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"I mean he is but also so are a lot of other people that would also call him that, or similar things, too (hi mirror). He amuses me. I don't mind him. He likes squirells so he can't be all bad. Could you tell him that please. " I think he'd prefer the C word 😂 But I suppose I could. Mrs | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go......" Just because his opinion doesn't align with the majority doesn't make him cuntish just means he has a different opinion, one that's just as valid (right or wrong) he's still as entitled to air his views as much as anyone else. We need people who can question the narrative and maybe ruffle a few feathers as long as its within the rules of the site at least he's not a sycophantic who just agrees with people to curry favour white Knight style. We all talk shit and my wife aside we are never always right  | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go...... Just because his opinion doesn't align with the majority doesn't make him cuntish just means he has a different opinion, one that's just as valid (right or wrong) he's still as entitled to air his views as much as anyone else. We need people who can question the narrative and maybe ruffle a few feathers as long as its within the rules of the site at least he's not a sycophantic who just agrees with people to curry favour white Knight style. We all talk shit and my wife aside we are never always right "Trust me, I married it, he is cuntish! However I'm not saying that's a bad thing 😂 (other than dealing with those affected) Mrs | |||
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"I don't mind him. Can't say I've ever been affected by him. I like he speaks his mind, but sometimes comes across as trying too hard to be "controversial". But lots of people do that. But, honestly, I thought his comments on the recent SA thread were pretty vile." Totally agree on this. For someone who claims to have been through some stuff (like most of us) he totally lacked any empathy, even towards women trying to explain what they'd been through. | |||
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"Doesn’t bother me because I know he is a big softie really, you can just tell. I think he has only made two forum posts that have made me think “wtf” but sometimes I can be sensitive on certain topics so was he a twerp or was I overly sensitive? Swings and roundabouts. He’s opinionated. Opinions come with pushback sometimes, that’s all. And he’s your hubster, not you, so I wouldn’t sling your opinions in the same bucket anyway, so to speak. " He really is a big softie, just don't tell anyone, he won't be impressed. Mrs | |||
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"I don't mind him. Can't say I've ever been affected by him. I like he speaks his mind, but sometimes comes across as trying too hard to be "controversial". But lots of people do that. But, honestly, I thought his comments on the recent SA thread were pretty vile." This. I'll add that I often find his posts funny, obviously not on that thread. | |||
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"I think he tries to hard to be seen as someone who thinks differently to others and it can come across as a bit of a gimmick and an obvious one at that. He can call himself a cunt or an arsehole all he likes but it just screams insecurity in his character if he's not like that in real life. Now that's just based on what I see on here. He could very well be a big softie in real life but if so, I don't get where there's such a big difference between online and in person unless he simply isn't brave enough to speak his mind like he did in that recent thread. You're not his keeper but I'm shocked if you can defend those those comments as a woman." I'd love you to point out where I've defended any comments "as a woman" Mrs | |||
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"I think he tries to hard to be seen as someone who thinks differently to others and it can come across as a bit of a gimmick and an obvious one at that. He can call himself a cunt or an arsehole all he likes but it just screams insecurity in his character if he's not like that in real life. Now that's just based on what I see on here. He could very well be a big softie in real life but if so, I don't get where there's such a big difference between online and in person unless he simply isn't brave enough to speak his mind like he did in that recent thread. You're not his keeper but I'm shocked if you can defend those those comments as a woman. I'd love you to point out where I've defended any comments "as a woman" Mrs " I said if you can, not that you have 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I think he tries to hard to be seen as someone who thinks differently to others and it can come across as a bit of a gimmick and an obvious one at that. He can call himself a cunt or an arsehole all he likes but it just screams insecurity in his character if he's not like that in real life. Now that's just based on what I see on here. He could very well be a big softie in real life but if so, I don't get where there's such a big difference between online and in person unless he simply isn't brave enough to speak his mind like he did in that recent thread. You're not his keeper but I'm shocked if you can defend those those comments as a woman. I'd love you to point out where I've defended any comments "as a woman" Mrs I said if you can, not that you have 🤷♂️" My apologies I read it wrong. I've defended no comments. Mrs | |||
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"I think he tries to hard to be seen as someone who thinks differently to others and it can come across as a bit of a gimmick and an obvious one at that. He can call himself a cunt or an arsehole all he likes but it just screams insecurity in his character if he's not like that in real life. Now that's just based on what I see on here. He could very well be a big softie in real life but if so, I don't get where there's such a big difference between online and in person unless he simply isn't brave enough to speak his mind like he did in that recent thread. You're not his keeper but I'm shocked if you can defend those those comments as a woman. I'd love you to point out where I've defended any comments "as a woman" Mrs I said if you can, not that you have 🤷♂️ My apologies I read it wrong. I've defended no comments. Mrs " That's fair enough, if you saw them, what were your thoughts? | |||
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"To be fair his cunty behaviour and comments make me chuckle. Not sure about living with him tho?! x"P.s not sure which thread others are referring to, must have missed that!? | |||
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I get annoyed when people DM me rather than state their views publically. Part of the reason I tend to avoid controversial threads. (But not all it seems. Hypocrite).
