FabSwingers.com forum: Do you know what you want?

By (user no longer on site) OP
8 weeks ago

Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.

Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?

Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?

Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?

Im having a pondering day today

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

I think there should be male brothels where all the men have been vetted and have safety and good shagger clearance that i could use every day.

Thank you - and I can do it with me Google wallet

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By *evilinyouMan
8 weeks ago

Bristol

Nothings set in stone as far as I'm concerned. What I want changes from one day to the next so I would expect the same from a sexual partnership.

Why the musings?

What's on your mind?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
8 weeks ago

"I think there should be male brothels where all the men have been vetted and have safety and good shagger clearance that i could use every day.

Thank you - and I can do it with me Google wallet"

🤣 yes!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

When I started, absolutely i had a specific preference.

Now, 4 years later my horizons have broadened a little.

But theres still the group of things that are important including,

The types of pics that someone posts.

Age.

Interests (sexual)

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By *aitonelMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

To a point. I like what I like, I know what I like, but there have been people that have added, or taken from what I like.

I've been attracted to things I had never considered before (in people and sexual interests).

I'm not a "I will give any opportunity a go" person, but to completely shut myself off from things that are currently not on my radar seems a bit of a waste too.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
8 weeks ago

Chester

In regards to TheHusband I have everything I could ever want, he's amazing and also giving me this opportunity to have a playmate

As for TheBF, he does a decent job 😉 is there room for more... Yes! Could we do other things... Also yes! But at the moment we're all happy doing what we're doing... Well, I am

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By *herrybakewellCouple
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

"In regards to TheHusband I have everything I could ever want, he's amazing and also giving me this opportunity to have a playmate

As for TheBF, he does a decent job 😉 is there room for more... Yes! Could we do other things... Also yes! But at the moment we're all happy doing what we're doing... Well, I am

We've read your posts about your dynamics a few times.....it sounds amazing!!!!

Mr.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
8 weeks ago

Lancashire

I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.

Am I getting what I want? Yeah.

Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣

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By (user no longer on site) OP
8 weeks ago

"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.

Am I getting what I want? Yeah.

Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣"

Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔

Give her more. Now 🤣

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
8 weeks ago

Lancashire

"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.

Am I getting what I want? Yeah.

Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣

Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔

Give her more. Now 🤣"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *icecouple561Couple
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8 weeks ago

East Sussex

I have non-negotiables the list does not grow smaller

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

I feel that I was too easy going when I was first on fab and too naive. Learnt from my mistake.

I know what I want and if someone isn't it, I will not waste anyone's time.

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By *aitonelMan
8 weeks ago

Liverpool

"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.

Am I getting what I want? Yeah.

Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣

Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔

Give her more. Now 🤣"

I've debated it, but she is from that lancs place. They are a bit of an unsavoury sort up that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
8 weeks ago

"I’ve got a clear sense of what I want. I’m a fussy bugger, I know my likes, my dislikes, but I’m also open to everything (not everyone) in between.

Am I getting what I want? Yeah.

Am I getting enough of it? Not even close 🤣

Shame! Shame! Shame!🔔

Give her more. Now 🤣

I've debated it, but she is from that lancs place. They are a bit of an unsavoury sort up that way. "

There ya go. Sorted 😁

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Another thing i'd like is a message response that frazzles the flesh of those who message me from the back of a forum post....

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair

I don't have a crib sheet that exists within the confines of my head that either highlights or lists what I'm looking for.

There will always be one or two boundaries for the 'unmentionable stuff' that would apply to most free thinkers on here.

Qualities: I never truly know until I start chatting to someone first and get to know them at length. I can't put my finger on it or describe it: some women exhibit fine qualities that I hadn't even considered or thought about. They throw my crib sheet out of the window!

Now I remember why I don't have a crib sheet.

It's good to muse.

I think I'm looking for a Muse.

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By *an ClioCouple
8 weeks ago

Boston

It's like ice cream. Having the same flavour every time would get very stale. You can pick a different one every now and then to try it out. If you were enjoying three scoops you are not going to want them all to be vanilla. When you add the sprinkles, do they work for every flavour? How many chocolate flakes do you prod in there? Some times you just want to close your eyes and someone surprise you. A nice surprise. Variety is the spice of life.

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By *ick MastersMan
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

I really don’t know what I what because I’m terrible.

All I know if I don’t have it and don’t see that changing

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
8 weeks ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Someone with a cute dog I can visit for cuddles 🤣😜

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By *odgerMooreMan
8 weeks ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"I think there should be male brothels where all the men have been vetted and have safety and good shagger clearance that i could use every day.

Thank you - and I can do it with me Google wallet"

Id do you for free in your google wallet… ps -never heard it called that before!!

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

I have boundaries of course.

But I am on something of a journey recently. Discovering things I thought I didn’t like because of who I thought I was.

