FabSwingers.com forum: Age and Attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Inspired by another thread stating how many ladies cut off age for guys is around 50, I got wondering, what age do most women consider a man to be at his 'sexiest'?

Obviously there are many qualities besides age that can govern how attractive a person is, but it always seems to me that most of the male sex symbols in movies these days are in their late 30's and upwards, in stark contrast to most lads mags top 100 sexiest women where most of the entries are in their 20's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion men are at their sexist between 40-45 ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro "

She said it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro "

Ah thats so nice thank you ... Im 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro

She said it all!

Im on fire today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

This.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It's not the age to me at all, it's how the individual man makes me feel. I do have age preferences on here because I like men younger than me, but I haven't filtered them out because you never know when George Clooney will join.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

The only age rule I have is I can't be old enough to be their mother and they can't be old enough to be my father. But any age can be sexy I agree with that totally.

I have my age preferences as 10 years younger or 10 years older but I am not strict on that (well except for the really young ones) and I wouldn't say no to George Clooney either...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro

Ah thats so nice thank you ... Im 40

im 56 revised my lower age limit down to 35 .. check out the other age thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

Ok, so in this case it seems that that the 36 year old is the most attractive of the three - what is it that makes him 'Earth shatteringly sexy', as that sounds like a pretty impressive accolade?

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I like men/women of all ages

I like older men/women - I am older than most on this site and

I like younger men and if they like me...why should I say no?

I have a min and max age because I am old enough to know what I want..I also think that 18 to 99 age range is like saying 'I'll shag anyone' and thats not me! Foo is absolutely right, its all down to the person, their sex appeal and charisma!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men around my age or older but I do know a younger man who is amazing sexy, funny caring so think it really does depend on the man xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 to about 30, usualy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

Ok, so in this case it seems that that the 36 year old is the most attractive of the three - what is it that makes him 'Earth shatteringly sexy', as that sounds like a pretty impressive accolade?"

37 is the new '36' !!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

Ok, so in this case it seems that that the 36 year old is the most attractive of the three - what is it that makes him 'Earth shatteringly sexy', as that sounds like a pretty impressive accolade?

37 is the new '36' !!

Is 50 the new 45?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Age is nothing but a number...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find I am mostly attracted to guys in their late 20s to early 30s, no idea why I guess we just like what we like

sadly I find most guys who are attracted to me are under 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

36 sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

Ok, so in this case it seems that that the 36 year old is the most attractive of the three - what is it that makes him 'Earth shatteringly sexy', as that sounds like a pretty impressive accolade?"

He is earth shatteringly sexy because I have been intimate with him

Ok on the same level then - I know man who is 44 who is sexy .. I know a man who is 25 and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

Ok, so in this case it seems that that the 36 year old is the most attractive of the three - what is it that makes him 'Earth shatteringly sexy', as that sounds like a pretty impressive accolade?

37 is the new '36' !!

Oh balderdash

Its the person not the bloody age

Lots of things make a man or woman sexy

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Age is nothing but a number..."

Yes,but does it have to be such a high number lol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Age is nothing but a number...

Yes,but does it have to be such a high number lol

Yes indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being sexy has nothing to do with what age group you're in. I've seen some very sexy 20 somethings and some extremely sexy 60 somethings. I've personally set a younger age range on my profile purely as this is my fantasy world, for want of a better phrase, and I seem to get on better with younger men. The fact that my ex was more than 10 years my senior was a major deciding factor too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer them young, worldly and experienced; than someone that is mature, narrow-minded and clueless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion men are at their sexist between 40-45 ish

Woo-hoo, that makes me at my sexiest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro

She said it all!

Im on fire today

Flo - if you're feeling luck pick 3 more ages and I'll use them as lotto numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro

She said it all!

Im on fire today

Flo - if you're feeling luck pick 3 more ages and I'll use them as lotto numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i genuinely find men most attractive in their 30's.. lived a little, few laughter lines, not baby faced..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand that attraction is largely an individual thing, but as I mentioned in my first post, why do you suppose it is that so many male sex symbols fall into the more mature range of 40ish?

I'm talking guys like Hugh Jackman, Gerard Butler, Bradley Cooper, Russell Crowe, Jason Statham, David Boreanaz, and of course George Clooney and Brad Pitt (go-to names whenever most people think of sexy guys), these guys will pretty much always place ahead of the younger guys in polls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro

She said it all!