I can't imagine having DMs asking me to control the behaviour of another person. That is all round a bit shit and people need to give their head a wobble about how they use the forum if they are doing that.
I can only imagine the uproar if Mr told a the guy side of a couple to have a word with their missus.
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" nope I am one, so I can relate to it ... Humour comes in many forms ... You would not of married him if he was that bad "Well. 🤔 She could be worse! 🫢 | |||
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" nope I am one, so I can relate to it ... Humour comes in many forms ... You would not of married him if he was that bad : Well. 🤔 She could be worse! 🫢 " 
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"To be fair his cunty behaviour and comments make me chuckle. Not sure about living with him tho?! x
P.s not sure which thread others are referring to, must have missed that!?"I've heard about it... pretty vile things were said from what I understand | |||
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"I think he tries to hard to be seen as someone who thinks differently to others and it can come across as a bit of a gimmick and an obvious one at that. He can call himself a cunt or an arsehole all he likes but it just screams insecurity in his character if he's not like that in real life. Now that's just based on what I see on here. He could very well be a big softie in real life but if so, I don't get where there's such a big difference between online and in person unless he simply isn't brave enough to speak his mind like he did in that recent thread. You're not his keeper but I'm shocked if you can defend those those comments as a woman. I'd love you to point out where I've defended any comments "as a woman" Mrs I said if you can, not that you have 🤷♂️ My apologies I read it wrong. I've defended no comments. Mrs That's fair enough, if you saw them, what were your thoughts?" You don't need my thoughts, I chose not to participate, if I had thoughts to add I would have. Have a lovely day Joe. Mrs | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 " Me! | |||
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I get annoyed when people DM me rather than state their views publically. Part of the reason I tend to avoid controversial threads. (But not all it seems. Hypocrite).
I can't imagine having DMs asking me to control the behaviour of another person. That is all round a bit shit and people need to give their head a wobble about how they use the forum if they are doing that.
I can only imagine the uproar if Mr told a the guy side of a couple to have a word with their missus.
Reflection all round needed.
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me!" Me too! ✨️ | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go......" Oh! I thought it was always Mrs making such Coarse, Uncouth and Uncalled for Threads! And that you sign off as Mr just to get the innocent, kind and thoughtful gentleman into trouble. If indeed it WAS him…men, eh? | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go......" Are you low key pretending to be the Mrs. so you can do some damage control 😏 🤭 | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go...... Are you low key pretending to be the Mrs. so you can do some damage control 😏 🤭" To be fair to him. I don't think he cares enough to bother with damage control | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go...... Are you low key pretending to be the Mrs. so you can do some damage control 😏 🤭" 🤣 | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go...... Are you low key pretending to be the Mrs. so you can do some damage control 😏 🤭" Damage control? What damage, I’m used to being the most hated man in the room, will I change, will I fuck. My views are my views and they will never change to please people even that that means I’m disliked by the masses. The mr | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go......" I like his cuntishness - long may it continue  | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️" Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️" Me three 🧐 | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Me three 🧐" ^^^ 3 (ish) posts up. | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911" I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now." 🍿 | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911" Thanks Joe, Ive already read the thread, it was a difficult read in many ways ✨️ | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 Thanks Joe, Ive already read the thread, it was a difficult read in many ways ✨️" What was/is the name of the thread? Being old, I can’t get the link to work | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 Thanks Joe, Ive already read the thread, it was a difficult read in many ways ✨️ What was/is the name of the thread? Being old, I can’t get the link to work ""not all men" | |||
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"I'm neither affected, offended nor fed up That’s a first! "Feisty | |||
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"I'm neither affected, offended nor fed up That’s a first! "One controversial topic at a time please! | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911" Christ on a bike !! That was hard , horrifying reading! | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now." Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 Christ on a bike !! That was hard , horrifying reading!" Most threads on here are | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs " Did you tell him that I like that he likes squirrels? | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Did you tell him that I like that he likes squirrels? " No, that's a step too far! I'm not your messenger. Mrs 😝 | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Did you tell him that I like that he likes squirrels? " I’m going out on a limb here and I’m holding your hands when I say this (metaphorically speaking) he couldn’t give a flying fuck! He likes squirrels and he doesn’t care who knows it. And that is that. So just let it lie! | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs " Yeah i dont agree with this you shouldnt be made responsible for something someone else says. Nor do i think its fair to ask your views on it understandably your not going to publicy pit yourself against your husband and i dont think its fair to ask you to. Whether other peoples opinions and morality tells them they must. We are all our own people and deal with things the way we want to. Im sure you speak about things your unhappy with privately like most people do. And thats all ill say on the matter as its none of my business really. | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Did you tell him that I like that he likes squirrels? I’m going out on a limb here and I’m holding your hands when I say this (metaphorically speaking) he couldn’t give a flying fuck! He likes squirrels and he doesn’t care who knows it. And that is that. So just let it lie! " But it's squirrels. Specifically the red ones. They are a minority! | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Did you tell him that I like that he likes squirrels? I’m going out on a limb here and I’m holding your hands when I say this (metaphorically speaking) he couldn’t give a flying fuck! He likes squirrels and he doesn’t care who knows it. And that is that. So just let it lie! But it's squirrels. Specifically the red ones. They are a minority! " sounds a bit too woke for him tbh. | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Yeah i dont agree with this you shouldnt be made responsible for something someone else says. Nor do i think its fair to ask your views on it understandably your not going to publicy pit yourself against your husband and i dont think its fair to ask you to. Whether other peoples opinions and morality tells them they must. We are all our own people and deal with things the way we want to. Im sure you speak about things your unhappy with privately like most people do. And thats all ill say on the matter as its none of my business really. " I would agree with this. No one should message you privately, or ask your opinions on it. You are different people, whether married or not. | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Did you tell him that I like that he likes squirrels? I’m going out on a limb here and I’m holding your hands when I say this (metaphorically speaking) he couldn’t give a flying fuck! He likes squirrels and he doesn’t care who knows it. And that is that. So just let it lie! But it's squirrels. Specifically the red ones. They are a minority! Absolutely only red he's squirrelist against the greys. Mrs" Ahhh so he is a greycist. Respect. | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Yeah i dont agree with this you shouldnt be made responsible for something someone else says. Nor do i think its fair to ask your views on it understandably your not going to publicy pit yourself against your husband and i dont think its fair to ask you to. Whether other peoples opinions and morality tells them they must. We are all our own people and deal with things the way we want to. Im sure you speak about things your unhappy with privately like most people do. And thats all ill say on the matter as its none of my business really. I would agree with this. No one should message you privately, or ask your opinions on it. You are different people, whether married or not." 💜💜 Thank you. Mrs | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Don’t you dare defy me, you know you don’t like it in the cage, do you. The mr " Cant suck your cock from the cage though 😛 You've caused me enough trouble, bend over naughty boy! Mrs | |||
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"I wonder how many people are in my boat of scratching about trying to find this controversial thread 👀 Me! Me too! ✨️ Here's the context for what I assume led to the creation of this thread: https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1791911 I avoided that thread after reading the first few posts (assumed there would be a pile on at some point) - don't plan on revisiting it now. Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs Did you tell him that I like that he likes squirrels? I’m going out on a limb here and I’m holding your hands when I say this (metaphorically speaking) he couldn’t give a flying fuck! He likes squirrels and he doesn’t care who knows it. And that is that. So just let it lie! " If it just lies then the cat or dog will get it. Surely it is better to chase it up a tree? | |||
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".Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs " To be clear, I don't think people should've been messaging you directly. I personally did wonder what your thoughts would've been even without calling it out and due to the nature of the topic, your perspective would've been interesting to hear, especially with some of the unsavoury things said but I suppose where that line is varies from couple to couple. | |||
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"I'd still choose the bear (it's not a real bear, it's just a hypothesis to show men how women don't feel safe around men because of the way women are often treated by even their own partners, who they should be safe around. I mean, if you can't trust your husband, who can you trust) This goes both ways though. We would choose the bear too. My ex stuck me twice during arguments over the course of our marriage I never hit her once " My ex tortured me daily in one way or another. Often physically, always mentally and emotionally. I was too scared and weak to hit him back, or argue with him. | |||
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"I'd still choose the bear (it's not a real bear, it's just a hypothesis to show men how women don't feel safe around men because of the way women are often treated by even their own partners, who they should be safe around. I mean, if you can't trust your husband, who can you trust) This goes both ways though. We would choose the bear too. My ex stuck me twice during arguments over the course of our marriage I never hit her once My ex tortured me daily in one way or another. Often physically, always mentally and emotionally. I was too scared and weak to hit him back, or argue with him. " I’m so sorry to read that ♥️ | |||
