest), but a total frustration for me (Mrs) even though I'm 60% lesbian 😉. From personal experience (excluding 'Cuck' or 'Hotwife' scenarios) we find Mr is a lot of the time far less attractive than Mrs and let's face it us ladies 'rule the roost' here.. In addition the single lady profile, that has a minimal reference to the Mr, hidden somewhere in the bio.. Sorry to be honest Yx Loving the honesty of your reply. Its soo true. " Well no point in 'beating around the bush' that's being removed properly before our wedding in a few weeks 💍😈😘 | |||
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"I was chatting to someone who remarkably had a face pic as his profile- the only visible one. I’d been recently catfished so checked if it was recent- he said yes last 2-3yrs. Seemed lovely. Sent a friend request as we were planning to meet for a social. The profile pic was EIGHT years old. And he said he’d send a fresh one, but never did. And when pressed started elaborating on lack of confidence etc but he felt safe with me etc etc… It’s anyone’s prerogative to not share recent or any face pics. And it’s my choice whether to meet them or not. Which I won’t. If I can’t see what you look like, especially as a woman solo, I won’t meet you even for a coffee. I don’t want to waste your time, and mine is valuable to me. So I think the real skill is being overt about preferences early on so as to avoid irritation. And this is a very visual milieu - arousal and attraction are built of so many elements - it’s not unreasonable to ask. " Abso-fucking-lutely, sounds like we've spoken to the same guy too.. 🤷😘 | |||
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"I was chatting to someone who remarkably had a face pic as his profile- the only visible one. I’d been recently catfished so checked if it was recent- he said yes last 2-3yrs. Seemed lovely. Sent a friend request as we were planning to meet for a social. The profile pic was EIGHT years old. And he said he’d send a fresh one, but never did. And when pressed started elaborating on lack of confidence etc but he felt safe with me etc etc… It’s anyone’s prerogative to not share recent or any face pics. And it’s my choice whether to meet them or not. Which I won’t. If I can’t see what you look like, especially as a woman solo, I won’t meet you even for a coffee. I don’t want to waste your time, and mine is valuable to me. So I think the real skill is being overt about preferences early on so as to avoid irritation. And this is a very visual milieu - arousal and attraction are built of so many elements - it’s not unreasonable to ask. Abso-fucking-lutely, sounds like we've spoken to the same guy too.. 🤷😘" OMFG!! We totally were.. Wow! The description just clicked. 🤷😳😘 | |||
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"Or they ask for your pic and don't send one in return ,just interact with the people who reciprocate don't worry about the ones who don't .
This is common for me. I send a pic and don't get one. Then get blocked 😂
Damn, am I ugly? No reply is a reply I guess.
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"Our biggest gripe with this site is most couples don't think it's relevant to give an idea of what the man looks like. It's not the exception. It's the norm. More couples don't show the man than do. It's insane. Don't they understand people are trying to gauge attraction? " We find some people use the pictures of their wife as bait they don't put themselves on they just use their wife to attract others it's really weird to see a couple's profile when there's 20-30 pictures of the wife naked but not one picture of the man sometimes with those profiles it's weird how you talk to them and then the man instantly says oh she is not playing at the moment but she gives me permission that's the other one is profiles which straight away in the profile says wife not playing a current moment but wife gives husband permission to meet without her you almost know directly that this is a profile which is run by man with no woman involved | |||
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"Our biggest gripe with this site is most couples don't think it's relevant to give an idea of what the man looks like. It's not the exception. It's the norm. More couples don't show the man than do. It's insane. Don't they understand people are trying to gauge attraction? We find some people use the pictures of their wife as bait they don't put themselves on they just use their wife to attract others it's really weird to see a couple's profile when there's 20-30 pictures of the wife naked but not one picture of the man sometimes with those profiles it's weird how you talk to them and then the man instantly says oh she is not playing at the moment but she gives me permission that's the other one is profiles which straight away in the profile says wife not playing a current moment but wife gives husband permission to meet without her you almost know directly that this is a profile which is run by man with no woman involved" We know of a few cuckqueen couples who are utterly genuine in the scenario. However transparent in the fact from the outset! Feel if he and she are equally involved, they should be equally represented on the profile.. Maybe a slight bias towards the ladies as let's face it girl's we're sexier!! 😉 #ragebait lmao 🤷🤣😘 | |||
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"One thing I've never understood with couples. Well not all, but a lot. Why just the pictures of the Mrs. You are a couple. Not a single profile. I get the Mrs probably gets more attention. But it takes two to tango. Include the Nr too. Am I right? Or have I got it all wrong? · This is a bugbear of mine. Even if the couple are only looking for interaction with the woman, the guy is presumably still there and surely everyone want to have an idea of who’s going to be present during play? " • Indeed. Everyone has to be on the same page in regards to who's playing and who's not. Even if the man won't be participating his photo/s give credence and credibility to their joint profile, especially when there's a four-way conversation in regards to a two-person/three-person meet. | |||
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"Sorry no offense to those caught in the middle (hmm there's a thought though!) we meant FrolicUs. Quite a delectable duo xx" Aw you guyssssss 🥰😘😈😋 | |||
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"Sorry no offense to those caught in the middle (hmm there's a thought though!) we meant FrolicUs. Quite a delectable duo xx Aw you guyssssss 🥰😘😈😋" Credit where it's due! Offer stand's of course 😊 x | |||
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