FabSwingers.com forum: Advice for Newbies

By *ork-Boy99 OP Man
4 days ago

Cork

Fairly new here myself, any advice from people who have been on here a while. Like, how do you stick out from the crowd to even get a response?

Any form of advice would be greatly appreciated

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By *eroLondonMan
4 days ago

Mayfair

This is a great starter for ten:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1797135

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
4 days ago

Crumpet Castle

To stand out from the crowd you must have been born female and have remained a female.

To get a response you must have tit's and flange and a banging arse and be a cert or at least a temptress.

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By *lybynightWoman
3 days ago

visiting various Wales. .. and Daresbury

Well you've done well to find the forums early

It sounds counter-intuitive, but don't focus on sex, and don't just message every female in a 10 mile radius.

Have a chat in the forum, often it is the nonsense threadless that will throw up someone you have something in common with.

Use the filter to search for profiles that are looking for a profile your age.

I wish you the best of luck

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By *ork-Boy99 OP Man
3 days ago

Cork

Sounds like a good plan!

Thank you!

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By *irty DiamondsCouple
3 days ago

London - South East and West

"Fairly new here myself, any advice from people who have been on here a while. Like, how do you stick out from the crowd to even get a response?

Any form of advice would be greatly appreciated

1 ~ Do a cock pic as your profile pic.

2 ~ Always send a cock pic or 3 in a message.

3 ~ Be sure to send messages ranging from one word ‘hi’ or three words that is a tried and tested winner that will get you a reply is ‘fancy a fuck’.

Follows those 3 nuggets of ‘fab’ advice and you’ll do just fine on here.

Mr DD 😬

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By *ork-Boy99 OP Man
3 days ago

Cork

"Fairly new here myself, any advice from people who have been on here a while. Like, how do you stick out from the crowd to even get a response?

Any form of advice would be greatly appreciated

1 ~ Do a cock pic as your profile pic.

2 ~ Always send a cock pic or 3 in a message.

3 ~ Be sure to send messages ranging from one word ‘hi’ or three words that is a tried and tested winner that will get you a reply is ‘fancy a fuck’.

Follows those 3 nuggets of ‘fab’ advice and you’ll do just fine on here.

Mr DD 😬"

I’ll write that down, thank you!😂

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
3 days ago

Coventry

From the point of veiw of when I was a single guy on here.

Just be yourself, don't try to be a Chameleon to fit others tastes. You won't find you people that way.

Remember we are all humans. Treat everyone with humanity and respect with how you approach them. Because the human factor is key in this game. We generally want to fuck people we feel a human connection with.

Manage your expectations. It's a hard slog out there. Not just ratio's, it's finding the right chemistry and a lot of people aren't out there shagging every day of the week. So their free time is precious and limited. Plus people get cold feet or they get carried away and chicken out or reality hit's over fantasy. And sometimes life just happens. It can be very frustrating on here. Even when you think your in there the plug can get pulled at the final moment. Basically it's very fickle and a hole load of stars have to align to make it happen (or on the rare occasion something comes out of the blue).

This is a great site for swinging and getting into the lifestyle. However if you're just looking for straight forward no strings hook ups this is not the best site for that in my experience. Sites like the swipe left/right site are better for that. I think because most people looking for the same aren't swingers so would just be on vanilla sites.

If you want to get into the wider fun and activities of the scene and make connections then you need to engage with it in the real world. Go to clubs, parties, organised socials. This is the best way to get known and established in the scene and experience the variety and filth it has to offer. Unfortunately I get not everyone is well geographically placed to access this.

And I would say sourpusses sour the deal. Yes I get things can be frustrating. Yes some people may upset you. But negative vibes are never attractive.

However those that do get it right clean up massively and totally turn the tables on the ratio's. Some guys just have that character, patter and ability to read that gets results totally disproportionately. And spoiler hit had very little to do with how big your cock is, age or if you have a six pack. The guys who are popular and have a great reputation tend to come in all builds and ages. And this is why reputation and treating everyone well is so important. Because everyone is watching and you want it to be a case the she wants what you're giving that lady. Guys who are spoken well of often see an uptick in offers.

And finally when you find your people it's awesome. Don't just go seeking anyone for sex. It's worth the wait for the right people.

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By *ackdaw52Man
3 days ago

Chesterfield

The above post should be inscribed on something I think, and made the cornerstone of our new faith.

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By *rightonsteveMan
3 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would go to a social, be yourself (that way you’ll stand out from the crowd), have a well written profile that includes what you can offer, have a variety of photos, go to a club, don’t be a cunt or a knob, send the occasional friendly and well written message (personalised not AI) and join in the chat room and forums.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
3 days ago

North West

Read Mr Misfit’s post. End thread.

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By *ocialablechapMan
3 days ago

Paphos and also SW UK

"Read Mr Misfit’s post. End thread."

It's fairly accurate Ms Scrumptious

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