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"I don’t know how old your kid is but I suspect if she’s old enough to bring it home she would be old enough to understand your reasons for not keeping it. After all you have said them in the past. Although no doubt it will be upsetting but if it was me I’d take it to the RSPCA " Old enough to know better (17) but she's the troublesome middle child, boundaries and rules are clearly meaningless (I blame the parents). | |||
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"Perhaps the kitten can be replaced with an ant farm. " Sadly nowhere near as cute and irresistably cuddly. | |||
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"That's a dilemma for sure. How old is the kitten, should it be away from it's mother? It'll surely have fleas 🦟 and now so do your soft furnishings (sorry). Cats can and do live happily indoors but if you're not allowed them in the building what can be done? So after being absolutely no help at all, I wish you luck "Definitely a no win situation for me. | |||
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"I don’t agree that cats have to be outdoor cats. I have I for cats although they do need to be bred that way. In your situation, the unfortunately fact is that you aren’t allowed pets. You’re not the bad parent, as you have no control of that. But maybe consider why she wants a cat and work on an alternative that works for your situation " it's only a few weeks since her first heartbreak with a boy so probably desperate for the kind of unconditional love that only a kitten can give. | |||
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"It's really quite simple. You must move. You now have a cat. Congratulations. " 😂😂😂😂 I mean, I guess that’s an option | |||
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"It's really quite simple. You must move. You now have a cat. Congratulations. 😂😂😂😂 I mean, I guess that’s an option " It's the only option 🐱🐱🐱 | |||
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"Local cats protection league. They'll re home it. As for your daughter, if she likes them so much, take her back to visit occasionally." Or suggest she volunteer for CPL or a local rescue centre - that way she can fuss the animals without any of the responsibility of pet ownership, whilst learning adulty stuff | |||
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"So after being absolutely no help at all, I wish you luck "😂 | |||
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" have it stuffed compromise reached ." Sorry. Laughed way too hard at this 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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" have it stuffed compromise reached ." 🤣 | |||
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"It's really quite simple. You must move. You now have a cat. Congratulations. " I seriously suspect that this is the only viable option. | |||
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"I don't do social media so the only access I have to the hive mind is here on fab. Here's a conundrum- What do you do when your errant child walks in with a cardboard box in her arms and a tiny little fluffy black face peeks out? Yep, that's right, she pulled the pin on the C bomb. No not that one I meant Cat. She actually came home with a stray kitten in a box. What the actual fuck am I supposed to do with that The apartment (as I've repeatedly told her) is too small to imprison a sentient creature and pets aren't allowed in the building. The kitten is from the street so most likely it's gonna need expensive tests and innoculations and probably eighteen years of care and attention. If I take it to the RSPCA I instantly become the evil father that denied her the pet she's dreamed of and if I keep it I'm gonna feel guilty about breaking my own moral stance on housecats (I love cats but I think they need freedom to roam). Answers on a postcard please... " Awww bless her, keep it keep it keep it I live in a flat with my cat and it's not to small. As for pets not being allowed that sucks but cats don't make that much noise no one would ever known ( okay I'm bias I love cats and am probably not the best person to jump in on this) good luck p.s keep it keep it keep it | |||
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