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"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned. Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. " This 👆🏼 | |||
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"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned. Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. " I fully agree with this, but also any abuse, instant ban. If someone is going to do it once, they are gonna do it again | |||
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"Incognito mode-to be able to turn off that little blue light" Id love the option to not show when online Sometimes I just want to come on forums and not message and when you're seen online you get abuse for not answering messages 'because you're online' | |||
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"Free willy " It already has that in abundance | |||
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"Basic intelligence test. Below 80% you aren't allowed on. " That's me out 🤪 | |||
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"Basic intelligence test. Below 80% you aren't allowed on. That's me out 🤪 " I'll think you'll be ok, should narrow the numbers down a fair bit though. | |||
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"Basic intelligence test. Below 80% you aren't allowed on. " Exactly this | |||
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"Basic intelligence test. Below 80% you aren't allowed on. " We will miss you ! 🤭 | |||
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"To be able to edit, rather than delete posts, so you can carrot spelling misyakes " 😂 😂 😂 Have reactions to threads so you don't have to quote the person adding an emoji thus taking up 1 of the 175 replies | |||
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"Basic intelligence test. Below 80% you aren't allowed on. We will miss you ! 🤭" I'm not laughing Nope | |||
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"As images are already categorised when you upload them, members should be able to select which categories they’ll accept in DM’s. That would resolve most of the unsolicited dick pics. Silhouette profiles can’t send first messages. That way people can still take a break, can hide their account or remove their profile pic - but they also can’t send first messages. Upon joining mailbox should be locked and require you to open your filters to allow DM’s, not the other way around. Incognito or busy mode so you don’t have to always show as online. Photo fabs would have an anonymous option. " These are really good ideas! 👏 😍 | |||
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"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️" they will. Normally you don't hear anything back when sending a report but in this case you will. You will get a mail saying they are looking into it and then a mail when resolved. As Admin ( in a high % of cases ) have to contact both parties then it may take a couple of days after the report has been seen.  | |||
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"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ they will. Normally you don't hear anything back when sending a report but in this case you will. You will get a mail saying they are looking into it and then a mail when resolved. As Admin ( in a high % of cases ) have to contact both parties then it may take a couple of days after the report has been seen. "Thank you, caught someone using my pic as their own yesterday and was shocked. I have someone watching that account and they still have my pic up unfortunately 24 hours later 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | |||
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"A notification if someone quotes your post in a forum reply." This is a great idea. Scrolling back is so annoying. | |||
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"When you block somebody, you dont see their forum threads or posts. Their pics dont show on your updates feeds etc. Once blocked, they are essentially deleted from "your" Fab" But then you wouldn't see my post on forums 😉😜😂 | |||
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"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️" Admin do and as I explained to you in a previous post it takes a little time to investigate. | |||
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"I can't remember what website I joined once. But when you signed up, you couldn't start a dm message conversation for 30 days. You could be messaged and reply, you just couldn't start the conversation. " I'd start with maximum filters on for single female profiles, with a warning about the deluge you might expect. I imagine part of attrition of female profiles comes from that mess. | |||
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"Delete/ban the accounts that use pics of you as themself, honestly don’t believe they do much about it 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ they will. Normally you don't hear anything back when sending a report but in this case you will. You will get a mail saying they are looking into it and then a mail when resolved. As Admin ( in a high % of cases ) have to contact both parties then it may take a couple of days after the report has been seen.
