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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist

I know we all joke at the self proclaimed photgraphers on here but it was always something i would never of thought would be for me.

Recently a fwb convinced me it could be fun and we found a lady photgrapher who was "semi professional" but who made us feel so comfortable.

I can honestly say it was the most liberating and erotic experience i have had.

All photos were tasteful and natural.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find it?

Or is it just something you would never do? Doesnt tickle your pickle

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By *icecouple561Couple
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16 hours ago

East Sussex

I've never done it with a professional but I did enjoy Mr N photographing me.

Years ago a lot of my friends had semi boudoir shots done and they were gorgeous. They really have them a lift from their daily mum and wife life

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By *ontyboi76Man
16 hours ago

Pontypridd

My partner had one done last year, she took several outfits and the photographer talked through the inspirations and the clothing. Yes she had make up done, she don't need that in my opinion. But when it all started she really enjoyed the moment and came back with the digital copies very happy and horny. She got me a physical album also and it left her more keen to play with pics and to push her outfits. It was all tasteful, see a bit of nipple at the most through an outfit. We both enjoyed how the photographer framed the outfits and positions. Wasn't cheap but definitely worth it for her especially.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"I've never done it with a professional but I did enjoy Mr N photographing me.

Years ago a lot of my friends had semi boudoir shots done and they were gorgeous. They really have them a lift from their daily mum and wife life "

Yeah. Thats a bit how i felt, just in the moment not thinking about anything else and just feeling good about myself for a short period of time.

I assume (hope not wrongly) that the photos taken by MrN would probably be some of the best as it would be where you felt most comfortable and natural?

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By *hams123Man
16 hours ago

London

Never done it. I'd be interested in doing it with a partner. Not with a professional though. A tripod, some bright lights and a timer. We could enjoy ourselves, have lots of snacks on the side. It would be fun and erotic.

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By *agic.MMan
16 hours ago

Orpington


"I know we all joke at the self proclaimed photgraphers on here but it was always something i would never of thought would be for me.

Recently a fwb convinced me it could be fun and we found a lady photgrapher who was "semi professional" but who made us feel so comfortable.

I can honestly say it was the most liberating and erotic experience i have had.

All photos were tasteful and natural.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find it?

Or is it just something you would never do? Doesnt tickle your pickle

"

I've done a few boudoir shoots in the past...solo and with other models. There has to be a certain visual compatibility if it's a couple shoot ...the place/environment is crucial ...they can be fun if you're comfortable in your skin, and can be absolutely devastating for your confidence if they don't end up as you wanted - keep in mind a photographer will aim for ths best shot not how to make you look the best in the photo

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By *ellhungvweMan
16 hours ago

Cheltenham

I life model for art and sculpture groups and have done nude work (various levels) for photographers as well. It is liberating to see the human body and fun to collaborate with artists and other models.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"I know we all joke at the self proclaimed photgraphers on here but it was always something i would never of thought would be for me.

Recently a fwb convinced me it could be fun and we found a lady photgrapher who was "semi professional" but who made us feel so comfortable.

I can honestly say it was the most liberating and erotic experience i have had.

All photos were tasteful and natural.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find it?

Or is it just something you would never do? Doesnt tickle your pickle

I've done a few boudoir shoots in the past...solo and with other models. There has to be a certain visual compatibility if it's a couple shoot ...the place/environment is crucial ...they can be fun if you're comfortable in your skin, and can be absolutely devastating for your confidence if they don't end up as you wanted - keep in mind a photographer will aim for ths best shot not how to make you look the best in the photo "

Yeah this is an interesting point in regard to the best shot. There was a few i was not too keen on in terms of myself (insecurities) but i think the fact the experience on a whole was a good one i was less bothered

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By *earditallWoman
16 hours ago

Lancaster

I know a guy who does them and has done for years,a few female friends and myself were talking to him about doing a group one with a trans friend and couple it could be fun,just trying to get us all together when not at a club night could be hard

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

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"I know a guy who does them and has done for years,a few female friends and myself were talking to him about doing a group one with a trans friend and couple it could be fun,just trying to get us all together when not at a club night could be hard "

Oh that sounds like a good idea! But yeah trying to get even 2 people free at the same time these days is a struggle haha

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 hours ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

This isn’t quite the same thing, but … I did a porn shoot with a couple (many years ago). Sort of.

