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By *tanners OP Man
6 weeks ago

stanley

Snogging and finger blasting in the car. What do you miss from your early sexual adventure life?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

The confidence and couldn't give a fuck attitude!

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
6 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Lay-by Literature 😂

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not a darn thing

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
6 weeks ago

London

Nothing.

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By *WB85Man
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

My sex life has only gotten better as I've aged.

I miss nothing.

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By *hilly1515Man
6 weeks ago

the ability to eat everything and anything ... and not put a shred of wobble bobble on ...

oh and go out drinking till 3.. get up at 6 then go out and do a ten miler with 45lb on my back...

to sober up..

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

Miss guys who didn't try ripping my insides out when fingering me .

Hate finger blasting.

Mrs

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By *hat.coupleCouple
6 weeks ago

Kent

I wish I'd experimented with women from a younger age. Came out 5 years ago and really wished I'd come out younger x

Mrs x

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By *hilly1515Man
6 weeks ago

" the ability to eat everything and anything ... and not put a shred of wobble bobble on ...

oh and go out drinking till 3.. get up at 6 then go out and do a ten miler with 45lb on my back...

to sober up.."

yes I was a late starter .. sexually

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By *Effy-Woman
6 weeks ago

Scotland

The Spontaneity.

It's not as fun when you have to schedule it in for a specific day and time.

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By *eliWoman
6 weeks ago

Another one for the spontaneity. I had a dear friend who'd pick me up after lectures/work and we'd fuck any and everywhere. A quick text and yep.

Now there's planning. I do sometimes plan to be spontaneous. Kind of counts.

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By *onin25Man
6 weeks ago

Durham

Meeting women in pubs and night clubs

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By *he MinionMan
6 weeks ago

Surrey

Having disposable income.

When everything didnt cost £100.

Fill the car with fuel £100

Dinner for two (at least) £100

Hotel for the night £100

Cinema for two £100

Pair of jeans, Greggs steak bake and coffee £100. (Specific i know 🤷‍♂️)

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By *et and WillingCouple
6 weeks ago

Nuneaton

Energy lol x

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By *morousCouple8Couple
6 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Having disposable income.

When everything didnt cost £100.

Fill the car with fuel £100

Dinner for two (at least) £100

Hotel for the night £100

Cinema for two £100

Pair of jeans, Greggs steak bake and coffee £100. (Specific i know 🤷‍♂️)

Things used to just be £50!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"Energy lol x"

Just what I was going to say, I can only last for about 4 hours now 🙄

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By *cLovin2Man
6 weeks ago

London

I don't miss them days at all. At university I got roped into religious groups, total waste of my time and they kept me away from all the hot girls 🤦🏽‍♂️

Thank god I got out, and now I can fuck like a rabbit whom ever I like.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
6 weeks ago

Reading

I still snog and get finger blasted sometimes in a car.

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By *idlandiaMan
6 weeks ago

Birmingham

I think the good old days must have been before my time....

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By *verageHoesCouple
6 weeks ago

Bessacarr

Nothing. Anything still worth doing from back then I'm still doing. Plus a whole lot more.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
6 weeks ago

Bristol

Not having phones

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Having disposable income.

When everything didnt cost £100.

Fill the car with fuel £100

Dinner for two (at least) £100

Hotel for the night £100

Cinema for two £100

Pair of jeans, Greggs steak bake and coffee £100. (Specific i know 🤷‍♂️)

Where are you finding hotels for £100 a night ?

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By *kphooey43Man
6 weeks ago

Barnet

"I don't miss them days at all. At university I got roped into religious groups, total waste of my time and they kept me away from all the hot girls 🤦🏽‍♂️

Thank god I got out, and now I can fuck like a rabbit whom ever I like."

Hmm, similar experience, just mine was ten years earlier!

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By *vaRoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

The only thing I miss is having a younger slimmer body and firmer tits. My actual sex life and libido has only improved since then

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By *kphooey43Man
6 weeks ago

Barnet

Where are you finding hotels for £100 a night ?

Premier Inn, Travelodge, ibis budget, easyHotel, Point A Hotels, the Z Hotel (Piccadilly/Holborn/Strand), Moxy London Stratford, and The Corner London City

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By *ew2buryMan
6 weeks ago

Forums.

I miss the (rare) thrill of a nightclub pull

And cheeky al fresco foreplay.

I shoulda experimented more with the guys.

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By *urpleburgularalarmMan
6 weeks ago

nowhere, next to neverbeenthere

Miss the nights out trying to pull, i dont miss the acne i had in my late teens tho🤦

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By *ara25xWoman
6 weeks ago

Angus

I miss trying to sneak guys in and out my mums house or trying to stay quiet lol

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By *007ManMan
6 weeks ago

Worthing

Not worrying about a spiritual connection.

That is most important thing now.

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Mayfair

Yep, echoing Éffy and Mélì's remark concerning "spontaneity". I was thinking about this the other day when, during my younger halcyon days, sex just happened. The randomness of life was better in days of yore.

Now it's more constrained — everything is planned, coordinated and prescriptive. Adulting and parenting take precedence.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
6 weeks ago

Manchester

Nothing at all either

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By *ykiesxMan
6 weeks ago

Eastbourne

Why do i feel like a youngin just reading this?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire

I miss nothing sexually.

Myself over 5 years back would not recognise me sexually now and the things I’ve got up to. He wouldn’t believe it either.

