FabSwingers.com forum: Is hair colour important to you?

By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
5 days ago

your hotlist

This is for ladies and gents.

I know we see threads all the time praising, redheads, blondes, brunettes.

But when it comes down to it are they just what you can appreciate/ have a little favouritism for or can it be a deal breaker? As in "blondes are not my type" never gonna happen.

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Doesn’t bother me what the hair colour is.

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By *aulgreen22Man
5 days ago

English Riviera Torquay & Finchley

Doesn't matter to me. I like redheads most but really doesn't matter

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By *a LunaWoman
5 days ago

Wales

I have never been with a blonde - make of that what you will!

That said, I did fancy Cary Elwes in The Princess Bride.

It’s complicated!

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By *estructionDollyWoman
5 days ago

The Deep Dark Woods

I have a preference for darker hair on men in general but there's a few redheads and blondes that I find ridiculously hot, so it really doesn't matter much in the grand scheme of things. Other stuff is much more important when it comes to attraction.

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By *vaRoseWoman
5 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

Kind of

There are exceptions but generally light scandi or brassy blonde on men doesn’t do it for me

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By *Effy-Woman
5 days ago

Scotland

Not really.

I do find that I'm less attracted to blonde haired men though. I do gravitate towards people with darker features.

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By *inkShyWoman
5 days ago

near Windsor

Colour doesn't bother me; I have preferences/dislikes for hair styles though.

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By *riel13Woman
5 days ago

Northampton

Only mine

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By *007ManMan
5 days ago

Worthing

Mens answers - No

Womens answers - Where do I start?

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
5 days ago

London

It doesn't matter to me but there are certain colours that attract my eyes more than others. I've always been partial to very dark hair and very light blonde. I especially enjoy an aggressive fringe.

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By *eauNaturelMan
5 days ago

Malmesbury

No it isn't important but I am particularly attracted to women with dark or red hair.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
5 days ago

Round the bend

Younger me used to have a think for dark hair, but I don't really have a preference now. Also, I quite like baldies/shaven.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
5 days ago

Round the bend

"Younger me used to have a think for dark hair, but I don't really have a preference now. Also, I quite like baldies/shaven. "

Thing* 🤦🏼‍♀️

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually

I find it fairly irrelevant. Current and recent partners would indicate a preference for ginger or salt and pepper, so maybe I just like seasonings 💜

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By *earditallWoman
5 days ago

Lancaster

It's never really a thought when meeting someone its usually something else that attracts me.

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
5 days ago

your hotlist

"I find it fairly irrelevant. Current and recent partners would indicate a preference for ginger or salt and pepper, so maybe I just like seasonings 💜"

I like this answer

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By *uttercupWoman
5 days ago

Borders

I've never even thought about it.

But I have now. Answer..... I'm not bothered

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
5 days ago

Niche

It's the hair/skintone combo that would be the thing for me as opposed to either on their own.

Just the overall look

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By *lusive KittyWoman
5 days ago

In the countryside

It's not something I've given much thought to so I'm obviously not bothered too much by hair colour

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By *egDayEnthusiastMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

As long as it matches their lingerie well, I don't care XoXo

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By *rispy KremeMan
5 days ago

wolves

Absolutely not an issue for me

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By *onin25Man
5 days ago

Durham

No, I've been with more dark haired women than light haired but it's not a preference.

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By *kphooey43Man
5 days ago

Barnet

One of my friends posted a picture of her friend group when she was at Uni and the same group now - interesting that women of a certain age all have the same colour hair

It does not matter to me OP, though when I was 18 I really fancied a girl with amazing ginger hair (some would say that I still do - but then you should not be able to get in my sub-conscious and see my dreams at night - that is just not on!)

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
5 days ago

your hotlist

I think for me im not really attracted initially to really blonde men. And i have never been with one so maybe self consciously it does,(or just none have wanted to be with me 🤣) but i dont think i would ever rule them out completely if other attributes reeled me in.

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By *hickthighs26 OP Woman
5 days ago

your hotlist

"One of my friends posted a picture of her friend group when she was at Uni and the same group now - interesting that women of a certain age all have the same colour hair

Sorry i will stop doing that. But i did enjoy the pokey bum wank one.

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By *ilverFoxLovesOralMan
5 days ago

Bath

"This is for ladies and gents.

I know we see threads all the time praising, redheads, blondes, brunettes.

But when it comes down to it are they just what you can appreciate/ have a little favouritism for or can it be a deal breaker? As in "blondes are not my type" never gonna happen.

Silver does not get enough praise 😃

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By *WB85Man
5 days ago

Staffordshire

Honestly, no real preference with ladies hair colour.

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By *avexxMan
5 days ago

cheshire

hair colour doesnt bother me.. as for me i miss my jet black hair im now a complete silver fox

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By *idnightMattMan
5 days ago

Llanelli

Im attracted to alternative hair colours but I wouldnt say that a particular hair colour is a deal breaker.

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By *aitonelMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

Honestly no. Hair colour alone is a none factor for me.