I met her in a bar. We flirted. She asked if I wanted to have sex … of course I said yes. She asked if it was okay if her husband took photos. I was surprised (innocent little old me?) but I said what the hell. Let’s do it.

So they booked a hotel a couple of days later and I was invited round. Her husband was what I’d call an enthusiastic amateur photographer. He stayed fully clothed holding his digital SLR and clicking away while his wife and I had a marvellous time. He didn’t say a word, and I never saw any of the photos.

I kind of enjoyed it. A little extra spice to the liaison. Most of the time I forgot he was even there, but now and again I deliberately gave him a good view (or hoped I did, anyway!)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
16 hours ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd like to do something like this

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By *ourpornfixMan
16 hours ago

East Cheshire

I've been the subject of a dungeon photoshoot but a boudoir sounds a lot more comfortable!

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By *inkShyWoman
16 hours ago

near Windsor

I did a naked photo shoot in Bali 😏 It was so tastefully done, felt very empowering and it surprised me how relaxed I actually felt!

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"This isn’t quite the same thing, but … I did a porn shoot with a couple (many years ago). Sort of.

I met her in a bar. We flirted. She asked if I wanted to have sex … of course I said yes. She asked if it was okay if her husband took photos. I was surprised (innocent little old me?) but I said what the hell. Let’s do it.

So they booked a hotel a couple of days later and I was invited round. Her husband was what I’d call an enthusiastic amateur photographer. He stayed fully clothed holding his digital SLR and clicking away while his wife and I had a marvellous time. He didn’t say a word, and I never saw any of the photos.

I kind of enjoyed it. A little extra spice to the liaison. Most of the time I forgot he was even there, but now and again I deliberately gave him a good view (or hoped I did, anyway!)"

Kudos to you!

I didnt do "the sex" on this photoshoot i'm not comfortable being watched intimately like that unless with a partner. But that also sounds pretty liberating

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"I'd like to do something like this "

Tina i would LOVE to see the outcome of yours if you ever do!

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"I've been the subject of a dungeon photoshoot but a boudoir sounds a lot more comfortable!"

I suppose it depends what your more comfortable with and your kinks/likes. Personally if it was purely for aesthetic reasons i think a dungeon could be a cool backdrop.

If someone was beating me with a riding crop at the same time, not so much 🤣

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 hours ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester


"I didnt do "the sex" on this photoshoot i'm not comfortable being watched intimately like that unless with a partner. But that also sounds pretty liberating "

Back then I was meeting a lot of couples and I was quite used to the husbands just wanting to watch some of the time. The photography thing just felt like another version of that really. I didn’t overthink it!

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By *aitonelMan
16 hours ago

Liverpool

Haven't done it, it's not something I'd go out of my way to do, but I'd have no objections to taking part with somebody I'm comfortable with.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
16 hours ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester


"If someone was beating me with a riding crop at the same time, not so much 🤣"

You can never be sure what kind of face you’re going to pull! 😂

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"I didnt do "the sex" on this photoshoot i'm not comfortable being watched intimately like that unless with a partner. But that also sounds pretty liberating

Back then I was meeting a lot of couples and I was quite used to the husbands just wanting to watch some of the time. The photography thing just felt like another version of that really. I didn’t overthink it!"

Yeah that makes sense why wouldnt you if you were into and experienced that dynamic anyway.

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By *eliWoman
16 hours ago

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I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me. "

Only you could make that classy Meli

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By *eliWoman
16 hours ago

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"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli "

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

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By *vaRoseWoman
16 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork

Would love to do a dark themed shoot or a fantasy witchy themed forest one

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

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"Would love to do a dark themed shoot or a fantasy witchy themed forest one "

Oooh yes that would be brilliant.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
16 hours ago

your hotlist


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘"

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

16 hours ago

East Sussex


"I've never done it with a professional but I did enjoy Mr N photographing me.

Years ago a lot of my friends had semi boudoir shots done and they were gorgeous. They really have them a lift from their daily mum and wife life

Yeah. Thats a bit how i felt, just in the moment not thinking about anything else and just feeling good about myself for a short period of time.

I assume (hope not wrongly) that the photos taken by MrN would probably be some of the best as it would be where you felt most comfortable and natural?"

Absolutely. We would often get offers from men to hold the camera but I could never be as relaxed with them as I am with Mr N.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
16 hours ago

Manchester

I know people who have done it and loved it, but I'm far too self conscious and self critical. I wouldn't be able to relax into it and I'd inevitably hate all the photos so I'll save my money

A friend taking the photos in a private setting, and then having a voice in editing and vetoing the photos I don't like, I'm a bit more comfortable with.

