FabSwingers.com forum: Odd behaviour

By *onrod2015 OP Man
4 days ago

Baldock

I've had Couples message me, then send a Friend Invite.

I can see a long list of Friends on their Profile. A week later they've left the site, only to return a short time after.

I've seen this odd behaviour many times. Can anyone explain this?

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 days ago

Round the bend

You could see their friends list???

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By *eautifulChaosWoman
4 days ago

Nr Hickleton

There's hide your friends list in the privacy settings although I've never seen a profile where you can see their friends list 🤷🏼‍♀️ I'm not sure if you hide yours then you can't see others either.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
4 days ago

Chester

"You could see their friends list???"

Yeah, you can display your friends list

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By *issToniLeicsTV/TS
4 days ago

Leicester

"You could see their friends list???"

If you are on the web page not the mobile app you can see people's friends list unless you hide it in the settings.

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By *007ManMan
4 days ago

Worthing

Dunno op maybe they wanted a break.

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By *onrod2015 OP Man
4 days ago

Baldock

Yes, on their Home page.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

I mostly see this with single male profiles, in my updates.

Constantly leaving and rejoining again shortly afterwards.

Are they verified op?

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By *onrod2015 OP Man
4 days ago

Baldock

"Dunno op maybe they wanted a break."

It's happened to me a fair few times from different people.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 days ago

your hotlist

Who knows why people do the things they do on here. Its a minefield

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 days ago

Belfast

I don't look at local updates very often but there used to be a few couples who left and rejoined at least 6 or 8 times a year with exactly the same pics and had multiple verifications within days of joining.

Most of those verifications were from other couples.

I was always curious why those couples would continuously reverify over and over again.

I would refuse to do so after the second time.

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By *onin25Man
4 days ago

Durham

"You could see their friends list???

If you are on the web page not the mobile app you can see people's friends list unless you hide it in the settings."

Running to my privacy settings to check

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By *onrod2015 OP Man
4 days ago

Baldock

"I mostly see this with single male profiles, in my updates.

Constantly leaving and rejoining again shortly afterwards.

Are they verified op? "

I try to avoid the unverified profiles. Some are verified & go through this cycle.

I can't understand why one would engage in conversation, disappear, rinse - repeat. Perhaps these people get off on messing about.

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

"I mostly see this with single male profiles, in my updates.

Constantly leaving and rejoining again shortly afterwards.

Are they verified op?

I try to avoid the unverified profiles. Some are verified & go through this cycle.

I can't understand why one would engage in conversation, disappear, rinse - repeat. Perhaps these people get off on messing about."

I agree. I avoid the boomerang profiles, that always leave and rejoin. I used to chat to a bloke a few years ago and he'd regularly do this, so I stopped replying. As it wasn't gonna go anywhere.

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By *eroLondonMan
4 days ago

Mayfair

They've viewed your friend-only ('private') photos, perhaps downloaded them, unfriended you or just left the site, only to return again and do the same thing to another unsuspecting person.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
4 days ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

The game is afoot once again, Watson!

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By *onrod2015 OP Man
4 days ago

Baldock

This I can understand. I'm careful with my photos mind.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
4 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"You could see their friends list???"

Surprising how many people don't hide this...

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
4 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 days ago

Round the bend

I knew there was a display friend list option, but never actually seen it.

Not that it bothers us 🤷🏼‍♀️

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