FabSwingers.com forum: Adding a meet

By *elix Sighted OP Man
14 hours ago

Cloud 8

Have you ever added a meet for a specific day and/or activity and successfully connected with someone as a result?

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By *adyBugsWoman
14 hours ago

not local even if it says I am

Yes, it’s how I met your mother.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
14 hours ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Have you ever added a meet for a specific day and/or activity and successfully connected with someone as a result?"

Yes and nope... *Tumblewe*d rolled across that meet 🤣🤣

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By *morousCouple8Couple
14 hours ago

Cumbria

We have but use it a bit like a status when going to clubs to connect before arriving at the event.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
14 hours ago

SW1A1AA

Yes, 4 times in the time ive been here ove.put meet today up, with 4 successes

I stopped doing it as my luck was bound to run out

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By *k_123Man
14 hours ago

I think 50 meet displays to 1 meet is probably where I stand 😀

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By *abulincsCouple
14 hours ago

near a bridge

As a rule we find posting meets to be a total waste of time if we post meets usually following day get loads offers happens all time lol

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By *elix Sighted OP Man
14 hours ago

Cloud 8

"Yes, it’s how I met your mother."

😆😆 Really, Miss LB? Mum jokes?! Tut tut…..

(But tell yours I said hi)

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By *Effy-Woman
14 hours ago

Scotland

Yes. Although they were already on my friends list and I had planned to meet up with them at some point. It wasn't a total random.

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By *oeBeansMan
14 hours ago

Derby

Erm... Nope, I can't think of a time that happened 😅

Apart from if I'm going to a club or group social and want to chat beforehand but that doesn't count as they were going anyway!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
13 hours ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I find it a very mixed bag.

You'll get a load of messages. Some from people in different countries. Many asking if you can meet another night, or send you lurid scenarios that bear no resemblance to anything on your profile.

You'll get tons of messages from people without any pics who think that having a pulse is enough to tick your boxes.

It's a guarantee that there will be at least 3 folk who send you reasonable messages and then go offline for the next 2 hours leaving you unsure whether to wait for their reply or just look elsewhere.

Eventually, if you're very lucky, you'll find someone sane with whom you're compatible. Then when you get to theirs, you'll notice all of the wedding pics on the wall and you'll twig the bounder isn't single and it's time to leave.

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
13 hours ago

North Somerset

Yes.

But we do it well in advance to give us time to chat and have a F2F social before any shenanigans.

Unless it's a club meet in which case we'll just see them there and if they turn out to be 'not for us' it's all good, as odds are we'll find someone else there or we'll bump into existing friends.

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By *lrightthenMan
13 hours ago

Bradford

Yes to give a heads up to people as I always get meet now then blocked when I can't. Let them know when I'm available and suddenly not a single profile shows any interest in me until after it expires where they send meet now

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By *earditallWoman
13 hours ago

Lancaster

I don't know if I dare,I thought about it the other weekend but then thought can I cope with all the wank mail.

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By *eroLondonMan
13 hours ago

Mayfair

Yes. No. Well, sort of.

In almost five years I've only posted a 'meet' about four times, and this was for a Fab social 'heads up' (in Manchester and London), or for when I was travelling for work and posted something for a coffee meet with a forum dweller within the vicinity.

I had one response from a woman who found me whilst she was perusing the meets section. It was one of the loveliest messages ever.

On the whole it's not really a feature I use or exploit. Perhaps I should...

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
13 hours ago

Chester

"We have but use it a bit like a status when going to clubs to connect before arriving at the event. "

Ooooooh! This is a good idea! 🤔 💡 👌🏼

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By *ellhungvweMan
13 hours ago

Cheltenham

If I am in a different area or headed to a club then I will put a meet up in advance and often get people reaching out. Isn’t that what the meets section is for?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
13 hours ago

Herts/Leeds

I have done. Only once though.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
13 hours ago

Glasgow

I use it when I’m travelling about. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn’t. Like most things on Fab I suppose.

I’ve never had any luck with it in Birmingham, for some reason. Whenever I’ve posted a meet there I’ve only had replies from women wanting to meet on different days or in different cities entirely. Can someone from Birmingham tell me what that’s all about?

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By *oxy-RedWoman
13 hours ago

pink panther territory

No never,though I have thought about it a few times

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By *tormQueenWoman
13 hours ago

Manchester

I never have 😳 its never even crossed my mind to be fair

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
13 hours ago

Reading

I once accidentally clicked on the 'add me to meet today' thing and was very confused when I immediately got 45 really gross or pointless messages. I was semi-scarred by it. Wouldn't do it again in a hurry.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
12 hours ago

London

Nope. What if someone actually wants to meet me? That's frightening.

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By *eroLondonMan
12 hours ago

Mayfair

"I once accidentally clicked on the 'add me to meet today' thing and was very confused..."

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Accidentally, eh?? {rubs chin}

😉

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By *lrightthenMan
12 hours ago

Bradford

"Nope. What if someone actually wants to meet me? That's frightening."

I wouldn't worry, it's a guaranteed method of getting zero interactions even if you've had lots of messages before posting a meet

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
12 hours ago

Niche

No and I use that as a filter actually.

Not one for quick anything.

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By *viatrixWoman
11 hours ago

Gatwick

I have on several ocassions. Very handy when I am away!

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By *viatrixWoman
11 hours ago

Gatwick

"I use it when I’m travelling about. Sometimes it helps, sometimes it doesn’t. Like most things on Fab I suppose.

LOL!! Same! My partner and I tried a couple of months ago in Birmingham, was exhausting with the ping pong of meh messages and eventually gave up! 🤣🤣🤣

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By *ussy whisperer1000Man
11 hours ago

west mids

I've posted a few times but nothing ever came of it. I think it must just be a man thing

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
11 hours ago

London

"I've posted a few times but nothing ever came of it. I think it must just be a man thing "

*Whispers* what do the pussies say? Are they ok?

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By *gent CoulsonMan
11 hours ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Its never worked for me in all the years I have been on here, but then I have a cock and there are thousands of other cocks to choose from 🤣

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By *earditallWoman
11 hours ago

Lancaster

"I've posted a few times but nothing ever came of it. I think it must just be a man thing

*Whispers* what do the pussies say? Are they ok?"

Fantabbidozie

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
11 hours ago

London

"I've posted a few times but nothing ever came of it. I think it must just be a man thing

*Whispers* what do the pussies say? Are they ok?

Fantabbidozie"

👍🏾👍🏾

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
10 hours ago

Glasgow

"LOL!! Same! My partner and I tried a couple of months ago in Birmingham, was exhausting with the ping pong of meh messages and eventually gave up! 🤣🤣🤣"

Thank god it’s not just me.

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