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"I'd still choose the bear (it's not a real bear, it's just a hypothesis to show men how women don't feel safe around men because of the way women are often treated by even their own partners, who they should be safe around. I mean, if you can't trust your husband, who can you trust) This goes both ways though. We would choose the bear too. My ex stuck me twice during arguments over the course of our marriage I never hit her once My ex tortured me daily in one way or another. Often physically, always mentally and emotionally. I was too scared and weak to hit him back, or argue with him. I’m so sorry to read that ♥️" Thank you. I wasn't looking for sympathy though. | |||
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"I'd still choose the bear (it's not a real bear, it's just a hypothesis to show men how women don't feel safe around men because of the way women are often treated by even their own partners, who they should be safe around. I mean, if you can't trust your husband, who can you trust) This goes both ways though. We would choose the bear too. My ex stuck me twice during arguments over the course of our marriage I never hit her once My ex tortured me daily in one way or another. Often physically, always mentally and emotionally. I was too scared and weak to hit him back, or argue with him. I’m so sorry to read that ♥️ Thank you. I wasn't looking for sympathy though." None of us were. Just a safe place to share x | |||
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".Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs To be clear, I don't think people should've been messaging you directly. I personally did wonder what your thoughts would've been even without calling it out and due to the nature of the topic, your perspective would've been interesting to hear, especially with some of the unsavoury things said but I suppose where that line is varies from couple to couple." Let's face it, my perspective was only wanted due to the comments of my husband, you choose to drag me into a thread I'd stayed clear of for no other reason than not liking my husband's comments, which is fair enough don't like them however leave me out of it. You have my answers now, does it make any difference, absolutely not, we are separate people. As I said before no one would message/call our the partner of another to answer something because of the other halfs views - because most people understand that they are separate people. Now you have what you asked for, are you happy? What did giving my opinion achieve except you having me answer something I chose to stay out of. Mrs | |||
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".Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs To be clear, I don't think people should've been messaging you directly. I personally did wonder what your thoughts would've been even without calling it out and due to the nature of the topic, your perspective would've been interesting to hear, especially with some of the unsavoury things said but I suppose where that line is varies from couple to couple. Let's face it, my perspective was only wanted due to the comments of my husband, you choose to drag me into a thread I'd stayed clear of for no other reason than not liking my husband's comments, which is fair enough don't like them however leave me out of it. You have my answers now, does it make any difference, absolutely not, we are separate people. As I said before no one would message/call our the partner of another to answer something because of the other halfs views - because most people understand that they are separate people. Now you have what you asked for, are you happy? What did giving my opinion achieve except you having me answer something I chose to stay out of. Mrs " If someone messaged me because B had said something so vile damn right I’d be having words. And when you start a thread suggesting we have a “group hug” you show a huge amount of disdain to the those who called out the very comments by your husband that you say you disagree with. This whole thread is a shitshow of sycophancy that makes a mockery of the don’t air your dirty laundry rule. | |||
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".Snap. Although people seem interested in my opinion considering I chose not to engage - do I agree with my husband - no, is that anyone else's business - also no. Am I him - no Do I share the same opinions - no Do I share the same brain - no I wonder if any other wife's of couples get messaged/called out to answer posts she chose not to comment on or to pass messages to her husband to tell him this that or the other, it called out on posts asking her opinion on things the other half said? Nope didn't think so. Mrs To be clear, I don't think people should've been messaging you directly. I personally did wonder what your thoughts would've been even without calling it out and due to the nature of the topic, your perspective would've been interesting to hear, especially with some of the unsavoury things said but I suppose where that line is varies from couple to couple. Let's face it, my perspective was only wanted due to the comments of my husband, you choose to drag me into a thread I'd stayed clear of for no other reason than not liking my husband's comments, which is fair enough don't like them however leave me out of it. You have my answers now, does it make any difference, absolutely not, we are separate people. As I said before no one would message/call our the partner of another to answer something because of the other halfs views - because most people understand that they are separate people. Now you have what you asked for, are you happy? What did giving my opinion achieve except you having me answer something I chose to stay out of. Mrs " I'm sorry, but I didn't drag you into anything. The thread was long closed and you chose to create this thread for... Whatever the reason and as you were already on here, I thought it was interesting to get your thoughts. In a world where people talk about not being allowed to give their opinion, no one forced you to give yours. | |||
