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By *ools and the brain OP   Couple
5 days ago

couple, us we him her.

I mean obviously some do, some think they are.

But people who are naturally 😍

" it's hard being really really ridiculously good looking "

(Bluesteel)

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By *yrdsisWoman
5 days ago

Gleam Street

Not always. My friend literally turns heads wherever she goes, but genuinely has no clue about it. On a day/night out she is so interested in her friends, she doesn't see anyone else.

We constantly have to point put interested parties to her...she's oblivious!

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By *evilinyouMan
5 days ago

Bristol

Everyone has something about them that's super hot, and most people have lots of things they would change about themselves regardless of how hit other people think they are

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By *2000ManMan
5 days ago

Worthing

Someone can be "hot" initially but once you get to know them, it's suprising how this cools off.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
5 days ago

Kent

I think some people that are ok looking think they are more attractive than they are and can come accross as arrogant and up themselves. I think real natural beauty doesnt demand attention and just is. Like a previous poster just said about her stunning friend that is oblivious to how stunning she is. Thats true beauty x

Mrs x

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By *oxy-RedWoman
5 days ago

pink panther territory

Some definitely think they are,my youngest son has turned heads since junior school he has the charm to but God doesn't he know it

One of my closest friend is stunning and she just doesn't realise it,she's also gorgeous on the inside

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 days ago

East Sussex

One of our kids has a friend who is beautiful, I mean really properly beautiful. She's completely unaware.

On general though I think very attractive people know they're not ugly unless they have body dysmorphia or are very insecure

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By *icecouple561Couple
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5 days ago

East Sussex

Also i think its good for people to feel good about how they look.

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By *rafter69Man
5 days ago

upminster

Not everyone does unfortunately. Some are it and think they are not and others are far from it but think they are!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 days ago

Crumpet Castle

I certainly do but I don't like to talk about it

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By *hat.coupleCouple
5 days ago

Kent


"Someone can be "hot" initially but once you get to know them, it's suprising how this cools off."

Very true, we have met some very beautiful women over the years but some turned to be completely vacuous and not very nice people with terrible attitudes. Some people depend on their looks to get through life and end up boring as hell as a result.

Mrs x

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By *eyeYCouple
5 days ago

Nr Leicester

He's utterly unaware of the looks he gets from ladies when we're out!

Though I will say his focus on me is flattering and appreciated.

Having said that, I'm totally oblivious as well as he has told me 🤷🤣😘

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

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"Also i think its good for people to feel good about how they look."

Agreed. Maybe it's because I'm getting on a bit but I'm tired of the self deprecating state that our culture seems to demand. More people should find happiness in how they look.

I think sometimes if a person doesn't like another they're more likely to find them arrogant, think they're not *all that* and try and put them in their place. It's weird. Kind of sad.

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By *eyeYCouple
5 days ago

Nr Leicester


"Someone can be "hot" initially but once you get to know them, it's suprising how this cools off.

Very true, we have met some very beautiful women over the years but some turned to be completely vacuous and not very nice people with terrible attitudes. Some people depend on their looks to get through life and end up boring as hell as a result.

Mrs x"

Would agree with that statement regarding a number we've met.. 😉

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By *aomilatteCouple
5 days ago

Midlands


"I certainly do but I don't like to talk about it"

We're the same, ridiculously hot but wouldn't say so

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By *eyeYCouple
5 days ago

Nr Leicester


"I certainly do but I don't like to talk about it

We're the same, ridiculously hot but wouldn't say so "

🤣😘

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By *ou only live onceMan
5 days ago

London

No, we don't.

🤣

I'm only joking. But I can't see how those who are conventionally hot don't know it. I would if I could!

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By *hickthighs26Woman
5 days ago

your hotlist

I dont think the majority of people would dare to admit it in this day and age because it seems to garner negative comments from some others being accused of being "arrogant" or "loves herself".

I personally think its nice to see people happy with the way they look at a time when we boast about being/wanting body positivity.

Of course there are exceptions of actual arrogance but again i think this is in the persons personality not about there looks.

