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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. So there are many people who block people for not reading their profiles or harassing them, etc. However there are some people who block for no reason as I have seen on the forums. Maybe there should be an option you can click on the reason why you have blocked them and that way when you go to visit thee profile. It will say on thee profile, why you have been blocked, etc. Having forum members block you without even talking to you or anything is just confusing . However if you want to make peace. Noes your chance to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! If i block - its permanent. Whether someone has pissed me off, given me reason to dislike them - or if I'm 99% sure id never have any interest in meeting them. It's just another filter to me - be that an arsehole filter, a you've posted something that makes me want to hurl/scream filter or a "I'm saving you the time you'd spend messaging me in order to free it up for someone who may appreciate your message" filter.

And much in the same way as i don't feel the need to explain why I've deleted a message - i don't feel obliged to explain a block either.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Nope! If i block - its permanent. Whether someone has pissed me off, given me reason to dislike them - or if I'm 99% sure id never have any interest in meeting them. It's just another filter to me - be that an arsehole filter, a you've posted something that makes me want to hurl/scream filter or a "I'm saving you the time you'd spend messaging me in order to free it up for someone who may appreciate your message" filter.

And much in the same way as i don't feel the need to explain why I've deleted a message - i don't feel obliged to explain a block either. "

Thank you Obi. As always your words are much better than mine would ever have been.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been blocked for no apparent reason....but thats the thing...not apparent to me. What does it matter? If they block, there's a reason so they wouldn't want to contact you in any way anyway, even if you were unblocked.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure why anyone would need a reason why you were blocked from someone...just accept that you are

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Nope! If i block - its permanent. Whether someone has pissed me off, given me reason to dislike them - or if I'm 99% sure id never have any interest in meeting them. It's just another filter to me - be that an arsehole filter, a you've posted something that makes me want to hurl/scream filter or a "I'm saving you the time you'd spend messaging me in order to free it up for someone who may appreciate your message" filter.

And much in the same way as i don't feel the need to explain why I've deleted a message - i don't feel obliged to explain a block either. "

What he said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahah that would piss people off no end

You're blocked because I think you're a complete cockhead .......now you know and you can't respond because ive blocked you ner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not sure why anyone would need a reason why you were blocked from someone...just accept that you are "

This.....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Ok. So there are many people who block people for not reading their profiles or harassing them, etc. However there are some people who block for no reason as I have seen on the forums. Maybe there should be an option you can click on the reason why you have blocked them and that way when you go to visit thee profile. It will say on thee profile, why you have been blocked, etc. Having forum members block you without even talking to you or anything is just confusing . However if you want to make peace. Noes your chance to do it "

Honestly after you post yesterday about worrying about telling people you don't fancy them and then this today I think your gonna have a nightmare on here worrying about what everyone thinks about you or hurting someone's feelings.

I have told people why I'm blocking them before in a response to a rude/nasty message but that's it. Some just block to prevent that person coming up in searches if they know they would never want to meet. Just get a thick skin or your gonna be torturing yourself over every tiny thing and this is supposed to be fun!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! If i block - its permanent. Whether someone has pissed me off, given me reason to dislike them - or if I'm 99% sure id never have any interest in meeting them. It's just another filter to me - be that an arsehole filter, a you've posted something that makes me want to hurl/scream filter or a "I'm saving you the time you'd spend messaging me in order to free it up for someone who may appreciate your message" filter.

And much in the same way as i don't feel the need to explain why I've deleted a message - i don't feel obliged to explain a block either. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! If i block - its permanent. Whether someone has pissed me off, given me reason to dislike them - or if I'm 99% sure id never have any interest in meeting them. It's just another filter to me - be that an arsehole filter, a you've posted something that makes me want to hurl/scream filter or a "I'm saving you the time you'd spend messaging me in order to free it up for someone who may appreciate your message" filter.

And much in the same way as i don't feel the need to explain why I've deleted a message - i don't feel obliged to explain a block either. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people block anything they may not be looking for as it saves them time it might not even be personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope! If i block - its permanent. Whether someone has pissed me off, given me reason to dislike them - or if I'm 99% sure id never have any interest in meeting them. It's just another filter to me - be that an arsehole filter, a you've posted something that makes me want to hurl/scream filter or a "I'm saving you the time you'd spend messaging me in order to free it up for someone who may appreciate your message" filter.

And much in the same way as i don't feel the need to explain why I've deleted a message - i don't feel obliged to explain a block either. "

yep, that sums it up pretty well Id say

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

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