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By *hams123Man
16 hours ago

London


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)"

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

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By *agic.MMan
16 hours ago

Orpington


" I've done a few boudoir shoots in the past...solo and with other models. There has to be a certain visual compatibility if it's a couple shoot ...the place/environment is crucial ...they can be fun if you're comfortable in your skin, and can be absolutely devastating for your confidence if they don't end up as you wanted - keep in mind a photographer will aim for ths best shot not how to make you look the best in the photo

Yeah this is an interesting point in regard to the best shot. There was a few i was not too keen on in terms of myself (insecurities) but i think the fact the experience on a whole was a good one i was less bothered

"

Guess it also depends if the photoshoot is just for yourself or for a specific project...in 2014 I had a photoshoot for a magazine called "Baroness" , and it was a lot of pressure for both myslef and the female model...photographer was also pretty stressed. Last minute they wanted to change the look of the male (as in my look) so I had to wear a long hair wig (which I thought looked pretty bad). We took probably over 300 pictures, but when I received a copy of the magazine I noticed I only was featured in 2 images, one was only of my back and the other one only half my face was showing...it just made me feel like I wasn't enough, and took me a long time to get comfortable in front of a camera again

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By *aitonelMan
16 hours ago

Liverpool


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too."

She is very middle aged

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
15 hours ago

Pentney


"I know we all joke at the self proclaimed photgraphers on here but it was always something i would never of thought would be for me.

Recently a fwb convinced me it could be fun and we found a lady photgrapher who was "semi professional" but who made us feel so comfortable.

I can honestly say it was the most liberating and erotic experience i have had.

All photos were tasteful and natural.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find it?

Or is it just something you would never do? Doesnt tickle your pickle

"

I had one...semi erotic. And honestly it was incredible. I love my pics

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
15 hours ago

your hotlist


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged"

⬆️ he likes me.

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By *hams123Man
15 hours ago

London


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged

⬆️ he likes me."

I must be as well then. We're the same age 😂

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By *aitonelMan
15 hours ago

Liverpool


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged

⬆️ he likes me.

I must be as well then. We're the same age 😂"

You are. 30-50 is the middle aged bracket. Not to get back in to it too deep. 82-83 is average life expectancy.

So for labels sake 30-50 👍🏼

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 hours ago

Leeds

Not quite the same but the husband is into his photography & I love doing our fab photos but I kind of feel like it's a little alter ego, like it's not actually me.

I'm not one who likes photos or someone who can "pose" I find it super awkward so when I see the fab ones all done I'm shocked like that's actually me 😂 I made a good photo, maybe idea because my face is chopped off I'm not sure but I do like them and it is kind of liberating - I don't have a lot of confidence overall at the moment so it's nice to look at myself and think yeah I look alright.

Mrs

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By *hams123Man
15 hours ago

London


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged

⬆️ he likes me.

I must be as well then. We're the same age 😂

You are. 30-50 is the middle aged bracket. Not to get back in to it too deep. 82-83 is average life expectancy.

So for labels sake 30-50 👍🏼 "

I view it as 50-60 is middle aged. 60+ is old aged. 30-49 is adult. 18-29 is young adult.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
15 hours ago

Leeds


"Would love to do a dark themed shoot or a fantasy witchy themed forest one "

I'm not sure the Mr would put on wings for me but I would be so up for this!! Even if just for the dress up.

Mrs

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By *aitonelMan
15 hours ago

Liverpool


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged

⬆️ he likes me.

I must be as well then. We're the same age 😂

You are. 30-50 is the middle aged bracket. Not to get back in to it too deep. 82-83 is average life expectancy.

So for labels sake 30-50 👍🏼

I view it as 50-60 is middle aged. 60+ is old aged. 30-49 is adult. 18-29 is young adult."

That's called denial

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By *glyBirdWoman
15 hours ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

A guy I know took photos of me/us and looking at them just makes me realise how fucking horrible I am! So I may pass.

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By *hams123Man
15 hours ago

London


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged

⬆️ he likes me.

I must be as well then. We're the same age 😂

You are. 30-50 is the middle aged bracket. Not to get back in to it too deep. 82-83 is average life expectancy.