Thank you, caught someone using my pic as their own yesterday and was shocked. I have someone watching that account and they still have my pic up unfortunately 24 hours later 🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️"As explained on the post, it takes time to investigate so Admin get it right. A report can take up to 48 hours to be seen ( longer if busy period ) and then Admin do their investigation as an extra so please be patient. | |||
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. " To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet | |||
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet" No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police. | |||
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. " I think it would certainly change some people's approaches and behaviour on here....and thats a good thing. Nobody genuine would have an issue with this in my eyes. | |||
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police. " If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed. | |||
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"Incognito mode-to be able to turn off that little blue light Id love the option to not show when online Sometimes I just want to come on forums and not message and when you're seen online you get abuse for not answering messages 'because you're online' " This is my top feature request. | |||
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police. If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed. " It did happen off site, I gave police evidence of unwanted contact but I didn't tell them about this site, out of embarrassment. So they won't have contacted fab. I did, but nothing. This man and a women were contacting me on multiple social media platforms and other ways of contacting me, as I have a business my details are easily found. So I've just got to continue to ignore attempts and hope he eventually leaves me alone. | |||
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" I also think its time the site updated its TV/TS category - its a little outdated and a few sub categories will allow people to more accurately describe themselves and allow others to be more discerning in their search preferences. " Agreed they really shouldn’t be put together anymore. | |||
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police. If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed. It did happen off site, I gave police evidence of unwanted contact but I didn't tell them about this site, out of embarrassment. So they won't have contacted fab. I did, but nothing. This man and a women were contacting me on multiple social media platforms and other ways of contacting me, as I have a business my details are easily found. So I've just got to continue to ignore attempts and hope he eventually leaves me alone. " The police won't care what site you are on. As you didn't mention this to the police and you say it happened offsite then there is not much Admin can do on here to be fair. I would still report but they can't investigate anything offsite. Either way lets get back to the OP please. | |||
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"Incognito mode-to be able to turn off that little blue light Id love the option to not show when online Sometimes I just want to come on forums and not message and when you're seen online you get abuse for not answering messages 'because you're online' This is my top feature request." This would be handy | |||
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"Like other apps, sign up requires I.D verification. Then when people like myself have had to go to the police for harrasment from users and stalking. Fab would actually ban them from using the site. Just more safeguarding in general would be great. To be fair police don't need a persons ID to trace them on the internet No, they don't. But fab still have a guy on here that has harassed me and been reported to the police. If this happened off site then you did the correct thing in reporting to the police. The police will get in touch with Admin if needed. It did happen off site, I gave police evidence of unwanted contact but I didn't tell them about this site, out of embarrassment. So they won't have contacted fab. I did, but nothing. This man and a women were contacting me on multiple social media platforms and other ways of contacting me, as I have a business my details are easily found. So I've just got to continue to ignore attempts and hope he eventually leaves me alone. The police won't care what site you are on. As you didn't mention this to the police and you say it happened offsite then there is not much Admin can do on here to be fair. I would still report but they can't investigate anything offsite. Either way lets get back to the OP please. " Was just answering the question TBF. | |||
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" Was just answering the question TBF. " You did, which also had a complaint about a user. Which is why I answered your post, you elaborated and I asked for things to get back to the OP instead. So lets go there  | |||
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"Add pics/memes to forum posts." Ooft. I'd rather not, because things would descend into memes rather than actually communicating | |||
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"Add pics/memes to forum posts. Ooft. I'd rather not, because things would descend into memes rather than actually communicating " Fair enough and can see your point. | |||
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"Soon as someone starts crying about not having any luck on the site they get a choice, kicked off or charged triple to stay. The mr " Haha that’s belter love it 😂 | |||
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"Get rid of hidden / stealth mode Why is it ok to stalk someone’s movements on here" Hell no I'd be getting a restraining order put on me | |||
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"Purge style forums every Friday from 9-12. You can say anything and no one gets the b word! " Oh my word, I would love that! | |||
