FabSwingers.com forum: Who love a hi 👋

By *arzanandJane2016 OP Couple
1 day ago

the big city

Just putting it out there how many of you would respond to “hi” nothing more nothing less.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 day ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

If Stanley Tucci said hi I’d be climbing him like a tree. Otherwise no I ignore them.

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By *andleit1980Man
1 day ago

BRISTOL

I possibly would,but also respond with hi

If got a reply back then go from there

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By *igBeardyDanMan
1 day ago

Bilston

I did yesterday from a couple and against my better judgement and replied with ' hi thanks for the message but im just about to leave for work ill reply when I can' and never got a reply back.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
1 day ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd be polite and say Ey up back, but the ball really is in their court to make an effort from there

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
1 day ago

East Sussex

Yep we have. It's what comes next that's important.

Infinitely preferable to the 'well thought out' messages that make it clear they've been nowhere near our profile text which is hardly War and Peace

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By *annyDanielleMan
1 day ago

Street, Somerset

If their profile interests me and they're fairly local then yes, i don't see why not.

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By *picyFoxMan
1 day ago

Carlisle

Yeah probably, if i liked there profile/pics, otherwise no.

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By *homas400Man
1 day ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

It's a bit brief as a first message. I've had a couple of these in the past and did respond out of politeness more than anything.

I've written a few detailed and specific messages to others and haven't had any response. I guess 'Hi 👋' saves wasting your time.

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By *ilfhunter1980Man
1 day ago

Milton Keynes

Nope,there has to be effort put into a message to engage interest.

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By *layfullsamMan
1 day ago

Solihull

Desperate times call for desperate measures

I’d be happy to receive just a H

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By *picyFoxMan
1 day ago

Carlisle

"Desperate times call for desperate measures

I’d be happy to receive just a H

🤣🤣🤣👌

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 day ago

London

I don't mind it. No issue whatsoever.

Some people claim they want others to make an effort but when they message they don't do the same. Hi is fine. Let's talk about it.

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By *aulgreen22Man
1 day ago

English Riviera Torquay & Finchley

I always respond to a hi

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By *actile TensionMan
1 day ago

Sussex

Id respond but would approach with caution if it were written in all lower case.

The first letter is always a capital, so I'd want to know why they made it small

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 day ago

London

"Id respond but would approach with caution if it were written in all lower case.

The first letter is always a capital, so I'd want to know why they made it small"

Suspicious behaviour. Oh wait.

suspicious behaviour.

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By *YDB75Man
1 day ago

East Yorks

Id always respond to Hi. Its usually the next one that gets a decision made

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By *evilinyouMan
1 day ago

Bristol

Send a first message is always tricky so I'd give them the benefit of the doubt and reply, if i just got another one word answer back though then game over

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By *enninemarkMan
1 day ago

huddersfield/manchester

Yes. And winks. It seems a good way to express initial interest, though I understand not everyone thinks that way. I guess if you are a couple or single fem then you need more as you get hundreds of messages a day!

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 day ago

London

"Id always respond to Hi. Its usually the next one that gets a decision made "

You mean:

Can I smell your used socks?

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
1 day ago

Round the bend

Barely ever

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
1 day ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

Hello

How are you?

Good thanks. How are you?

Horny. Wanna meet?

No.

…and repeat.

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By *YDB75Man
1 day ago

East Yorks

"Id always respond to Hi. Its usually the next one that gets a decision made

You mean:

Can I smell your used socks?"

Thats not something many people would survive

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By *hinstrapMan
1 day ago

sheffield

I always reply tbh. We all gave to start somehow

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
1 day ago

South Wales

It woukd be a no reply from us ✨️

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By *Effy-Woman
1 day ago

Scotland

The information on their profile means more than what is said in their initial message.

A "hi" is fine as long as I have something to start a conversation with.

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By *evilinyouMan
1 day ago

Bristol

"Id always respond to Hi. Its usually the next one that gets a decision made

You mean:

Can I smell your used socks?"

You had me at hi

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 day ago

London

"Id always respond to Hi. Its usually the next one that gets a decision made

You mean:

Can I smell your used socks?

Thats not something many people would survive "

The message or your socks?

