FabSwingers.com forum: Opposites: have you met them?

Erdington

Yesterday I met what could only be described as “the female me”

A woman in her 50s who loves music and plays Bass Guitar so much in common that if I had not seen the wedding ring I would have asked her to go out for a drink (is that me telling me to go fuck myself? What would a shrink say? I digress)

Have you ever met someone who is the opposite gender version of you?

Are you a man who met female you?

A woman who met the male you?

A trans woman who met a trans man you?

You get the picture

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By *evilinyouMan
20 hours ago

Bristol

No, but I hate myself most of the time so that's probably a good thing.

You still should have asked her for a drink

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By *peedyGMan
20 hours ago

Telford

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By *peedyGMan
20 hours ago

Telford

Yes i had an ex like that, caused us to argue though as it was all our bad points that were similar 😂

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By *hilly1515Man
17 hours ago

no way am i looking for that we would both get sectioned ...

pretty dam quick.

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By *offiacoolWoman
16 hours ago

Alsager

" no way am i looking for that we would both get sectioned ...

pretty dam quick."

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By *hams123Man
15 hours ago

London

I met a female version of me. I thought she was trolling me.

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By *orphia2003Woman
15 hours ago

Tonypandy.

Yep. It was a nightmare experience when we both hit a downward spiral.

Lovely guy, but we are only good in short doses.

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By *ate2theparty808 OP Man
7 hours ago

Erdington

Funny how most of you dated your opposite, does that mean you look for qualities that are in yourself?

And was it those qualities that ultimately led to the end of the relationship?

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By *ear_TinkerbellCouple
7 hours ago

The lost village

The closest thing to the male version of me is very much walking around, x2. Im related to both of them 😂

Tink

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By *lephantisMan
6 hours ago

Oxford

A female me would be just too much of a quadruple threat.

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By *onko the SaneMan
6 hours ago

3rd rock from the sun

Don't think so

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
6 hours ago

Lancashire

I think there’s a very fine line. Having things in common is great but being too similar is a recipe for disaster in my opinion. I have friends who are basically male versions of me. Great in small doses but they could never be anything more than friends.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
6 hours ago

Cumbria

I am inimitable. I am an original

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By *ookie46Woman
6 hours ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I’m a bit of a one off limited edition

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
6 hours ago

Reading

"I am inimitable. I am an original"

Wait for it

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By *issolvedOrdersMan
6 hours ago

Bristol

Trust me! No one wants more than one of me running about

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By *ensuallover1000Man
5 hours ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A female me….?

I MUST seek them out!

Riveting conversations shall subsequently flow regarding the joys of radiators and which lawn mower is the best, followed by likely starvation as they too can’t cook for shit.

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