FabSwingers.com forum: Disability

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Date someone as in looking to have a relationship with? yes if I liked them enough, meet someone on here then it wouldn't depends on the disability , and for most it would probably be a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Date someone as in looking to have a relationship with? yes if I liked them enough, meet someone on here then it wouldn't depends on the disability , and for most it would probably be a no"

Can't see why not makes no odds to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Date someone as in looking to have a relationship with? yes if I liked them enough, meet someone on here then it wouldn't depends on the disability , and for most it would probably be a no

Can't see why not makes no odds to me "

good for you, don't mean my answer has to be the same as yours tho does it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Depends on the disability to be honest. I know I could never cope in a relationship with a paraplegic or quadriplegic, but would be OK with deaf or blind people. I have dated people with mental illnesses though and its been (mostly) OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah dated a guy with spina bifida when i was 17

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

It would def depend on the disability for me. X

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By *e nicerWoman
over a year ago

Costa del Medway

Isn't it less able these days. Surely if you are talking dating you are talking possible soul mates so yes.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!"

Yes - as long as the attraction was there.

Just as with meeting anyone - you have to adapt to they like/don;t like and what is and isn't possible.

It's supposed to be fun for all parties involved.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Sweeping answer: no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't it less able these days. Surely if you are talking dating you are talking possible soul mates so yes. "

and that's why my answer is different for dating and meeting off here, I look for much more in a person in every day life than I do on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favourite buddies was an amputee, amazing guy & such a zest for life!!

I'm happy with disabilities as I have an invisible illness myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There is method in my madness. My brother has Cystic Fibrosis. He has been single forever but has been on loads of dates.

Its interesting to see people's responses. He's considering joining an agency like the one on the Undateables on Channel 4.

He's a very handsome lad, great personality, but he's got this condition that puts women off a relationship.

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By *ig jugsWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

It depends on the label "Disabled".This is a broad term for many things.I am classed as disabledd.I have an illness an now I just had my bladder removed 4 weeks ago and have a stoma.Yes I have scars etc and medically labelled disabled now but it wouldnt stop me dating someone who sees me for me not the disability

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?"

surely that's her choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah depends on the disability really my lad is classed as disabled now cause of his sight loss.

I don't think i could date someone who needed a lot of help with everyday things as id be too selfish and it would leave less time for me and my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?"

Sweeping answer to a sweeping question....

In principal I would say yes.... But it would depend on each case....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?"

I say hats off to her for being honest.. i think people are too worried what other people would think.

Id not date someone who is paralyzed or had learning difficulties. Even some states of depression and mental illness id avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working in this sector it is still classed as mental/ly or physical/ly disability/disabled

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's dependant for me....would it all lead to heart ache and loss..not saying that can't happened with someone that is more able...like any relationship is its weighing up the pros and cons...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Yeah depends on the disability really my lad is classed as disabled now cause of his sight loss.

I don't think i could date someone who needed a lot of help with everyday things as id be too selfish and it would leave less time for me and my kids "

This is the same with me. Maybe a few years ago before I had my son I would of done but now he is the one who is my priority and no matter who the person is disabled or not i would be thinking long and hard how bringing a new person into my life would affect him first and foremost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah depends on the disability really my lad is classed as disabled now cause of his sight loss.

I don't think i could date someone who needed a lot of help with everyday things as id be too selfish and it would leave less time for me and my kids

same here, if it involved being their full time carer and having to pack up my job then it would be a no, as above my kids come first and working to provide for them and give them a better life than on benefits would come first, I wouldn't be with any guy where I had to spend more time with them than my kids, disability or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Date someone as in looking to have a relationship with? yes if I liked them enough, meet someone on here then it wouldn't depends on the disability , and for most it would probably be a no

Can't see why not makes no odds to me

good for you, don't mean my answer has to be the same as yours tho does it

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er .. No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I would. If I liked them it wouldn't bother me if they had a disability.

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By *adyH and GrissomCouple
over a year ago

Llantarnum

Got to be a yes because I not only dated him, I married him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah depends on the disability really my lad is classed as disabled now cause of his sight loss.

I don't think i could date someone who needed a lot of help with everyday things as id be too selfish and it would leave less time for me and my kids

This is why i don't want a relationship i have my little family unit and that takes up the main amount of my time...i know my boys are a little older but still i cant see myself making more room or time for anyone else right now.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

yes no problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't but only because I am a carer for my daughter and this is my time for getting away from it..