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By *hat.coupleCouple
5 days ago

Kent


"I dont think the majority of people would dare to admit it in this day and age because it seems to garner negative comments from some others being accused of being "arrogant" or "loves herself".

I personally think its nice to see people happy with the way they look at a time when we boast about being/wanting body positivity.

Of course there are exceptions of actual arrogance but again i think this is in the persons personality not about there looks. "

Totally agree with the self love part and we all should be kinder to ourselves. Nothing wrong with someone liking how they look at all. I love how I look because I am a combination of my parents and unique as all of us are. Sadly arrogance is implicitly linked with self infatuation and the belief that others are not good enough as a result. Thats the type of arrogance and "up themselves" I was talking about x

Be kinder to yourselves everyone, you are all amazingly unique and beautiful x

Mrs x

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
5 days ago

Reading

There’s this woman who pops up in my social media feed who shows off what she’s wearing as a plus sized woman and every video of hers she says ‘I know I look good in everything’ and I love that about her. She absolutely does too. I’m with _eli, I’m tired of everyone downplaying their own happiness about their appearance. Embrace it at least sometimes when we are feeling fabulous about outself!

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By *hickthighs26Woman
5 days ago

your hotlist


"I dont think the majority of people would dare to admit it in this day and age because it seems to garner negative comments from some others being accused of being "arrogant" or "loves herself".

I personally think its nice to see people happy with the way they look at a time when we boast about being/wanting body positivity.

Of course there are exceptions of actual arrogance but again i think this is in the persons personality not about there looks.

Totally agree with the self love part and we all should be kinder to ourselves. Nothing wrong with someone liking how they look at all. I love how I look because I am a combination of my parents and unique as all of us are. Sadly arrogance is implicitly linked with self infatuation and the belief that others are not good enough as a result. Thats the type of arrogance and "up themselves" I was talking about x

Be kinder to yourselves everyone, you are all amazingly unique and beautiful x

Mrs x"

Oh i agree but self infatuation is more than just about looks. I believe if somebody is that personality type it would show despite there aesthetics. I just think sometimes it is assumed (in general not by you) that it can often be used as a tool to beat people down with x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
5 days ago

Crumpet Castle


"I certainly do but I don't like to talk about it

We're the same, ridiculously hot but wouldn't say so "

Yes. I'm like you it would be totally immodest to brag about it.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
5 days ago

Leeds

Not always, I've known very beautiful women who have no idea, I've also known some that do.

Mrs

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By *hilly1515Man
5 days ago

can I put a bit of a twist to this,

Do you think it's possible some hot people don't actually get that many approaches .. cos of the old will never look at me in a million years syndrome, so not going to bother approaching hence the circle is linked?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
5 days ago

Bristol

Being a TV comes with such a duality.

People tell me that Perky is hot, and I'll be honest I do kinda believe them.

But then there's the "normal" me that no one ever calls hot...

It's weird being a TV ✨

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By *hat.coupleCouple
5 days ago

Kent


" can I put a bit of a twist to this,

Do you think it's possible some hot people don't actually get that many approaches .. cos of the old will never look at me in a million years syndrome, so not going to bother approaching hence the circle is linked?

"

That must be why we dont get any messages then!! F#ck me we must be super hot!

(Joking of course!)

Mrs x

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By *era123Man
5 days ago

Cheshire

Nah not always

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By *ew2buryMan
5 days ago

Newbury


" can I put a bit of a twist to this,

Do you think it's possible some hot people don't actually get that many approaches .. cos of the old will never look at me in a million years syndrome, so not going to bother approaching hence the circle is linked?

That must be why we dont get any messages then!! F#ck me we must be super hot!

(Joking of course!)

Mrs x "

I'm gonna put all my filters up ... That will prove I'm hot.

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
5 days ago

elvington


"I mean obviously some do, some think they are.

But people who are naturally 😍

" it's hard being really really ridiculously good looking "

(Bluesteel)"

I wouldn’t know it’s not in my experience set lol

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

No.

Lots of none hot people think they are though.

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By *hilloutMan
5 days ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I mean obviously some do, some think they are.

But people who are naturally 😍

" it's hard being really really ridiculously good looking "

(Bluesteel)"

Depends. Some people are very attractive but don't acknowledge or believe this due to confidence issues.

