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Dont you just hate been 51

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol . "

Mine stops at 65

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

Yes I know what you mean and it's nice when they are flexible on age limits and get to know the person first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

51 is a crap age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

Mine stops at 65 "
Well i have another 14 years too woo you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it great being 51.

The older you get the more picky you become though.

Must be awful being 21 these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I know what you mean and it's nice when they are flexible on age limits and get to know the person first"

I have decided to do that, sort of. Whilst I have a set minimum and maximum age on my profile, if I see someone outside that age range, I shall send them a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"51 is a crap age "
It is too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"51 is a crap age "

Try 52. That's even more crap!!

ted.

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By *iamp86Man
over a year ago

preston

Yes I'm nearly 52 but feel much younger

Also gets really annoying when you see single fems with profiles saying they can't find the right guy and you see an age limit of 40 etc

Right bitch over ,,,

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Try 55. I'm considering giving some birthdays back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"51 is a crap age

Try 52. That's even more crap!!

ted."
3 more weeks and i will be lol

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

It happens for all ages. There are plenty of profiles that interest me but I'm just outside their age range one way or the other. Luckily there are lots of profiles where I am within their age range, so I just stick to messaging them instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thing is,as a 51 year old,i am too picky.AND i wont meet ppl my age either.two faced or what?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not as much as I hate approaching 64! make the most of it..get to my age your life really is over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens for all ages. There are plenty of profiles that interest me but I'm just outside their age range one way or the other. Luckily there are lots of profiles where I am within their age range, so I just stick to messaging them instead. "

Tell you what, we'll come back to you in 20 years and see if you feel the same...

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"thing is,as a 51 year old,i am too picky.AND i wont meet ppl my age either.two faced or what?"

Under 50 and over 52 is ok then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'm nearly 52 but feel much younger

Also gets really annoying when you see single fems with profiles saying they can't find the right guy and you see an age limit of 40 etc

Right bitch over ,,,"

Just got to say I think you look like Jim Royale in your avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thing is,as a 51 year old,i am too picky.AND i wont meet ppl my age either.two faced or what?

Under 50 and over 52 is ok then? "

Better bloody be,I am 55.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Not as much as I hate approaching 64! make the most of it..get to my age your life really is over. "

Don't give up just yet - there was an 80 year old bloke on here with a decent verification!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

you just wait til your 56 and all the ages end at 55 grr

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"thing is,as a 51 year old,i am too picky.AND i wont meet ppl my age either.two faced or what?"
No its not everyone on here does what suits them and thats how it should be xx

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Changed my age range yesterday after someone hot in a chat room could not message me

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

im 53 , and i deem to do ok

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Not as much as I hate approaching 64! make the most of it..get to my age your life really is over.

Don't give up just yet - there was an 80 year old bloke on here with a decent verification!"

I gave up ages ago..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thing is,as a 51 year old,i am too picky.AND i wont meet ppl my age either.two faced or what?

Under 50 and over 52 is ok then? "

my top age limit for meets is 50.so i am as bad if not worse than than the other ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a number. My guys older than you and he's sexy as hell. On here people might be rigid on ages but like when we went to a party a few weeks back, once people get chatting they see past the age thing.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"It's a number. My guys older than you and he's sexy as hell. On here people might be rigid on ages but like when we went to a party a few weeks back, once people get chatting they see past the age thing. "

Always good to be rigid...

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"It's a number. My guys older than you and he's sexy as hell. On here people might be rigid on ages but like when we went to a party a few weeks back, once people get chatting they see past the age thing.

Always good to be rigid..."
damn site better than flaccid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange because I seem to be noticing more and more younger girls profiles stating they ONLY want to meet mature guys (like 45+).

Lets hope there's plenty of them when I reach that age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"51 is a crap age "

56 is worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that on here age preferences are rigid for some people,ive even got them myself,when i upped it I ended up with people messaging me that looked 10yrs older than they stated......people do tell porkies so I lowered it again,I can't even remember what ive put now

In real life at parties or clubs I have never asked anyone their age as it seems such a childish thing to say,If I get on with someone and fancy the pants off them thats good enough for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

Mine stops at 65 Well i have another 14 years too woo you xx "

Yes please lol x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i suppose everyone has to put something .. my lower limit seemed to be too high cos some ladies in their early forties have looked at me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol . "

yours stops at 60........

people... glass houses.... stone throwing... yada yada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know I find the club scene quite fascinating in this respect. You mostly go on looks and personality. Okay you might chat and establish some facts, but who goes round with a check sheet for age, sexuality, are you a smoker etc!

