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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford

So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I'll ask TheHusband and get back to you

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By *b1980Man
2 weeks ago

Burnley

I saw my mate who was smaller with with he made her moan for first time second time he had her alone come in and said you won't get in its too wet loved it

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By *ew2buryMan
2 weeks ago

Newbury

Ignoring the fact I'm the best ...

Good sex can be good in different ways, so its not intuitive it has to be ranked.

But look, it's definitely possible she gets a load of enjoyment. That's the point.

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"I'll ask TheHusband and get back to you "

Please do lol

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ? "

TheHusband said "You just accept that the law of averages means you won’t be the best shag ever, but if wifey meets someone better, you reassure yourself that you have a better, deeper, emotional bond formed over time & than she would get with an FWB."

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"Ignoring the fact I'm the best ...

Good sex can be good in different ways, so its not intuitive it has to be ranked.

But look, it's definitely possible she gets a load of enjoyment. That's the point. "

Oh I totally agree and I completely get that , it’s just I’m trying to understand if any of you guys struggle between the excitement and turn on you get and possibly the overthinking or slight intrusive thought I mean that’s if you ever get them that’s what I’m trying to find out lol

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
2 weeks ago

Hull

No, I'm a confident man and I don't worry about things like that. In fact, my usual question is "Did you have a good time?" and the answer is nearly always positive. She's happy and I'm happy she is.

I don't know for sure if the sex is better, or worse. I assume, having had many partners myself, the sex is just "different". And there's nothing wrong with that.

At the end of the day, we have a life outside of this and she ends up with me, no matter what else she's doing.

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We’re not a hot wife couple, but the thought of someone physically pleasuring Muse to the extent that I do would be a massive turn on!

But great sex is about more than physical,, so that’s never going to happen. Even with our regular single guy, it’s never gonna be more than a bit of fun and fantasy, all 3 parties are fully aware of that & no one wants more. If anyone of the three wanted it to be more than that than something has gone badly wrong.

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

TheHusband said "You just accept that the law of averages means you won’t be the best shag ever, but if wifey meets someone better, you reassure yourself that you have a better, deeper, emotional bond formed over time & than she would get with an FWB." "

Yeah that is definitely a good view I can see that , I know part of the Hotwife lifestyle is her telling you all about it do you think there is a big or small percentage of women that play it down a tad to avoid any potential problems or do you think it’s full up front honesty and that’s the point of it ?

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"Ignoring the fact I'm the best ...

Good sex can be good in different ways, so its not intuitive it has to be ranked.

But look, it's definitely possible she gets a load of enjoyment. That's the point.

Oh I totally agree and I completely get that , it’s just I’m trying to understand if any of you guys struggle between the excitement and turn on you get and possibly the overthinking or slight intrusive thought I mean that’s if you ever get them that’s what I’m trying to find out lol "

TheHusband has had moments of insecurity

We've been together 25yrs. I've been seeing TheBF for 16mths but all 3 of us know it's 'just sex'

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"No, I'm a confident man and I don't worry about things like that. In fact, my usual question is "Did you have a good time?" and the answer is nearly always positive. She's happy and I'm happy she is.

I don't know for sure if the sex is better, or worse. I assume, having had many partners myself, the sex is just "different". And there's nothing wrong with that.

At the end of the day, we have a life outside of this and she ends up with me, no matter what else she's doing."

That’s a very valid statement thank you

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"Ignoring the fact I'm the best ...

Good sex can be good in different ways, so its not intuitive it has to be ranked.

But look, it's definitely possible she gets a load of enjoyment. That's the point.

Oh I totally agree and I completely get that , it’s just I’m trying to understand if any of you guys struggle between the excitement and turn on you get and possibly the overthinking or slight intrusive thought I mean that’s if you ever get them that’s what I’m trying to find out lol

TheHusband has had moments of insecurity

We've been together 25yrs. I've been seeing TheBF for 16mths but all 3 of us know it's 'just sex' "

How does husband deal or get over the insecurities? Do you reassure him or offer to stop or is it just a case of pull yourself together man we have been together too long for this lol 😂

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"We’re not a hot wife couple, but the thought of someone physically pleasuring Muse to the extent that I do would be a massive turn on!

But great sex is about more than physical,, so that’s never going to happen. Even with our regular single guy, it’s never gonna be more than a bit of fun and fantasy, all 3 parties are fully aware of that & no one wants more. If anyone of the three wanted it to be more than that than something has gone badly wrong."

Oh no I completely get that and fully agree I’m not meaning if someone catches feelings I’m meaning if intrusive thoughts or jealousy creeps in how’s that dealt with by either parties involved

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"We’re not a hot wife couple, but the thought of someone physically pleasuring Muse to the extent that I do would be a massive turn on!

