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"Youve already got four verifications in nine months, what was you exoecting" "I get your point, but verifications only prove identity. They don't change the fact that people suddenly ghost or act differently after starting a conversation." | |||
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"Some people don't have the time to reply immediately or frequently. Is this what your issue is? I'm not sure I've understood you correctly." It's quite simple Nero, he is lovely and nice and loving the exchanges and they are not and not and not .... What's not to understand ? | |||
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"Some people don't have the time to reply immediately or frequently. Is this what your issue is? I'm not sure I've understood you correctly." "Hi Nero, thanks for checking in. The issue isn't really about people replying slowly or being too busy to post frequently. It is more about the general attitude and dismissive nature of some of the interactions here, rather than the actual speed of the communication. Hope that clears up what I meant!" | |||
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" If you are looking for something lasting and meaningful then it's best not to look here. This is like the McDonalds of relationships...... it's fast and it leaves you hungry. Look elsewhere. " What she said... | |||
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"Hi O.P. It sounds to me that you are trying to judge other people by your standards. Because you see yourself as truthful and giving you expect them to be. Not everyone has the same outlook or is looking for the same kind of conversatioin or exchange. If you are looking for something lasting and meaningful then it's best not to look here. This is like the McDonalds of relationships...... it's fast and it leaves you hungry. Look elsewhere. " "I appreciate the perspective. I’m not trying to judge anyone by my own standards; I’m just trying to understand the typical 'unwritten rules' here so I don't have unrealistic expectations. I hear what you're saying about the 'fast food' nature of this place, though—that’s a helpful analogy. I'm quite satisfied by this reply. " | |||
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"Shani don't try to understand worthless people, I've been there and no matter what it won't change. The site isn't for you or me for that matter. 👍 " I agree with you but I'm basically very receptive person who always try to think and a battle starts inside me. It's not in my control but I'm trying too. I really appreciate your time.' | |||
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"Some people don't have the time to reply immediately or frequently. Is this what your issue is? I'm not sure I've understood you correctly. · It's quite simple Nero, he is lovely and nice and loving the exchanges and they are not and not and not .... What's not to understand ?" • Ah, he's asking for a conveyor belt of sushi and dim sum all at the same time and all his dishes in one go. Most of us relate to the Michelin™ star dining experience: we get to savour our slow responses and enjoy the morsels of sustained conversations, course after course. Grånny, thank you. | |||
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"I'm shallow enough to say that you cannot say 'more weaker' " There's nothing frustratinger. | |||
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"Yeah I understand, but I've figured out there are some really damaged people on here and I don’t think theyre aware of it. Their reactions are impossible to predict as one minute you're having a conversation and add you as a friend, in the next breathe they've blocked you. It's as frustrating as hell but there's no rhyme or reason. " you explained my point of view quite well. I'm hundred percent agree with you. X | |||
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"Some people don't have the time to reply immediately or frequently. Is this what your issue is? I'm not sure I've understood you correctly. · It's quite simple Nero, he is lovely and nice and loving the exchanges and they are not and not and not .... What's not to understand ? • Ah, he's asking for a conveyor belt of sushi and dim sum all at the same time and all his dishes in one go. Most of us relate to the Michelin™ star dining experience: we get to savour our slow responses and enjoy the morsels of sustained conversations, course after course. Grånny, thank you." There's a difference between your slow responses and the OP not receiving. | |||
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"I'm shallow enough to say that you cannot say 'more weaker' There's nothing frustratinger." Totally, but some things are more frustratinger than even thems. | |||
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"Some people don't have the time to reply immediately or frequently. Is this what your issue is? I'm not sure I've understood you correctly. · It's quite simple Nero, he is lovely and nice and loving the exchanges and they are not and not and not .... What's not to understand ? • Ah, he's asking for a conveyor belt of sushi and dim sum all at the same time and all his dishes in one go. Most of us relate to the Michelin™ star dining experience: we get to savour our slow responses and enjoy the morsels of sustained conversations, course after course. Grånny, thank you. There's a difference between your slow responses and the OP not receiving. " Yes I agree with you. X | |||
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"Yeah I understand, but I've figured out there are some really damaged people on here and I don’t think theyre aware of it. Their reactions are impossible to predict as one minute you're having a conversation and add you as a friend, in the next breathe they've blocked you. It's as frustrating as hell but there's no rhyme or reason. " The rhyme or reason are largely clear. Engaging when potentially matched. Messages stop or blocked, when you revealed that you are like most people, who are not mutually compatible | |||
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"Yeah I understand, but I've figured out there are some really damaged people on here and I don’t think theyre aware of it. Their reactions are impossible to predict as one minute you're having a conversation and add you as a friend, in the next breathe they've blocked you. It's as frustrating as hell but there's no rhyme or reason. The rhyme or reason are largely clear. Engaging when potentially matched. Messages stop or blocked, when you revealed that you are like most people, who are not mutually compatible " If you say so. | |||
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" There's a difference between your slow responses and the OP not receiving. " It's better to give than to receive- i fear the OP does not appreciate this, but wants a Royal Mail first class service when it is in fact only Evri that is available on Fab.  | |||
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"I took alot time to think, should I post or not. It is my experience that people pretend different but acts different. People start conversation but after some days, they don't reply. I tried to say truth but I think they like fabricated things. I just wondering, what guys you say about it. I'm just finding any possible reason, if you can give me understanding. " Sometimes you've just got to suck it up, after a period of talking some people decide that they don't wish to continue. The first line of your profile says that you don't have any expectations, so you should be fine with it all. | |||
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