FabSwingers.com forum: What do you look at first? 🧐

By *issLickalottapus OP Woman
6 days ago

La La Land

When viewing a profile, what do you look at?

And do you find yourself looking at things in a particular order?

1) photos

2) age

3) distance

4) bio

5) interests

6) verifications

7) looking for

8) sexuality

9) can they accommodate?

10) height

11) smoker status

12) weight/build

13) other

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By *hilly1515Man
6 days ago

I do a scan read ... to get a feel... but I am only human so if I see a pic that appeals I am fabbing all over it.

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By *issLickalottapus OP Woman
6 days ago

La La Land

" I do a scan read ... to get a feel... but I am only human so if I see a pic that appeals I am fabbing all over it.

But if you were hoping to meet said person, would that change things?

Would you view other parts of their profile?

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By *hilly1515Man
6 days ago

" I do a scan read ... to get a feel... but I am only human so if I see a pic that appeals I am fabbing all over it.

But if you were hoping to meet said person, would that change things?

Would you view other parts of their profile? "

Yes

I go area , age, distance (not a deal breaker subject to other things)

looking for

Read what's on there

likes ,

Don't bother to much about verifications.. if they have

then if I am feeling brave a message. nothing weird try n keep it a bit different with a twist of humour... does not always work , does not always fail.

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By *issLickalottapus OP Woman
6 days ago

La La Land

" I do a scan read ... to get a feel... but I am only human so if I see a pic that appeals I am fabbing all over it.

But if you were hoping to meet said person, would that change things?

Would you view other parts of their profile?

Yes

I go area , age, distance (not a deal breaker subject to other things)

looking for

Read what's on there

likes ,

Don't bother to much about verifications.. if they have

then if I am feeling brave a message. nothing weird try n keep it a bit different with a twist of humour... does not always work , does not always fail.

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By *hilly1515Man
6 days ago

" I do a scan read ... to get a feel... but I am only human so if I see a pic that appeals I am fabbing all over it.

But if you were hoping to meet said person, would that change things?

Would you view other parts of their profile?

Yes

I go area , age, distance (not a deal breaker subject to other things)

looking for

Read what's on there

likes ,

Don't bother to much about verifications.. if they have

then if I am feeling brave a message. nothing weird try n keep it a bit different with a twist of humour... does not always work , does not always fail.

"
your going to have to translate that emoji I am terrible at them , can whisper it if you so wish.

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By *issLickalottapus OP Woman
6 days ago

La La Land

your going to have to translate that emoji I am terrible at them , can whisper it if you so wish.

********Whispers*********

Heart

Beating

Slow

Rhythm

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By *omeotherguyMan
6 days ago

Sheffield/London/Derbyshire

I look at the pictures first, very briefly, then the Bio, including area. If I like what I read I go back to the pictures and look some more.

I care less about age, if they are sexy, they are sexy.

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By *he MinionMan
6 days ago

"When viewing a profile, what do you look at?

And do you find yourself looking at things in a particular order?

1) photos

2) age

3) distance

4) bio

5) interests

6) verifications

7) looking for

8) sexuality

9) can they accommodate?

10) height

11) smoker status

12) weight/build

13) other"

Then look at 7 and its game over for me.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
6 days ago

pink panther territory

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By *hilly1515Man
6 days ago

your going to have to translate that emoji I am terrible at them , can whisper it if you so wish.

********Whispers*********

Heart

Beating

Slow

Rhythm

Thank you ..

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By *reative-mindMan
6 days ago

Exeter

Age and distance. Then I follow it up by pictures and bio.

I don't message that many people so if I do they need to tick a lot of boxes so to speak.

