FabSwingers.com forum: Pain after sex

By *ittle miss sunshine OP Woman
3 weeks ago

south sheilds

So yesterday I had an amazing time with my friend with benefits but today my lady parts are really sore.

Other than warm baths and paracetamol what is something I can do to relive it. I think it's just I was well stretched and I'm not complaining because I did have fun just ouch today

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By *thsinnerMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

If you're worried about uti's wash out a bit with a teaspoon of bi carb in half a litre ratio.

If its just muscle tearing, coconut oil, with a drop of lavendar rubbed around inside will speed up healing.

Wouldn't hurt to have extra garlic and ginger in your diet for a day or two either to cut down on inflammation.

And do six sets of wimhof breathing, with or without the cold shower part.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

When I feel like that after sex I make sure I moisturise the skin well with a unscented moisturiser designed for intimate use. The skin is usually a bit damaged and needs time to heal so just needs taking care of and hydration helps.

YES is a great natural and organic vaginal moisturising gel that's NHS recommended.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
3 weeks ago

Manchester

"If you're worried about uti's wash out a bit with a teaspoon of bi carb in half a litre ratio.

If its just muscle tearing, coconut oil, with a drop of lavendar rubbed around inside will speed up healing.

Wouldn't hurt to have extra garlic and ginger in your diet for a day or two either to cut down on inflammation.

And do six sets of wimhof breathing, with or without the cold shower part. "

I would not recommend putting coconut oil or scented oils near the entrance/inside your vagina as they can disrupt your natural Ph balance and irritate your sensitive skin in that area or even cause thrush by throwing your balance off.

"A healthy, fertile vaginal environment is highly acidic, typically sitting at a pH between 3.8 and 4.5. This acidity is your body's natural defense mechanism, maintained by good bacteria (Lactobacillus) to keep harmful pathogens at bay.

?Pure coconut oil is much closer to neutral or slightly alkaline. Introducing a substance with a completely different pH profile into the vagina can neutralize that protective acidity, making it easier for unwanted organisms to take over."

https://www.healthline.com/health/coconut-oil-sex?hl=en-GB#risks

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By *elix SightedMan
3 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"So yesterday I had an amazing time with my friend with benefits but today my lady parts are really sore.

Other than warm baths and paracetamol what is something I can do to relive it. I think it's just I was well stretched and I'm not complaining because I did have fun just ouch today"

Do a handstand and squeeze in a tube of savlon and tube of aloe vera.

Dr Felix, at your cervix.

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By *Effy-Woman
3 weeks ago

Scotland

"If you're worried about uti's wash out a bit with a teaspoon of bi carb in half a litre ratio.

If its just muscle tearing, coconut oil, with a drop of lavendar rubbed around inside will speed up healing.

Wouldn't hurt to have extra garlic and ginger in your diet for a day or two either to cut down on inflammation.

And do six sets of wimhof breathing, with or without the cold shower part. "

Please don't put any of this inside your vagina. Have a warm bath and let her rest for a few days.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
3 weeks ago

South Wales

Warm bath and a little rest maybe xx 😘

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By *vaRoseWoman
3 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

If I get a little sore I use a little vaginal moisturiser after a shower or bath. However I’m now using oestrogen and my menopause nurse assures me this will help prevent it happening.

Pop to your nurse or pharmacist to rule out anything unpleasant like BV or thrush…. And they can also hook you up with the correct treatment for the soreness while you heal.

Please don’t put things like coconut oil etc in your vagina. While it can be lovely and moisturising on the mons after shaving it shouldn’t be going anywhere internally or even on the sensitive labia tissue.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
3 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Don't use coconut oil or Vaseline in the vagina.

Best thing is to leave the vagina to recover in its own time.

Next time you have sex it might be worth looking at better quality lube or use more of it to prevent it from happening in the first place.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Round the bend

"So yesterday I had an amazing time with my friend with benefits but today my lady parts are really sore.

Other than warm baths and paracetamol what is something I can do to relive it. I think it's just I was well stretched and I'm not complaining because I did have fun just ouch today

Do a handstand and squeeze in a tube of savlon and tube of aloe vera.

Dr Felix, at your cervix."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I think your doing the right thing op. Warm baths and paracetamol and no sex until you feel better lol

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By *ittle miss sunshine OP Woman
3 weeks ago

south sheilds

Thank you everyone.

Yeah warm baths and no sex for a little while... But I had fun with him that's what matters...was definitely worth it

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 weeks ago

Round the bend

"If you're worried about uti's wash out a bit with a teaspoon of bi carb in half a litre ratio.

If its just muscle tearing, coconut oil, with a drop of lavendar rubbed around inside will speed up healing.

Wouldn't hurt to have extra garlic and ginger in your diet for a day or two either to cut down on inflammation.

And do six sets of wimhof breathing, with or without the cold shower part.

Please don't put any of this inside your vagina. Have a warm bath and let her rest for a few days. "

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