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When should you introduce your partner to your parents?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

I was watching a movie and there the question came up, the woman asked her boyfriend why she havent been introduced yet to his parents, the reason she asked that was because they have been together for 4 months so she thought that it was a long time and about time as well to be introduced to them, but he was unsure about it.

I dont think that there is a certain time you have to do it in, but I would say that to be sure, is to wait until the relationship is stable and both are committed to it, rather than to second guess if you want to continue or not with it.

It would be interesting to see what your view about it is, when the best time to introduce your partner to our parents is and if you are a couple when did you do it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

On a nudist beach apparently.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

It depends.

Some get introduced when they are on the way out of the door after a one night stand .

Others not ever unless you intend to get married and become part of the family.

4 months is too soon if either of the couple are not that committed.

Being someone's current partner does not mean they view you as their life partner and want you to be part of their clan.

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By *sm265Woman
2 weeks ago

Perthshire

Not a dilemma I have. My parents are both dead.

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

It depends on the circumstances. Different for different people and for each person it's different for each relationship.

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

I don't have this problem

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By *utsackerMan
2 weeks ago

north east

For me never only my mam alive and she a pain in the arse I’d sooner a partner never meet her ha

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

When she's a keeper.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Prince Harry has never met Meghan's father.

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By *oxy-RedWoman
2 weeks ago

pink panther territory


"When she's a keeper."

This,but when he's a keeper

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
2 weeks ago

Leeds

When you know it’s going to be more than just fucking around.

The mr

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By *tannersMan
2 weeks ago

stanley


"When she's a keeper."

What if she’s a centre half?

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
2 weeks ago

South Wales

When they’d heard him sneaking in and out of my bedroom window so many times it seemed sensible to introduce xx 😄

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

I think it depends what it signifies to you.

In my opinion reluctance to take your partner to meet your family means reluctance to acknowledge your relationship to those closest to you. There are exceptions to this of course

I always knew when our kids partners were not going to last or weren't right for them because the partner would avoid meeting us.

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By *unkym34Man
2 weeks ago

London

Never when your balls deep

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Never when your balls deep "

It makes shaking hands difficult doesn't it

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By *unkym34Man
2 weeks ago

London


"Never when your balls deep

It makes shaking hands difficult doesn't it "
it’s the eye contact I find hard

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Never when your balls deep

It makes shaking hands difficult doesn't it it’s the eye contact I find hard "

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By *uri00620Woman
2 weeks ago

Croydon

I was never an age where parents were around to meet. I think i'd have been fairly relaxed about it though. I don't think i'd have had to consider them particularly 'serious' for that.

I've tended to meet partner's parents early on.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Sadly when I met Jack, over ten years ago, both my partners had passed away. So sadly he's never met them, just heard my stories.

I met his dad after a few months of seeing him.

I think whenever you feel the time is right or when know they're going to be a permenant fixture in your life.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not sure how I'd feel being introduced to someone's parents.

I can just picture the scene.

Me in full glam mode. Them slightly nervous. Parents expectant, but not really knowing what to expect.

We then arrive. I push the door open with my perfectly reasonable sized bust. They just see said bust coming into the room. 2 minutes later, the rest of me appears.

I look at them, they look at me.

I say, 'You two never called after we met dogging, how rude?'

They say, 'Sorry about that, but can we have your autograph?'

I say, 'No,' look at their decor and recommend they change the curtains, before spinning on my heel as I tell my now ex, who is crying in a corner, 'your dad's got a bigger cock than you.'

Ps,

for some reason, possibly connected to the above, I've yet to be invited to meet anyone's parents

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West


"When they’d heard him sneaking in and out of my bedroom window so many times it seemed sensible to introduce xx 😄"

Sounds like the beginnings of a romcom 😂

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I think it's less about a prescribed period of time and more about when you feel you're in it for the long haul.

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By *exxyyDy11Man
2 weeks ago

North West


"When she's a keeper.

What if she’s a centre half?"

Or a central attacking midfielder?

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
2 weeks ago

South Wales


"When they’d heard him sneaking in and out of my bedroom window so many times it seemed sensible to introduce xx 😄

Sounds like the beginnings of a romcom 😂 "

Hahahaha, it does a bit xx 😄

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"It depends.

Some get introduced when they are on the way out of the door after a one night stand .

Others not ever unless you intend to get married and become part of the family.

4 months is too soon if either of the couple are not that committed.

Being someone's current partner does not mean they view you as their life partner and want you to be part of their clan."
Hi, yes, you are right there, it depends. I also think that 4 months is too soon as well

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By *pen2UMan
2 weeks ago

Telford

My family can be quite difficult. They have high expectations of their kids lives and therefore make it hard to judge whether a significant other is ideal or at least suitable in their eyes.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
2 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Two and a half years in with my current partner and not even a whisper of parental introductions on the horizon. We know each other's friends and chosen family, and there's just no need to put the other through the trauma of meeting either of our mothers 💜

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By *izandpaulCouple
2 weeks ago

merseyside


"I was watching a movie and there the question came up, the woman asked her boyfriend why she havent been introduced yet to his parents, the reason she asked that was because they have been together for 4 months so she thought that it was a long time and about time as well to be introduced to them, but he was unsure about it.