But great sex is about more than physical,, so that’s never going to happen. Even with our regular single guy, it’s never gonna be more than a bit of fun and fantasy, all 3 parties are fully aware of that & no one wants more. If anyone of the three wanted it to be more than that than something has gone badly wrong.

Oh no I completely get that and fully agree I’m not meaning if someone catches feelings I’m meaning if intrusive thoughts or jealousy creeps in how’s that dealt with by either parties involved "

If you’re doing it together, it’s not gonna happen. Muse has no desire to fuck anybody else unless I’m there, normally encouraging her and daring her to do despicable sex acts 😂 seriously, I would be massively insecure even if she had private chats that I couldn’t see, we are not a poly couple we are swinging, there’s a huge difference

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"We’re not a hot wife couple, but the thought of someone physically pleasuring Muse to the extent that I do would be a massive turn on!

But great sex is about more than physical,, so that’s never going to happen. Even with our regular single guy, it’s never gonna be more than a bit of fun and fantasy, all 3 parties are fully aware of that & no one wants more. If anyone of the three wanted it to be more than that than something has gone badly wrong.

Oh no I completely get that and fully agree I’m not meaning if someone catches feelings I’m meaning if intrusive thoughts or jealousy creeps in how’s that dealt with by either parties involved

If you’re doing it together, it’s not gonna happen. Muse has no desire to fuck anybody else unless I’m there, normally encouraging her and daring her to do despicable sex acts 😂 seriously, I would be massively insecure even if she had private chats that I couldn’t see, we are not a poly couple we are swinging, there’s a huge difference"

Ah now this is interesting as I thought Hotwife was her going alone to meets I thought your situation was classed as stag vixen , so can a Hotwife scenario be with the husband involved everytime ?

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"

TheHusband has had moments of insecurity

We've been together 25yrs. I've been seeing TheBF for 16mths but all 3 of us know it's 'just sex'

...

How does husband deal or get over the insecurities? Do you reassure him or offer to stop or is it just a case of pull yourself together man we have been together too long for this lol 😂 "

We talk. I reassure him. I'd stop if things weren't going well. My marriage is the most important thing to me

And if I'm feeling sassy I tell him to man up and flick his dick! 😈

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ? "

I'd guess the 'couple' has the connection, the other is just sex. Meaningless. Regardless of how good it is

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"

TheHusband has had moments of insecurity

We've been together 25yrs. I've been seeing TheBF for 16mths but all 3 of us know it's 'just sex'

...

How does husband deal or get over the insecurities? Do you reassure him or offer to stop or is it just a case of pull yourself together man we have been together too long for this lol 😂

We talk. I reassure him. I'd stop if things weren't going well. My marriage is the most important thing to me

And if I'm feeling sassy I tell him to man up and flick his dick! 😈 "

You sound a great wife to be fair reassuring when needed and a good laugh at other times , I bet you can be very naughty at times lol , do you give him a little wink when you flick his dick too just to tease him that little bit more lol

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By *ex HolesMan
2 weeks ago

Up North


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ? "

Maybe ‘swinging’ isn’t for you 🤷🏻

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

I'd guess the 'couple' has the connection, the other is just sex. Meaningless. Regardless of how good it is"

Absolutely but the human brain can’t help but sometimes read a little too much into things so surely it must come up at times ?

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

Maybe ‘swinging’ isn’t for you 🤷🏻"

I’m a single guy mate lol I’m just intrigued it’s always something I have wondered about so thought I would ask lol

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈 "

What a lucky guy , while you wear the hold ups as well ?? lol

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By *ex HolesMan
2 weeks ago

Up North


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

Maybe ‘swinging’ isn’t for you 🤷🏻

I’m a single guy mate lol I’m just intrigued it’s always something I have wondered about so thought I would ask lol "

Well my advice would be to not get married

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈

What a lucky guy , while you wear the hold ups as well ?? lol "

Oh yes 😉

I look after my husband

... And TheBF

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

Maybe ‘swinging’ isn’t for you 🤷🏻

I’m a single guy mate lol I’m just intrigued it’s always something I have wondered about so thought I would ask lol

Well my advice would be to not get married "

No chance of that mate you need to have women attracted and reply to you first before that can happen 😂

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈

What a lucky guy , while you wear the hold ups as well ?? lol

Oh yes 😉

I look after my husband

... And TheBF "

Oh like I say he is a very lucky guy , what is the colour of choice ?

