FabSwingers.com forum: Hateful messages

By *adbodben40 OP Man
19 hours ago

hull

Dont you just love it when all the keyboard warriors come out and call you fat and ugly.

Tell me something i dont already know.

Yes i maybe slightly chunky and yes i may not be the best looker.

But at least i dont have the personalitity of a brickwall.

If you dont like me thats fine dont look at me

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
19 hours ago

London

Everyone has haters. Ignore them. Be kind to yourself and love yourself first.

There's another word for keyboard warriors: trolls.

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
19 hours ago

Norwich

You look like a perfectly decent fella. Try not to take it personally, some people feel so bad about themselves that the only way they feel any validation is to abuse others. Keep your pecker up sir!

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
19 hours ago

Round the bend

Ignore, block and report.

Haters gonna hate

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
19 hours ago

Round the bend

Just checked your profile and youre neither of those.

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By *eliWoman
19 hours ago

If it helps - they've probably got their own issues going on which is why they're lashing out at others. Or they're a twat.

I don't really have much time for people who put others down; you shouldn't either. Fuck giving them a thread.

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By *rightonsteveMan
19 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Anyone with the cultural appreciation to visit a castle has something interesting about them.

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By *nion of MischiefCouple
19 hours ago

Newcastle

"Dont you just love it when all the keyboard warriors come out and call you fat and ugly.

Tell me something i dont already know.

Yes i maybe slightly chunky and yes i may not be the best looker.

But at least i dont have the personalitity of a brickwall.

If you dont like me thats fine dont look at me "

Block these people as fast as your finger can move, take solace in the fact if someone’s doing this online the chances are they have a lot of issues and are clearly very insecure in themselves and their hate is a reflection on them

And not you, block block and more block !

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
18 hours ago

Chester

I get messages asking if I'm a man or am I trans 🥺

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By *rightonsteveMan
18 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I get messages asking if I'm a man or am I trans 🥺 "

I get ones asking where am I?

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
18 hours ago

Las Palmas GC

I've had two over the weekend from guys who are very angry because I didn't reply to their messages, if I'm not interested I simply won't reply.

Apparently I'm a fat old whore lol

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
18 hours ago

hexham

Hey Ben, you seem like a perfectly decent guy to me.

Why people should choose to be nasty is beyond me , but

A question ?

Where is that castle you are stood next to?

It looks really familiar. But I can’t place it !

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
18 hours ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

"Just checked your profile and youre neither of those. "

This ! You are neither of those things that the horrible hater said ! Quite the opposite !

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By *andleit1980Man
18 hours ago

BRISTOL

"I've had two over the weekend from guys who are very angry because I didn't reply to their messages, if I'm not interested I simply won't reply.

Apparently I'm a fat old whore lol"

You're not fat,or old...............maybe need confirmation on the last lol

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By *adbodben40 OP Man
18 hours ago

hull

I appreciate this ladies and gents. These people are just idiots i know that

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By *obilebottomMan
18 hours ago

All over

Some great people on here and then those ones. Those that must be ignored, blocked, reported as appropriate. Never give them a second thought

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By *iver78Man
18 hours ago

barton upon humber

"Dont you just love it when all the keyboard warriors come out and call you fat and ugly.

Tell me something i dont already know.

Yes i maybe slightly chunky and yes i may not be the best looker.

But at least i dont have the personalitity of a brickwall.

If you dont like me thats fine dont look at me "

I had my share of abuse , usually of middle to old aged women !? Who you just send a hi to and they go off on one

And isent it strange that they either have no profile pic or they wouldent get a second look in real life !! Take it with a pinch of salt and remember the attractive people tend to be nice people

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By *arierWoman
18 hours ago

birmingham

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you!

I’ve never really had any nasty messages as yet but I was called a “dusty cabbage” last week on here 😂

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
18 hours ago

SW1A1AA

Block and report

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By *orphia2003Woman
18 hours ago

Tonypandy.

I get them, and when I respond on the same manners they get all offended and go snivelling to fab.

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By *ingernuts52Man
18 hours ago

cornwall

That all most people are on here ! All hide behind the photos and act like complete dicks !