I dont think that there is a certain time you have to do it in, but I would say that to be sure, is to wait until the relationship is stable and both are committed to it, rather than to second guess if you want to continue or not with it.

It would be interesting to see what your view about it is, when the best time to introduce your partner to our parents is and if you are a couple when did you do it?

"

Within a few days for me.

Boyfriends came to collect me from home and they said hello, if you class this as meeting parents.

Had no idea if this relationship, if you class a few dates as a relationship, would go any further.

Inviting a guy to a family gathering, that's a different story, usually never, sometimes after 6 months or so.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I introduce my mum once I know its an actual relationship.

Plus shes nosey, all my partners where ok meeting her quite soon.

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London


"When she's a keeper.

What if she’s a centre half?

Or a central attacking midfielder? "

Centre half means she'll defend you when no one else will.

CAM means she's got the stamina, vision and class to be there for the long haul.

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By *2000ManMan
2 weeks ago

Worthing

It usually follows a natural course. After a few weeks I suppose.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I don't have this problem"
Hi _earditall, that is good you dont have this problem too

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By *rdenites2Couple
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

While they’re still alive.

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"When she's a keeper."
Yes, when she is a keeper too

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By *ippyXXXMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

When FWB becomes more than FWB..

So is the a time scale? 😆

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I think it depends what it signifies to you.

In my opinion reluctance to take your partner to meet your family means reluctance to acknowledge your relationship to those closest to you. There are exceptions to this of course

I always knew when our kids partners were not going to last or weren't right for them because the partner would avoid meeting us. "
Hi nicecouple, yes, you are right there, it depends what it signifies to you too, that is good how you always knew if it was going to last or werent right for them as well

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By *icolerobbieCouple
2 weeks ago

Walsall

I’d imagine it would be when they’ve been dating long enough for some kind of family function to take place when the couple would naturally go together.

Mind you, having watched the film meet the parents………

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By *awtybikerMan
2 weeks ago

Barnoldswick

An old FWB already knew my mum? (She used to work with her) lol

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Probably not when you’re balls deep in her

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"I was never an age where parents were around to meet. I think i'd have been fairly relaxed about it though. I don't think i'd have had to consider them particularly 'serious' for that.

I've tended to meet partner's parents early on."
That is good you would be fairly relaxed about it and how you would have to consider them serious for that too

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By *izandpaulCouple
2 weeks ago

merseyside

So Shag, when have you been introduced or introduced others to your respective families ?

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
2 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.


"When you know it’s going to be more than just fucking around.

The mr "
Hi knightso, yes, it is when you know it is going to be more than just fucking around too

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By *ex HolesMan
2 weeks ago

Up North

I’d say it’s just after you’ve spunked on her tits, preferably when it’s gone dry and a little crusty

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
7 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"Sadly when I met Jack, over ten years ago, both my partners had passed away. So sadly he's never met them, just heard my stories.

I met his dad after a few months of seeing him.

I think whenever you feel the time is right or when know they're going to be a permenant fixture in your life. "
Hi _issmorgan, yes, you are right there, it is whenever you feel the time is right about it too

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By *a LunaWoman
7 days ago

Wales

When you think it is serious and going somewhere. No point in introducing someone who’s not sticking around.

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
7 days ago

Birmingham

I would have to feel like the relationship is serious and long standing so probably about a year before I'd entertain the idea.

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By *4bimMan
7 days ago

Farnborough Hampshire

i did it once never again.

i was in my twenties and when i introduced her to my dad he said

'is that the best you can do son!'

she burst into tears and left

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By *ld Stella HeelsTV/TS
7 days ago

ross on wye

After the family visit to chameleons

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By *ontyboi76Man
7 days ago

Pontypridd

Never if possible, don't kill the fun

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By *rHotNottsMan
6 days ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Is this kink? Probably better in the swingers forum

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
6 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"When you think it is serious and going somewhere. No point in introducing someone who’s not sticking around."
Hi luna, yes, you are right there, it is when you think it is serious and going somewhere too

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By *hagTonight OP   Man
5 days ago

From the land of haribos.


"I was watching a movie and there the question came up, the woman asked her boyfriend why she havent been introduced yet to his parents, the reason she asked that was because they have been together for 4 months so she thought that it was a long time and about time as well to be introduced to them, but he was unsure about it.

I dont think that there is a certain time you have to do it in, but I would say that to be sure, is to wait until the relationship is stable and both are committed to it, rather than to second guess if you want to continue or not with it.

It would be interesting to see what your view about it is, when the best time to introduce your partner to our parents is and if you are a couple when did you do it?

Within a few days for me.

Boyfriends came to collect me from home and they said hello, if you class this as meeting parents.

Had no idea if this relationship, if you class a few dates as a relationship, would go any further.

Inviting a guy to a family gathering, that's a different story, usually never, sometimes after 6 months or so."
That is good it was within a few days for you and how he came to collect you from home and they said hello too, yes. I would class is as meeting the parents as well

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