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Why do compliments make you feel uncomfortable?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

If they do that is......

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Cause the bad stuff is easier to believe.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Cause the bad stuff is easier to believe."
Bad stuff?

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By *Brinksy xxWoman
over a year ago

Halesowen

face to face compliments make me uncomfortable, I'm not quite sure why though ..

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Because if they are from someone I have just met, at a club for instance, I believe that they are just saying it to get in my knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get that many compliments when i meet people, i met someone recently who kept saying nice things to me and i couldnt stop laughing because i dont hear it that often.

if someone says i look nice thats ok, but if they say i look stunning, i think thats just ott.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos it confuses me

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Cause the bad stuff is easier to believe.

Bad stuff? "

Perhaps not the right phrase... made sense in my head.

I know what I mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cause the bad stuff is easier to believe."

far harder to believe someone would compliment me, than believe an insult... Compliments always seem fake

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I wouldnt say they make me uncomfortable just find them hard to accept ....in saying that 1 compliment i do like is.. after having a nite of hot sex with a sexy lady and she wants to meet again for round 2 ,3 and more

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Cause the bad stuff is easier to believe.

far harder to believe someone would compliment me, than believe an insult... Compliments always seem fake "

Ah I didn't mean that... I just mean that the things we doubt in ourselves, when people compliment us its sometimes hard to take them graciously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I know that if they thought I was skint they wouldn't even talk to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take compliments well i always think they are only saying nice stuff if they want to give me one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of it is how to reply, you can't say yeah I know because that might come across as arrogant even if joking, you can just say thanks but then do you have to pay something nice back if so what do you say? Especially if your not attracted to them, which then leads to a awkward silence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see them pointing and whispering, that's the one with the yacht. Then a few minutes later they will start to sidle up to me.

If that's what you are after just come out With it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love compliments

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

they make me feel uncomfortable because all my life, from being as small as I can remember I've had nothing but negative stuff told to me. Wont go into details, but it was from family, school and progressed to long term partners.

So if someone compliments me, I find it very difficult to believe. I feel uncomfortable. Thats why if someone calls me a fat ugly slag on here, it doesn't bother me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't make me feel uncomfortable, oh hang on I've never had one

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"I don't take compliments well i always think they are only saying nice stuff if they want to give me one.

"

You have lovely eyes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not too comfortable with compliments, the main reason is because I don't truely believe them myself.

The main thing is to take them gracefully anyway, something that I've only learnt in the last few years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they seem insincere they make me feel uncomfortable for the person giving them.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"If they do that is...... "

Has anyone ever told you that you look deliciously uncomfortable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am not sure if the compliment is genuine or the giver has a hidden agenda and is trying to make me feel good about him/her.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Compliments are good because they help you build your self esteem, however, you shouldn't let them go to your head so that you think you are the bee's knees, so to speak.

Constructive criticism can be just as advantageous as a well directed compliment.

All things in moderation

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Because I am not sure if the compliment is genuine or the giver has a hidden agenda and is trying to make me feel good about him/her.

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this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not too comfortable with compliments, the main reason is because I don't truely believe them myself.

The main thing is to take them gracefully anyway, something that I've only learnt in the last few years..."

Snap Salted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not too comfortable with compliments, the main reason is because I don't truely believe them myself.

The main thing is to take them gracefully anyway, something that I've only learnt in the last few years..."

This is how I feel- never really had compliments and always end up tongue tied how to reply as a result.

Have started to warm to them, seem to be more forthcoming since being single again, but still can catch me unaware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love compliments when said sincerely. On here however, they are just things said randomly to many others. So I never take them seriously, but thank them all the same...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Oh I dont know why , I am terrible at accepting compliments not believing in my self at all. Someone was kind to me today as he always has been over the years I have known him. He must mean what he says or he wouldnt keep coming back.

