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By *ld Stella Heels OP   TV/TS
7 days ago

ross on wye

Is it so bad to be a transvestite still at 65?

I am so nervous of meeting as now I look much older, will post a 2026 pic later, I have aged a lot in past couple of years have lost all confidence in meeting people as Stella

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

7 days ago

East Sussex

Do you want to, do you feel that you look too old or do you think other people will think that you do?

Getting older is unavoidable (tell me about it!) and nothing to be ashamed of but I do understand the crisis of confidence it can cause especially in a society where youth is valued so highly and aging is portrayed as a failure.

I would say that only you can decide whether to continue as Stella or not but in my opinion being 65 is no reason to give up.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
7 days ago

couple, us we him her.

This is exactly how jools feels,she has lost all of her confidence.

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By *ld Stella Heels OP   TV/TS
7 days ago

ross on wye


"This is exactly how jools feels,she has lost all of her confidence. "

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
7 days ago

La La Land

OP, I'm sorry to hear you have lost your confidence, but please do not let your age be the reason why. I don't know how old those photos are? You've hinted they are not recent, but you look incredible! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

But you do whatever makes you feel happy in life ♥️

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
7 days ago

Hets/Beds/Leeds

Bookmarked so i can come back to this.

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By *WB85Man
7 days ago

Staffordshire

Be who makes you feel happiest in yourself.

With regards to swinging, just have upto date pictures. 65 is just a number, it doesn't define us.

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By *tephanie 9090TV/TS
7 days ago

BISHOP

Oh Stella, this is exactly how Stephanie feels.

Thinking of retiring soon because Stephanie will be 72yrs old and will be too old for fab...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod

7 days ago

Central

Nobody is ever too old for Fab. We have to accept that we change - it's a standard aspect of life and development.

Work on your own self acceptance and confidence and be in life for you

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

7 days ago

East Sussex


"Nobody is ever too old for Fab. We have to accept that we change - it's a standard aspect of life and development.

Work on your own self acceptance and confidence and be in life for you "

That's easier at 42 Sophie, trust me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
7 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!

All looks fine to me. I’m thinking anyone under 40 is a bit meh.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
7 days ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

There's someone for everyone and as long as you post pics that accurately reflect how you look then I don't see a problem

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By *ampireLoveMan
7 days ago

Essex


"There's someone for everyone and as long as you post pics that accurately reflect how you look then I don't see a problem "

I have to agree with this 👆🏼

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
7 days ago

Chester


"There's someone for everyone and as long as you post pics that accurately reflect how you look then I don't see a problem

I have to agree with this 👆🏼"

This 👆🏼 👌🏼

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By *oxy-RedWoman
7 days ago

pink panther territory

No it's not bad at all,and do what's feels best for you op

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By *ew year new nameWoman
7 days ago

Bolton


"There's someone for everyone and as long as you post pics that accurately reflect how you look then I don't see a problem

I have to agree with this 👆🏼

This 👆🏼 👌🏼 "

Absolutely this.. and those legs need to be seen 🙂

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By *ohn 66Man
7 days ago

South Birmingham

As people have said before, be honest about who you are and there's a very good chance you'll find people who are attracted to you.

Great recent photos, by the way xx

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By *ld Stella Heels OP   TV/TS
7 days ago

ross on wye

Thank you everyone

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
7 days ago

Motherwell

OP never give up your TV self it's a part of your freedom to truly express yourself and enjoy being you. I have two wonderful friends with benefits ( males) one is 65 and the other will be 70 this year, age is irrelevant, keep on being you and revel in your individuality. Mx 🌹

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
7 days ago

Middlesbrough

I don’t think you should change , being a tv is part of us and regardless of aging we will always be a tv , yes we have blips but no matter what we always come back to getting glammed up , so carry on being yourself

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By *k62023Man
7 days ago

Hertford

Definitely don't change, TV are so sexy and so many men will absolutely adore being with you x

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