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By *allipygousMan
6 weeks ago

Leicester

"Miss guys who didn't try ripping my insides out when fingering me .

Hate finger blasting.

Mrs"

Blame men who watch porn and try to make women piss, sorry, I mean squirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Being naive enough to believe “if you run your cum in your dick will grow”

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

Surprises. The good kind, that come from exploring new things. Not the bad kind, that come from being careless or unlucky.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
6 weeks ago

Cumbria

Handjobs in the cinema

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Handjobs in the cinema "

Handjobs on the train.

Handjobs at the back of the playing fields.

Handjobs in the art school darkrooms.

Actually, just handjobs generally.

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By *hilly1515Man
6 weeks ago

having the sheer balls to go out , clubbing in a toga

( hotel bedshhet) totally commando underneath ..like it was a normal thing .. although that was in Daytona during spring break.

although I once went out as a suitcase ... or should I say wearing a suitcase the practicalties of that choice had some major floors.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Going in cold when ypu spotted the person you liked

Having to do all the chatting up/dancing etc....the proper hard graft to get what you wanted

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By *actile TensionMan
6 weeks ago

Sussex

Being permanently poised.

I seem to have to take a run up at things these days with a good nights rest, hot meal and plenty of fluids

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By *aseylee324Couple
6 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

When we actually had a summer, and a supersplit ice cream and can of Lilt in the sun was a refreshing break from the toil of child labour 🤣

We were much easier pleased.

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By *elix SightedMan
6 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Being able to exercise without injuring myself. Actually, being able to yawn without hurting three different muscle groups.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
6 weeks ago

Cumbria

"Handjobs in the cinema

Handjobs on the train.

Handjobs at the back of the playing fields.

Handjobs in the art school darkrooms.

Actually, just handjobs generally."

CCTV Ruined everything

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By *r_Mrs.DSCouple
6 weeks ago

Voldsøy

Another vote for spontaneity. That's it really.

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By *wcoMan
6 weeks ago

West Midlands

A generous amount of pre-cum.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

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By *arzanandJane2016Couple
6 weeks ago

the big city

When people actually had a conversation without looking at their phone swiping, liking or watching videos.

And manners doors being held open, please and thank yous

Lunch breaks at work consist of grunts in between short giggles an the word “look at this “ and it will be someone trying to become instafamous

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By *hickthighs26Woman
6 weeks ago

funky town

When a freddo was 10p 🥲

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By *igladAndLulahCouple
6 weeks ago

South East

I don’t miss a single thing! My sex life is more exciting and satisfying than it’s ever been! So grateful to have a partner than allows me to explore every part of myself and opens up new experiences. We literally get better and better constantly. I’m a very lucky little slut

Lu x

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By *iaisonseekerMan
6 weeks ago

Liverpool

This feels like a cue to wail about my waning libido but a lot of the things we lose are replaced by other things that can bring pleasure if you let them. On the one hand I miss the feeling of possibility that you have when you're young and primed for novelty. On the other, a nice comfortable rut has a lot going for it.

Sexually, I might feel a pang of nostalgia for the electricity of attraction with a woman when you're in your 20s. In reality, young people are hard work, always wanting to have fun, and generally unappreciative of a nice sit down and a cup of tea.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
6 weeks ago

London

Kissing in the rain.

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By *rHotNottsMan
6 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Bush & women that smoked. Vapes and sandpaper is no fun.

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By *igerFiestaMan
6 weeks ago

Huddersfield

The first kiss, feel, taste. When she wears your top, and you can scent her beautiful perfume the next time you wear it. A time when the world was not in a rush and it seemed so much larger, mysterious and adventurous. Writing letters to penpals across the sea, Kodak disposable cameras on holiday and waiting days for them to be developed, no phones or necessity to constantly know and search for everything instantly for things we likely didn't want or care to know, but now have the addictive impulse to know. We were more carefree as we were not exposed to 24/7 world social and main stream media and all the distractive and divisive matters it creates. Times have changed. I can't imagine people in the 2050's will look back at 2026 as the good old days unless the future is really messed up for them. Let us hope their future is bright. Remember when GTA6 came out? Those were the good old days.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
6 weeks ago

Marlborough

I miss the "pulling" a guy on a night out then the naughtiness that ensued....there was that thrill of seeing someone you fancied, making eye contact which hopefully led to flirty conversation & a bloody good snog...and more the hornier you both got.

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By *atinaChica54Woman
6 weeks ago

Marlborough

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By *morousCouple8Couple
6 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I miss the "pulling" a guy on a night out then the naughtiness that ensued....there was that thrill of seeing someone you fancied, making eye contact which hopefully led to flirty conversation & a bloody good snog...and more the hornier you both got."

I’ve never pulled….

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By *ino200Man
6 weeks ago

Bournemouth,london and Sienna

You can't dwell on the past ,you can only do what you can now .

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By *estructionDollyWoman
6 weeks ago

Manchester

Nothing, my sex life is way better in my 30s than my younger years!

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By *cLovin2Man
6 weeks ago

London

"Handjobs in the cinema "

Damn! I missed that movie 😂

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By *cLovin2Man
6 weeks ago

London

"Handjobs in the cinema

Handjobs on the train.

Handjobs at the back of the playing fields.

Handjobs in the art school darkrooms.

Actually, just handjobs generally.

CCTV Ruined everything "

Not for the security guards, bet they got an eye full 😂

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By *eximus MaximusMan
6 weeks ago

Up North

Soggy biscuit

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