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Gentlemen!!! How important are the pictures/videos on a woman’s profile to you? 🤔

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By *agic.M OP   Man
7 days ago

Orpington

...how important is her BIO? And her profile altogether?? I'm asking you 👈👉👆👇 "men of the forums" because I believe you brothers of mine are a bit more refined and seasoned than the rest of the guys on fab...you have more knowledge and experience about what works and doesn't, and I don't believe you would just send a message to a black silhouette with the caption "I'll fill in later..." just because it says female on their profile...right? 👀...RIGHT? 🤨

Would you send a message to a profile that has only open legs close up shots of her private bits (which I believe would be the equivalent of a dick pic), ? ...would you send a message to a profile that has one /or no pictures at all and a 5 word bio that clearly shows an "I can't be bothered with this" attitude?

I'm asking you my comrades, because I see more and more women having (from my humble opinion at least) a somewhat ...dare I say "lazy approach"👀 when it comes to constructing their profiles... and could this be a reflection on our (as a whole group) standards being that freaking low? 🤔

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By *PS81Man
7 days ago

Ashton

everyone's different, everyone's confidence is different so their profiles will look very different, but everyone loves sex

personally it's more about mindset for me, and experience, thought processes etc.. so looks / face pics have no impact to me

if I like the sound of a profile, I'll approach, if I don't think I'm for them, I don't..

I do like the mysterious no pics, short bio profiles though, they're extra intriguing

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By *ellhungvweMan
7 days ago

Cheltenham

Would I message a profile with no pictures or solely gratuitous ones? Very very unlikely.

For me a profile needs to show who someone is overall. A decent bio is important as are veris or some other way of assessing how real they are.

I don’t understand how anyone can message a blank profile and not come away disappointed.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
7 days ago

Chester

My profile isn't lazy, it takes ages to read and because of that most people don't read it properly 🤷🏼

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By *ontyboi76Man
7 days ago

Pontypridd

Like to see pics, naughty or not. Visual aids are fun.

But given that I will message a lady without a pic, it's what I get from reading the profile that matters much more.

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By *vaRoseWoman
7 days ago

Ankh-Morpork

I wonder if you would get the same responses in the lounge as you would in say the U.K. forum or swingers chat.

However I’ll be honest I think there are a lot of profiles out there that lack effort.

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By *ealitybitesMan
7 days ago

Belfast

I don't send opening messages so what a woman has on her profile is irrelevant in that regard.

I've said many times on the forums that women and couples are just as guilty of having lazy profiles as men are.

The argument is always made that they don't have to make an effort as they will always get lots of attention anyway.

However much of that attention is crude and lazy so they can't really complain if they expect effort while making none themselves.

I've never seen a pic on here that has encouraged me to message someone.

Pics and bios give me a sense of a woman's attitude and whether or not they are approachable but in themselves have little value without personal engagement.

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By *viatrixWoman
7 days ago

Gatwick

I have always had very lengthy bios and have always carefully curated my profile content 😂😂😂

This year my situation changed and I reflect it on my bio. I still meet socially and attend clubs and group socials which I like. I am still an exhibitionist and still post photos and videos because I like to.

The forum has never been -nor will it ever be- my “fishing pond” so to speak so forumites aren’t my target audience for my profile content.

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

I do tend to read profiles and like at least some sort of pic so that I can see who I’m talking to etc

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
7 days ago

your bed

As this is a swingers site then attraction plays a big part ( at least for us). What people find attractive is in the eye of the beholder so whether that is close up genital shots or black and white arty photos it will be different from person to person.

Generally we like something sexy and teasing, so the fully naked and close up does not make a huge amount of difference to us. But the lack of a clothed picture, whether in lingerie or fully dressed would be a slight personal put off.

Once the attraction is confirmed then we would read the profile to see if we meet what they want and if they have similar tastes in mind.

Finally we might check a few verifications as they can reveal some interesting facts.

So it's a package deal, however generally we meet at clubs so, that bypasses the whole profile issue as you get to talk and interact which is by far a better and more accurate experience.

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By *WB85Man
7 days ago

Staffordshire

Were all so different.

Personally I read a bio before looking at pictures....it gives me a glimpse of someones personality.

Pictures, I dont like anything to graphic, dressed and looking smart. Just so I can see their body style etc etc.

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By *rightonsteveMan
7 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Bio and photos. Videos are OK. It’s how they come across.

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By *oeBeansMan
7 days ago

Derby

I don't usually send the first message in general for obvious reasons but I think the photos and bio would definitely play a part in whether I'd find them attractive.

I think one of the reasons I find it hard to meet people locally is that for the most part, the profiles are, to put it mildly, absolute dog shit. But they seem to do well on here regardless so it clearly works for them to not put the effort in.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
7 days ago

East Lincs

I think a lot of profiles don’t show much effort - we don’t chat to anyone who doesn’t have a bio and pics.

We also don’t really chat to people who aren’t really local as we’ve realised that the likelihood of us meeting will be minimal.

We do reach out to people who do make an effort and tell them that we like their pics/profile, regardless of if we’d meet them or they are a match, as it’s nice to pay compliments to people who make an effort.

K

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By *agic.M OP   Man
7 days ago

Orpington


"I wonder if you would get the same responses in the lounge as you would in say the U.K. forum or swingers chat. "

Those are like the Dark Web of the forums 🤭...they don't count 😅

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By *hams123Man
7 days ago

London

I do like a good bio. Something that shows a bit of personality. Same with pictures and videos. Not just body parts, although they are lovely to look at. A sensual pose, or a silly one. Or maybe a hobby or interest. For example, if a lady or couple enjoy reading, they could be pictured with their current book. Sexual or non sexual pose.

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
7 days ago

Birmingham

Its not lazy but yes women don't have to work as hard. I could have a completely blank profile with a silhouette for a profile picture and you'd still get guys popping up..

oh oh oh oh, mysterious girl I wanna get close to you.

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By *lofeldMan
7 days ago

Redhill

Men are more visual creatures typically, and it's nice to see some pics and vids to admire.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
7 days ago

Leeds

Very important! Got to make sure she doesn’t have a minge that looks like a toilet with its lid kicked off.

The mr

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