Some know exactly how attractive they are and leverage it to the maximum.

Some believe they're more attractive than in reality they are.

The unassuming but quietly confident attractive types are the ones that most appeal.

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By *avexxMan
5 days ago

cheshire

i have a female friend who is very attractive often when we meet for a coffee guys look at her,,she is abs oblivious to it

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By *hisIsMe58Man
5 days ago

Winchester

I think the number of people who are hot and don't realise it far out numbers those that do. But who decides what hot is, as beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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By *heGoodGirlAndHerGuyCouple
5 days ago

Nottingham

I'm very biased, but Milly has no idea she is gorgeous. I tell her all the time, and she just goes adorably shy.

But, that's down to her ex for not appreciating her imho.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy


"I'm very biased, but Milly has no idea she is gorgeous. I tell her all the time, and she just goes adorably shy.

But, that's down to her ex for not appreciating her imho."

Not in the slightest bit bi so no motive, but yes she is!!

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

Not always, I have friends who used to always get second looks from guys and they would be oblivious to it.

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
5 days ago

someplace

Yeah, they do as they should

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
5 days ago

Carlisle usually

I spent most of my life not understanding or appreciating how I look.

But now I know I'm hot 💜

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By *agic.MMan
5 days ago

Orpington


"" it's hard being really really ridiculously good looking "

(Bluesteel)"

Phfstt...tell me about it 🙄

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By *earditallWoman
5 days ago

Lancaster

Not always i know people who are extremely hot but don't see it themselves.

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By *onin25Man
5 days ago

Durham

I think those ultra good looking people probably all know. I then think there are a load of normal level of good looking people who don't know and some non-good looking people who think they are good looking.

And ultimately beauty is in the eye of the beholder so one man's minger is anothers Miss World

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By *eliWoman
5 days ago

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"And ultimately beauty is in the eye of the beholder so one man's minger is anothers Miss World "

Beautiful. 😢

It's true though, I think that when I see people talk about pretty penises. There are some very loose definitions of pretty.

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By *onin25Man
5 days ago

Durham


"And ultimately beauty is in the eye of the beholder so one man's minger is anothers Miss World

Beautiful. 😢

"

I'm fab's equivalent of Keats

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By *aomilatteCouple
5 days ago

Midlands


" can I put a bit of a twist to this,

Do you think it's possible some hot people don't actually get that many approaches .. cos of the old will never look at me in a million years syndrome, so not going to bother approaching hence the circle is linked?

"

Our last message was a whole 2 weeks ago, so......

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By *ottom charlieMan
5 days ago

Washington


"I mean obviously some do, some think they are.

But people who are naturally 😍

" it's hard being really really ridiculously good looking "

(Bluesteel)"

yes,,, most of them tell themselves that ever day when they look at themselves in the mirror

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By *andleit1980Man
5 days ago

BRISTOL

Hmmmmmm

One of my closet friends is so beautiful,such an amazing person,but she just sees her

I think thats the difference between being beautiful and having a chip on shoulder....and just being you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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5 days ago

Central

I think most come to acquire the knowledge that they are

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By *uvBugsCouple
5 days ago

CAMBS

We are not flash in any way, just very ordinary. Hoping that our profile and verifications help others decide whether we are suited to them or not. But we are good players when we meet others

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By *oeBeansMan
5 days ago

Derby

I think it entirely depends on their personality. Some people can be hot and not know it or think people are being nice whereas others who do know can act the way they do as the people around them feed into it.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

Not always:

"She's got the magical combo of beauty and low self-esteem".

Mark Corrigan, Peep Show

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By *tormQueenWoman
5 days ago

Manchester

Yes I do fanks 😇

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By *tormQueenWoman
5 days ago

Manchester

This is a joke btw 😎😎😇

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By *aitonelMan
5 days ago

Liverpool

Only when the ugly ones tell me

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By *izandpaulCouple
5 days ago

merseyside

I'm red, red, scalding hot.

So hot that I have to take a big stick with me to the pub, just to beat the men off.

It a huge cross to bear.

It's all true, honest.

Liz. X 🤣🤣🤣

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