FabSwingers.com forum: "Owned"

By *ristolboy1005 OP Man
1 week ago

bristol

Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?

Keen to know people's thoughts....

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By *estructionDollyWoman
1 week ago

Manchester

For some people it is part of their D/s dynamic.

If it gives you the "ick" then ignore their profile? Its not bothering you what they chose to do with their partner is it?

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By *agic.MMan
1 week ago

Orpington

"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?

Keen to know people's thoughts.... "

You're not the only one ...it absolutely turns my stomach upside down when I see it...but that's their choice 👍

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Gatwick

*passing you a sick bag*

You’re welcome.

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By *vaRoseWoman
1 week ago

Ankh-Morpork

It’s often part of a D/s relationship. If it’s not for you then move on.

Oh and just to point out. It’s not gender specific.

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By *rightonsteveMan
1 week ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d rather meet someone owned than someone who moaned

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By *agic.MMan
1 week ago

Orpington

"I’d rather meet someone owned than someone who moaned"

... during sex?👀

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

I think what two (or more) consenting adults chose to get up to is their own business. If you don’t like it, scroll on. Or block so you don’t have to see it again.

I think some people struggle to understand the D/S dynamic when it’s at its extremes and assume that the “owned” person is being coerced to some degree. Many people derive sexual satisfaction from being controlled.

Im sure I heard Sadiq Khan say “diversity is our strength” and I’m pretty sure this is what he was talking about 😉

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
1 week ago

London

For me it’s people who cheat on their partners that give me „the ick” but then it’s not my business to be the judge of their situation.

I usually ignore those profiles and move on with my life.

I suggest you possibly do the same OP.

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By *he MinionMan
1 week ago

"*passing you a sick bag*

You’re welcome.

Hope you were given permission 🫣🤭

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By *r99mr99Man
1 week ago

Ealing

Don't yuck someone's yum.

Just move on.

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By *aidForSharingWoman
1 week ago

Lancashire

Well silhouette profiles give ME the ick.

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By *agic.MMan
1 week ago

Orpington

"*passing you a sick bag*

You’re welcome.

I might need 2 if the term "owned slut" is used 👍

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By *tlanshiaWoman
1 week ago

Chatham

It’s part of D/s dynamic, and it isn’t gender specific

It’s like married, wife

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By *r99mr99Man
1 week ago

Ealing

"It’s part of D/s dynamic, and it isn’t gender specific

It’s like married, wife "

Probably more respect that the other terms too

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

I don't understand why they're single profiles but it's not actually bothering me. Men and women can be "owned"; if that makes them happy fair enough.

If I'm not keen on a profile I click away.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

your hotlist

I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.

But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.

The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Gatwick

"*passing you a sick bag*

You’re welcome.

Hope you were given permission 🫣🤭"

Oh dear.

Gonna get caned, aren’t I? 🥲

Bloody forum 😭😭😭😭😭

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Gatwick

"It’s part of D/s dynamic, and it isn’t gender specific

It’s like married, wife

Probably more respect that the other terms too "

This was an eye opener in my very, very incipient journey.

And I fucking love it.

🩷🎀

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By *viatrixWoman
1 week ago

Gatwick

"I don't understand why they're single profiles but it's not actually bothering me. Men and women can be "owned"; if that makes them happy fair enough.

If I'm not keen on a profile I click away. "

In our particular case it’d just be me gabbing away anyway as it seems I have more time 🤣🤣🤣… I’ve also invested a lot of said disposable time in building my single profile, and we also value our autonomy (yes, I get loads!

) so we have a couple’s profile and our own personal ones. Works well.

🎀

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 week ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. It's not for me, but more power to them.

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By *equals3x8Man
1 week ago

Sheffield

I like the owned and msg my master for meet profiles. I love it when a guy says I can fuck his Mrs because he's in charge

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By *eliWoman
1 week ago

"In our particular case it’d just be me gabbing away anyway as it seems I have more time 🤣🤣🤣… I’ve also invested a lot of said disposable time in building my single profile, and we also value our autonomy (yes, I get loads!

) so we have a couple’s profile and our own personal ones. Works well.

🎀"

Oh I got the theory but didn't quite *get* it. Still don't. And that's fine because I don't *need* to.

It doesn't affect my experience of Fab. You're not hurting anyone, it's all ethical. Nothing wrong with it.

Appreciate the effort in replying though. 😊🩷

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By *agic.MMan
1 week ago

Orpington

"I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.

But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.

The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"

Yeah...it's almost like...a double standard 👀

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By *2000ManMan
1 week ago

Worthing

Probably owns some stuff like a dress, skirt or shoes. Possibly makeup.

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By *eachbums40Couple
1 week ago

Midlands

"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?

Keen to know people's thoughts.... "

Tell you what gives us the ick.

People who are cheating then describe themselves as 'respectable'.

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By *yprusdreamWoman
1 week ago

Cyprus

People that give me the ick are ones who lie about their age on their profile and profess to being "honest" 🤯

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By *a LunaWoman
1 week ago

Wales

It’s not for me but it doesn’t give me the ick.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
1 week ago

North West

Someone a bit ago wanted to refer to me as "master". Did make me feel a bit weird I won't lie.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
1 week ago

North West

"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?

Keen to know people's thoughts.... "

I can understand why you'd feel uncomfortable. But honestly... just ignore and keep scrolling.

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By *og and MuseCouple
1 week ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.

But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.

The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"

Agree. If you see something on a profile and it's not for you, you should just scroll on, or just block them so you don't have to see it again or write out 100 lines on a blackboard 'I will not be judgemental prick', then put some books down your pants and be prepared to be spanked

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By *hesblokeMan
1 week ago

Derbyshire village

Meh, I'm not gonna yuck anyone's yum.

It's not for me, but if that's the dynamic they want them why not.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 week ago

your hotlist

"I agree we should all let people do them and not dis peoples likes.

But i do find it interesting how there are many threads daily doing exactly this and the comments vary differently dependent on which gender has posted it.

The valid sensible contributions dont count im meaning the more "schoolteacher telling off comments"

Ooft IN!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

"Am I the only one who, when sees the term "Owned" on a woman's profile, gets the ick?

Keen to know people's thoughts.... "

I don't get the ick. But I can choose not to interact with anyone who's profile tells me they're not my people. That's kind of what profiles are for. I appreciate when a profile tells me something more than the user either knows all the clichés or can use chatGPT.

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