So for labels sake 30-50 👍🏼

I view it as 50-60 is middle aged. 60+ is old aged. 30-49 is adult. 18-29 is young adult.

That's called denial"

Call me Egyptian because I'm in de-Nile.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
15 hours ago

your hotlist


"Not quite the same but the husband is into his photography & I love doing our fab photos but I kind of feel like it's a little alter ego, like it's not actually me.

I'm not one who likes photos or someone who can "pose" I find it super awkward so when I see the fab ones all done I'm shocked like that's actually me 😂 I made a good photo, maybe idea because my face is chopped off I'm not sure but I do like them and it is kind of liberating - I don't have a lot of confidence overall at the moment so it's nice to look at myself and think yeah I look alright.

Mrs "

I think your photos are really tasteful and well taken ❤️

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
15 hours ago

your hotlist


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged

⬆️ he likes me.

I must be as well then. We're the same age 😂

You are. 30-50 is the middle aged bracket. Not to get back in to it too deep. 82-83 is average life expectancy.

So for labels sake 30-50 👍🏼

I view it as 50-60 is middle aged. 60+ is old aged. 30-49 is adult. 18-29 is young adult."

Lets not start this again. But your wrong

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By *eroLondonMan
15 hours ago

Mayfair


"I probably wouldn't do it but it's only because I prefer the more relaxed, less stylised photos of myself. And the really classy photos where someone is in my throat or I'm being fucked outdoors. Dead classy, me.

Only you could make that classy Meli

😅 Not a chance. So far removed from it. I know you're technically not meant to comment on a profile but if the avatar is from the recent shoot? Looks fantastic. Would have been so popular on Tumblr. 😘

Yes it was. Thankyou. I cant really share much as im a single profile so just the odd spare limb here or there 🤣

I dont know what Tumblr is 🙈 must be because im middle aged ( takes off milkmaid dress)

Tumblr started around the time we were teenagers. You're not middle aged 😂

It's just another social media thing. Mainly around stylised images. Quotes too.

She is very middle aged

⬆️ he likes me.

I must be as well then. We're the same age 😂

You are. 30-50 is the middle aged bracket. Not to get back in to it too deep. 82-83 is average life expectancy.

So for labels sake 30-50 👍🏼

I view it as 50-60 is middle aged. 60+ is old aged. 30-49 is adult. 18-29 is young adult.

That's called denial

ㅤㅤ

Call me Egyptian because I'm in de-Nile."

You can't say Pharaoh than that.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
15 hours ago

your hotlist


"A guy I know took photos of me/us and looking at them just makes me realise how fucking horrible I am! So I may pass. "

The ones i have seen you post on here have been really nice and tasteful, you look great (in a non bi way obvs)

But yeah were all our own worst critics sometimes.

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By *glyBirdWoman
15 hours ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy


"A guy I know took photos of me/us and looking at them just makes me realise how fucking horrible I am! So I may pass.

The ones i have seen you post on here have been really nice and tasteful, you look great (in a non bi way obvs)

But yeah were all our own worst critics sometimes."

The heavily cropped filtered ones. The rest I live up to my username. I don't think I'm my own worst critic, plenty of others do that! I think I'm just realistic in what I see. You know if a photo of you looks good and you know when one doesn't.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
15 hours ago

your hotlist


"A guy I know took photos of me/us and looking at them just makes me realise how fucking horrible I am! So I may pass.

The ones i have seen you post on here have been really nice and tasteful, you look great (in a non bi way obvs)

But yeah were all our own worst critics sometimes.

The heavily cropped filtered ones. The rest I live up to my username. I don't think I'm my own worst critic, plenty of others do that! I think I'm just realistic in what I see. You know if a photo of you looks good and you know when one doesn't. "

Thats true 😁

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
15 hours ago

Chester


"I know we all joke at the self proclaimed photgraphers on here but it was always something i would never of thought would be for me.

Recently a fwb convinced me it could be fun and we found a lady photgrapher who was "semi professional" but who made us feel so comfortable.

I can honestly say it was the most liberating and erotic experience i have had.

All photos were tasteful and natural.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find it?

Or is it just something you would never do? Doesnt tickle your pickle

"

Id absolutely love to have a go at this 😍

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By *onko the SaneMan
15 hours ago

3rd rock from the sun

Nope not for me

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By *eroLondonMan
15 hours ago

Mayfair

Whilst I appreciate and enjoy (amateur) photography this wouldn't be for me. Aside from the contrived and supposedly unnatural aspects of the photo shoot I would feel totally uncomfortable - and unrelaxed - with a third person present.

