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"I've got what I feel is a genuine question for the wider Fab group. Is this a genuine site for swingers and such the like? All I've seen so far is couples who only meet women, single girls who only want big black dicks and hundreds of gay guys who want to suck random guys cocks! I genuinely thought this was the place to find other people who are into the lifestyle. Not having a whinge, just curious." "Not having a whinge" lol ok | |||
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"In that swinger couples meet on here, then in person, yes, it is genuine in that sense. For single men wanting a shag it is very hard work, for single women it can be quite overwhelming. I guess all you can do is get out there and socialise, chat like you are doing on the forums and hopefully you will find your tribe." Thank you.. that's the sort of response I was hoping for | |||
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"It’s also a website for swapping flavoured soap from Lush. " There used to be a forum just like this one, actually for “lushies”, in the 2000s… it’s a proboards forum (still online) and it is pretty much identical, emojis/emoticons and all!  
I was a compulsive Lush soap/toiletries swapper then. 🎀 | |||
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"Apologies if I've caught a nerve there TT. I appreciate that this place is very guy heavy and the small number of women must feel like they're being harassed daily with their inboxes blowing up. I feel like there's a lot of people maybe just using this site for entertainment rather than meets. I'll take the compliment with the amount of blow job offers I get from random dudes despite my profile saying i'm not interested. Just wondering if others feel the same?" No nerves Just addressing the points you made in your original post, which is the point of posting in the forum isn't it? | |||
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"Some of the limitation the sites imposes is crap. But yes it's site for swinging and can lead to many a great chat, even if not a meet. But definitely works" I'm glad it's working out, I was just curious as to other people's experiences. I was just starting to think there was a lot of people on here messing about also. | |||
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"I've got what I feel is a genuine question for the wider Fab group. Is this a genuine site for swingers and such the like? All I've seen so far is couples who only meet women, single girls who only want big black dicks and hundreds of gay guys who want to suck random guys cocks! I genuinely thought this was the place to find other people who are into the lifestyle. Not having a whinge, just curious." None of those examples define what I am looking for, and I know I'm not the only single female not on the hunt for BBC, so widen your search. | |||
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"I've got what I feel is a genuine question for the wider Fab group. Is this a genuine site for swingers and such the like? All I've seen so far is couples who only meet women, single girls who only want big black dicks and hundreds of gay guys who want to suck random guys cocks! I genuinely thought this was the place to find other people who are into the lifestyle. Not having a whinge, just curious." There are many tens of thousands here, of very diverse types. Those who aren't single men and looking for them, have incredible choice, to find very finely matching people to their preferences. It means that most of them will not be matched, with those who they try to connect with. They get ignored. If you do searches for women and couples looking for single men, you will find thousands of them. This highlights the errors of the assumption that OP is making. Likewise, you'll find copious amounts of them in clubs. Fab reflects the swinging environment and broadens it out, to many other types of people. It's very inclusive | |||
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"I've got what I feel is a genuine question for the wider Fab group. Is this a genuine site for swingers and such the like? All I've seen so far is couples who only meet women, single girls who only want big black dicks and hundreds of gay guys who want to suck random guys cocks! I genuinely thought this was the place to find other people who are into the lifestyle. Not having a whinge, just curious." Yes this is definitely a genuine site and has worked well for us, though we tend to use it as more of a social media to compliment our club going lifestyle. I think the key point you're missing is that everyone has their own preferences. Some couples only meet women, some only men, some only couples. Some like black men, some like white men, some like a curvier person some like the ripped gym fit, and some are very new to the scene and still trying to find their way. It's completely up to them what they desire. But a lot of us have one thing in common, we like people that are on our wavelength. We've turned down the most attractive of people because they can't hold a conversation or they get carried away and turn things vulgar within a few messages. We do mostly prefer meeting couples for full swaps which we do at clubs but as a couple that also enjoys meeting men, there is a massive abundance of choice for us, but we prefer a bisexual man so it can be difficult finding the right match in that category, but not as difficult as it is for any single man on here. I think most men need to ask themselves why they are truly here, is it for a quick shag or to indulge in the openness and variety of the lifestyle? If it's the former then best of luck, you'll have your work cut out...if it's the latter then get yourself out to clubs and socials and meet us swingers in person....you'll soon find things more genuine. I would advise though, that you say "maybe couples" on your profile, that kind of sounds like you're not really interested in couples....oh and use message filters and the men will stop contacting you. | |||
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"I joined, I chatted, I met, I'm happy " The Fab version of veni vidi vici 😁 | |||
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"The number of gays looking to suck anyone’s sock is massively outnumbered by the straight men for whom any holes a goal. Straight men soap boxing on here is really taking the piss. " Hahaha nailed it 🎯 | |||
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"I find the site genuine. It works for me. For what it is worth, I find it interesting that I don’t see many of the things that OP (and others) complain about which makes me wonder whether I am using it in a different way to other people and so getting a different outcome?" Maybe you joined with realistic expectations Alot of men join thinking they will be knee deep in clunge and when that doesn't happen they presume the women on here must be fake | |||
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"Is Fab a genuine site?" Well I feel it's a fraud. Not got a lick of a lolly from the site.  | |||
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"It's completely real. I'm knee deep in clunge! " 
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"I've got what I feel is a genuine question for the wider Fab group. Is this a genuine site for swingers and such the like? All I've seen so far is couples who only meet women, single girls who only want big black dicks and hundreds of gay guys who want to suck random guys cocks! I genuinely thought this was the place to find other people who are into the lifestyle. Not having a whinge, just curious." I'm not sure where this idea that Black guys on here do better than anyone else has come from. There was a discussion on here a bit ago and the overwhelming majority of single Black men that contributed all said they struggled as much as anyone else. | |||
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