FabSwingers.com forum: Can you meet …

By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

… someone from Fab without fancying them?

Or are you only here to get your leg over? I’ve met people one-on-one just for a chat and a drink, even though I already know I don’t fancy them. Or they don’t fancy me. Or both. But I realise that’s not for everyone.

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

(I was going to make this joke in Meli’s thread but decided it might make a decent thread in its own right.)

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By *aitonelMan
4 days ago

Liverpool

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
4 days ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Yes ... As well you know OP 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *earditallWoman
4 days ago

Lancaster

Ive met socially even though I don't fancy them.

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By *carlettsWoman
4 days ago

Harpenden

Yes happened only once or twice tho. Stayed as friends but nothing happened

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 days ago

your hotlist

I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet.

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By *aitonelMan
4 days ago

Liverpool

Yes.

As a social, just a get together with somebody I connect with.

But anything sexual no.

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
4 days ago

ross on wye

"… someone from Fab without fancying them?

Yep done that

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet."

Look, last time we tried that on the table, we got huckled out of the bar.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 days ago

your hotlist

"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet.

Look, last time we tried that on the table, we got huckled out of the bar.

Thats only because you have big hands

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
4 days ago

Niche

I don't think so.

I don't need to meet in person to enjoy a chat and I don't have time enough for the in-person friends I already have so realistically I doubt it'd happen.

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By *inkPomPomWoman
4 days ago

Isle of Man

I just couldnt, i would maybe try a social if i thought they were cute and see if a groove formed, go from there

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"Ive met socially even though I don't fancy them."

Exactly what I meant. I’ve had some cracking evenings chatting with other Fabbers about all the sex, without wanting to do it with them.

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By *carlettsWoman
4 days ago

Harpenden

"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet.

Look, last time we tried that on the table, we got huckled out of the bar.

Thats only because you have big hands

I dunno why but now I'm imagining those big rubber football goal hands!!

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By *parkle1974Woman
4 days ago

Leeds

No....

I don't really "fancy" anyone though, to me it's just an attraction so if that attraction wasn't there then no meet would happen.

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"Thats only because you have big hands

You say the sweetest things. 💋

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"I dunno why but now I'm imagining those big rubber football goal hands!!"

It’s a photoshoot waiting to happen! 😅

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"As a social, just a get together with somebody I connect with. But anything sexual no. "

I really didn’t mean to imply having sex with someone you don’t fancy. That’s a terrible idea and nobody should do it.

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By *morousCouple8Couple
4 days ago

Cumbria

Yup, enjoy the openness of fab friendships, love meeting people at socials and the ladies nights out where most of them are straight and we chat and laugh all evening long

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By *hickthighs26Woman
4 days ago

your hotlist

"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet.

Look, last time we tried that on the table, we got huckled out of the bar.

Thats only because you have big hands

I dunno why but now I'm imagining those big rubber football goal hands!!"

🤣🤣🤣 im thinking of the foam ones the ones with the big middle finger

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By *olo180Man
4 days ago

Greater London

Like someone else said, I have plenty of friends that I just don’t get the time to see so I wouldn’t be looking at making new social acquaintances. A meet for a social with the aim for more (but if it didn’t work out that’s fine)

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"Yup, enjoy the openness of fab friendships, love meeting people at socials and the ladies nights out where most of them are straight and we chat and laugh all evening long

Oh, for sure. The big socials are great for making friends.

(Although I always seem to end up fancying/snogging someone at some point …)

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
4 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Er no

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By *morousCouple8Couple
4 days ago

Cumbria

"Yup, enjoy the openness of fab friendships, love meeting people at socials and the ladies nights out where most of them are straight and we chat and laugh all evening long

Oh, for sure. The big socials are great for making friends.

(Although I always seem to end up fancying/snogging someone at some point …)"

I’m clearly doing socials wrong….

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By *estructionDollyWoman
4 days ago

Manchester

If I chat with them on here and we get along great socially but didn't find them attractive, I would. But I would have to be clear with them that it's only a social and there's no possibility of it being any more.

I know some people are only here for shags but I am always open to new friends I have things in common with. I have made lots of friends from going to swingers clubs that I don't want to have sex with but we get on well.

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By *eliWoman
4 days ago

Yep. Very happily. I have friends on here, Fab friends and otherwise that I'm happy to spend time with.

I'm also happy to meet new people as long as it doesn't feel like they're only trying to get their leg over. You know when friendships only last as long as it takes for you to say you're not interested in them sexually? Don't have energy for that.

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 days ago

Belfast

I've met lots of people socially knowing that we weren't sexually compatible beforehand but they seemed like decent human beings so it was nice to meet for a coffee.