To all the lovely people on here ! You all look fantastic sexy and keep doing what your doing ,

Much love x

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By *hickthighs26Woman
18 hours ago

your hotlist

People who have to put others down to lift themselves briefly are usually very insecure unhappy people OP.

Its not nice, block and dont give them any of your time nor energy, i feel pity for them it must be horrible and draining to be that miserable and sad all the time ❤️

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By *evilinyouMan
18 hours ago

Bristol

That sucks o.p but your a decent guy from what I've seen in the forums. Keep on being yourself M8 👍

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
18 hours ago

North West

It’s frustrating - particularly when they can’t compliment you enough until you reject them, then they NEVER WANTED TO MEET YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE 😭😭😭

We have a pattern at the moment of people whose profiles we’ve looked at, who seem to think that’s an open invite to message us. I tend to point out why I didn’t message them (mostly that, on viewing their profile, there was something that meant they weren’t for us - usually straight, married, into bareback, or any combo of the above), then they get hurty feelings 👀 I’m like..mate, you messaged us first 😂😂

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By *nnandElleCouple
18 hours ago

Brackley

Likely because I'm in a couple gere, bit this place is nothing compared to Grindr or Fabguys for abuse - and it's usually the people that initially say something like, "OMG, so sexy, please fuck me", and then when they get a "not for me thanks" come back with, "didn't want to meet you anyway you old/fat/ugly/small cock wanker", or similar.

For the record OP, you look pretty good!

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By *rightonsteveMan
18 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!

COMPETITION TIME!!!

Guess the castle….

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By *actile TensionMan
18 hours ago

Sussex

If you have haters you're doing ok

If you have lots. You're doing great

*Excluding illegal and evil stuff

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
18 hours ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Dont you just love it when all the keyboard warriors come out and call you fat and ugly.

Tell me something i dont already know.

Yes i maybe slightly chunky and yes i may not be the best looker.

But at least i dont have the personalitity of a brickwall.

If you dont like me thats fine dont look at me "

I'm so sorry you've had such horrible messages.. sending hugs x

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By *rightonsteveMan
18 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hey Ben, you seem like a perfectly decent guy to me.

Why people should choose to be nasty is beyond me , but

A question ?

Where is that castle you are stood next to?

It looks really familiar. But I can’t place it !

I don’t think it’s in the UK - something so distinctive, I’m sure I would have visited or read about. The entrance looks Norman but the round towers are not and the tops of the towers are late medieval not early.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
18 hours ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

"Hey Ben, you seem like a perfectly decent guy to me.

Why people should choose to be nasty is beyond me , but

A question ?

Where is that castle you are stood next to?

It looks really familiar. But I can’t place it !

Rhodes.

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By *andadbodMan
17 hours ago

Liverpool

they put others down to make themselves feel better, nothing but pity for those kind of people.

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By *inkShyWoman
17 hours ago

near Windsor

I get it a lot. Sometimes it affects me, sometimes it doesn't.

It is quite sad that they put in the effort to send a shitty message to someone who had no idea they existed. And it is even sadder that they are probably chuffed to bits with their effort... while you are likely critiquing their spelling and grammar.

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By *rightonsteveMan
17 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Hey Ben, you seem like a perfectly decent guy to me.

Why people should choose to be nasty is beyond me , but

A question ?

Where is that castle you are stood next to?

It looks really familiar. But I can’t place it !

Rhodes. "

Maybe….there are windows that are too low down so it’s definitely a later castle unless they were put in later but there’s no moat or ditch - the road goes right up - could be an outer bailey but I’m thinking it’s not a castle but a defensive gateway to a town.

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By *adbodben40 OP Man
17 hours ago

hull

"Hey Ben, you seem like a perfectly decent guy to me.

Why people should choose to be nasty is beyond me , but

A question ?

Where is that castle you are stood next to?

It looks really familiar. But I can’t place it !

Rhodes. "

Correct

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
17 hours ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

"Hey Ben, you seem like a perfectly decent guy to me.

Why people should choose to be nasty is beyond me , but

A question ?

Where is that castle you are stood next to?

It looks really familiar. But I can’t place it !

Rhodes.

Correct"

Ha! Thank you Ben.

Steve I will commence my smugness in 5..4…3..

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