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By *eli OP   Woman
5 hours ago

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What's a swinger? As in, what makes a person a swinger?

Would you say you're a swinger?

I'd ask more swinger questions but reached the word looks wrong stage.

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m not a swinger. I have sex with various people as a sort of hobby or past-time, not a lifestyle.

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By *andleit1980Man
5 hours ago

BRISTOL

When we were all going out and about on weekends back in the day and you'd see someone you slept with the week before is that a form of swinging?

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By *sWyldWoman
5 hours ago

Edinburgh

I don't think I'm a swinger I'm not sure I want to be one either

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By *tew008Man
5 hours ago

edinburgh

been working on my calisthenics so I’m technically a swinger

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By *eroLondonMan
5 hours ago

Mayfair

I'm not a swinger, not do I purport to being one.

I'm just a vanilla singleton looking for one-to-one dates and dalliances with a restricted retinue.

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By *eli OP   Woman
5 hours ago

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"I’m not a swinger. I have sex with various people as a sort of hobby or past-time, not a lifestyle. "

What's the difference between a hobby and a lifestyle in terms of swingers?

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By *actile TensionMan
5 hours ago

Sussex

A person that is in a relationship that is truly comfortable sharing their partner intimately.

Yes

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By *igBeardyDanMan
5 hours ago

Bilston

I won't class myself as a swinger i enjoy meeting hotwife couples and really enjoyed the social side but not a swinger in the traditional meaning

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By *eli OP   Woman
5 hours ago

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"When we were all going out and about on weekends back in the day and you'd see someone you slept with the week before is that a form of swinging?"

Might be a slight generational difference here, I don't remember that time.

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By *eli OP   Woman
5 hours ago

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"I don't think I'm a swinger I'm not sure I want to be one either "

What is one in your mind? Is it activities or attitude?

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I’m not a swinger. I have sex with various people as a sort of hobby or past-time, not a lifestyle.

What's the difference between a hobby and a lifestyle in terms of swingers?"

Some I have met spend weekends and such travelling the country to clubs and places and staying over at others houses for weekend sessions etc, live and breathe sex and swinging. That’s a lifestyle. A hobby is an occasional dabble.

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By *andleit1980Man
5 hours ago

BRISTOL


"When we were all going out and about on weekends back in the day and you'd see someone you slept with the week before is that a form of swinging?

Might be a slight generational difference here, I don't remember that time. "

Haha,only 10yrs difference which i guess yes is a time

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By *Effy-Woman
5 hours ago

Scotland

I think i am.

I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people.

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By *ou only live onceMan
5 hours ago

London

I'm not a swinger, but then I don't really know how to define one so maybe I am after all. I really don't think I am though.

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think i am.

I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. "

you’re very lucky to be in such a situation.

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By *aitonelMan
5 hours ago

Liverpool

I am not! I just like to help the swingers be swingers. It's my good deed in life.

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By *aitonelMan
5 hours ago

Liverpool


"I think i am.

I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation. "

It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man.

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I think i am.

I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation.

It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man. "

(Yes, I know, but don’t tell her)

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
5 hours ago

Round the bend

I wouldn't class us as swingers. We have a bit of occasional fun with a third person.

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 hours ago

Reading

Can you be a swinger as a single person? I’m not sure. I don’t class myself as one anyway.

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By *ellhungvweMan
5 hours ago

Cheltenham


"I am not! I just like to help the swingers be swingers. It's my good deed in life. "

I can empathise with this. Saving marriages through orgasms. I think we are on a noble calling.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
5 hours ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy


"Can you be a swinger as a single person? I’m not sure. I don’t class myself as one anyway."

This is my thinking. I'm just someone who meets different guys. It's a bit like me in my twenties really. Kinda fun.

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I wouldn't class us as swingers. We have a bit of occasional fun with a third person. "

You could say that in the third person:

“I wouldn’t class them as swingers. They have a bit of occasional fun with a third person.”

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By *etwife8230Couple
5 hours ago

Newport

I would say we probably are right now but don't tend to put a label on it ,just both enjoy sex x

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By *aptivating24Man
5 hours ago

castleford

Im not a swinger. Im just looking for that connection and amazing times with someone or a nice couple

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By *Effy-Woman
4 hours ago

Scotland


"I think i am.

I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation.

It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man. "

Stop sticking up for him, he doesn't deserve it!

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By *eli OP   Woman
4 hours ago

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"I am not! I just like to help the swingers be swingers. It's my good deed in life. "

Kai! This is funny. I like it.

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By *oeBeansMan
4 hours ago

Derby

No, not really. I always associate it more with being a couples thing whereas I essentially just meet people for socials and sex

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By *earditallWoman
4 hours ago

Lancaster


"What's a swinger? As in, what makes a person a swinger?

Would you say you're a swinger?

I'd ask more swinger questions but reached the word looks wrong stage."

