FabSwingers.com forum: Good guys don't win.

By *howantsme1 OP Man
over a year ago

stirling

Since joining fab all the ladies say they hate men who send cock pics, request them as friends without talking, send one liners etc etc. I don't do any of these things but yet I don't get replies. It's not my looks because I'm not bad looking

. So what is it that you ladies are actually wanting?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Looks like you're doing everything right huni, only thing I would change is have a public photo. A lot of us like to look at your profile before we look at the message and a pic can help us to know if we're likely to find you attractive.

Other than that, I think you're just struggling due to the numbers game on here

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Hard to tell with no visible pics, and your profile says little except that you're ex-army. Will that actually attract interest do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like to know too iv avoided all the please donts but still i get turned down without even a sorry not interested whats wrong with being polite

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By *howantsme1 OP Man
over a year ago

stirling

Thanks. I thought my picture was showing as I can see it. Oops.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Id like to know too iv avoided all the please donts but still i get turned down without even a sorry not interested whats wrong with being polite"

9 weeks and 6 meets? Yeah - you're having serious problems!

And why not start your own thread instead of jumping on someone elses?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

flash a little more flesh mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its probably nothing your doing just the sheer volumes of men on here...keep trying im sure it will come good

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By *howantsme1 OP Man
over a year ago

stirling

"Maybe they're just not attracted to you? Hard to tell with no visible pics, and your profile says little except that you're ex-army. Will that actually attract interest do you think? "

Cheers ill take that on board. I would have thought a polite new worded text would have sufficed. Seems this goes deeper. I do think there is an element that believe they are far superior to the men yet I wouldn't buy them a drink in a bar.

just kidding.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Big boys don't cry....don't worry you will get there in the end...I like good guys

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By *howantsme1 OP Man
over a year ago

stirling

"Big boys don't cry....don't worry you will get there in the end...I like good guys

Your comment made me sing that song lol wish more women reacted the way they say they do when their profile has been read and the text compliments it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

It's not really rocket science, just make sure you read their profile and drop a few hints to show that you have, also ask a question that will encourage a response as there is nothing worse than receiving a message no matter how nice and thinking, what the hell am I meant to say to that?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

be nice and chat .. see what happens

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

and still no public pic and the can't accommodate doesn't win u votes

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No offence mate but have you thought you could be trying to hard. why not just forget trying to get meets have some fun an a laff an see if things change you nothing to loose. remember the saying when you look youll not find

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

You could take out the bits of your profile about not blocking you, and women who are too confident.

Positivity is attractive, not moans

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

"You could take out the bits of your profile about not blocking you, and women who are too confident.

Positivity is attractive, not moans

This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big boys don't cry....don't worry you will get there in the end...I like good guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Successful people don't moan or whinge.

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By *howantsme1 OP Man
over a year ago

stirling

Profile pic done. Now to tweak the profile. Thanks for all the hints and tips.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you accommodate?

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