If I was just here to get my leg over I wouldn't be here any more

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
4 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"… But I would have to be clear with them that it's only a social and there's no possibility of it being any more."

Definitely! I’ve fallen foul of that rookie mistake before. Best to make things super-clear before going for that drink. It gets awkward if you leave it ’til later.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
4 days ago

Reading

Not usually no.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
4 days ago

Round the bend

Absolutely.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
4 days ago

pink panther territory

Yes and I have a few times,purely platonic though

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
4 days ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Absolutely, as long as everyone knows the score

Fab friendships have been a delightfully unexpected aspect of the scene for me.

Mrs TMN x

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By *odgerMooreMan
4 days ago

Rummage Up The Jumper

"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet."

The voice of reason ^

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By (user no longer on site)
4 days ago

Yes, I have plenty of Fab platonic friends male and female who I often meet for a coffee and nights out. They all know my stance & we happily have a laugh at life.

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By *sWyldWoman
4 days ago

Edinburgh

Yes . I've met people socially knowing thats all it will ever be, though I've found it is never more than a one off.

I've been to organised socials and a party knowing I don't fancy anyone and they don't fancy me either and it's almost made it less pressure that way.

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By *mready67Man
4 days ago

Glasgow

I’d meet socially. But for anything else I need to fancy them

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
4 days ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

I would for drinks etc with people I like but don't necessarily fancy. I like meeting new people.

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By *rchie300Man
4 days ago

Hamworthy

Sure I could …. I’m very horny at the moment …. Much like a dog with 2 dicks ….. watch out lamppost looking people and posties 😂

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By *viatrixWoman
4 days ago

Gatwick

Yes, and have done several times.

Problem is when you are crystal clear in saying it will only be a social and guys still think they can convince you of taking it further….

But social meetups as frijds are awesome. 🎀🩷

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By *hil most chillMan
4 days ago

London, South East & Europe

I'm just here to bone, to be honest I don't think I'd bother meeting someone from here if I didn't fancy them. Maybe if they had cupcakes

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
3 days ago

Bot Farm

Yes, besides the fact that this is a swinger meeting site, I have made really good friends. I don't sexually fancy them, but I adore them.

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By *utoftheBluexWoman
3 days ago

Bot Farm

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By *cottish guy 555Man
3 days ago

London

I've met plenty of people from fab when I knew no naughty stuff was on the cards.

Often it's just nice to meet who you've been chatting with or having a laugh on the forums with.

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By *2000ManMan
3 days ago

Worthing

I can tell from initial chat if it's worth meeting up.

Those women are few and far between.

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By *d mirerMan
3 days ago

lost

Yes indeed , my longest term fab friend and I meet a few times a year , there’s no sexual spark but we’ve been really good friends for years .

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
3 days ago

Maidstone

Yes. Met lots where we don't fancy each other.

Sigh... one day I'll meet someone who fancies me surely!??

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By *hilly1515Man
3 days ago

"Yes. Met lots where we don't fancy each other.

Sigh... one day I'll meet someone who fancies me surely!??"

if you wish it he will arrive.

Romance is good for the heart

keep the faith

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By *tormQueenWoman
3 days ago

Manchester

Ive met loads of people on fab that have become friends

And vanishingly few who have seen me naked 😊

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By *eroLondonMan
3 days ago

Mayfair

Yes absolutely, and I do so frequently. Whilst I'm here for the intimate encounters some of my interactions are one-to-one socials, dinners, attending art exhibitions and galleries etc. I meet those that I fancy and also I meet those where there is no mutual attraction other than mutual friendship.

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By *ruella DeThrillWoman
3 days ago

Essex

I think I’ve probably met more socially than not at this point.

I’m just a sociable gal

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By *unseeker100Man
3 days ago

batley

"I just want a good fingering tbh if that wasnt on the table i wouldnt meet."

One finger or two ?

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 days ago

your wildest dreams,

I’ve met loads socially. That’s part of the fun. In fact I’m in London now, will see if there’s anyone I know to have coffee with. It’s just a great opportunity meeting new people and getting a different perspective on life

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
3 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

"I’ve met loads socially. That’s part of the fun. In fact I’m in London now, will see if there’s anyone I know to have coffee with."

If you’re still there Monday, I’ll get you a coffee.

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 days ago

your wildest dreams,

Aw that’s such a shame. I’m off home tomorrow. That would have been amazing

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By *ose-tinted Glasses OP Man
3 days ago

Glasgow / London / Manchester

One day we’ll be in the same place at the same time. One day.

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By *rincipessaWoman
3 days ago

your wildest dreams,

I know. All these years we’ve ships passing

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By *andsCouple
3 days ago

Edin

Sexually no

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