Nope I don't think I am as I'm single,just someone with an open mind and liberal approach to sex and likes variety.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 hours ago

your hotlist

I enjoy your threads _eli. I like to peruse through the different opinions on them.

I cant really offer much as i'm not a swinger, i suppose my thoughts are they are either couples, poly, enm couples who are true swingers. Then again i could be very wrong.

I also like how unchaotic your threads are unlike mine ❤️

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By *earditallWoman
4 hours ago

Lancaster

And I think it's mainly those who share their partners with others.

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By *onin25Man
4 hours ago

Durham


"I'm not a swinger, not do I purport to being one.

I'm just a vanilla singleton looking for one-to-one dates and dalliances with a restricted retinue."

This but with less eloquence

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By *eli OP   Woman
4 hours ago

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"I enjoy your threads _eli. I like to peruse through the different opinions on them.

I cant really offer much as i'm not a swinger, i suppose my thoughts are they are either couples, poly, enm couples who are true swingers. Then again i could be very wrong.

I also like how unchaotic your threads are unlike mine ❤️"

You're a sweetheart TT, well and truly. Yeah, it's down to nosiness really - I like finding different opinions and views and the wit and the more serious. I think sometimes swinging/swingers are seen in a negative light and yeah, the thread came from there.

Your threads are a hoot, never change them. 🥰

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By *lirtyFilthWoman
4 hours ago

Troublesville


"I'm not a swinger, not do I purport to being one.

I'm just a vanilla singleton looking for one-to-one dates and dalliances with a restricted retinue.

This but with less eloquence "

This but even less eloquence

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
3 hours ago

SW1A1AA

I think i was a swingeemr, having sex with different amount of people, going to clubs parties and socials. Now im retired

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
3 hours ago

Round the bend


"I wouldn't class us as swingers. We have a bit of occasional fun with a third person.

You could say that in the third person:

“I wouldn’t class them as swingers. They have a bit of occasional fun with a third person.”"

🤣😂🤣

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 hours ago

East Lincs

I think we are part swingers.

We meet others for sex but they are regulars, not one offs and generally singles, not other couples.

We go to clubs every so often, maybe two/three times a year, but we hardly play with others in them.

We’ve been to PDI and didn’t have sex with others.

We enjoy the lifestyle but it doesn’t dictate our lives.

We have friends who go to clubs every weekend and always play. They can be found in the midst of group play and their whole life revolves around swinging. Going away with other couples, PDI twice a year. I’d say that they are true swingers whereas we are only dipping our toes in now and again.

K

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By *iver78Man
3 hours ago

barton upon humber

I'm not a swinger , I'm a single old man who enjoys meeting new people , but I believe true swingers swop and go to clubs !? Iv no one to swop with and wouldent ever go to a club / event , well not on my own

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
3 hours ago

North West

When I first joined I had a distinct mental picture of what was a swinger and it absolutely wasn’t me. The keys in a bowl thing is still very much not for me. But I think it would be untrue to say I’m not a swinger.

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By *each needs some creamWoman
3 hours ago

Ilfracombe

Swinger is simply a person that meets up with another person/persons for sex.

No stress no strings just the fun part.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
3 hours ago

London

I'm not a swinger. I enjoy socialising, interacting on the forums, occasionally meeting people in real life. I haven't figured out what I'm looking for apart from friendship and intimacy.

Is a swinger someone who likes upside down pineapples?

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By *iaisonseekerMan
3 hours ago

Liverpool

As a singleton, I can't claim to be a swinger and am not convinced I could be one in a committed relationship.

I do however enjoy having a walk-on part in the swinger scene

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By *igBeardyDanMan
3 hours ago

Bilston

For a swingers site theres not many swingers on here, unless their all out swinging 🤔

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By *laytime_13Woman
3 hours ago

Lincs

I think you're not a swinger if you're a single person, that to me is a couples thing.

But I enjoy the part I play in that lifestyle

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By *aitonelMan
3 hours ago

Liverpool


"I think i am.

I'm in a relationship where we both enjoy having sex with other people. you’re very lucky to be in such a situation.

It's only so her husband can have a break from her. That poor man.

Stop sticking up for him, he doesn't deserve it! "

See!

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By *aitonelMan
3 hours ago

Liverpool


"I am not! I just like to help the swingers be swingers. It's my good deed in life.

Kai! This is funny. I like it."

It is known

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By *a LunaWoman
3 hours ago

Wales


"When we were all going out and about on weekends back in the day and you'd see someone you slept with the week before is that a form of swinging?"

No, that’s called “putting it about”

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By *a LunaWoman
3 hours ago

Wales

No, I’m not a swinger.

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By *adyBugsWoman
2 hours ago

not local even if it says I am

I’m not.

Sometimes I’d like to be one but that would mean leaving the house and meeting people ewww.

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