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By *ab2Man
over a year ago

Manchester/Dublin

Hi ruby Sofia I've read the threads on this and to my limited knowledge while cystic fibrosis is very debilitating is it a disability? I know 3 people with this condition that are enjoying very healthy relationships I know the associated cocktail of drugs and nebulisers and physio is difficult but nothing that should interfere in your brother enjoying his life in every aspect so my advice is if he is as you say he is he will have no problem finding love it's just a case like us all of finding it.Sorry for being long winded

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By *righteyesBlueMan
over a year ago

Chester

Makes no odds, more important to me that you enjoy each others company and have a laugh

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"There is method in my madness. My brother has Cystic Fibrosis. He has been single forever but has been on loads of dates.

Its interesting to see people's responses. He's considering joining an agency like the one on the Undateables on Channel 4.

He's a very handsome lad, great personality, but he's got this condition that puts women off a relationship. "

Are the women put off by the CF or his way of presenting it to them? Are they put off because long term they want children and that is so much harder for men with CF?

If I met the right person for me and they had a disability that wouldn't put me off. I can see that the disability might be the assumed reason for not moving things forward but it would be the connection. Even the most attractive, fully able people don't manage to have relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweeping answer: no!

No I dont think I would either although it would depend on the disability..... I mean there are alot of people classed as having a disability but are just as able bodied as you and me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweeping answer: no!

No I dont think I would either although it would depend on the disability..... I mean there are alot of people classed as having a disability but are just as able bodied as you and me!"

True, I have epilepsy which is classed as a disability, you can register yourself and get all kinds of benefits, would I class myself as disabled? course I don't, I work and bring up my kids like anyone else, disabled covers such a huge arse

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

As this directly effects me quite interesting.

I go to great lengths to hide my disability, I even thought of making my guide dog wear dark glasses.

To be fair to naughty she wouldn't have shagged me before I was blind and still wouldn't now.

People view disabilities in different ways and comes to personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As this directly effects me quite interesting.

I go to great lengths to hide my disability, I even thought of making my guide dog wear dark glasses.

To be fair to naughty she wouldn't have shagged me before I was blind and still wouldn't now.

People view disabilities in different ways and comes to personal choice

oi why you singling me out?

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"As this directly effects me quite interesting.

I go to great lengths to hide my disability, I even thought of making my guide dog wear dark glasses.

To be fair to naughty she wouldn't have shagged me before I was blind and still wouldn't now.

People view disabilities in different ways and comes to personal choice

oi why you singling me out?

To be fair I met you but have not met the others. But in your defense you are alway polite

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

People view disabilities in different ways and comes to personal choice

Good post.

At the moment, I am not meeting as I am unable to walk unaided. I do feel self concious about it, and felt so embarrassed the other day as I had to use a mobility scooter as I can't even walk round a supermarket.

My friends laughed and took the piss when they found out, but still told me to behave and not to care what anyone thought.

I know that I would probably be way down the list for anyone wanting to meet me even if I was up for it, because of my current condition. Some would say, 'It wouldn't bother me' but until you are in that situation, I don't think you would know.

For me though, it would all depend on various factors if I wanted to meet/date someone with a disability even if I get fixed. (Hope that all makes sense)

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Would you want to meet people that viewed your disability as a barrier to meeting you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a raspberry, I'd happily date another raspberry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did date a guy in a wheelchair many moons ago.

He had lots of physical problems from a RTA and when I first met him wore sanitary pads. During our relationship he started using a drug he injected into his penis to get hard as he had no feeling below his waist.

Took a bit of getting used to, but I'm attracted to people by personality mostly.

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

For me it woul depend on the disability - the term 'disabled' can cover a wide variety of things, not just the physical.

I did date a guy who had ssuffered quite badly from depression and it was one of the main reasons we split up. Not so much because he had depression but mainly because he refused to acknowledge it or get help for it. In the end though I just want an easy life and was all too hard.

My cousin met and married a quadriplegic and they have a fantastic relationship. I suppose you just love who you love and you never really know when or how it's going to strike.

I would never discount dating someone with a physical disability - it all just depends on the person and how I feel about them. If you had asked my cousin if she ever pictured herself married to a quadriplegic beforehand she would have said NO WAY. But it works for them and I know they wouldn't have it any other way now. But everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is method in my madness. My brother has Cystic Fibrosis. He has been single forever but has been on loads of dates.

