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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago

Just venting, I know there’s no solution, but….

On our couples profile we started with minimal text but would get asked the same questions all the time. So we gradually added the answers to our profile and spelled out our boundaries.

Eventually the profile got to the point where many considered it too long to read so our replies to messages were just constantly “read our profile please”. Despite this, so many still wouldn’t read it and we’d just have to ignore them.

We recently decided to shorten the text to a minimum as text that nobody reads is pointless. And guess what…. When answering people’s questions we now get called timewasters for not having details in our profile lol.

You really can’t win with some people

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

I’d say it’s pretty clear what you’re looking for 🤷‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

When you reach an impasse such as this my humble advice is to put up all your filters and start messaging people instead, as opposed to receiving incoming messages.

(Assuming that you haven't been messaging people up until now)

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

I see no link on your single account to a couples account - so could not comment as to the content. Whereas your personal account is graphic enough to tell me what to do.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West


"I see no link on your single account to a couples account - so could not comment as to the content. Whereas your personal account is graphic enough to tell me what to do. "

Oh yeah, didn’t notice it wasn’t the couple’s account 🤦‍♀️

Just copy that text over OP. Short and to the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago


"When you reach an impasse such as this my humble advice is to put up all your filters and start messaging people instead, as opposed to receiving incoming messages.

(Assuming that you haven't been messaging people up until now)"

We do message first if a profile jumps out at us, but this doesn’t usually lead to a meet. Nearly all the men we meet say they are straight on their profile but are actually bi, or looking for their first bi experience.

The single male profiles that say they are bi are usually bottom bi, so not a good fit for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
2 weeks ago


"I see no link on your single account to a couples account - so could not comment as to the content. Whereas your personal account is graphic enough to tell me what to do. "

I did the same 😊

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