FabSwingers.com forum: Shy men

By *872 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Westcliff-on-Sea

Hi do any women enjoy a shy man that perhaps just needs bringing out of his shell ?

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By *luebell888Woman
2 weeks ago

Glasgowish

"Hi do any women enjoy a shy man that perhaps just needs bringing out of his shell ?"

To be honest, not really. I prefer confident men.

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By *othantscoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Northampton

I think its kinda hot! Makes me feel really naughty, like im leading them astray

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By *872 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Westcliff-on-Sea

Both very helpful responses thank you ladies.

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Both very helpful responses thank you ladies."

That's the thing to take away from this, some will and some won't.

Try to find a little more confident if you can, but also be yourself too.

The balance somewhere between will appeal to most. But don't go getting disheartened if it feels like those that like shy guys are the minority.

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By *naswingdressWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

In general, yes.

Online, no. It's like pulling teeth - tell me what you want, don't play games. (I understand social anxiety well, and you just need to push through sometimes. Shyness doesn't translate online)

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

Occasionally bashful? Yes…. But he needs to have confidence in himself too. Theres a fine line

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By *hunky GentMan
2 weeks ago

Stamford, Lincs

"Occasionally bashful? Yes…. But he needs to have confidence in himself too. Theres a fine line "

Get ya kit off - I'll have a peek with one eye.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

"Occasionally bashful? Yes…. But he needs to have confidence in himself too. Theres a fine line "

Yeah, I agree with this. I've been that shy person and looking back, it must feel like pulling teeth for a woman to try and bring me out of my shell. I like to think I've found that sort of quiet confidence in myself that's present when I meet people now.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

I'm more drawn to naturally confident slightly cocky guys. But not dickheads.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Not really. I don’t mind if they’re quietly confident, rather than full of themselves, but when they’re shy it can be difficult to get a conversation going.

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By *evilinyouMan
2 weeks ago

Bristol

"Hi do any women enjoy a shy man that perhaps just needs bringing out of his shell ?"

I think the trick to being somewhat confident is to know what your good at and play to your strengths, like me, I'm great at making myself look like and idiot 😉

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By *umfun24Man
2 weeks ago

wilmslow

"I'm more drawn to naturally confident slightly cocky guys. But not dickheads. "

Isn’t this the key. Trouble is, one person’s confident is another person’s arrogance.

I’m naturally not an up on the table dancing sort of person, well not at first, so I have to make a conscious effort to turn the volume up. Easy to overdo and look like a knob though.

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By *radually_RetiringMan
2 weeks ago

Bury

Watching with interest ....

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By *vonne5exMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

"Hi do any women enjoy a shy man that perhaps just needs bringing out of his shell ?

To be honest, not really. I prefer confident men."
shame I've been working in Motherwell last week and stopping in Glasgow x

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By *arc PolarisMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

What about a half shell? (Turtle power)

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By *vaRoseWoman
2 weeks ago

Ankh-Morpork

"Occasionally bashful? Yes…. But he needs to have confidence in himself too. Theres a fine line

That’s absolutely it for me. A quiet confidence. Everyone is shy sometimes and nobody is confident in everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Shyness is nice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Central

I'm impressed with anyone who learns and seeks to improve themselves.

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By *riel13Woman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

I enjoy a shy man on a regular basis... He's not shy with me tho

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By *872 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Westcliff-on-Sea

I guess shy is the wrong wording I can just be nervous in the bedroom department trying not to overthink the moment on the rare occasion it happens. I can communicate with women fine just struggle to get to intimate time

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

I don’t know about you fab lot but according to Diana King…

I don't want no fly guy

I just want a shy guy

That's what I want yey

You know what I want yey

Oh Lord have mercy mercy mercy

Di man dem in a di party party party

Di ole a dem sexy sexy sexy

Watch dem just a

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