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By *uzySuzyCouple
15 hours ago

Lytham St Annes

Had a nice offer once to do one at home.. really enjoyed the results & experience.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
15 hours ago

your hotlist


"Whilst I appreciate and enjoy (amateur) photography this wouldn't be for me. Aside from the contrived and supposedly unnatural aspects of the photo shoot I would feel totally uncomfortable - and unrelaxed - with a third person present."

Thats fair, its not for everyone, i would have always said it wasnt for me prior, i suprised myself

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
15 hours ago

your hotlist


"Nope not for me "

Does this mean its off the table then?

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By *aitonelMan
15 hours ago

Liverpool


"Nope not for me

Does this mean its off the table then? "

He didn't say out. So it's not final

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
15 hours ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester


"Does this mean its off the table then?"

Maybe under the table instead.

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By *icentiousCouple
14 hours ago

Up on them there hills

L did one a number of years ago she thoroughly enjoyed every aspect of of it from make up , hair, clothes to wear , she did comeback rather merry from champagne she consumed while doing it though.

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By *vaRoseWoman
14 hours ago

Ankh-Morpork


"Would love to do a dark themed shoot or a fantasy witchy themed forest one

I'm not sure the Mr would put on wings for me but I would be so up for this!! Even if just for the dress up.

Mrs "

Oh fuck yes!!!

It’s all about the wingspan

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By *oxy-RedWoman
13 hours ago

pink panther territory

No this isn't for me at all

I wouldn't be able to relax with another person in the room

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By *ourpornfixMan
13 hours ago

East Cheshire


"I've been the subject of a dungeon photoshoot but a boudoir sounds a lot more comfortable!

I suppose it depends what your more comfortable with and your kinks/likes. Personally if it was purely for aesthetic reasons i think a dungeon could be a cool backdrop.

If someone was beating me with a riding crop at the same time, not so much 🤣"

The aesthetics can be good. And, of course, you could be in charge of the riding crop...

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
13 hours ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

I would do one if I had a partner. What appeals to me is how they get photos which aren’t so much posed as a fragment of a story. The mind can sort of add the scene of the moment around the photo.

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By *hLookItsThemTwoCouple
13 hours ago

In That Village

We’ve never done a “professional” shoot but we enjoy seeking inspiration and creating our own.

It makes us laugh on here when we’re approached by so called “professionals” but their profiles seem to have no pictures or absolutely awful pictures.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
13 hours ago

your hotlist


"We’ve never done a “professional” shoot but we enjoy seeking inspiration and creating our own.

It makes us laugh on here when we’re approached by so called “professionals” but their profiles seem to have no pictures or absolutely awful pictures. "

But do you enjoy massages as there are a lot of those professionals on here too?

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By *onko the SaneMan
13 hours ago

3rd rock from the sun


"Nope not for me

Does this mean its off the table then? "

Maybe if I can wear a large paper bag over my head

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
13 hours ago

your hotlist


"Nope not for me

Does this mean its off the table then?

Maybe if I can wear a large paper bag over my head "

How about i bend you over? If your shy

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
13 hours ago

Essex

I love my solo “photo shoots”

I sometimes think I’d love to do a boudoir and get angles, lighting etc professionally.

And then I think - I know how I look best.

I may try it one day. I’m not exactly shy 🤣

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By *onko the SaneMan
13 hours ago

3rd rock from the sun


"Nope not for me

Does this mean its off the table then?

Maybe if I can wear a large paper bag over my head

How about i bend you over? If your shy"

There you go teasing again

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
13 hours ago

your hotlist


"Nope not for me

Does this mean its off the table then?

Maybe if I can wear a large paper bag over my head

How about i bend you over? If your shy

There you go teasing again "

Im trying to be your friend again 😭

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By *aitonelMan
13 hours ago

Liverpool


"I love my solo “photo shoots”

I sometimes think I’d love to do a boudoir and get angles, lighting etc professionally.

And then I think - I know how I look best.

I may try it one day. I’m not exactly shy 🤣"

To be fair, while I do think there is some truth to we know how we look best to a degree

Disclaimer to all: The following will cause offense if you take everything personal and act like a wet lettuce.

A professional photographer can make us you look far better than we ever could.