The only thing that bothered me once is a couple we met at a club who we really hit it off and had a great time. We exchanged names on here, but they didn't seem to be so keen then and I suspect it's because John is bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know I find the club scene quite fascinating in this respect. You mostly go on looks and personality. Okay you might chat and establish some facts, but who goes round with a check sheet for age, sexuality, are you a smoker etc!

The only thing that bothered me once is a couple we met at a club who we really hit it off and had a great time. We exchanged names on here, but they didn't seem to be so keen then and I suspect it's because John is bi."

see,thats the daft thing,cos i dont even think bout age there,as ppl dont think bout wether i smoke or not.

clubs r a very diff game,dont know why tho

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Fab should start another site, perhaps calling it Saga-Fab. Lol.

I am 48 soon so I'll soon be joining you.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should start another site, perhaps calling it Saga-Fab. Lol.

I am 48 soon so I'll soon be joining you.

Dave"

Made me laugh out loud!! SagaSwingers coach holidays, SagaSwingers cruises (take that how you will!)

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"You know I find the club scene quite fascinating in this respect. You mostly go on looks and personality. Okay you might chat and establish some facts, but who goes round with a check sheet for age, sexuality, are you a smoker etc!

The only thing that bothered me once is a couple we met at a club who we really hit it off and had a great time. We exchanged names on here, but they didn't seem to be so keen then and I suspect it's because John is bi.

see,thats the daft thing,cos i dont even think bout age there,as ppl dont think bout wether i smoke or not.

clubs r a very diff game,dont know why tho"

Meeting one to one is a different dynamic to being in a club. I don't kiss people in clubs and might not do other things with them if they are very smoky. I have turned down men at clubs as they looked too young.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm 51 this year - doesn't bother me. I see a lot of guys I am interested in stop at 40 anyway - hey ho - plenty more out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab should start another site, perhaps calling it Saga-Fab. Lol.

I am 48 soon so I'll soon be joining you.

Dave"

Oh FFS don't encourage Admin!!!! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all..im 51 and proud!!...ive never had so much fun...dont dear it...Embrace it!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Yes I'm nearly 52 but feel much younger

Also gets really annoying when you see single fems with profiles saying they can't find the right guy and you see an age limit of 40 etc

Right bitch over ,,,"

That would be me then - almost! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know I find the club scene quite fascinating in this respect. You mostly go on looks and personality. Okay you might chat and establish some facts, but who goes round with a check sheet for age, sexuality, are you a smoker etc!"

This is the point I have been making repeatedly when the age issue comes up. In a club I can never recall asking or being asked my age - it's all about a connection, attraction - that indefinable 'something' which makes you think... 'Corrrrrrrrr!'

This is part of the reason I gave up my single male profile, and why as a couple we are now sticking to meets face-to-face at parties and/or clubs. I suppose it's going back to the way it was pre-internet. You made your mind up about someone in person, not based on a set of arbitrary selection criteria (which include age) on a web site.

ted.

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"Fab should start another site, perhaps calling it Saga-Fab. Lol.

I am 48 soon so I'll soon be joining you.

Dave

Made me laugh out loud!! SagaSwingers coach holidays, SagaSwingers cruises (take that how you will!)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is but a number with a few other factors thrown in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

yours stops at 60........

people... glass houses.... stone throwing... yada yada"
Excuse me for not wanting to have sex with a 99 year old yada yada

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

yours stops at 60........

people... glass houses.... stone throwing... yada yada Excuse me for not wanting to have sex with a 99 year old yada yada "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try 55. I'm considering giving some birthdays back!"

Your not bad for 55 though.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

try being 57

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol . "

Thought you were 52?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 is my top limit I hate to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 35 to 65 I like an older man

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"51 is a crap age

56 is worse "

that made me feel better

actually age never worries anyone

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Just lie n say ur 21.im really 67

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By *lassy pairCouple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

I don't know yet as I have not hit my big 50 yet

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

to cheer everyone up ive had more offers of men since I turned 50 so embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 51 , that's life take it on the chin and use what time you have left to party like never before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the thing is im 51 but cant always tell how old im looking because my eye sights going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol . "

Maybe i should change ours lol. Ours really isnt a hard rule. We are certainly flexible if the attraction is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, but then we are in our 40's on a serious note we will meet any age person if they 'float our boat', personality is way more important and we only set our limit at 99 as there was no higher option. Besides older guys have two important things going for them.. Reliable where a meet is concerned and experience. We are trying to find time to meet a guy who is 62, his cock is equal to any on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

Thought you were 52?"
I was 51 when i posted this thread 15 weeks ago. Duh

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

Thought you were 52? I was 51 when i posted this thread 15 weeks ago. Duh "

Are you enjoying being 52?

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Still hot as a habeniero though

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

My cut off is 49 but I'm flexible on that to a degree. If someone appeals to me then their age doesn't matter.

