FabSwingers.com forum: Do you?

By *unkissedYorkie OP Man
8 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

Do you get what you want from this lifestyle?

Do you struggle at all to get what you want?

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By *andsCouple
8 weeks ago

Edin

100% struggle

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By *rightonsteveMan
8 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

Yes, no, not really. There’s always something.

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

It's not a lifestyle.

It's a hobby.

Yes I get everything I need for my hobby.

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By *KTim61Man
8 weeks ago

Tipton

"100% struggle "

DITTO

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
8 weeks ago

London

Definitely struggle. Still better than dating though. At least there's some conversations on here. And I'm not wasting my time, energy and money on someone who isn't interested in me.

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By *partharmonyCouple
8 weeks ago

Tonbridge

We've had everything we want from this lifestyle. We'd just like to be able to do it a bit more often. Unfortunately the people we have had the best experiences with are not available often.

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By *abulincsCouple
8 weeks ago

near a bridge

It’s definitely a struggle most the time mostly pointless even posting a meet especially for a guy to even read or understand lol I’m!!

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By *unkissedYorkie OP Man
8 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

"It’s definitely a struggle most the time mostly pointless even posting a meet especially for a guy to even read or understand lol I’m!!"

You never know. There might be a unicorn in the mix somewhere

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By *rMuscle13Man
8 weeks ago

Leicester

Its hard finding genuine people I feel

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By *homas400Man
8 weeks ago

Carmarthen / Llandeilo

"It’s definitely a struggle most the time mostly pointless even posting a meet especially for a guy to even read or understand lol I’m!!"

I'm really surprised at that . It might depend where yiu live.

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By *abulincsCouple
8 weeks ago

near a bridge

"It’s definitely a struggle most the time mostly pointless even posting a meet especially for a guy to even read or understand lol I’m!!

I'm really surprised at that . It might depend where yiu live."

No full of dreamers time wasting fools we posted meets every other week since November only verification we had since are social lol as guys don’t seem to understand straight lol

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By *unkissedYorkie OP Man
8 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

"It’s definitely a struggle most the time mostly pointless even posting a meet especially for a guy to even read or understand lol I’m!!

I'm really surprised at that . It might depend where yiu live.

No full of dreamers time wasting fools we posted meets every other week since November only verification we had since are social lol as guys don’t seem to understand straight lol "

Haha tell me about it. I think everyone has their fair share of fantasists to go around

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
8 weeks ago

Merseyside

We struggle to find single guys who are what we want; hubby doesn’t get much interests for hot husband tbh despite being popular af socials

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By *unkissedYorkie OP Man
7 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

Seems like it's everyone that has issues on this site

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By *luebell888Woman
7 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I get what I want when I find the time to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I enjoy it, but no constituency to really feel it's a lifestyle.

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By *hinstrapMan
7 weeks ago

sheffield

The struggle is real.

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By *sWyldWoman
7 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Not a lifestyle for me. If honest Fab is a bit of a habit. I'm not really a swinger.

That said, I have and continue to meet lovely people and sometimes I even have sex with them. This makes me more successful on Fab than many others claim to be.

So in short, yes, it does work for me when I want it to...

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

"Not a lifestyle for me. If honest Fab is a bit of a habit. I'm not really a swinger.

That said, I have and continue to meet lovely people and sometimes I even have sex with them. This makes me more successful on Fab than many others claim to be.

So in short, yes, it does work for me when I want it to..."

This is me, though I haven't met anyone from Fab in years, having been away. Some delightful people, a great community, but I'm kind of old-fashioned and romantic, really.

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By *hefirewithinMan
7 weeks ago

Could be next door

At the moment I’d say yes as I’m interacting, chatting and getting to know others on here within the community, so I guess hopefully building the foundations for things to develop naturally.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
7 weeks ago

cahoots

We get pretty much everything we want although having more available time would be better

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By *eyond PurityCouple
7 weeks ago

North East Lincolnshire

We have enjoyed loads of aspects of this site and lifestyle. We’ve tried and tested, clubs, socials in different areas and we’ve met some fantastic people - some we call friends now.

However every time we think we have our little stable sorted one leaves FAB, so sometimes it’s a faff trying to find local people who fit into our dynamics and us theirs.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
7 weeks ago

Cumbria

A hobby for us. It keeps me entertained and we tend to make friends on here and have fun at clubs. Fab has also found us long term fwb who we can rely on. We’ve had some disappointing experiences but overall it’s been positive. So, yes!

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By *iver78Man
7 weeks ago

barton upon humber

I don't class it as a lifestyle as a single man , it's a hobby and yes I do , however I'm finding more and more disheartening with the amount of rude people around !! I blame covid lol

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
7 weeks ago

Hampshire

It's not a lifestyle for me.

100% struggle to find what I'm looking for. Starting to think it's not out there and I'm becoming one of those fantasists that everyone whinges about on here.

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By *iver78Man
7 weeks ago

barton upon humber

"It's not a lifestyle for me.

100% struggle to find what I'm looking for. Starting to think it's not out there and I'm becoming one of those fantasists that everyone whinges about on here."

It depends on what your looking or ? I find everything I want on here , made some great friends and even manage the odd meet haha

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Its far more difficult that either of us anticipated.

So much so that we changed our dynamics for more solo play.

Couples when it works, is amazing. But there's a real emphasis on the word "when".

Mr.

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By *lderflowerAppleWoman
7 weeks ago

Hampshire

"It's not a lifestyle for me.

100% struggle to find what I'm looking for. Starting to think it's not out there and I'm becoming one of those fantasists that everyone whinges about on here.

It depends on what your looking or ? I find everything I want on here , made some great friends and even manage the odd meet haha "

I've been here 10 years, and over the years it's served me well, but I think my preferences and what I want out of the site has definitely changed in the past couple of years.

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By *earditallWoman
7 weeks ago

Lancaster

I get what I want from it most the time.

I think it's easier if you use the clubs though,the majority of my meets come via people I meet in clubs.

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By *riel13Woman
7 weeks ago

Northampton

Now I am not looking for just sex it's a bloody massive struggle... Luckily I'm not too bothered

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By *eliWoman
7 weeks ago

It's not a lifestyle for me - I don't do clubs, sex parties, couple swapping, moresomes, orgies etc. All things *I* associate with swinging. Swingers.

Fab is great for me that being said - I've met my fiancé and a longterm partner. Made lots of friends, some who I don't see as Fab friends - more real friends. I'm happy with what I'm getting from it currently.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
7 weeks ago

Round the bend

Id say it was a hobby for us too. We do get we want mostly, but sometimes it can be hard to find the right balance.

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