Make a sack of shit look like a pile of gems.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
13 hours ago

Round the bend

There are some amazing boudoir photos out there. I don't think they would be for me though. I wouldn't like posing for a stranger.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
13 hours ago

your hotlist

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
13 hours ago

your hotlist


"I love my solo “photo shoots”

I sometimes think I’d love to do a boudoir and get angles, lighting etc professionally.

And then I think - I know how I look best.

I may try it one day. I’m not exactly shy 🤣

To be fair, while I do think there is some truth to we know how we look best to a degree

Disclaimer to all: The following will cause offense if you take everything personal and act like a wet lettuce.

A professional photographer can make us you look far better than we ever could.

Make a sack of shit look like a pile of gems. "

100% agree. Is it me in the photo? yes

Have they been taken to smooth out my cellulite and paint me in the best light possible also yes.

No shame here.

When i start to have sophia lorens head superimposed onto mine maybe ive gone too far.

Maybe

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By *arriedminxCouple
11 hours ago

here

I did one a few years back and really enjoyed it. I was specific around no editing body shape or stretch marks etc I wanted them to actually reflect me. Having access to the backdrops and props was great though…the photographer while a professional and won several awards didn’t remain strictly professional But we have remained friends loosely ever since and have been invited a few times to do more shots…which at somepoint we’ll do as a couple!

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By *aisyMayStarWoman
11 hours ago

london


"I know we all joke at the self proclaimed photgraphers on here but it was always something i would never of thought would be for me.

Recently a fwb convinced me it could be fun and we found a lady photgrapher who was "semi professional" but who made us feel so comfortable.

I can honestly say it was the most liberating and erotic experience i have had.

All photos were tasteful and natural.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find it?

Or is it just something you would never do? Doesnt tickle your pickle

I've done a few boudoir shoots in the past...solo and with other models. There has to be a certain visual compatibility if it's a couple shoot ...the place/environment is crucial ...they can be fun if you're comfortable in your skin, and can be absolutely devastating for your confidence if they don't end up as you wanted - keep in mind a photographer will aim for ths best shot not how to make you look the best in the photo "

A good photographer will aim to achieve both. It’s no good taking a great shot, if the model doesn’t look good.

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By *hilly1515Man
11 hours ago


"Never done it. I'd be interested in doing it with a partner. Not with a professional though. A tripod, some bright lights and a timer. We could enjoy ourselves, have lots of snacks on the side. It would be fun and erotic."

I will do it with you shams ... let's face it we need all the help we can get... me and you will look sexy as fook in in all that kinky webbing and make up one stipulation though no crossing swords please

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By (user no longer on site)
11 hours ago


"I know we all joke at the self proclaimed photgraphers on here but it was always something i would never of thought would be for me.

Recently a fwb convinced me it could be fun and we found a lady photgrapher who was "semi professional" but who made us feel so comfortable.

I can honestly say it was the most liberating and erotic experience i have had.

All photos were tasteful and natural.

Has anyone else experienced this? How did you find it?

Or is it just something you would never do? Doesnt tickle your pickle

"

*

I did, and like you I felt liberated and loved all my photos, they weren’t smutty in anyway but were arty and tasteful x

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By *sWyldWoman
11 hours ago

Edinburgh

I've had a couple of professional photo shoots done and each time I was initially spiraling over how awful I thoight I looked.

In time though I learnt to like what I saw.

I do kinda like the idea of someone capturing certain moments but I don't have the confidence for it at the moment.

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By *urve_your_enthusiasmWoman
11 hours ago

Manchester

This is something I'd like to do. Something I'll do in the near future

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
10 hours ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

I would yes, having someone with fresh eyes on composition would be good

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
10 hours ago

Reading

I love the idea. Something I'd definitely want to try.

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By *abcouple1403Couple
9 hours ago

Newcastle

It’s something I’ve wanted to try for a long time but the Mrs probably would only be happy trying it if she felt comfortable with a photographer

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By *ilts-warm-cplCouple
9 hours ago

WARMINSTER

Mrs done a few photo shoots when she was younger.

Also took some of her myself at a friend's studio.

Our profile pic is one I took of Mrs

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
9 hours ago

your hotlist


"Mrs done a few photo shoots when she was younger.

Also took some of her myself at a friend's studio.