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By *ynamicnatureMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

The best way to describe my thoughts when my partner is out playing solo and the range of feelings that you go through, would be, "la folie douce"

My partner goes through similar intense feelings, and it definitely amplifies the lust and passion in us both. We both love it and are enjoying our shared adventures ❤️

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈

What a lucky guy , while you wear the hold ups as well ?? lol

Oh yes 😉

I look after my husband

... And TheBF

Oh like I say he is a very lucky guy , what is the colour of choice ? "

TheHusband likes black

TheBF like white

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"The best way to describe my thoughts when my partner is out playing solo and the range of feelings that you go through, would be, "la folie douce"

My partner goes through similar intense feelings, and it definitely amplifies the lust and passion in us both. We both love it and are enjoying our shared adventures ❤️

Yeah I can understand that and I think it’s why I can understand the attraction of it within couples, you been together long ?

"

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

East Lincs

C doesn’t meet others for sex alone, other than with other ladies.

However, I would want C to have the best sex, whoever we played with. The last guy we played with gave her just as many orgasms as I did. We are in this to have amazing sex with others, so I’d be more disappointed if it was average sex she was getting.

K

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈

What a lucky guy , while you wear the hold ups as well ?? lol

Oh yes 😉

I look after my husband

... And TheBF

Oh like I say he is a very lucky guy , what is the colour of choice ?

TheHusband likes black

TheBF like white

"

I’m on the bf side I love white , but not fishnets normal ones and lace top hold ups over stockings

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"C doesn’t meet others for sex alone, other than with other ladies.

However, I would want C to have the best sex, whoever we played with. The last guy we played with gave her just as many orgasms as I did. We are in this to have amazing sex with others, so I’d be more disappointed if it was average sex she was getting.

Yeah I mean it must be a turn on hearing her orgasm from another guy as it’s a bit of a surreal experience seeing another guy pleasure her but also knowing this isn’t the norm is the turn on as well would you say ?

K"

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West

I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E"

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

I'd guess the 'couple' has the connection, the other is just sex. Meaningless. Regardless of how good it is

Absolutely but the human brain can’t help but sometimes read a little too much into things so surely it must come up at times ? "

If that’s happening, I would suggest you stop. It’s not the brain reading too much into things it is the fact that swinging is not for you. Or you can just carry on knowing it hurts your partner, which is emotional abuse.

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other "

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ?

Im a single guy this is all just hypothetical and something I just wonder about so thought I would ask that’s all lol

I'd guess the 'couple' has the connection, the other is just sex. Meaningless. Regardless of how good it is

Absolutely but the human brain can’t help but sometimes read a little too much into things so surely it must come up at times ?

If that’s happening, I would suggest you stop. It’s not the brain reading too much into things it is the fact that swinging is not for you. Or you can just carry on knowing it hurts your partner, which is emotional abuse.

"

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E"

Yeah see that’s what would do it for me too , I would love to watch and see how hard you orgasm , then like I say you reliving it as you wank me I reckon orgasm would be so amazing

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester


"No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈

What a lucky guy , while you wear the hold ups as well ?? lol

Oh yes 😉

I look after my husband

... And TheBF

Oh like I say he is a very lucky guy , what is the colour of choice ?

TheHusband likes black

TheBF like white

I’m on the bf side I love white , but not fishnets normal ones and lace top hold ups over stockings "

Next visit I'll upload a new pic

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"No, he gets flicked and has to stand there and take it! 😈

What a lucky guy , while you wear the hold ups as well ?? lol

Oh yes 😉

I look after my husband

... And TheBF

Oh like I say he is a very lucky guy , what is the colour of choice ?

TheHusband likes black

TheBF like white

I’m on the bf side I love white , but not fishnets normal ones and lace top hold ups over stockings

Next visit I'll upload a new pic "

No way you being serious 🤤🤤 I would love that , does bf ever cum over them while your wearing them ?

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E

Yeah see that’s what would do it for me too , I would love to watch and see how hard you orgasm , then like I say you reliving it as you wank me I reckon orgasm would be so amazing "

That’s pretty much how it works out, yeah

E

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

East Lincs


"C doesn’t meet others for sex alone, other than with other ladies.

However, I would want C to have the best sex, whoever we played with. The last guy we played with gave her just as many orgasms as I did. We are in this to have amazing sex with others, so I’d be more disappointed if it was average sex she was getting.

Yeah I mean it must be a turn on hearing her orgasm from another guy as it’s a bit of a surreal experience seeing another guy pleasure her but also knowing this isn’t the norm is the turn on as well would you say ?

K"

I’m adding to her experience by encouraging her to enjoy herself.

Knowing it’s slightly taboo is very much adds to the heat.

K

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E

Yeah see that’s what would do it for me too , I would love to watch and see how hard you orgasm , then like I say you reliving it as you wank me I reckon orgasm would be so amazing

That’s pretty much how it works out, yeah

E"

Sounds incredible, do you ever wear hold ups as well to rather the meets or with your regular guy ?