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 day ago

London

"Id always respond to Hi. Its usually the next one that gets a decision made

You mean:

Can I smell your used socks?

You had me at hi "

😂😂

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By *ittle miss sunshineWoman
1 day ago

south sheilds

I usually respond to just a hi

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By *evilinyouMan
1 day ago

Bristol

"I usually respond to just a hi

Be prepared for lots of hi's

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By *aptivating24Man
1 day ago

castleford

I always put a effort in when sending a message. But I would respond to a hi, only because im nice 🙂

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By *eroLondonMan
1 day ago

Mayfair

I suppose the pertinent question is how many men •wouldn't• respond to a "Hi" message, and nothing more and nothing less...?

(Can one even get less than a "Hi"?)

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
1 day ago

Niche

If the profile pic gets my attention I might checkout the rest of the profile and see if there's any interest sparked.

But hi on it's own and no profile won't be enough to warrant a reply

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
1 day ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Don't be crude, you wouldn't say that in a bar! What would you say, oh yeah, hi.

Read my profile! But I still won't respond unless I like the look of you.

Put effort in! Even though you don't know me and the chances are I won't reply anyway.

A hi works if you find them attractive and they have a decent profile.

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By *007ManMan
1 day ago

Worthing

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By *eve500Man
1 day ago

Leeds

Depends who says 'hi' 😉

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By *liviaGTV/TS
1 day ago

Garstang

I saying ola

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By *penminded7Man
1 day ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv a hi

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By *_temp_accountMan
1 day ago

carlisle

From one hand, another couple of words wouldn't hurt. Even basic ones like "how are you?" or "nice day for fishing, isn't it?", from the other openers are hard.

But then again, no woman have ever started a conversation with me in any way so I'm not bothered. I try to include in the first message something that indicates I have read the profile

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By *ou only live onceMan
1 day ago

London

"The information on their profile means more than what is said in their initial message.

A "hi" is fine as long as I have something to start a conversation with. "

This is it. A 'Hi' from a blank profile is going to get deleted, but a 'Hi' from someone I like the look of is no bother. If it doesn't flow more after that, then I draw a line.

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By *NormalMan_90Man
1 day ago

Harrogate

I often respond to a hi, but when the second message has nothing back in terms of conversation, that’s where it ends.

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By *tannersMan
1 day ago

stanley

Depends on who it’s from

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By *ino200Man
1 day ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

Yes i respond to a hi ,guess its mainly a guy thing ,women get so many messages that hi just doesnt cut the mustard .

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
1 day ago

Leeds

Depends who from.

Mrs

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By *ocktheboat1234Man
1 day ago

Cheddleton

I always respond to hi ...but I totally understand a woman not as they get tons of messages

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By *WB85Man
1 day ago

Staffordshire

A hi get one of two responses.

1) Sarcasm.

2) A block.

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By *reolush98Man
1 day ago

Manchester

People are going to respond to say "hi" if they find the person who messaged them to be attractive.

That person could have a well written profile and shows everything that they are looking for. But that being said if they aren't attractive to your face, well that's it.

They aren't going to go any further and even if they do respond back it's not like it's going to amount to anything sexual.

That doesn't mean to say a friendship couldn't start. Not everyone is looking to form sexual connections on here. As I understand there's many on here who have been friend's for a long time.

That could have started with a simple "hi".

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By *he MinionMan
1 day ago

Surrey

Depends on who is saying the Hi i guess.

If it was from somebody who i found attractive and their likes aligned with mine, then I'd reply and hope the conversation blossoms.

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By *tchrPukMan
1 day ago

Coventry

"Depends on who is saying the Hi i guess.

If it was from somebody who i found attractive and their likes aligned with mine, then I'd reply and hope the conversation blossoms."

I'm the same with this. However, if the conversation is too hard work and it's not clear why they contacted me it ends pretty quickly.

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By *he MinionMan
1 day ago

Surrey

"Depends on who is saying the Hi i guess.

If it was from somebody who i found attractive and their likes aligned with mine, then I'd reply and hope the conversation blossoms.

I'm the same with this. However, if the conversation is too hard work and it's not clear why they contacted me it ends pretty quickly."

Oh absolutely.

One word replies are not going to instigate a good conversation

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By *eliWoman
1 day ago

Yep. Have done before, inevitably will again.