I really should accept with a smile

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Complimentary tickets to my bed this evening are available @superramfan.com

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Im terable at taking them never no what to say.....I posted a thread a week or to ago about my doughter an how id let her down an a few comented how nice it was but id just posted how I felt an dident expect much responce when ppl did it flummoxed me had no idea how to respond.....mad really

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Complimentary tickets to my bed this evening are available @superramfan.com "

oi no posting links for persanal gain tut tut slapped wristies haha

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It depends for me. If someone compliments me on something I don't think is good ie my hair, or how pretty I look. I make a joke of it, turn bright red and run and hide. If I'm complimented on something I believe to be true ie cute bum, then I'll smile and say Thank you.

However, in a swing club, I don't believe any compliment!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a mixture of things. If you were brought up to give compliments and received them in return. Then when people say it in passing. You are used to it and know how to respond to it. If on the other hand you had a bad past where your confidence gets shattered then its hard to know when someone genuinely means it or if they are telling you what you want to hear. Not only that, but if they knew the compliment was genuine. They wouldn't know how to react as its their first one and aren't use to having them often.

I for one can't take them either.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"They don't make me feel uncomfortable, oh hang on I've never had one"

You are handsome!

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By *uxtapositionMan
over a year ago

CARDIFF

Well, well, well, you have all surprised me ! I would have thought that a genuine compliment, well meant with no ulterior motive and delivered in a respectful manner would have been well received.

I always thought that to be the case, truly.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Complimentary tickets to my bed this evening are available @superramfan.com

oi no posting links for persanal gain tut tut slapped wristies haha "

Ya can't blame a man for trying

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I love compliments "

However if they are simply compliments to get in my knickers then i do roll my eyes lol...

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I think its a mixture of things. If you were brought up to give compliments and received them in return. Then when people say it in passing. You are used to it and know how to respond to it. If on the other hand you had a bad past where your confidence gets shattered then its hard to know when someone genuinely means it or if they are telling you what you want to hear. Not only that, but if they knew the compliment was genuine. They wouldn't know how to react as its their first one and aren't use to having them often.

I for one can't take them either."

ye that ^ good post mate like it

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I love compliments

However if they are simply compliments to get in my knickers then i do roll my eyes lol... "

cheeky your gorgeous come here an giz a shag

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"If they do that is...... "

I always accept them with pleasure. I think people mean them otherwise why would they say? They could be silent instead. Silence speaks volumes.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I love compliments

However if they are simply compliments to get in my knickers then i do roll my eyes lol...

cheeky your gorgeous come here an giz a shag "

not tonight i am washing my Hair....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't take compliments well i always think they are only saying nice stuff if they want to give me one.

"

Or more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love compliments

However if they are simply compliments to get in my knickers then i do roll my eyes lol... "

What if someone compliments on how lovely you look in your knickers or even say your knickers look nice?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I love compliments

However if they are simply compliments to get in my knickers then i do roll my eyes lol...

cheeky your gorgeous come here an giz a shag

not tonight i am washing my Hair.... "

god damn it that was my best line too

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Compliments: A polite expression of praise or admiration.

Regardless of our social, religious, ethnic or politcal background, we are not used to being praised so as we grow up it becomes more difficult to accept praise and expressions of admiration. In this very cynical world we tend to assume that someone paying us a compliment is after something, a favour, some help, money...The above is only my opnion but I think it applies to a large number of people on this planet.

Personally I was brought up to look up to others (not forgeting the fact that everyone is taller than me Lol), they were always taller, kinder, richer, smarter, more educated, with better kids, a better job, better house, faster car, even their pets were better than mine apparently etc...

I now accept polite expressions of praise and admiration because they make me feel good and I will take a ray of sunhine anywhere I can take it. I also give myself a pat on the back when I have achieved something...nobody can say that one is not heart felt or genuine!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Awwww frenchie come here an giv us a cuddle ya big soft blomonge ya xxxxxx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not too good on compliments. I think it stems from hang ups I have about myself. Therefore if ssomeone pays a compliment I find it hard to accept. And I don't want to set myself up for a fall by believing it.