Though consciously or subconsciously I tend to be drawn to brunette/darker hair colours - but it's far from make or break.

However some people seem to suit some hair colours more than others. Okay granted not everyone dyes their hair.

But at times I've felt an attraction increase/decrease when somebody I know has changed their hair colour and it simply suits them as a person more.

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By *ibesAndVarietyCouple
5 days ago

Edinburgh

Not at all.

I (m) am attracted to quirky hair. Bright colours specifically or a quirky cut.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
5 days ago

London

No. I don't care about hair colour. It's not a turn on or off. I care about character and connection.

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By *eroLondonMan
5 days ago

Mayfair

Hair colour isn't important to me and I don't particularly favour one colour over another. It's...just hair.

Some hair styles - natural or coloured - can be quite striking, radiant or dramatic, but I've never determined the worth of a woman on the colour.

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By *homas400Man
5 days ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

I've not consciously been attracted to a particular colour but I do love dyed vivid red hair.

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By *eandRaCouple
5 days ago

Pontypridd

We both have said a preference in the past, but neither meet that preference now. So an ideal can be broken by the individual attraction.

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By *otsossieMan
5 days ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

Colour isn’t especially important but I do prefer them to look as though they care.

Even a bit.

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
5 days ago

NEC next month, Usually Dundee and around

It's what's in a person's head, not on it, that is most important!

A sexy mind is the most attractive quality. Blonde, red, dark, all nice, had fun with a lass who had lost all her hair through intensive kemo... She had a very sexy mind!

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By *a LunaWoman
5 days ago

Wales

"Colour isn’t especially important but I do prefer them to look as though they care.

Even a bit. "

In what way?

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

No.

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By *omeotherguyMan
5 days ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

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By *aitonelMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

"No. "

Oi! Stop stealing my gimmick. Be more of a Meli and say more words.

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By *omeotherguyMan
5 days ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

I'm not particularly fussed on natural hair colour, but I do get turned on by hair dyed in those bright coloured Blue or Pink that you might see in Cosplay.

Even grey hair on a younger woman is quite hot.

I think it is the contrast I like.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
5 days ago

Round the bend

"I'm not particularly fussed on natural hair colour, but I do get turned on by hair dyed in those bright coloured Blue or Pink that you might see in Cosplay.

Even grey hair on a younger woman is quite hot.

I think it is the contrast I like."

What about grey roots

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
5 days ago

Lancashire

A large percentage of men end up bald anyway 🤷‍♀️

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By *eyeYCouple
5 days ago

Nr Leicester

Not a deal breaker at all, bunched up in a fist whilst enjoying what the natural colour surrounds for us. 😉😈

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
5 days ago

East Sussex

My own hair colour is very important to me.

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By *aitonelMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

"A large percentage of men end up bald anyway 🤷‍♀️"

I'm fighting it as long as I can! In fairness I thought I'd have been bald a long time ago based on one side of the family.

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By *ilfhunter1980Man
5 days ago

Milton Keynes

No particular preference but i do have a soft spot for red heads 😍

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
5 days ago

Lancashire

"A large percentage of men end up bald anyway 🤷‍♀️

I'm fighting it as long as I can! In fairness I thought I'd have been bald a long time ago based on one side of the family. "

Keep fighting the good fight but make sure to you give up before comb over territory

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By *he MinionMan
5 days ago

Surrey

Doesnt bother me in the slightest what colour hair or style they have. But, i will say I tend to be attracted moreso to women with pink, post box red or bright "alternative" hair colours and short hair. Shaved, pixie cut or bobbed type styles.

But its not a set in stone rule, I just find that style appealing

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By *iaisonseekerMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

It's more about length than colour TBH.

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By *anielleCD94TV/TS
5 days ago

Cheshire

Certainly not a deal breaker for me. I have a preference, but that's all it is, a preference xx

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By *otsossieMan
5 days ago

Hard.shoulder of the M1

"In what way? "

Like they wash.

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By *avrick180Man
5 days ago

Pontypool

No colour doesn't matter i do like long hair tho

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By *kphooey43Man
5 days ago

Barnet

"One of my friends posted a picture of her friend group when she was at Uni and the same group now - interesting that women of a certain age all have the same colour hair

Sorry i will stop doing that. But i did enjoy the pokey bum wank one."

Why did you use a baby cucumber, it was obvious it would vanish up there, and then to try and poke it out with a courgette, just added to the humiliation - there was no way I was going to allow the cucumber to try and dibble further (what would have been next, a marrow?)

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By *essTTWoman
5 days ago

Birmingham

"This is for ladies and gents.

I know we see threads all the time praising, redheads, blondes, brunettes.

But when it comes down to it are they just what you can appreciate/ have a little favouritism for or can it be a deal breaker? As in "blondes are not my type" never gonna happen.

I do have a soft spot for dark hair

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By *ino200Man
5 days ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

No preference here ,some of the extremes of colours like reds ,yellows and greens can be garish on some and on others gorgeous not a deal breaker .