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"C doesn’t meet others for sex alone, other than with other ladies.

However, I would want C to have the best sex, whoever we played with. The last guy we played with gave her just as many orgasms as I did. We are in this to have amazing sex with others, so I’d be more disappointed if it was average sex she was getting.

Yeah I mean it must be a turn on hearing her orgasm from another guy as it’s a bit of a surreal experience seeing another guy pleasure her but also knowing this isn’t the norm is the turn on as well would you say ?

K

I’m adding to her experience by encouraging her to enjoy herself.

Knowing it’s slightly taboo is very much adds to the heat.

K"

Yeah I can definitely see where your coming from pardon the pun lol 😂

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E

Yeah see that’s what would do it for me too , I would love to watch and see how hard you orgasm , then like I say you reliving it as you wank me I reckon orgasm would be so amazing

That’s pretty much how it works out, yeah

E

Sounds incredible, do you ever wear hold ups as well to rather the meets or with your regular guy ? "

Nope, but he likes me to be prepared in other ways

E

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E

Yeah see that’s what would do it for me too , I would love to watch and see how hard you orgasm , then like I say you reliving it as you wank me I reckon orgasm would be so amazing

That’s pretty much how it works out, yeah

E

Sounds incredible, do you ever wear hold ups as well to rather the meets or with your regular guy ?

Nope, but he likes me to be prepared in other ways

E"

Oh like what I’m intrigued now ??

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
2 weeks ago

North West


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E

Yeah see that’s what would do it for me too , I would love to watch and see how hard you orgasm , then like I say you reliving it as you wank me I reckon orgasm would be so amazing

That’s pretty much how it works out, yeah

E

Sounds incredible, do you ever wear hold ups as well to rather the meets or with your regular guy ?

Nope, but he likes me to be prepared in other ways

E

Oh like what I’m intrigued now ?? "

Haha that’s for mine, his & J’s eyes only, I’m afraid!

E

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By *asygoingguy39 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

catford


"I am neither hot nor his wife, but J loves me seeing other men - actively encourages it! Our reunions are always very steamy, with me filling him in on all the gory details. It’s just sex - we’re crystal clear on that

E

Yeah see that is the thing that turns me on , I think I would love hearing the explicit details as I was wanked off to get me wild with excitement before then enjoying each other

He loves it - LOVES it! I met my FWB the other week and we FaceTimed J so he could see what we were doing. Then J and I had an explosive session when we saw each other that weekend, recounting what he’d seen, how hard I came, what was said

E

Yeah see that’s what would do it for me too , I would love to watch and see how hard you orgasm , then like I say you reliving it as you wank me I reckon orgasm would be so amazing

That’s pretty much how it works out, yeah

E

Sounds incredible, do you ever wear hold ups as well to rather the meets or with your regular guy ?

Nope, but he likes me to be prepared in other ways

E

Oh like what I’m intrigued now ??

Haha that’s for mine, his & J’s eyes only, I’m afraid!

E"

Can I not be described so I can build a mentle image lol 😂

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By *morousCouple8Couple
2 weeks ago

Cumbria

Mr A here.

I have read through the post and I get the points people have made. We have tried hotwifing a few times now. When we first tried it was something new and hot. Then the gremlins crept in for me personally as we did it more times. Struggled to disassociate the meaningless sex with potentially feelings creeping into it all especially with regulars that had show very keen interest in her and been vocal about it. Wondering if the only reason it was more appealing for my wife was because the men were bigger and could last longer than me. Therefore satisfying the sexual pleasure I couldn’t fulfill. Sometimes feeling rejected if she came back from meet exhausted and didn’t have energy for having sex with me. But those were all my things to work through. And my wife has been nothing but supportive with me. Pressing pause on meets while I decide if it was a thing I wanted to continue. Reassuring me that our sex life is amazing and that our marriage is, and always will be the most important thing to her and nothing is worth risking that.

If you never try you will never know, but if you ever do feel doubts and you have a solid relationship then your partner will never question stopping it.

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By *rankieiamMan
2 weeks ago

reading

Personally I’d be happy for her. Things like this don’t bother me, a big part of the lifestyle for me is her enjoying herself.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
2 weeks ago

couple, us we him her.


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ? "

It's all about trust and love.

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By *yeSureMan
1 week ago

Glasgow


"So this topic intrigues me a lot as I can understand the turn on and excitement about it from the guys view but I guess the guys can help me with this question does it ever enter your mind that your wife may like the sex more with one of her meets especially if she meets him often then she does with you and how do you cope with that feeling ? "

Aspiring cuck here . It’s part of the thrill of it all

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By *hitelotusMan
1 week ago

Farnborough

I’d like to chat about hot wife scenarios ! My inbox is open !

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