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By *urious8240Man
6 days ago

Ammanford

I look at

Photos/Videos

Interests

Bio

I like to make my own mind up about people so never look at verifications unless I see hundreds on there. If that's the case im not messaging anyways 😂😂

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By *runkOnLustMan
6 days ago

West Yorkshire

Photos 😍

Then interests and bios

Then verifications

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By *ontyboi76Man
6 days ago

Pontypridd

Pics then bio and back to pics. Age is already filtered and distence so eventually will rewd. Never look at verifications, don't need to read that weird shit. Likes are fun to know, but chat brings that out anyway.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
6 days ago

Round the bend

Pics, distance, bio, age, height and sexuality ..then veris

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By *lue Eyed JokerMan
6 days ago

Always on the move

4,7,8,2,1,3,5,6,9,12,10,11

In that order

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
6 days ago

Coventry

I think the layout of the profile page is set in the natural order of how most of us look.

First profile picture (see if they're in the right ball park)

Key data such as what they're looking for, distance etc.

Then the bio

Then maybe the other photos.

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By *2000ManMan
6 days ago

Worthing

3 No point if they are too far away.

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By *ifelover999Man
6 days ago

Eastbourne

"Pics, distance, bio, age, height and sexuality ..then veris "

Always pics with you perv

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By *eautifulChaosWoman
6 days ago

Nr Hickleton

First for me is username (some i find off putting) then location.

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By *ifelover999Man
6 days ago

Eastbourne

"First for me is username (some i find off putting) then location."

Not put me off you

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too.

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By *ifelover999Man
6 days ago

Eastbourne

"I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too. "

Omg you should work for MI5

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

"I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too.

Omg you should work for MI5

"
who says I don't

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By *ifelover999Man
6 days ago

Eastbourne

"I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too.

Omg you should work for MI5

who says I don't

Do you shine a lamp in their eyes and question them first

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By *ohn 66Man
6 days ago

South Birmingham

Am I the age and gender they're looking for. Pretty much no point otherwise.

Then I scour the forums to check they've never said anything positive about Donald Trump, or anything negative about The Clangers. Those are my deal breakers

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

"I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too.

Omg you should work for MI5

who says I don't

Do you shine a lamp in their eyes and question them first

Well I do have a pen tourch in my bag

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By *ifelover999Man
6 days ago

Eastbourne

"I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too.

Omg you should work for MI5

who says I don't

Do you shine a lamp in their eyes and question them first

Well I do have a pen tourch in my bag

Knew it ill tread carefully around you😉

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
6 days ago

Central

Location and distance. Profile stats. Photos.

Sometimes, photos 1st

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By *issmorganWoman
6 days ago

Calderdale innit

"I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too.

Omg you should work for MI5

who says I don't

Do you shine a lamp in their eyes and question them first

Well I do have a pen tourch in my bag

Knew it ill tread carefully around you😉"

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By *issLickalottapus OP Woman
6 days ago

La La Land

"Then I scour the forums to check they've never said anything positive about Donald Trump, or anything negative about The Clangers. Those are my deal breakers"

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *luepegasusMan
6 days ago

ayshire

What the person is looking for, they have written what they are wanting and that should be respected

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By *onabardMan
6 days ago

Evesham

Photos, then age, then age they are looking for, then bio

The message, mostly these arent even read

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By *ifelover999Man
6 days ago

Eastbourne

"I always look where they are first.If absolutely miles away, it's generally a no go, same if they smoke, so I look at that early on too.

Then pics, bio & age (do use age filters though).

If all that looks good, I'll read their veries.

I'm not too bothered about accommodating as I don't accom, unless there's things that suggest they're attached in what they've written. That would be a no go too.

Omg you should work for MI5

who says I don't

Do you shine a lamp in their eyes and question them first

Well I do have a pen tourch in my bag

Knew it ill tread carefully around you😉

🤭

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
6 days ago

Next Door

Pics 1st, then check age, preferences and then bio.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 days ago

East Lincs

If we get a message in then it’ll be the profile pic on the message first and that’ll determine if we open the message or not.

If it’s not blank or action shots/dick pics then we’ll open their profile and look at the bio and pics - if they are unappealing then we come out and delete the message.

Same, if we see a potential profile - look at pics and bio and see if there’s anything that might intrigue us.

