FabSwingers.com forum: Would it put you off

By *ulldog_71 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sedgefield

Just a quick one I was wondering how many people would be put off if a meet walked up using a stick or rolled up in a wheelchair.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

Nope.

I would like to know about a wheelchair beforehand though

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Not if I been made aware of it in advance, no issue at all.

My other half uses a stick due to a health condition and has been rejected due to it, when he's been upfront with couples here before.

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I wouldn't be out off, but I would hope I knew before the actual meet.

Transparency and communication with me is key.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
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2 weeks ago

Central

No.

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By *ister Blue-EyesMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

Not put off at all.. If you have a connection with someone thats usually the driving force.. knowing about any physical challenges would be good beforehand though for obvious reasons.

Let's be real though we all have our own quirks don't we and if people don't want to meet because of them they really weren't the right people anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I wouldn't be put off though.

I'd find it wheely exciting.. It'd definitely ramp up the experience.

It'll also give me more fun than anything I can shake a stick at..

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

No, but like others I'd hope they'd have told me beforehand

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By *iddle aged and chubbyMan
2 weeks ago

Shefford

Totally agree with everyone else, hopefully I'd know about it in advance and wouldn't put me off

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By *ulldog_71 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sedgefield

Nice to see positive replies just for context I have used a stick for just over 5 years I know it does put some people off

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By *inkPomPomWoman
2 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Wouldn't put me off if i knew about it prior, and was happy to move forwards

Everyone has things happen beyond their control 💕

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By *ontyboi76Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I wouldn't be put off as long as they look like their pics. I can understand people feeling fragile if they have to use a stick or wheelchair and would not feel deceived. But handy to know up front to compensate for needs. Like to be caring.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

As long as I knew in advance, it wouldn't be that much of an issue

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By *he Black ExperienceMan
2 weeks ago

Buckingham

Well as long as the legs can still go up in the air nah wouldn't bother me🤣🤣🤣.

Just kidding as long as we have a connection it's ok with me.

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By *oobaaMan
2 weeks ago

Sth Tyne

Met a Lady who uses a wheelchair and had no problems at all.

She did send me a pic of her in it and we had a conversation about her condition.

She said that a lot of males dont want to know, but because I took the time to read up about her condition she was happy to meet.

It was a really nice meet and we saw each other a few times.

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By *ulldog_71 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sedgefield

To be fair I don't think it would have made a difference to me before my mobility issues but I know it does bother some people.

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By *ulldog_71 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sedgefield

I have decided to update my profile pic to include the stick might as well lol

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I wouldn't choose to meet someone in either of those circumstances

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By *ulldog_71 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sedgefield

"I wouldn't choose to meet someone in either of those circumstances "

Its all about personal choice I wouldn't expect it to be ok with everyone

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By *gly duck cdTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

As long as it’s made aware before the meet I don’t have a issue, a gent I see is supposed to use a stick but tries not to ( it’s a pride thing ) where id rather him use it when we’re out just so he’s not struggling

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

It wouldn't put me off. I have no issue with it. As long as it was made clear beforehand as others have already said.

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By *kphooey43Man
2 weeks ago

Barnet

"I have decided to update my profile pic to include the stick might as well lol"

Glad you made that clear, cos looking at the profile pic in the Forum on my phone, I assumed your cock was mahoosive.

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By *ulldog_71 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Sedgefield

"I have decided to update my profile pic to include the stick might as well lol

Glad you made that clear, cos looking at the profile pic in the Forum on my phone, I assumed your cock was mahoosive."

The complete opposite lol

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By *donielMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

no issues if everything is in the open, i am there to meet the person not the disability

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By *laytime_13Woman
2 weeks ago

Lincs

The trouble is, no one's going to come on here and say actually no, I wouldn't meet them in that instance. And tbh, anyone saying no is probably not the kind of person you'd want to meet with anyway.

However as you'll see, there are plenty of people who would be happy to still meet, with prior notice (myself included)

Noticed your profile says you're having health issues so if you started this thread based on your current situation, I hope things go ok/improve for you OP. (And if it was more of an idle curiosity then never mind

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By *ashful_at_firstMan
2 weeks ago

Canterbury

Had one couples meet from here with a quite young couple locally, she was using a stick which surprised us both but didn`t detract from the enjoyment, and am meeting up with an ex from years back who suffers from MS and uses a chair - again, not an issue in my book

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By *roublemaker2Man
2 weeks ago

Colchester

"Just a quick one I was wondering how many people would be put off if a meet walked up using a stick or rolled up in a wheelchair."

At least they can't run away

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