FabSwingers.com forum: If you start

By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

a thread do you feel obliged to respond to each post?

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By *onko the SaneMan
2 weeks ago

3rd rock from the sun

Nope

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes, I feel a lot of people get overlooked on some which isnt very nice.

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By *ulieScrumptiousWoman
2 weeks ago

North West

It depends on the thread. Sometimes I do but I don’t start that sort of thread unless I have the time to put in which is rare at the moment.

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I've only ever started one thread during my whole time here and I don't think i replied to all

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By *legantEnigmaWoman
2 weeks ago

South of the Watford Gap

I try, but sometimes I'm a bit stumped over how to respond to some posts.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

Depends. I don't really like to see people go unnoticed. It can be hard to try and fit in on here.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
2 weeks ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I do sometimes but equally I like to observe everyone else’s interactions and seeing where they take the thread - sometimes wonderfully random places 😁

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By *verageHoesCouple
2 weeks ago

Bessacarr

Only if they ask me a question. What about you, OP?

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

No. Well, that's not quite true. Not obligated anyway. If it's me asking about personal experiences that might be more sensitive, I'll try and reply to people because I want to. They've taken the time to answer me.

If it's a daft thread, no. I admire/respect people who start threads and actively try to be inclusive, it takes a lot of time and effort.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

I do try. But sometimes it can be a bit repetetive and feels like i am answering for the sake of it and i also feel bad if i miss anyone.

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By *ifelover999Man
2 weeks ago

Eastbourne

"I do try. But sometimes it can be a bit repetetive and feels like i am answering for the sake of it and i also feel bad if i miss anyone.

Yes your very trying but live and let die

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By *yclinghardMan
2 weeks ago

Winchester

I totally agree about always trying to reply, genuinely feel for those that post away and rarely get any chat the other way. Unless it's rude or disrespectful and in which case they are no longer in the tribe

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By *orphia2003Woman
2 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

No.

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By *tannersMan
2 weeks ago

stanley

"I try, but sometimes I'm a bit stumped over how to respond to some posts. "

This, plus some of my threads crash and burn so badly it’s best to flee the scene

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By *3dwoodMan
2 weeks ago

London

Yeah depends on the thread, if it requires a reply then sure

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By *anderingArtistMan
2 weeks ago

an abstract world

"I do try. But sometimes it can be a bit repetetive and feels like i am answering for the sake of it and i also feel bad if i miss anyone.

Exactly this.

Plus I sometimes can't reply straight away so then I end up spamming the thread with 14 posts and it feels thread killer-y/overbearing when I'm just trying to be inclusive.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 weeks ago

Niche

I try not to. It's a balancing act to be a good host but not monopolise it. Can't have a thread where 60% of the comments are the OP. Bit much that.

Plus I want to get other people's POV or I'd not be starting it.

Not to be confused with their piv

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

No. Not obliged to. It depends.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

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By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Only if they ask me a question. What about you, OP?"

Until recently I tried to reply to everyone but realised that it was a fools errand.

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By *rHotNottsMan
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I try to reply to everyone who makes an effort even if it's not nice, but if they are boring/add nothing or just using my thread to flirt with someone I don't feel obliged

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

It depends how tired my eyes are

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By *unnyandthebookkeeperCouple
2 weeks ago

bristol

No but I often dip back in and see whats going on.

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By *reachers SonMan
2 weeks ago

north West

I tend not to start them because I usually forget I have and I don't want people to think I'm ignoring them. I did a few days ago and completely forgot only remembered a couple of days later.🤦

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Nah mate

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

Sometimes, and I do try but it can be difficult if I'm busy.

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Sexville

Don think anyone should feel obligated to.

However, those that do seem to get better participation and feels more inclusive x

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By *uzySuzyCouple
2 weeks ago

Lytham St Annes

Never get anything done if you did

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By *elix SightedMan
2 weeks ago

Cloud 8

Nah, fuckem

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By *rafter69Man
2 weeks ago

upminster

Nah cant be arsed

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By *egDayEnthusiastMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Have you seen half my threads

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By *obilebottomMan
2 weeks ago

All over

Not always but try to include as many people as possible. I certainly don't answer the same few chosen all the time as sometimes seems to be the case with some OPs and threads.

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By *arc PolarisMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

I used to but not now

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

East Lincs

More often than not the guys will just ignore any other guy and reply to any woman that’s posted.

I might start using C’s initial at the end of my posts…

C 👀

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By *utsackerMan
2 weeks ago

north east

I try my best too think it’s common decency since people took the time to respond, a few time I’ve asked people’s opinions here ehen making a decision and people were kind enough to respond with advice

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

I reply to the ones I fancy

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I do yes, if I've started it I wanna chat with as many people as possible

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

Awfully big assumption that I will remember i started a thread

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By *eed.a.signalMan
2 weeks ago

Local

Only the posts that are interesting or a conversation starter.

The “rate the profile above” types are pointless and mind dulling

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
2 weeks ago

Crumpet Castle

"Only the posts that are interesting or a conversation starter.

The “rate the profile above” types are pointless and mind dulling "

five

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By *hickthighs26Woman
2 weeks ago

your hotlist

"Only the posts that are interesting or a conversation starter.

The “rate the profile above” types are pointless and mind dulling

five"

🤣

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I always try to yes. Sometimes though some peoples comments I'm sure are just after a negative reaction....so those are ignored.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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2 weeks ago

Central

No. Though I do like to fuel it

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By *icecouple561 OP Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Only the posts that are interesting or a conversation starter.

The “rate the profile above” types are pointless and mind dulling "

I never start those type

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