FabSwingers.com forum: New life

By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Hi all

I’ve just moved to a new area after my divorce was finalised. Without airing my dirty washing in public so to speak I was introduced to Fab around 15yrs ago. Yes back then I was that guy, you know the one that wasn’t a swinger at all but treated it as a hook up site. Anyway I go off the beaten path

so now I am a single guy with my own place and as I said in a new area close to Wellingborough. I now want to dive into the deep end of the local scene, visit clubs, private parties and build friendships along the way. My main aim is to find a partner that is on the level with me regarding the swinging lifestyle and we can embrace it together. Listen to me rattling on like the seasoned swinger

far from it I’m afraid, I haven’t even been to a club

what advice can you give that would help me along the way. There’s no way I can go back to the vanilla world with my tail between my legs, the thought of that is soul destroying. It won’t happen because that’s not me and one of a few things I’ve promised myself after my divorce is to just be me

Tony

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Maybe bump this thread for earlier in the evening when more people are on. Maybe aroundn9ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Good shout, lost track of time to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Bump

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

Why Wellingborough? Why not go the whole hog and try Brighton or Liverpool or Newcastle. It’s good being by the sea.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

"Why Wellingborough? Why not go the whole hog and try Brighton or Liverpool or Newcastle. It’s good being by the sea. "

One day the sharks will learn to ride bicycles. Then you’ll change your tune.

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By *viatrixWoman
3 weeks ago

Back in Surrey, Dahlings!

I would suggest clearer photos on your profile.

If you want to dive into the lifestyle, then start attending socials. That’d be my first step. Over there you can meet people organically, start a chat and from there you can have meets or team up to go to clubs. Get yourself seen out there.

Going to clubs by yourself initially is also an option, especially to newbie nights. But I recommend going to socials first. See how you feel. Many people on here have partnered up, it is difficult but not impossible.

Good luck! ☘️

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Im in a small town near Wellingborough and it actually feels more like a village than a town. The main reason though is that I’m only 30 minutes drive from my family, they all live in Milton Keynes and an hours commute to London where I work.

Good shout though, I love the seaside and Brighton is up there as one of my favourites, nothing in the uk will knock Croyde Bay off my number one spot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Point taken they aren’t the best photos are they, no excuse now with the quality of the cameras on our phones these days.

I will definitely look out for socials, they don’t even have to be restricted to local, it’s a big world out there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

So true but by then I hope to have my wits about me in this new stage of my life

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By *igan_bi_sviewMan
3 weeks ago

WIGAN

"Why Wellingborough? Why not go the whole hog and try Brighton or Liverpool or Newcastle. It’s good being by the sea. "

Liverpool , great city and friendly ... Ladies are stunning and great for a laugh ... Just don't take the piss Scouse girls bite 👌👍

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

A weekend in Liverpool is on the list, love the scousers, on the whole they are a really friendly, hospitable and their sense of humour is off the charts.

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