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By *dol1Man
1 day ago

Gorey

I have responded to a ‘hi’ before and many times it has led to some really good enjoyable conversations

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
1 day ago

Shefford

Get so many Hi messages from silhouettes. Always respond with a Hello, well at least it is a proper word lol. That gets read, and not responded to.

Possibly a complete waste of my time, but it only takes a second or two extra to reply

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By *ichaelsmyMan
1 day ago

douglas

"Just putting it out there how many of you would respond to “hi” nothing more nothing less. "

if it was from your profile, with the stockings photo as your profile pic.

then yeah i would as i love stockings on a lady

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By *onin25Man
1 day ago

Durham

I prefer more than a Hi, but ultimately the person sending the message is more important than the content.

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By *issmorganWoman
24 hours ago

Calderdale innit

Unless it was a great profile with good pics and told me what they were into /offering - it's a no from me.

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By *b03Man
24 hours ago

Exeter

Like most no matter who messages it, I'm going to assume they're a time waster if that's all they say in the first message.

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By *rispy KremeMan
24 hours ago

wolves

Hello!👋

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
24 hours ago

Reading

No there is nothing to answer. Low effort gets low reward.

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By *ourAccompliceMan
24 hours ago

Leeds

I would definitely have a yawn and then depending on the person may or may not reply.

If I get a 3 word answer then, would just leave it there.

A lot of people don’t seem to appreciate conversation on here.

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By *arzanandJane2016 OP Couple
21 hours ago

the big city

Best bit is the profile pic is a silhouette 🤣🤣🤣

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By *hat.coupleCouple
21 hours ago

Kent

Depends, if I like the look of them and they fit what we are looking for, maybe. Also the ones who say "hi" are always the people who put "wont respond to hi or one line messages".

Mrs x

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By *rightonsteveMan
21 hours ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Just putting it out there how many of you would respond to “hi” nothing more nothing less. "

Depends who it’s from. Generally speaking though, no.

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By *hisIsMe58Man
20 hours ago

Winchester

"I suppose the pertinent question is how many men •wouldn't• respond to a "Hi" message, and nothing more and nothing less...?

(Can one even get less than a "Hi"?)

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By *unfun13Man
18 hours ago

preston

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By *lder budweiserMan
18 hours ago

Stirlingshire

If I'd sent a message that was only 'Hi' I'd be very surprised to receive a reply

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By *hickthighs26Woman
18 hours ago

your hotlist

I dont mind a hi message.

If its followed up by " can i bum you" bonus.

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By *arzanandJane2016 OP Couple
5 hours ago

the big city

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By *arzanandJane2016 OP Couple
5 hours ago

the big city

"I dont mind a hi message.

If its followed up by " can i bum you" bonus. "

Would you specify the type of bumming in the reply.

🤣

Hard and fast or soft and sensual

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By *evilinyouMan
5 hours ago

Bristol

Hiya 👋👋👋👋👋👋

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By *r. MacMan
4 hours ago

Bexleyheath

Sure hey x

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
4 hours ago

Bristol

Depends if it’s from someone I’ve spoken to before or otherwise

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By *arc PolarisMan
3 hours ago

Birmingham

Depends on the profile. If they seem like they can hold a conversation and there is enough in the bio to interest me then yes I would but probably only with ‘Hi’ as well

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By *hickthighs26Woman
3 hours ago

your hotlist

"I dont mind a hi message.

If its followed up by " can i bum you" bonus.

Would you specify the type of bumming in the reply.

🤣

Hard and fast or soft and sensual "

Hard and fast. We're not fucking about here 😘

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
3 hours ago

Bristol

"I dont mind a hi message.

If its followed up by " can i bum you" bonus.

Would you specify the type of bumming in the reply.

🤣

Hard and fast or soft and sensual

Hard and fast. We're not fucking about here 😘"

Hi! Fancy a bum? 🤣

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By *entishFunCouple
12 minutes ago

Maidstone

"Just putting it out there how many of you would respond to “hi” nothing more nothing less. "

Yes, definitely! I think it’s a little reach-out to see if someone wants to notice you, and if they say ‘hi’ back then you know to write something more personal ☺️

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