Its interesting to see people's responses. He's considering joining an agency like the one on the Undateables on Channel 4.

He's a very handsome lad, great personality, but he's got this condition that puts women off a relationship.

Are the women put off by the CF or his way of presenting it to them? Are they put off because long term they want children and that is so much harder for men with CF?

Personally I think its the CF, he has a cough a lot of the time, something that is quite a shock the first time you hear it.

He also takes about 16-18 tablets with a meal which isn't something you can hide on a "first date"

I think he's possibly going down the right route, but I hate to think of him as disabled.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"yep I would

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Got to be a yes because I not only dated him, I married him

Me Too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... if they tick all my boxes

*funny *cute *nice personality *geek

Then i'd shag marry date. And fancy x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

In dating land you have to find people who are attracted to or not put off by your physical appearance etc. I met my ex on a site for larger ladies shall we say because I didn't think anyone one on any other site would like me.

Would I date someone with a disability? As Wolfgang saying it depends on the connection between the individuals doesn't it. I don't think you can blankly say yes or no.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"In dating land you have to find people who are attracted to or not put off by your physical appearance etc. I met my ex on a site for larger ladies shall we say because I didn't think anyone one on any other site would like me.

Would I date someone with a disability? As Wolfgang saying it depends on the connection between the individuals doesn't it. I don't think you can blankly say yes or no. "

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?"

Of course I can, just like I can see Tom Cruise is a handsome man but he's short and I wouldn't date a short man either.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?

surely that's her choice? "

You'd think so but it appears you're expected to defend your preferences to others.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Would I date someone with a disability? As Wolfgang saying it depends on the connection between the individuals doesn't it. I don't think you can blankly say yes or no.

I'm glad you know who Wolfgang is lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?

I say hats off to her for being honest.. i think people are too worried what other people would think.

Id not date someone who is paralyzed or had learning difficulties. Even some states of depression and mental illness id avoid "

That's the thing Cute, people play to the gallery: rather sad as you know they're lying. They wouldn't be seen dead with the likes of you and I even though we have 20/20 vision, can hear a moths wing in the New Forest standing in T5 Heathrow, MENSA ask us to write the questions, we're gainfully employed, can suck like Dysons but we're fat, but they'll date a blind, deaf, mute quadriplegic!!!

Yeah...right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?

surely that's her choice?

You'd think so but it appears you're expected to defend your preferences to others.

It depends how the thread is viewed ... is it just list of people's preferences or is it an open debate on the subject where anybodies preference once stated is open to analysis? In my mind the fundamental problem is the concept that 'they' are disabled people. It's a subtle difference but shouldn't it be person with a disability? ... nobody should be defined by their disability. Person first and foremost.

Some might think this is semantics and "political correctness gone maaad". ... but I know how I view my boy and how I want him to be viewed. He has ABI, partial hearing loss and a (hopefully) temporary facial palsy from a RTA in 2011 so nothing extreme but enough for this post to be based in reality but come from the heart.

To answer the original question ... certaitainly would date/meet a person with a disability if the spark is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I date someone with a disability? As Wolfgang saying it depends on the connection between the individuals doesn't it. I don't think you can blankly say yes or no. "

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By *ryme_gyMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

I see no reason why not.

I think the sad truth is that these days people care more about what other people think of them than what they think of themselves.

Whilst at school I split with a girl I really liked because of what my mates thought and still regret it now.

I've learned now to just be true to yourself, if you like someone (disabled or not) tell them and hopefully enjoy your time together.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Would depend on the disability

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just say cerry off ceebees she has one arm and my god she gives me the horn, I'm not saying I would go and actively seek out someone with a disability but if I had a connection with someone I have a connection with them and from there there is no going back no matter what other people think.

There once was a girl who worked at my local McDonald's she was on the window of the drive through every Friday when I went for my breakfast, we would chat and flirt a bit and she was ace, one day I had left the car at home and went into the building it was only then I found that she had a servere curvature to the spine but it was the same girl who had been making my day for weeks with her whity banter and eventually we went out on a date we saw each other for a while the sex was incredible to be fair lol she was a very naughty girl I was gutted when she dumped me for another guy but hey that's life

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By *ryme_gyMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

Have to agree about the cbeebies lady, she is really hot!

