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One and done or repeat

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

So are you a one and done type or do you prefer repeat meets

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By *actile TensionMan
4 weeks ago

Sussex

I rarely get another shot after the sympathy shag

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By *enuine_J87Man
4 weeks ago

Eastleigh

Regular is so much better but unfortunately there are times when it’s just not that good, maybe it feels a bit boring or they have traits that you don’t enjoy etc or you are just opposites, one likes to talk and make jokes during sex while the other likes to focus on the moment and the passion.

When you find someone, the first time you have sex it blows you both away and you’re already planning your next meet, now that is amazing

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
4 weeks ago

London

I prefer repeats. Get to know each other better, improve the experiences, less pressure. Hopefully more fun the more we do it.

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By *Effy-Woman
4 weeks ago

Scotland

One and done is fine if it's someone you know it's unlikely there will be another chance to see each other.

I do prefer to meet people with the intention of seeing each other again though.

Sex is better the more you have it with someone.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

I find repeats difficult. It’s hard to work out how people really feel but I’ve had enough post sex guilt situs where he decides he is straight straight after all. Too many down lows.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Herts/Leeds

At this rate I’ll never find the one, get married and make his life a misery.

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By *inkie_bearMan
4 weeks ago

Faringdon

Happy to do either, but ongoing meets with compatible people would be nice

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By *eroLondonMan
4 weeks ago

Mayfair

I prefer repeat and have done so. However it's not always easy (for me) because of the insurmountable distances and, even so, it's usually with people I know or am familiar / acquainted with.

One offs therefore become an alternative... sometimes with hindsight.

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By *hil most chillMan
4 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe

Repetition is boring. I aim to outdo myself each time

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By *andadbodMan
4 weeks ago

Liverpool

repeat whenever possible

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 weeks ago

Round the bend

Repeat. We have never set out to have a one off.

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By *hinstrapMan
4 weeks ago

sheffield

I'm happy for either but repeats usually get better and better

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

One and done on the way to finding the one

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By *eliWoman
4 weeks ago

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Repeat generally. It doesn't mean weekly or even monthly.

Maybe if it was someone incredibly hot and we had wonderful chemistry and only that night to fuck I'd be up for a one off.

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By *111Woman
4 weeks ago

SW

Repeat meets

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By *abulincsCouple
4 weeks ago

near a bridge

Having difficulty getting one off let alone regular lol

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 weeks ago

Niche

Repeat always.

All the effort and investment of time to find a person I'm attracted to who returns that interest? And I'm supposed to chuck that away after the first ice breaker?

Nuh-uh

I'm going to enjoy all the rewards and drink from the well of attraction until it runs dry.

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By *hil most chillMan
4 weeks ago

London, South East & Europe


"Repeat generally. It doesn't mean weekly or even monthly.

Maybe if it was someone incredibly hot and we had wonderful chemistry and only that night to fuck I'd be up for a one off."

Fuck tonight, Meli?

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By *WB85Man
4 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Repeat. One off isn't worth my effort.

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By *iver78Man
4 weeks ago

barton upon humber

Always a repeat , sex is always better the more comfortable you are with someone

I do love the first time though , not always for the sex ,but the build up etc

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By *tormQueenWoman
4 weeks ago

All over the place

I dislike one and done, sex only really starts getting great after the 3rd time.

I never seek one offs

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By *oiluvfunMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

I’ve been seeing my married hotwife for over 10 years now, and my two other fwb’s around 4/5 years (I met them both shortly after lockdown, but can’t remember the actual dates), so I am happy to confirm I’m more about the repeat meets 😎

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By *gent Coulson OP   Man
4 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Having difficulty getting one off let alone regular lol"
looking at your pics, find that hard to believe

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By *hinstrapMan
4 weeks ago

sheffield


"Having difficulty getting one off let alone regular lol looking at your pics, find that hard to believe "

Was just about to say the same

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By *atiekisskissWoman
4 weeks ago

London

Im good with either.

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By *irthandgirthMan
4 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
4 weeks ago

Louth

Mix of both, some we enjoy seeing over and over, some are abroad or far away.

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By *irthandgirthMan
4 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Regular is so much better than one offs.

Time and opportunity to know and explore with each other.

I have been very lucky in my time on here and met and know some lovely people.

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