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"Get rid of hidden / stealth mode Why is it ok to stalk someone’s movements on here" I don't think it's stalking. It's more, I don't want attention drawn to myself if I'm looking at someone's profile. (When I first joined, scrolling through updates, I nearly dropped my phone. In scrambling to pick it up, I clicked on the profile of some guy, who thought my profile view was a guaranteed meet, and sent increasingly abusive messages when I said "sorry, no". Having stealth mode on means that never happens) | |||
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"Purge style forums every Friday from 9-12. You can say anything and no one gets the b word! " Can you suggest for a Monday as I am not here at that time on a Friday and I would like to join in  | |||
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"Basic intelligence test. Below 80% you aren't allowed on. " Or have a fab smart and a fab stupid. | |||
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"As images are already categorised when you upload them, members should be able to select which categories they’ll accept in DM’s. That would resolve most of the unsolicited dick pics. Silhouette profiles can’t send first messages. That way people can still take a break, can hide their account or remove their profile pic - but they also can’t send first messages. Upon joining mailbox should be locked and require you to open your filters to allow DM’s, not the other way around. Incognito or busy mode so you don’t have to always show as online. Photo fabs would have an anonymous option. " This!!!! | |||
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"On the forum: better quoting In general: a donut search function to exclude those within a few miles. " Great idea, also the option to exclude your own profile from nearby. | |||
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"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned. Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. " This | |||
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"On the forum: better quoting In general: a donut search function to exclude those within a few miles. Great idea, also the option to exclude your own profile from nearby." 🙏 please I have to hide my profile every time I go to work | |||
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"I’d create a system that holds people accountable when they arrange a meet and don’t turn up. Something along the lines of…. If people want to meet they click a “let’s meet” button on someone’s profile. This gets logged if both parties do this, their IP address etc are recorded. The log is accessible by both parties who can later say what happened. Called off by mutual agreement, never arranged, arranged but didn’t show, successful meet etc. This data can then be shown on profiles to give an indication of how reliable a person may be. Everyone would be free to ignore this or not at their own discretion. I site with 10,000 serious people is preferable to a site with 50,000 unknowns in my personal opinion. But I think the site is based on a php script with very limited scope for changes, hence no changes. " I like this. I'd like to add a rating system that can take positive and negative feedback so everyone gets a score based on the interaction.... | |||
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"When you block somebody, you dont see their forum threads or posts. Their pics dont show on your updates feeds etc. Once blocked, they are essentially deleted from "your" Fab But then you wouldn't see my post on forums 😉😜😂" I checked my list of the things I want to do to you. Blocking you doesnt feature on it | |||
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"Every time someone new to the forums wants to start a new topic, it diverts them onto the search function for their answers: Why can’t I get a shag? How can I improve my profile? Who’s got the biggest dick on fab? Who’s got the biggest tits on fab? Where’s my nearest dogging site? Why am I such a wrongun?" I thought this was improving fab thread not self reflection Felix, darling 😈😉 | |||
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"I’d create a system that holds people accountable when they arrange a meet and don’t turn up. Something along the lines of…. If people want to meet they click a “let’s meet” button on someone’s profile. This gets logged if both parties do this, their IP address etc are recorded. The log is accessible by both parties who can later say what happened. Called off by mutual agreement, never arranged, arranged but didn’t show, successful meet etc. This data can then be shown on profiles to give an indication of how reliable a person may be. Everyone would be free to ignore this or not at their own discretion. I site with 10,000 serious people is preferable to a site with 50,000 unknowns in my personal opinion. But I think the site is based on a php script with very limited scope for changes, hence no changes. I like this. I'd like to add a rating system that can take positive and negative feedback so everyone gets a score based on the interaction.... " Fucking hell.... | |||
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"I don’t want to change it, I like living in 1996. The internet was better then. It made me sad when they changed it so we can use phone keyboard emojis 💔" Same! | |||
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"When you block somebody, you dont see their forum threads or posts. Their pics dont show on your updates feeds etc. Once blocked, they are essentially deleted from "your" Fab But then you wouldn't see my post on forums 😉😜😂 I checked my list of the things I want to do to you. Blocking you doesnt feature on it "😉 | |||
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"Basic intelligence test. Below 80% you aren't allowed on. Or have a fab smart and a fab stupid." Going by many messages sent on here, this could be linked to post-wank and pre-wank. | |||
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"On the forum: better quoting In general: a donut search function to exclude those within a few miles. " That was my thought.. just didn't have a name for it 😊 | |||