Did you know that the bbc received complaints that she was scaring children? Goes to show how far some elements of society still have to come!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Have to agree about the cbeebies lady, she is really hot!

Did you know that the bbc received complaints that she was scaring children? Goes to show how far some elements of society still have to come!

She wasn't scaring children she was causing parents to have to answer questions they didn't know how to answer so the easiest option was to try to get hee sacked. Some parents will go to great lengths not to actually parent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the disability. But if it was a mental disability for example, then no, i wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would as is the person you dating not whats up with them and i have done in the past and it was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that you can discount anyone just because of a flaw I mean if there is a consent issue then ok I get that and if the disability made them in attractive in some way then yeah but ask yourself this if brad Pitt and angelina jolie lost a limb each and had a couples profile on here would it be a no?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me it would completely depend on the disability - considering the wide range and level of disabilities that we have. I don't know how I would respond as I have not really been in the situation.

I would be more worried about emotional instability and substance misuse than about somebody with an artificial limb.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

It would depend on the disability

My ex had mental health problems , after 5 years i couldnt cope with it anymore. I work with 5 guys with servere learning disabilities and challengin

Behaviour. Sorry about my typing am on a new phone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would and have.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I certainly would if I wasn't disabled myself and the main reason for me staying single, is that I'm very hard work, have hundreds of appointments to attend to, need help every day and I use a wheelchair on days out or to go shopping.

I dont want to burden anyone, and I have seriously bad mood swings, because I cant do what I want to do, or that I used to do.

I'm just recovering from an op on my spine and cant even turn over without screaming, who'd wanna put up with that?

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By *ryme_gyMan
over a year ago

Grimsby

"Have to agree about the cbeebies lady, she is really hot!

Did you know that the bbc received complaints that she was scaring children? Goes to show how far some elements of society still have to come!

I agree 100% with the above sadly.

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Sweeping answer: no!

So you can't see the person, just the disability?

surely that's her choice?

You'd think so but it appears you're expected to defend your preferences to others.

To answer the original question ... certaitainly would date/meet a person with a disability if the spark is there. "

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By *he tactile technicianMan
over a year ago

the good lands, the bad lands, the any where you may want me lands

"Working in this sector it is still classed as mental/ly or physical/ly disability/disabled"
Um excuse me? and a sensory disability is what in your sector?

I am certainly not physically disabled; many may say I have a mental ill health condition, but that isn't disabling - I'd recommend you brush up on your social model of disability

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By *righteyesBlueMan
over a year ago

Chester

"Have to agree about the cbeebies lady, she is really hot!

Did you know that the bbc received complaints that she was scaring children? Goes to show how far some elements of society still have to come!

Well said and very true, children are just inquisitive, not judgemental, when they see something they don't normally see, its a parents responsibility to explain that not everyone is the same and there's nothing wrong with being different, its what makes us all individuals and its quite sad in this day in age when people judge others simply on appearance and an apparent disability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!"

wouldn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!

wouldn't bother me "

A pretty disrespectful question if you ask me. Each to own n all. The wording seems disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a minor thing like a finger of toe missing then it would not bother me.

However, anything major such as a limb missing or blind, deaf etc or anything that would mean the person was not independent and self sufficient would put me off.

Fabswingers is an escapist fantasy for me and I don't want to be confronted by life's cruel ways in my experiences through it.

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By *ark Gr8 Teddy BearMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Yes I would and have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was a minor thing like a finger of toe missing then it would not bother me.

However, anything major such as a limb missing or blind, deaf etc or anything that would mean the person was not independent and self sufficient would put me off.

Fabswingers is an escapist fantasy for me and I don't want to be confronted by life's cruel ways in my experiences through it. "

People are assessed Under the Mental Capacity Act to determine whether or not they have the ability to make informed decisions without endangering themselves or others

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Fabswingers is an escapist fantasy for me and I don't want to be confronted by life's cruel ways in my experiences through it. "

Nothing more, nothing less: simply this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have in the past.

Ppl are perfect with their imperfections!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!

wouldn't bother me

A pretty disrespectful question if you ask me. Each to own n all. The wording seems disrespectful. "

In what way is it disrespectful?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!

wouldn't bother me

A pretty disrespectful question if you ask me. Each to own n all. The wording seems disrespectful.

In what way is it disrespectful?