I think a lot of it comes from how image is portrayed by the press etc. I know that not everyone can look nice, pretty, toned etc. But it doesn't stop me wanting to be perfect. Which I know I'm not. "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have been told that I have a force field around me to reject compliments and that people are hurt that I can't accept their compliments. I am working on it.

As to the why, others have already said it their posts.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'm not too good on compliments. I think it stems from hang ups I have about myself. Therefore if ssomeone pays a compliment I find it hard to accept. And I don't want to set myself up for a fall by believing it.

I think a lot of it comes from how image is portrayed by the press etc. I know that not everyone can look nice, pretty,

toned etc. But it doesn't stop me

wanting to be perfect. Which I know I'm

not. "

I like your pegs, your chastity thing and your Buzz Lightyear outfit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always getting told off for not accepting complements I get told I need to start seeing what others see I just can't do that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always getting told off for not accepting complements I get told I need to start seeing what others see I just can't do that xx "

We never see ourselves they way others see us... Sometimes wish I could have the power to see what others see. Now that's when I would start to believe!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though "

You do have elegant legs though and there is no reason to say that other than because it's true and one ought to compliment you on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

You do have elegant legs though and there is no reason to say that other than because it's true and one ought to compliment you on them. "

Aw thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though "

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public "

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol "

Can I call you luscious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol

Can I call you luscious? "

Of course you can Miss Bambi

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Mmm-hrrrmmpff!! You taste nice

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol

Can I call you luscious?

Of course you can Miss Bambi "

You've made me very happy and made my day!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol "

there all ex for a resen an I bet iv more than you an trust me weman are just as croul

gota say the I agree with the rest on here love your pins xxx

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol

there all ex for a resen an I bet iv more than you an trust me weman are just as croul

gota say the I agree with the rest on here love your pins xxx"

You really have a way with words Mr Blade xxx My vocab is getting so colourful thanks to you Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you. You're all making me blush now

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol

there all ex for a resen an I bet iv more than you an trust me weman are just as croul

gota say the I agree with the rest on here love your pins xxx

You really have a way with words Mr Blade xxx My vocab is getting so colourful thanks to you Lol "

is that a good thing or bad ???

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Next thing you no youll be going for a rip lolol xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

You are all gorgeous...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of confidence and self esteem, took a long time to accept compliments and I am not wholly there yet but I do accept them

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Next thing you no youll be going for a rip lolol xx"

oooooh a new word/expression for me...love it!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Compliments and appreciation are made of so many ingredients...it does not have to be a word or a sentence, it can be a look, the way someone turns when you walk past, wolf whistling, how they eys drop to their hands when you stare at them, how only garbled words come out of their mouth when they speak to you...so many ingredients...

anyone can think of others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life or on fab?

On fab..they don't make me feel uncomfortable at all as most of it is shitz and giggles.

In real life..it can do

Especially if it is from someone that barely knows me.

I'm always suspicious of compliments that are either from someone who doesn't know the first thing about me or if it's too OTT.

On fab..I don't mind. Unless I get a really fucking weirdo OTT message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't accept compliments too well as I don't have a high opinion of myself, if that's the right phrase My ex hubby had a habit of humiliating me in public so I'm more used to being put down than complimented. I'm getting better though

So if you're in a public place and someone you're with says "Shut it sexy". Do you take that as a put down or a compliment? Lol. I can't stand people who put people down at all. Nevermind in public

lol if someone calls me sexy, that's fine It's not a nice or clever thing to do. Especially from someone I was married to! He's an ex for a reason lol "

What's isn't a clever thing to do. Calling you sexy and to shut up in public or putting you down? Lol. Good for you though. Wish all woken would ditch blokes who treat them like that. Don't you agree sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliments are nice and should be taken that way... I must be honest I enjoy receiving compliments... Although the do have the coy effect!!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Compliments and appreciation are made of so many ingredients...it does not have to be a word or a sentence, it can be a look, the way someone turns when you walk past, wolf whistling, how they eys drop to their hands when you stare at them, how only garbled words come out of their mouth when they speak to you...so many ingredients...

anyone can think of others?"