Sometimes trying something again with someone new is amazing. Sometimes it helps to pop it into the boundary pile.

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By *rHotNottsMan
8 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think it's easier to know what you don't want. I stay open to new things and happy to shift boundaries. I'm getting what I want and need, but the reason we are all here is because we're a little bit greedy

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By *onin25Man
8 weeks ago

Durham

I've got a general view of what I want but an open mind about trying things. I've got a much clearer view of what I don't want.

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By *arc PolarisMan
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

My ideal is in my bio if anyone can be bothered to read all of it.

Would I compromise? Depends on what is on the table but I’m not easily swayed

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
8 weeks ago

Reading

I think what I want is informed by my ongoing experience here! I think I have a rough idea but I'm open to being inspired to fill in the blanks!

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

Round the bend

Yeah we do, but like most we are pretty open minded to a certain extent.

We know what we don't want. That's more important to us.

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By *ew2buryMan
8 weeks ago

Forums.

I've found some of my hell nos and also some new hell yeahs.

I'd be daft to say that's it, I'm done.

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By *unkissedYorkieMan
8 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

Overall I have a general idea. But I guess there is room to have new experiences and surprises along the way. Never know what you may like after all

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By *estructionDollyWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester

I have an ideal of a relationship/partner that I would love, but I know the likelihood of finding that is slim. So I make consessions in reality.

But I do know what I definitely don't want. If any of that makes sense

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By *ate2theparty808Man
8 weeks ago

Erdington

"I think there should be male brothels where all the men have been vetted and have safety and good shagger clearance that i could use every day.

Thank you - and I can do it with me Google wallet"

I’ve always fantasised about being an international male fiesta (can’t say that word)

And being educated in art, philosophy and culture, able to speak 9 languages, and able to hand out orgasms in bed like toffee’s.

Unfortunately I can’t speak any other languages

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By *ve_GardenWoman
8 weeks ago

York

I know exactly what I want. I don’t need nor want to try new things, but then I’m open to suggestions to a degree.

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By *ate2theparty808Man
8 weeks ago

Erdington

"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.

Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?

Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?

Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?

Im having a pondering day today

I know exactly what I want, and I’m not prepared to compromise on that, my list is short but non negotiable.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Yes, I know precisely what I want, but I already have 90+% of it. I am an astonishingly and undeservedly lucky old man

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By *rightonsteveMan
8 weeks ago

Hove, mainly…

A few things I need, more things I want, some things I get.

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By *essTTWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

My preferences in men are set in stone.

I don't date men and have no interest in them outside of the bedroom.

However with women I am alot more flexible

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By *rMuscle13Man
8 weeks ago

Leicester

Im trying to figure that one out myself lol

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By *andsCouple
8 weeks ago

Edin

Yea and I never deviate

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
8 weeks ago

London

Not yet. I'm still exploring my interests and I'm open to new experiences. I know what I don't want more than what I do want.

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By *elix SightedMan
8 weeks ago

Cloud 8

"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.

Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?

Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?

Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?

Im having a pondering day today

No issues here, I’ll do anything to anyone.

Preference for no yapping and a nice roomy minge.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
8 weeks ago

London

"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.

Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?

Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?

Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?

Im having a pondering day today

No issues here, I’ll do anything to anyone.

Preference for no yapping and a nice roomy minge."

Have you looked on Airbnb or Booking.com?

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By *amesB66Man
8 weeks ago

Channel islands

My don't like list is probably longer, but I'm a sucker for wit, dimples and a beautiful smile

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By *unkissedYorkieMan
8 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.

Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?

Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?

Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?

Im having a pondering day today

No issues here, I’ll do anything to anyone.

Preference for no yapping and a nice roomy minge."

Roomy? First I've heard of anyone wanting that haha.

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By *partharmonyCouple
8 weeks ago

Tonbridge

"Do you think you know exactly what you are looking for in a sexual partner? Or is there room to shift a little.

Do you have a list of qualities that must be met and are non-negotiable?

Or are you open to slightly moving some boundaries?

Do you think you are getting what you want/need sexually or are you still trying to find it?

Im having a pondering day today

Big tits and a dirty mind pretty much covers it for me. Luke

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By *eliWoman
7 weeks ago

Making it a pondering morning as well because I like thinky threads. And TT ones. ❤️

No; not actually looking for anything means there aren't specifics.

There are a couple of qualities/traits that are non-negotiable - I'm not attracted to people without a certain level of friendship. I might think they're attractive, enjoy talking to them - my quim stays sleeping.

Boundaries - a couple of hard ones. Had people try to push those, they're happily out of my life/vagina. Some are more situational so perhaps they're not boundaries as such.

I'm getting what I want and need for the most part which is part of why I'm fairly laidback, bordering on losing interest too quickly.

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