*Shrugs*...didn't get that either!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!

wouldn't bother me

A pretty disrespectful question if you ask me. Each to own n all. The wording seems disrespectful.

In what way is it disrespectful?

*Shrugs*...didn't get that either! "

Nor me. In fact the op explains why she asked further down the thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm currently caring for my 89 year old physically active but severe dementia neighbour who lives alone n therefore not been able to have a proper meet with ANYONE in last four months!

I'm ABSOLUTELY bushwhacked mentally at the moment cos she can't retain any information n now is getting stroppy with me

ALL I'M CRAVING IS A GOOD NIGHT'S SLEEP!

That said - YES I would meet a disabled person quite happily. I doubt I'd have a relationship tho - but in fairness i wouldn't have a relationship with a fully able person because it's not something I want in my life

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By *he Enigmatic MagnetMan
over a year ago

Glasgow West

As someone with a disability myself,I would have no hesitation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as found them attractive.. there are some well hot disabled people out there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would depend on the disability..and most importantly i knew about it and not had it sprung on me on a meet..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just want to respond to the comment that my post was disrespectful. I initially started this thread after speaking with my brother who has Cystic Fibrosis about his finding it difficult to get a girlfriend and wondering if that was because of his condition. I would never be disrespectful to anyone, able bodied or disabled regarding dating/relationships etc as I actually view everyone as the same.

Personally, I would date and have a relationship with someone who has a disability as I am able to look beyond that.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure if they were a nice person and we got on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a 15inch cock count as a disability?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i would.............. also our daughter has a condition that is genetic and is not curable......I used to worry my self to sleep when she was a child wondering would anyone love her the way we did..... well she has found a wonderful husband and they now have a beautiful little boy and have been happily married for five years...so there are lovely people out there !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?"

It was 15 inches a minute ago - which quite frankly sounds terrifying. But also have a bit of respect please - this is a serious post and people have opened up quite a lot about very personal stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?

It was 15 inches a minute ago - which quite frankly sounds terrifying. But also have a bit of respect please - this is a serious post and people have opened up quite a lot about very personal stuff. "

Well I'm aroused so of course it's grown Doh!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i would

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?"

Why not go play in another thread and let the people discuss in this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have no problem meeting disabled people.

I have worked with people who have a disability, and they are no different. You need to look beyond the disability and look at the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?

Why not go play in another thread and let the people discuss in this one

Head down and sulks off slowly. Turns and sticks tongue out.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I try to meet very fit ladies who are totally blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?"

you have a serious problem I think....I have seen your 'comments' on other posts and quite frankly, I think you should get a life and move on!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?

Why not go play in another thread and let the people discuss in this one

Head down and sulks off slowly. Turns and sticks tongue out.

* blows raspberry *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I think it would depend on the disability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I work with several types of disabilities it would have to depend on their disability as in all honesty the last thing I would want is to bring work into a meet so to speak.

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By *amyankeeMan
over a year ago

grand rapids

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (the fem) am disabled .... at least i know which folk to avoid now

Most people wouldnt know im disabled thou, i work full time also study and have a busy family life but i struggle to walk due to an injury and dreadful pain, i have no full or part time carer nor do i get any handouts !

Im still sexy thou and a bloody good fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah that's all lovely but what a out my 17inch cock. Am I disabled?

you have a serious problem I think....I have seen your 'comments' on other posts and quite frankly, I think you should get a life and move on!

I have a lovely life thank you. With regards to my other comments it's called a sense of humour. I don't believe I'm being nasty or rude. Please lighten up

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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I have a lovely life thank you. With regards to my other comments it's called a sense of humour. I don't believe I'm being nasty or rude. Please lighten up

A 'sense of humour' is usually associated with something funny.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Would you date someone who was disabled?

Random question I know, but I'm in a random mood!"

I don't do dating. Able-bodied or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a raspberry, I'd happily date another raspberry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a raspberry, I'd happily date another raspberry.

Yes but would u date a Loganberry is the conundrum???

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Despite what people say when it boils down to it a lot of people say they would but in reality....

I know for myself I have never classed myself as disabled (until the knee went anyway) but I do have a genetic condition which I'm completely open about but still have had many nasty comments about after a meet and I know many will choose not to meet because of it!!

Everyone is entitled to that choice though and no one should be judges in their preference!!

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Being a raspberry, I'd happily date another raspberry.

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