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By *parkle1974Woman
6 days ago

Leeds

Age, distance then pics x

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By *l chapo123Man
6 days ago

Costa del sol

Arse

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By *ew2buryMan
6 days ago

Newbury

"Am I the age and gender they're looking for. Pretty much no point otherwise.

Then I scour the forums to check they've never said anything positive about Donald Trump, or anything negative about The Clangers. Those are my deal breakers"
what if I said I agree with the Donald about how good the clangers are ...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
6 days ago

Leeds

Bio. Got to work out if they’re a prick before I wank over their tits.

The mr

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By *redwilma666Couple
6 days ago

Kilbirnie

Bio & ignore the rest

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By *he Silver FuxMan
6 days ago

Utero

Check out Profile picture.. then look at their profile name… (Spunkygreengash69?…. Eeewww)

Open up the profile and scan age range, their location, body shape, if they have verifications, who they are looking for. Realise you’ve met already / Says you have messaged each other 4 years ago, can’t remember anything about them.

Look at their public pictures, give up on second page. Screenshot / save the best ones and post on the appropriate Reddit forums (Mods, those with sense of humour failures… I am joking).

Scan for stupidity (nonsense legal wordsoup ‘protections’).

Read bio to end or until text speak aneurism occurs.

Check veris for recent meets, if they’ve fucked any friends or acquaintances.

Go back and check the dates on their photos, maybe Fab a few. Make note that it is yet another couple profile where the husband only appears as a hand or a partial cock in only one picture and there are over 200 the same of her, taken of her pimply bum bent over on a bed in ill-fitting old lady knickers.

Lose interest, make a brew

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By *haleesiiandKhal69Couple
6 days ago

exeter

Check for photos, verified, references, and always talking as a couple if it’s a couple or asking the right questions before our meet

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Height

Photos

Verifications - I prefer none or at least none displayed.

Location doesn't bother me as I like to drive.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
6 days ago

Bristol

Pics first.

Physical attraction is top priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 days ago

If they can take banter and give it back if none of the above Ni dobre 👎

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By *eneralKenobiMan
6 days ago

North Angus

Straight to the pics, quick scan of the text, check their distance and if they meet smokers

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By *ensuallover1000Man
6 days ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I just gawk at the photos 😍

There’s some text beneath them but I dunno what that’s all about….

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By *ick MastersMan
6 days ago

Birmingham

I look at

1) Photos

3) distance

4) bio

6) verifications (not arse about displaying, them just the green tick/flag will do)

7) looking for

12) weight/build

Not in order though

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By *enlikesbothMan
6 days ago

york or visiting

Depends if I’m thinking with my dick; which is often stupid but difficult when the pics are hot. It I engage the main brain id liok at and read the profile checking the looking for bit first. Then main read.

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By *onin25Man
6 days ago

Durham

7) looking for

2) age

1) photos

4) bio

3) distance

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By *hilloutMan
6 days ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I don't really bother looking anymore 🤣

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
6 days ago

Lancashire

Photos

Height

Verifications

Bio

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By *tormQueenWoman
6 days ago

Manchester

"Photos

Height

Verifications

Bio"

Not a dickhead...thats the important one 😘

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By *uzzy_bearMan
6 days ago

Ayrshire

After reading the profile for the first time, then browsing the pics, I think I look at the following in this order;

- Body type

- Distance

- Can accommodate

- interests

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By *WB85Man
6 days ago

Staffordshire

Bio comes first.

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By *ongandharderMan
6 days ago

Rotherham

Profile pic, description , rest of images

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By *agiccasterMan
6 days ago

worksop

Like to look at there age preference see if they like older guys

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By *layfullsamMan
6 days ago

Solihull

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By *ing49Man
6 days ago

cambs

I tend to look if they're looking for single males. If not no point carrying on

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By *era123Man
6 days ago

Cheshire

You mean we have to read profiles rather just skip to the pictures and send a one sentence message expecting that’ll work??? 👀

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By *weetiepie99Woman
6 days ago

cardiff

One or zero verifications and I'm salivating

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