FabSwingers.com forum: Top Priorities

By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

What’s your order of priority when it comes to selecting someone to meet? Cock/tit size, attractive face, body type, age, good convo in messages, other?

Ours is…

Good convo in messages

Cock (not size, but shape and look)

Body type

Age

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

That they're an ordinary person

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

Get on with them in messages. You know when it's enjoyable to talk to them? Yep that's the lofty standard set.

Do I think they're attractive? Doesn't mean I'm attracted to them, have to at least think they're attractive.

Would spending time together be a good idea.

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

How someone comes across in a message.

Face pic.

Body type.

Age.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Slightly rugged face with a look in their eyes that you just know you're gonna end up with cystitis for days.

Decent body

Pretty penis

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

A pulse!

I think that covers all bases, everyone is included and offends nobody.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"A pulse!

I think that covers all bases, everyone is included and offends nobody. "

You're so picky

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Genuinely single or genuinely a couple who meet together

Attractive

Not an idiot

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

Do they make me laugh?

Do I want to kiss them?

Do they have a nice cock?

If it’s yes to those 3 then I’ll consider age and other logistical stuff.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

A nice face. Id be planning on kissing that a lot.

Height

Good chat and cheeky humour.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

Location locations location.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

That I'm attracted to their face.

We hit it off well.

They're fairly close to me.

Single, or they meet with consent of their partner.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"That they're an ordinary person "

Well that rules me out then

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"That they're an ordinary person "

The slightly unhinged ones are better at the sex

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By *awtybikerMan
2 weeks ago

Barnoldswick

Attraction

Location

Likelihood of actually meeting?

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By *ackformore100Man
2 weeks ago

Tin town

"What’s your order of priority when it comes to selecting someone to meet? Cock/tit size, attractive face, body type, age, good convo in messages, other?

Ours is…

Good convo in messages

Cock (not size, but shape and look)

Body type

Age

They have to be breathing

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By *hinstrapMan
2 weeks ago

sheffield

...a reply is always a good start I think.....then got to be decent convos.

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Age...

Looks...

Location...

Good at communicating..

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By *itty FelouWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle

So the attributes that makes me want to meet are:

Good conversationalist with a sense of humour, someone that I find attractive and is in relatively good shape with something more than a micro cock.

I know I am dead fussy. 😊

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

A face I’m attracted to

Not a dick

Single or has consent to meet

^^^ Those are non-negotiable

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

Also I don’t “select” someone to meet. It’s not a menu 🤣

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"Attraction

Location

Likelihood of actually meeting?"

💔

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
2 weeks ago

Hull

Message quality

Overall physical impression

Cock

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

"Also I don’t “select” someone to meet. It’s not a menu 🤣"

😅 Don't fancy a side of tasty cock to go with the ethical non-monogamy?

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 weeks ago

Lincs

First and foremost that they're single, unless I'm meeting a couple of course.

Bit of banter, ability to hold a conversation, a little bit of charm and some sexual chemistry feels like a good start

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By *rincess_Peach1992Woman
2 weeks ago

Newport

For me its

Face

Good conversation/personality

Body

Cock

Age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
2 weeks ago

"Also I don’t “select” someone to meet. It’s not a menu 🤣"

I disagree. The site provides a list of available options and we all choose. Sounds like a menu to me 😊

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Like build a bear?

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West

"Like build a bear? "

Grizzly or Polar?

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By *rincess_Peach1992Woman
2 weeks ago

Newport

"Like build a bear?

Grizzly or Polar? "

Polar bear

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By *ynamicnatureMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

I'm a sucker for a well written bio, then having similar interests is always a good starting point as it gives us something to talk about.

Physically, I don't think I have a particular type? They just have to have that Va Va Voom! They either have it or they don't.

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By *izandpaulCouple
2 weeks ago

merseyside

Can string a sentence together.

On over a year, at least 1 verification for actual meet.

Photos and profile showing a bit of effort and not living in a untidy room.

Green arrows showing witty, funny forum posts not using nonsense pseudo intellectual babble to impress.

Not much to ask.....or is it.

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By *ick MastersMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Face

Can get on with them and communication doesn’t feel like a chore

Body

Distance

In my age range

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By *hunderaceMan
2 weeks ago

Dudley

There is an X factor that simply transcends looks, body type or persona. Whereas physical attraction is important looks alone isn't enough.

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By *ardiff stag and vixenCouple
2 weeks ago

cardiff

Cock size

Face

If those 2 are good its game on

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

Sense of humour

Kindness

Face

Tits

Curves

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

good conversation, not really fussed about the others

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By *007ManMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

Initial chat means more than one sentence to mine. Rest is irrelevant.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

"There is an X factor that simply transcends looks, body type or persona. Whereas physical attraction is important looks alone isn't enough.

Nice answer

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By *utsackerMan
2 weeks ago

north east

Breathing

Under 150kg

No cock or at least not bigger than mine

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By *lym4realCouple
2 weeks ago

plymouth

The ability to have a chat on here without it getting sexual plus living local and a sense of humour and maybe cock size/age...

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By *ontyboi76Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypridd

We click chatting that leads to sexual tension. Everything else is pointless without.