Our profile pic is one I took of Mrs

"

That photo is gorgeous

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By *aven RedWoman
8 hours ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

I had a boudoir photoshoot when I was at a low point in my life. Zero confidence and no body confidence. I was extremely nervous and didn't have many expectations about the pictures. I thought the photographer was 'humouring' me telling me I looked sexy when he took the pictures. I cried when I went to view them. The pictures they were showing of me were not what I saw myself as in my mind, or the mirror. It was one of the best things I ever done and I would recommend anyone else to do it if they had an opportunity x

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
7 hours ago

Reading


"I had a boudoir photoshoot when I was at a low point in my life. Zero confidence and no body confidence. I was extremely nervous and didn't have many expectations about the pictures. I thought the photographer was 'humouring' me telling me I looked sexy when he took the pictures. I cried when I went to view them. The pictures they were showing of me were not what I saw myself as in my mind, or the mirror. It was one of the best things I ever done and I would recommend anyone else to do it if they had an opportunity x"

I was similar with my photo shoot, I went along for a bit of a confidence boost when my marriage was ending. The photographer was great at getting me to relax and there was no pressure to do any poses I wasn’t happy with or to be naked unless I wanted to. I still expected to have to make a purchase of a photo as a sympathy purchase. I walked into my viewing and burst into tears as I never believed I could look so good in a photograph. Now there are some images I don’t like as the pose doesn’t feel like me but others are super hot.

I would love to do a more risqué shoot in the future but am working on that with a photographer friend.

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
7 hours ago

Lancashire

Nice to hear that so many people have had positive experiences. I really appreciate some of the tasteful creative pics I’ve seen but I just don’t think I’d be able to do it. I’d be far too awkward 🙈

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By *lyingsolo1000Woman
6 hours ago

Reading


"Nice to hear that so many people have had positive experiences. I really appreciate some of the tasteful creative pics I’ve seen but I just don’t think I’d be able to do it. I’d be far too awkward 🙈"

And that is where finding the right photographer is so important. They need to make you relax, direct you as well as be able to take a photo.

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By *uenevereWoman
5 hours ago

Scunthorpe

I had a boudoir photoshoot done a few years ago and thoroughly enjoyed it. Mostly just lingerie.

I have some of the photos on my profile and highly recommend the experience.

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By *aven RedWoman
5 hours ago

who knows, but it's not raining x


"Nice to hear that so many people have had positive experiences. I really appreciate some of the tasteful creative pics I’ve seen but I just don’t think I’d be able to do it. I’d be far too awkward 🙈

And that is where finding the right photographer is so important. They need to make you relax, direct you as well as be able to take a photo."

I second this. The right photographer, a professional one, will bring out the best in you. I never done any nude pics, all of mine were in underwear. He told me the poses, I pulled a face, but the photos turned out better than I ever could have imagined they would x

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By *hastity_roseTV/TS
4 hours ago

Nowhere

I'd adore having one ! Got a make up artist for my my failed meet last week and didn't really take many pics . If only I had someone who knew what they were doing x

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By *emptme1993Man
4 hours ago

manchester

I love looking at peoples pictures from these, you can tell the difference between the classy well done ones and the corny/porn style ones. Happily look at them all day

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
4 hours ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester


"Nice to hear that so many people have had positive experiences. I really appreciate some of the tasteful creative pics I’ve seen but I just don’t think I’d be able to do it. I’d be far too awkward 🙈"

I think we could be beautifully awkward together.

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
4 hours ago

your hotlist


"I love looking at peoples pictures from these, you can tell the difference between the classy well done ones and the corny/porn style ones. Happily look at them all day "

Wanna make some corny porn style ones?

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By *onko the SaneMan
4 hours ago

3rd rock from the sun


"Nope not for me

Does this mean its off the table then?

Maybe if I can wear a large paper bag over my head

How about i bend you over? If your shy

There you go teasing again

Im trying to be your friend again 😭"

You are a friend

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By *hickthighs26 OP   Woman
4 hours ago

your hotlist


"Nope not for me

Does this mean its off the table then?

Maybe if I can wear a large paper bag over my head

How about i bend you over? If your shy

There you go teasing again

Im trying to be your friend again 😭

You are a friend "

Aww this made me so happy ❤️

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By *emptme1993Man
3 hours ago

manchester


"I love looking at peoples pictures from these, you can tell the difference between the classy well done ones and the corny/porn style ones. Happily look at them all day

Wanna make some corny porn style ones?"

Absolutely, I mean I’d prefer to have a few sessions make sure we get all the good shots in as well

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