FabSwingers.com forum: Wanting sex outside the marriage

By *ero312 OP Man
6 weeks ago

laindon

Does anyone else struggle with wanting sex outside of their marriage. I love the other half and would NEVER cheat but I’d be lying if I said the idea of sex with a random doesn’t excite me. Im just craving something different and wanted to know if anyone feels the same?

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By *WB85Man
6 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Having the thoughts and acting on it are very different things.

But, does she know you're a member on here?

I couldn't be a member if I wasn't allowed to meet.....like being in a sweet shop and told you can't eat any.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Loads of people feel the same as you op. I don't I'm half a couple but there are countless men and women who do.

All I will say is that sometimes putting the energy expended on here into your sex life at home can sometimes bring benefits

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Problem is you go out and do this in secret, you will rot your relationship and she won't even know the reason why. Sex away from your relationship is fun, we have both done it. But we both are in on it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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6 weeks ago

East Sussex

Op it's worth asking yourself how your wife would feel if she read this or how you would feel if you saw she had written it on a swingers website.

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By *007ManMan
6 weeks ago

Worthing

Abstain for a week or so. You might feel different.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
6 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.

"Does anyone else struggle with wanting sex outside of their marriage. I love the other half and would NEVER cheat but I’d be lying if I said the idea of sex with a random doesn’t excite me. Im just craving something different and wanted to know if anyone feels the same? "

NEVER, yet you're on here

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By *wcoMan
6 weeks ago

West Midlands

Just go and have a cheeky massage, it's less like cheating.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
6 weeks ago

Niche

Struggling to believe the 'NEVER' part

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By *rHarding RMan
6 weeks ago

East Midlands

"Just go and have a cheeky massage, it's less like cheating. "

Good shout thai or chinese...

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By *wcoMan
6 weeks ago

West Midlands

Thai, they're generally more giggly.

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By *ero312 OP Man
6 weeks ago

laindon

"Struggling to believe the 'NEVER' part"
why?

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
6 weeks ago

Niche

Because you have taken time and effort to prepare a profile that invites contact and interaction and also states your preferences and age range and says "Just ask!".

If you weren't here to find a sexual contact you'd have that written there too. If you were 100% loyal it'd be really important to you that people not make the mistake of thinking you're open to more and maybe be misled.

You'd not care to sell your likes and leave the default settings. You'd maybe stay low-key and just do the 'free-porn'

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