Some 50-something's look great. I'd message anyone interesting if I thought they might also be interested in me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 48 but I make allowances

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

Thought you were 52? I was 51 when i posted this thread 15 weeks ago. Duh

Are you enjoying being 52?"
Yes but would rather be 42 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still hot as a habeniero though "
Aww thankyou you sexy minx xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Changed my age range yesterday after someone hot in a chat room could not message me "

Its not your age range that's the problem. Its the location

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

If it bothers you,just lie.

It's a swingers sight.

Most of the birds are guys,most of the straights are bi,most of the hung just lie.

Just stay 49,and never cross the 50 line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 29/09/13 04:14:55]"
That disgracful and having to live with the lie and the hurt it may cause ... Ok might try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noo you shouldn't hate being 51, it's not old at all, guys are certainly sexy at this age.

I agree that for many the cut off age is 50, but there are plenty of women looking for maturity and experience, it's a good thing. And you're looking pretty fit OP (resisting the urge to type 'for your age')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noo you shouldn't hate being 51, it's not old at all, guys are certainly sexy at this age.

I agree that for many the cut off age is 50, but there are plenty of women looking for maturity and experience, it's a good thing. And you're looking pretty fit OP (resisting the urge to type 'for your age') "

This lady talks sense and I bet she wouldn't end things with her partner when he's 51. Although us single guys can only dream

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Noo you shouldn't hate being 51, it's not old at all, guys are certainly sexy at this age.

I agree that for many the cut off age is 50, but there are plenty of women looking for maturity and experience, it's a good thing. And you're looking pretty fit OP (resisting the urge to type 'for your age') "
Why thankyou . You have fantastic pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you very much

I like men my age and older, I fund them very sexy. I'm not hung up on younger men, the Mrs Robinson thing has never been a fantasy of mine. Men around mine and my partners age will no doubt share similar life experiences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you very much

I like men my age and older, I fund them very sexy. I'm not hung up on younger men, the Mrs Robinson thing has never been a fantasy of mine. Men around mine and my partners age will no doubt share similar life experiences. "
You are very welcome .

Looking at your pics. Your life experences seem a lot more exciting then mine

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

older the better for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you very much

I like men my age and older, I fund them very sexy. I'm not hung up on younger men, the Mrs Robinson thing has never been a fantasy of mine. Men around mine and my partners age will no doubt share similar life experiences. You are very welcome .

Looking at your pics. Your life experences seem a lot more exciting then mine

"
didn't know you were 52

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you very much

I like men my age and older, I fund them very sexy. I'm not hung up on younger men, the Mrs Robinson thing has never been a fantasy of mine. Men around mine and my partners age will no doubt share similar life experiences. You are very welcome .

Looking at your pics. Your life experences seem a lot more exciting then mine

didn't know you were 52 "
lol . Dont say it like that .. How old did you think i was ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt have thought you were 52... and I certainly wouldnt kick you out of bed either lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldnt have thought you were 52... and I certainly wouldnt kick you out of bed either lol"
If i was in your bed i would never get out lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt have thought you were 52... and I certainly wouldnt kick you out of bed either lol If i was in your bed i would never get out lol xxx "

well if you ever make your way to Texas......;)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldnt have thought you were 52... and I certainly wouldnt kick you out of bed either lol If i was in your bed i would never get out lol xxx

well if you ever make your way to Texas......;) "
Only in my dreams . But you are a very sexy lady

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

But for the distance I'd certainly consider messaging you, if I fit what you're looking for and thought you might be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I know what you mean and it's nice when they are flexible on age limits and get to know the person first

I have decided to do that, sort of. Whilst I have a set minimum and maximum age on my profile, if I see someone outside that age range, I shall send them a message"

Exactly this..^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But for the distance I'd certainly consider messaging you, if I fit what you're looking for and thought you might be interested."
Why would i not be interested ? Xx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But for the distance I'd certainly consider messaging you, if I fit what you're looking for and thought you might be interested.Why would i not be interested ? Xx "

I'm not suggesting you would/wouldn't be. I'm saying but for the distance, if your profile (which I've not read) indicated I fit what you're looking for, I might message you even though you're outside my stated age range. The range is flexible, depending on the person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But for the distance I'd certainly consider messaging you, if I fit what you're looking for and thought you might be interested.Why would i not be interested ? Xx

I'm not suggesting you would/wouldn't be. I'm saying but for the distance, if your profile (which I've not read) indicated I fit what you're looking for, I might message you even though you're outside my stated age range. The range is flexible, depending on the person. "
Read my.profile just out of curiousity lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a lot of profiles having a age range that stop at 50 been 51 like me is so near yet so far lol .

Thought you were 52? I was 51 when i posted this thread 15 weeks ago. Duh "

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