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"I agree with the above. ( mostly ) Sometimes the offended and hurt don't realise that - their choosing to be offended does not give them license to say what they like in response to others. Their feelings are precisely that, THEIRS. If they are uncomfortable with what others say they need to realise that the reaction to what others say comes from themselves not the other. So if anyone disagrees with what someone says .......that's all it is. Just a difference of opinion and that should not be taken out on the person that said it. I'm pretty glad that 'free speech' is getting some good press this last week. Long may it grow. As long as what someone is says, is legal what has it got to do with anyone else? Especially the self righteous , wounded soul, moral outrage brigade. Disclaimer - I do know the difference between free speech and just being rude. I've not much time either for the ' I say it as it is lot' unless they say what the hell they like after some consideration and it's within the law." Yeah, long my free speech continue... As long it's not to call out opinions you don't agree with. Only some people are allowed to go through life with their opinions unchecked | |||
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"I think they messaged you to get a response from a woman. There's thousands of women here, they messaged me out of association. Mrs They may be messaging other women from couples' accounts, just to get a female response. Unless they're women. " Tbf that's also shitty behaviour. They may have their own SA trauma. The whole gist of this post is, if you want to say something about a forum post, say it in public. It appears to me Mrs ahs been getting unsolicited grief. And chose to post. One that appeared to come from an emotive place. Much like the original post. Imo some people here have engaged with that in a similar way to some of the men in the other post engaging with the subject based on stats and risks. A missmatch of what is happening under the surface. No PMs please. | |||
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"I think they messaged you to get a response from a woman. There's thousands of women here, they messaged me out of association. Mrs They may be messaging other women from couples' accounts, just to get a female response. Unless they're women. Tbf that's also shitty behaviour. They may have their own SA trauma. The whole gist of this post is, if you want to say something about a forum post, say it in public. It appears to me Mrs ahs been getting unsolicited grief. And chose to post. One that appeared to come from an emotive place. Much like the original post. Imo some people here have engaged with that in a similar way to some of the men in the other post engaging with the subject based on stats and risks. A missmatch of what is happening under the surface. No PMs please. " Yeah what he said 😶🌫️ | |||
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"Have you been affected by my husband's general cuntishness, offended by his comments or just generally fed up of him - here's your chance to get together, moan, cry, group hug whatever it may be. Then hopefully no one will ask me to "tell him xxxx" because they can't publicly reply to a form post through fear of looking bad, I'm not his keeper. So let's go......" Not at all? You occupy that ‘smug couple’ bracket of profiles I choose to ignore. There’s no chance of us ever being in the same place, at the same time, so whatever you say is completely irrelevant to me 😁👍 | |||
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"I think they messaged you to get a response from a woman. There's thousands of women here, they messaged me out of association. Mrs They may be messaging other women from couples' accounts, just to get a female response. Unless they're women. Tbf that's also shitty behaviour. They may have their own SA trauma. The whole gist of this post is, if you want to say something about a forum post, say it in public. It appears to me Mrs ahs been getting unsolicited grief. And chose to post. One that appeared to come from an emotive place. Much like the original post. Imo some people here have engaged with that in a similar way to some of the men in the other post engaging with the subject based on stats and risks. A missmatch of what is happening under the surface. No PMs please. " There's a report option for anything deemed abusive, or bitchy. There's been drama behind closed doors on here for years, which doesn't excuse it. The report option is the best way to deal with it, in my opinion. Or tell them to piss off and stop being childish. | |||
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"I agree with the above. ( mostly ) Sometimes the offended and hurt don't realise that - their choosing to be offended does not give them license to say what they like in response to others. Their feelings are precisely that, THEIRS. If they are uncomfortable with what others say they need to realise that the reaction to what others say comes from themselves not the other. So if anyone disagrees with what someone says .......that's all it is. Just a difference of opinion and that should not be taken out on the person that said it. I'm pretty glad that 'free speech' is getting some good press this last week. Long may it grow. As long as what someone is says, is legal what has it got to do with anyone else? Especially the self righteous , wounded soul, moral outrage brigade. Disclaimer - I do know the difference between free speech and just being rude. I've not much time either for the ' I say it as it is lot' unless they say what the hell they like after some consideration and it's within the law. Yeah, long my free speech continue... As long it's not to call out opinions you don't agree with. Only some people are allowed to go through life with their opinions unchecked" Of course ideas that you don't agree with can be challenged Joe. That's the whole idea | |||
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