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By *aintsnsinners OP   Couple
8 weeks ago

Tamworth

Of my wife finding a respectful, genuine boyfriend that’s fit/medium build, 40-60 yrs old, local, tall ish, has time free to socialise and date, shares her love of outdoors and travel ?

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By *vaRoseWoman
8 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Have her do the active searching herself. Don’t rely on the right man to fall into your inbox - it’ll be a long wait

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By *naswingdressWoman
8 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

These people certainly exist. It might be a hard slog to find it, and require a number of approaches (and a lot of patience).

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By *tormQueenWoman
8 weeks ago

All over the place

Its possible, but its unlikely to be quick or straightforwards

She may need to metaphorically kiss alot of frogs first

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By *CExeCouple
8 weeks ago

Hong-Kong/Exeter

Pretty good. I was that bf for a couple for a while and it worked well until they moved overseas. Plenty of decent chaps on here once you get past the pump and dump crowd.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
8 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

Let her do the vetting.

There is a great chance that she will get hundreds of men who are willing. The trick will be finding one that has the values and qualities 'she' is looking for.

Even then there is no telling how long he will stick around.

I wish 'her' luck. 'She' has a decision to make and then act on that decision. It's all anyone can do.

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
8 weeks ago

London

It's possible. You have to be active in searching though. Don't expect that guy to reach out to you. Attend socials too if you can.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
8 weeks ago

Chester

It can happen but it's hard work finding the right person

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By *rispy KremeMan
8 weeks ago

wolves

Sadly I'm at the age no one is interested in haha too old for younger folks and too young for older falks

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By *eliWoman
8 weeks ago

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Your wife finding it? It can happen. Like other posters above have said, if she does the active searching, is proactive the likelihood increases. I've met men who fit that description. They've asked if they could be my boyfriend. :D

The only new advice I'd give - it's a lot easier if the person is polyamorous. I've dated men who are ethically non-monogamous but very much romantically monogamous. It can be a headfuck.

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By *WB85Man
8 weeks ago

Staffordshire

You'll get hundreds of offers, but finding the right person can be difficult.

Good luck with your search.

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By *aintsnsinners OP   Couple
8 weeks ago

Tamworth


"Have her do the active searching herself. Don’t rely on the right man to fall into your inbox - it’ll be a long wait "

Thanks for your reply, she has been searching for a long time on her solo profile and solo date sites but it is harder than she had imagined so I thought I’d ask the fab population and see if they have found a way x

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By *aintsnsinners OP   Couple
8 weeks ago

Tamworth


"Its possible, but its unlikely to be quick or straightforwards

She may need to metaphorically kiss alot of frogs first"

Yes she’s met a pond full 🐸 😂

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By *hefirewithinMan
8 weeks ago

Could be next door

The search will be worthwhile when the right one steps forward … good luck

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By *aintsnsinners OP   Couple
8 weeks ago

Tamworth


"Your wife finding it? It can happen. Like other posters above have said, if she does the active searching, is proactive the likelihood increases. I've met men who fit that description. They've asked if they could be my boyfriend. :D

The only new advice I'd give - it's a lot easier if the person is polyamorous. I've dated men who are ethically non-monogamous but very much romantically monogamous. It can be a headfuck."

She has met a couple that became good friends and regular lovers but everyone seems to be working all hours and family commitments to enjoy life

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