Im on fire today

Flo - if you're feeling luck pick 3 more ages and I'll use them as lotto numbers

Doh too late I forgot to say keep 18+ side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men of the early thirties to late fourties, some very sexy men that I have met and played with have been 45+ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to be more attracted to guys around my own age or a little older now but there re attractive men of all ages i had a thing for David Bowie and Gabrielle Byrne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

i think i like you floro

She said it all!

Im on fire today

Flo - if you're feeling luck pick 3 more ages and I'll use them as lotto numbers

Doh too late I forgot to say keep 18+ side

You wanted lottery numbers - thats the winning line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok mystic meg and can you divulge which date they are lucky for?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I understand that attraction is largely an individual thing, but as I mentioned in my first post, why do you suppose it is that so many male sex symbols fall into the more mature range of 40ish?

think it depends on the ages of the women voting and what magazines/websites these poles take place

think girls/ladies/women generally prefer an older man as its a protection and security thing. younger teens might vote for these type of men because they have physically aged well and the whole 'father figure'/ nice guy/ life experience things might sway them

the 30's woman might just lust after them because it becomes a realistic age gap thats more widely acceptable between female and male

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"think girls/ladies/women generally prefer an older man as its a protection and security thing. younger teens might vote for these type of men because they have physically aged well and the whole 'father figure'/ nice guy/ life experience things might sway them"

That's what I was thinking. It appears to me that across time, male attractiveness has been largely based upon dependability, most of which is based in experience, and the guys I mentioned wrap up the wisdom of their years in ruggedly handsome packages.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love older men...fab wise ....men my own age dating wise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to reverse this logic.. do men go for typically younger girls to date because of physical conditioning and vulnerability? As a man is it instinct to look out and protect?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

can you up that just a tad plzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

can you up that just a tad plzzzz

Nope sorry ... my limits are limits

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

can you up that just a tad plzzzz

Nope sorry ... my limits are limits

you know im really going off you in fact im honestly thinking of taking my stalking skill elswhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

can you up that just a tad plzzzz

Nope sorry ... my limits are limits

you know im really going off you in fact im honestly thinking of taking my stalking skill elswhere

hahahaha awww don't go no one else is stalking me and ill get lonely

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

can you up that just a tad plzzzz

Nope sorry ... my limits are limits

you know im really going off you in fact im honestly thinking of taking my stalking skill elswhere

hahahaha awww don't go no one else is stalking me and ill get lonely "

up your age limit by 1 an il concider it other wise ur binned

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Inspired by another thread stating how many ladies cut off age for guys is around 50, I got wondering, what age do most women consider a man to be at his 'sexiest'?

I know men 32 to 62 who are sexy. I prefer older men, unfortunately the over 50s are seeking 18 year olds and the 18 year olds I have no interest in are setting up fake profiles of 50 year olds to get round my filters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bisexual male I'll stick me 10 pennyworth in this thread (well why not I butt in2 all the other threads lol)

What makes a man sexy ? I don't mean WHEN u have got him to bed but just what makes him ooze sex appeal)

For me generally it is if he is tall n a decent figure (but not gymfit) n I don't mind a but of tummy n if he has lovely eyes. A real turn on tho is if he offers to take me out for dinner cos it makes me feel he has real confidence in his own bisexuality (regrettably all I get on here is the 'do ya wanna shag I can nip round brigade haha! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number. If I like someone, I like them no matter how old they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

can you up that just a tad plzzzz

Nope sorry ... my limits are limits

you know im really going off you in fact im honestly thinking of taking my stalking skill elswhere

hahahaha awww don't go no one else is stalking me and ill get lonely

up your age limit by 1 an il concider it other wise ur binned

Hahahaha bin me then - sheeesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So to reverse this logic.. do men go for typically younger girls to date because of physical conditioning and vulnerability? As a man is it instinct to look out and protect? "

Everyone is different. As a 47yr old man I find myself increasingly and frustratingly outside many people's 45yr old upper limit. I find younger women physically attractive but end up giving fatherly advice for the most part, so I tend to go for more intellectually mature women who have their heads together..

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I know a man who is 36 who is earth shatteringly sexy

I know a man who is 31 who is also sexy

I know a man who is 27 who is sexy

Age is immaterial its the person

can you up that just a tad plzzzz

Nope sorry ... my limits are limits

you know im really going off you in fact im honestly thinking of taking my stalking skill elswhere

hahahaha awww don't go no one else is stalking me and ill get lonely

up your age limit by 1 an il concider it other wise ur binned

Hahahaha bin me then - sheeesh

Youll be sorry if I go. Stupped age limit cant even mail my good bits lol

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By *e nicerWoman
over a year ago

Costa del Medway

intelligence, charm and humour are much more pertinent.

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