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"Question for the mods, will the site admin take any of these suggestions into account, if yes then does the site have a change log of new features and the date added?" Admin see all suggestions, either through the forum or passed to them. how they store the suggestions I don't know sorry. If they decide to implement any suggestions they normally post a thread in the feedback section. | |||
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"More options to filter what you are looking for. Better sexual preferences options Reporting people actually resulting in something.Maybe an outcome email - this dickhead had been banned for 48 hrs More category sections for threads " Oh and picture uploads on threads would be fab! | |||
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"Unsolicited graphic images on messages and you're banned. Let people ask you for it, if they want to see it. " 100 per cent agree | |||
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"Promotion and relegation with prem/championship/div 1 and div 2 with members getting points for to be decided acts" No heading the balls though! | |||
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"Promotion and relegation with prem/championship/div 1 and div 2 with members getting points for to be decided acts No heading the balls though!" Minus points unless it’s someone’s fetish | |||
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"A blog section on every profile" Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all 09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know 10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies 11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers 12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account | |||
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"A blog section on every profile Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all 09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know 10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies 11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers 12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account " I occasionally hotlist people to see them live tweet this process. | |||
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"A blog section on every profile Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all 09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know 10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies 11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers 12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account I occasionally hotlist people to see them live tweet this process." Send me some good ones next time 🤣 | |||
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"A blog section on every profile Can this became a thing tho, I’m here for the misery of it all 09/04/26 any women that can accommodate at 11pm tonight let me know 10/04/26 today I sent out 353 Hi how R U messages and got no replies 11/04/26 this site is full of fakes and scammers 12/04/26 so boring on here, no one wants to meet I’m deleting my account I occasionally hotlist people to see them live tweet this process." Rite then I am disabling hotlist for 24 hours ... I won't have anybody having any form of fun ... with that function either | |||
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"Tbf someone else could make another swingers site or an app let's say. Does fab swingers have its own app. I feel like the tech is the easy part these days… the real question is whether you could get enough genuine people on it to make it work. That’s what makes or breaks it." insabordination take a 48.. for that one you can | |||
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"Have to prove you are a couple, not allow single weirdos to hide behind couple profiles! " nonsense that's hear say inbox ban for 48 ... | |||
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Blank profiles encouraged/hounded to fill in information, after a month, maximum | |||
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"To let me set up “fab school” - sessions for guys on photos, profiles, how to write a bio and ultimately how to write that all important first message! " They all know best, just leave them to it  | |||
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"Have to prove you are a couple, not allow single weirdos to hide behind couple profiles! nonsense that's hear say inbox ban for 48 ... "🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"To let me set up “fab school” - sessions for guys on photos, profiles, how to write a bio and ultimately how to write that all important first message! They all know best, just leave them to it "You knows it. | |||
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"Tbf someone else could make another swingers site or an app let's say. Does fab swingers have its own app. I feel like the tech is the easy part these days… the real question is whether you could get enough genuine people on it to make it work. That’s what makes or breaks it." Shared hosting won’t usually allow adult sites. Managed VPS is not cheap and a managed dedicated server is seriously expensive. There are off the shelf scripts for dating sites/apps that you can buy fairly cheaply but would require extensive modifications to work for a swinging site. But the main stumbling block with any new site is you have to fill it very fast or those that initially join just leave cos there’s not enough people | |||
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"Ban Rex Holes 🤣" Yes, that would free up a few dozen single hotties 🙏 | |||
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"Have to prove you are a couple, not allow single weirdos to hide behind couple profiles! " Agreed with this. And be an actual couple, not two singles hooking up pretending. | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. " I agree with all. I'd also add this. If there's a couple. There needs a ratio expectation of 50:50 pictures of both the Mr and Mrs. Not just the Mrs. Posting only the Mrs defeats the point of a couple profile in my opinion. | |||