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By *inkie_bearMan
5 days ago

Faringdon

Yes, to an extent. I do like flaming red pubes on a guy - or I would if people these days didn't shave it all off!

Otherwise, tend to prefer blonde to black hair...

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
5 days ago

belfast

Yes. I have absolutely no interest in blondes or gingers.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
5 days ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Hair colour makes no difference to who we play with, we have played with all sorts of hair colours including a stunner with blue hair.

The only thing we haven’t done is someone with dreadlocks.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

I hope the men don't think hair colour is important because mines PINK!

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By *ognorworthibg23Man
5 days ago

littlehampton

Pink is my fav colour 😉

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

"Pink is my fav colour 😉"

Then I'm perfect 👌🏼

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

Wrong emoji!!!!

Edit....

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By *inkShyWoman
5 days ago

near Windsor

My ex despised 'stupid' hair colours. Dyed my hair pink while the relationship was on it's last legs much to his annoyance, and my joy

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

"My ex despised 'stupid' hair colours. Dyed my hair pink while the relationship was on it's last legs much to his annoyance, and my joy

Good girl! *hi5*

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By *ognorworthibg23Man
5 days ago

littlehampton

"Pink is my fav colour 😉

Then I'm perfect 👌🏼

Not just your hair colour that's perfect🤭

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By *ognorworthibg23Man
5 days ago

littlehampton

"My ex despised 'stupid' hair colours. Dyed my hair pink while the relationship was on it's last legs much to his annoyance, and my joy

Keep the pink😁

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

"Pink is my fav colour 😉

Then I'm perfect 👌🏼

Not just your hair colour that's perfect🤭"

😘

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By *inkShyWoman
5 days ago

near Windsor

"My ex despised 'stupid' hair colours. Dyed my hair pink while the relationship was on it's last legs much to his annoyance, and my joy

Good girl! *hi5*"

😘 *Hi5 back*

It's no longer pink but I do miss it!

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By *a LunaWoman
5 days ago

Wales

"In what way?

Like they wash. "

Ah, thought it was a subliminal diss to grey hair! I’ll let you off

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

"My ex despised 'stupid' hair colours. Dyed my hair pink while the relationship was on it's last legs much to his annoyance, and my joy

Good girl! *hi5*

😘 *Hi5 back*

It's no longer pink but I do miss it!"

Then put it back to pink!

I love my pink hair. Was only meant to be temporary and that was 2007!!!

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Apparently so

I got talking to a guy off here who had the most sublime body, gorgeous face but full on white blonde hair. I just couldn't.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

"Apparently so

I got talking to a guy off here who had the most sublime body, gorgeous face but full on white blonde hair. I just couldn't. "

Make him wear a ski mask 😈

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"Apparently so

I got talking to a guy off here who had the most sublime body, gorgeous face but full on white blonde hair. I just couldn't.

Make him wear a ski mask 😈 "

T'was back when I was all innocent and naive and I wasn't into masks. I was such a bore!

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 days ago

Reading

I wouldn't say it's important but I do lean towards darker hair for both men and women.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
5 days ago

Chester

"Apparently so

I got talking to a guy off here who had the most sublime body, gorgeous face but full on white blonde hair. I just couldn't.

Make him wear a ski mask 😈

T'was back when I was all innocent and naive and I wasn't into masks. I was such a bore! "

Just make a note for next time 😉

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By *etwife8230Couple
5 days ago

Newport

I would say more darker ,I have a weird thing for blue eyes though so not normally attracted to blondes but never say never

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By *ineapplePixieCouple
5 days ago

South Wales

No preference for me ✨️

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Nope no preference

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By *r.AverageMan
5 days ago

Hampshire

It's not a deal breaker, but I've always been more drawn to brunettes and red heads. Dunno why and it Is what it is.

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By *ot_Rod43Man
5 days ago

newcastle upon tyne

Hair colour doesn’t bother me. I do like big hair long though

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By *rHotNottsMan
5 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It's not a deal breaker, but I've always been more drawn to brunettes and red heads. Dunno why and it Is what it is."

Same & blondes generally are not my type nor me there's. A couple of exceptions only

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By *wcoMan
5 days ago

West Midlands

Hair style yes, colour no.

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By *ayhay 300Couple
5 days ago

Stockport

Not a deal breaker but we are both naturally more attractive to blonde or redhead females x

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By *actile TensionMan
5 days ago

Sussex

Black hair with milky white skin. But it isn't a deal breaker

Not sure where it came from. Maybe the Addams family

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By *issmorganWoman
4 days ago

Calderdale innit

Not a deal breaker no, but as a redhead, it's rare I've fancied any male redheads tbh.

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By *offiacoolWoman
4 days ago

Alsager

Hair on head and not on face was a deal breaker to me when I was meeting. Length or colour of head hair was irrelevant, as long as there was a full head of hair.

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By *neformany95Man
4 days ago

Loughborough

No not at all

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By *ivilised matureMan
4 days ago

East Sheen/ Barnes

Depends where it grows from

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