Well, loved the way your sexy ass pointed at me when we went bowling

Hopefully that's a compliment

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I don't like compliments, I always feel the person saying them wants something.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"If they do that is...... "

They don't generally as I know I'm awesome...to my loved ones and the best mum in the world ...to my children.

From strangers trying to get into my pants: please...flattery gets you nowhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Compliments and appreciation are made of so many ingredients...it does not have to be a word or a sentence, it can be a look, the way someone turns when you walk past, wolf whistling, how they eys drop to their hands when you stare at them, how only garbled words come out of their mouth when they speak to you...so many ingredients...

anyone can think of others?"

A smile. A random text. A peck on the cheek at a random moment. Love those.

I don't like compliments from people off sites like these... For obvious reasons.

Heartfelt compliments that are like above, then yes.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

who the hell is stupid enough to insult someone on here . of course your going to get compliments . i wont get far with hey you bag of spanners fancy a shag

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"who the hell is stupid enough to insult someone on here . of course your going to get compliments . i wont get far with hey you bag of spanners fancy a shag"
You would fuck someone you thought looked like a bag of spanners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they do that is...... "

Cuz i dont get that many im normally in shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbed

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"If they do that is......

Cuz i dont get that many im normally in shock "
No way Peaches...you is a fit bird innit!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbed"
Why is that weird?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbedWhy is that weird? "

Hello, I do like your avatar photo. It suggests complicity and discretion.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbedWhy is that weird?

Hello, I do like your avatar photo. It suggests complicity and discretion. "
I like your avatar too, it suggests you use Persil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbedWhy is that weird? "

cos I like to show appreciation for the pic..and its not by cuming on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not good at accepting compliments because oh well just because im not

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbedWhy is that weird?

cos I like to show appreciation for the pic..and its not by cuming on it "
You can always say ...."I like your pic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they do that is......

Cuz i dont get that many im normally in shock No way Peaches...you is a fit bird innit! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do tend to think that they are being given out of a sense of courtesy, as if scripted, rather than being heartfelt.

They don't make me uncomfortable, I can just take em or leave em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbedWhy is that weird?

cos I like to show appreciation for the pic..and its not by cuming on it You can always say ...."I like your pic" "

I'm shy n u know it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard to accept compliments .i deal better with negative stuff ,wiered i know but nice stuffs make me feel to humbled and i never know what to say .poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to accept compliments .i deal better with negative stuff ,wiered i know but nice stuffs make me feel to humbled and i never know what to say .poppyxx"

ur pics dont make me wanna wank on u!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbedWhy is that weird?

cos I like to show appreciation for the pic..and its not by cuming on it You can always say ...."I like your pic"

I'm shy n u know it x"
Are you really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it weird people put tasty pics up and dont let them be fabbedWhy is that weird?

cos I like to show appreciation for the pic..and its not by cuming on it You can always say ...."I like your pic"

I'm shy n u know it xAre you really? "

only around u

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont mind it from people that know me...

But strangers? No...means nothing to me, not uncomfortable with it though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont mind it from people that know me...

But strangers? No...means nothing to me, not uncomfortable with it though..."

I think ur quite elegant..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to accept compliments .i deal better with negative stuff ,wiered i know but nice stuffs make me feel to humbled and i never know what to say .poppyxx

ur pics dont make me wanna wank on u! "
good i bet your mum is glad young man.xxxpoppyxx

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"Dont mind it from people that know me...

But strangers? No...means nothing to me, not uncomfortable with it though...

I think ur quite elegant.. "

LOL.....

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

She said compliments...

Not complete piss takes ya cheeky sod!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She said compliments...

Not complete piss takes ya cheeky sod! "

hell it was a cheap shot at getting my hole...SoRRRRrrrrY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it hard to accept compliments .i deal better with negative stuff ,wiered i know but nice stuffs make me feel to humbled and i never know what to say .poppyxx

ur pics dont make me wanna wank on u! good i bet your mum is glad young man.xxxpoppyxx "

shame she has to handwash my wankingsocks

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