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"Everyone must be photo verified within 2 weeks of singing up No other people on photos on single profiles Blocking people on Fab means not being able to see their forum posts" I agree with this and also the suggestions of not showing when online. | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. " Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷 | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. " Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷 " You’d hope so but I can imagine there’s been occasions where some people have become targets in forum threads when those they’ve blocked try and use it as their only source of interaction. It hasn’t happened to me but I can imagine it being a thing. How do you feel it would it be subject to abuse? | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist" Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) " Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it. Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️) | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷 You’d hope so but I can imagine there’s been occasions where some people have become targets in forum threads when those they’ve blocked try and use it as their only source of interaction. It hasn’t happened to me but I can imagine it being a thing. How do you feel it would it be subject to abuse? " Someone could unblock to make a snide remark then block to stop a reply, that kind of thing. I think perhaps stopping direct replies to someone who's blocked you could work. | |||
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"What one thing would you implement on the website that you think would only benefit everyone as a whole?" An Ai that filters out the first messages that clearly have not read the profile and do not open up with what you have asked for. 98% of them are not whats asked. I get that men are 100-1 but make an effort and at least pretend you care | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it. Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️) " There's a feature to hide all images if you want to browse bumhole free. | |||
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"Have a function whereby you can block single men from being able to contact you but can still see if they looked at you. " Equally if I've used the message filters what I've blocked should also not show if they've looked or not. Granted my looked at me list would be sparser than a desert but it'd be people I wanted to look at me. | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it. Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️) There's a feature to hide all images if you want to browse bumhole free." Oh I did not know this!! Magic, thank you ! | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Agree with all except the Forum block which I don't think would work in practice and be subject to abuse. I think if people can't scroll past remarks they don't like or are triggering then perhaps the forum is not a good place?🤷 You’d hope so but I can imagine there’s been occasions where some people have become targets in forum threads when those they’ve blocked try and use it as their only source of interaction. It hasn’t happened to me but I can imagine it being a thing. How do you feel it would it be subject to abuse? Someone could unblock to make a snide remark then block to stop a reply, that kind of thing. I think perhaps stopping direct replies to someone who's blocked you could work. " Ah I see what you mean - that didn’t even cross my mind. I suppose they could make it a bit like fbook where if you unblock someone, you can’t then re-block them for 48hours (at least I think that was the rule the last time I checked). | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it. Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️) " Yeah I don’t get it either… I don’t understand why anyone thinks pics like that would be alluring - male or female 😂 | |||
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"Give the option to turn off the blue dot, show when last online, turn off friend requests and winks. Block people from repeat messaging within a certain timeframe. Pixelate DM’d pictures with the option to reveal. Allow edits on forum posts for a few mins after posting to correct typos. More gender options - think it’s outdated that TV and TS are in the same category. No genitals allowed as profile pics. If someone is blocked, it should be a total block and they shouldn’t still be able to see the profile pic, status and forum posts. Some pretty good points here. Especially the click to reveal and no genitals as profile pics so it's not just there in front of you if you don't want to see it. Also agree on the last point because there are some people you want to block and just forget they exist Yep wish it was a thing… I have no issue with nude pics but don’t think it’s necessary to have close ups of peoples bits as their profile picture (or their bum holes now I come to think of it ha) Totally agree with this - I dare not open the site when in work for fear of a bum hole being plastered across my screen so it limits how much I use it. Just pixelate and tap to reveal. (The fact that we’re discussing close ups of cocks as profile pics is mad anyway cos why would you set that and think you’ll now sit back and wait for the DM’s to roll in…🤦🏻♂️) Yeah I don’t get it either… I don’t understand why anyone thinks pics like that would be alluring - male or female 😂 " I’m about one more “why isn’t my inbox full of ravenous naked women desperate for my one in a million magic unstoppable penis” post away from a mega rant about why that might in fact be a slight turn off for a gender of human who more often than not, like a face and some mental stimulation to go with their unsolicited ballbag. | |||
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"What one thing would you implement on the website that you think would only benefit everyone as a whole?" Fix the chat rooms. When somebody leaves a room show that in chat. Don't have people in 5 or 6 different rooms at once. | |||
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"Ban silhouette profiles " Would you prefer a picture of the tip of my pinky finger? | |||
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