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By *hiversMan
2 weeks ago

Dinas Powys

"Genuinely single or genuinely a couple who meet together

Attractive

Not an idiot "

Pretty much this ☝

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Motherwell

They pass my filters and then they pass my desires and equally I am what they are looking for. Mx 😈

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Slightly rugged face with a look in their eyes that you just know you're gonna end up with cystitis for days.

Decent body

Pretty penis

😂👏🏼

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

No weird creep vibes

Good convo/ humour/ chemistry in messages

Body type (tall and big/muscular)

Attractive face (rugged but handsome)

Nice penis

Age

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

"Also I don’t “select” someone to meet. It’s not a menu 🤣

I disagree. The site provides a list of available options and we all choose. Sounds like a menu to me 😊"

We shall continue to disagree. Because there’s no point in me choosing them off the ‘menu’ if I’m not also their choice. There’s not many restaurants where they say “sorry, the fish and chips doesn’t want to be eaten by you”

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

I have no order of priority because women, in my experience, have qualities that vary between one another.

As long as she's up to date with her cervical screening tests then I'll take all the other factors on a case-by-case basis. 💌

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By *riel13Woman
2 weeks ago

Northampton

Face, personality, how they carry themselves

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
2 weeks ago

Pentney

"What’s your order of priority when it comes to selecting someone to meet? Cock/tit size, attractive face, body type, age, good convo in messages, other?

Ours is…

Good convo in messages

Cock (not size, but shape and look)

Body type

Age

For me its...

Age

Are they single/playing with consent

Attraction

Body

Conversation

Cock size/pretty pussy 😋

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Everything must be attractive

The end

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

Huge schlong

Big middle finger

Nice bumhole

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By *ensualBlokeMan
2 weeks ago

London / Colchester

Everything must be rooted in reality and honesty rather than an online persona shrouded in filters and abstracts. Attraction IS important, of course it is- but connection is the most important thing- without it ( at least for me) there is no going forward.

...that said nice tits and a decent cock please.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
2 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

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By *irthy02Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Huge schlong

Big middle finger

Nice bumhole "

Whahahaha

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By *ensuallover1000Man
2 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Will they go well with a nice chianti? Psssp-psssp-pssssp!

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By *sm265Woman
2 weeks ago

Perthshire

Personality is by far most important. Their ability to engage in interesting (non sexual) conversation and their sense of humour. If I dont enjoy your company over a cup of coffee or glass of wine, then I don't want to have sex with you.

I need to find their appearance attractive (but that doesn't necessarily mean they need to be stereotypically good looking). Eyes and smile are key features.

Body shape, height etc are not very important to me, I am generally not attracted to skinny men though.

Penis size is not high on my list of priorities (although my preference is average size and too small or too big would likely be a "no thanks"). Some penis shapes don't appeal to me though.

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By *osh blokeMan
2 weeks ago

hereford

If i click with them is the most important thing for me. Looks and body type obviously but the personality is key.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Firstly they have read our profile.

Secondly face pic.

Thirdly cock size, nothing below 4 inches but not fussy about size other than that.

Location is fourth on the list because some people do travel or can meet them in a club.

Lastly can they actually hold a conversation and appear to have personality. It’s only so far down the list because if we don’t like the look of them or they don’t align with our profile their conversation skills are irrelevant therefore why it’s so low down on our priorities for a match.

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

That they most definitely Faf

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

"Everything must be attractive

The end

Dam 😔

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Everything must be attractive

The end

Dam 😔"

You can have a pity pass on the fact nobody believes your username

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By *hilly1515Man
2 weeks ago

likes Mac n cheese the gourmet stuff.

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By *urvytattedprincessWoman
2 weeks ago

Pentney

"Huge schlong

Big middle finger

Nice bumhole "

Amen 🙏 🤣

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

"Huge schlong

Big middle finger

Nice bumhole "

What about

Huge middle finger

Big bumhole

Nice schlog

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Do we get along, have we got things in common - similar outlooks, similar interests both vanilla and sexual. Do they turn my brain on basically. Can we have a conversation that I find genuinely enjoyable.

Do I think we will be sexually compatible.

Am I attracted to them? Do I find them hot in photos and feel hopeful that will translate into real life.

Are the logistics of meeting up simple.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Not a dickhead.

Down to earth.

A vag that doesn’t look or smell like the back end of a bin lorry.

The mr

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By *ora the explorerWoman
2 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not a dickhead.

Down to earth.

A vag that doesn’t look or smell like the back end of a bin lorry.

The mr "

🤣🤣🤣 you always make me laugh

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

"Not a dickhead.

Down to earth.

A vag that doesn’t look or smell like the back end of a bin lorry.

The mr "

Picky 🤣

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Not a dickhead.

Down to earth.

A vag that doesn’t look or smell like the back end of a bin lorry.

The mr

🤣🤣🤣 you always make me laugh "

I can happen from time to time. Always though that’s a stretch 😂😂

The mr

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

"Not a dickhead.

Down to earth.

A vag that doesn’t look or smell like the back end of a bin lorry.

The mr

Picky 🤣"

Well of course, no point in beating around the bush ( no pun intended). Don’t want to wine and dine a bird then be disgusted by a fish supper.

The mr

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