FabSwingers.com forum: Socials or something else.

By *he Filthy Gorgeous Ones OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Who enjoys going to a swingers social event.

Why do you enjoy a social.

What made you attend one.

What put you off from attending one.

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By *hams123Man
2 weeks ago

London

I've been to one and it was a lot of fun. A very relaxed atmosphere. Lots of people to mingle with. No pressure. Just getting to know people. It's a great way to connect and meet genuine people.

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By *ornucopiaMan
2 weeks ago

Bexley

Prefer a sexual event..

Social ones are ok if you have the time to spare!

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By *he MinionMan
2 weeks ago

"I've been to one and it was a lot of fun. A very relaxed atmosphere. Lots of people to mingle with. No pressure. Just getting to know people. It's a great way to connect and meet genuine people."

This basically.

Widens my social circle. More friends, more connections.

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By *ew2buryMan
2 weeks ago

Newbury

I've been to a few fab ones plus a few KK. I like putting real names to fab names and faces to boobs. And I like meeting new ppl without feeling it's a show in order to get the jiggy ticket.

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By *oeBeansMan
2 weeks ago

Derby

I love a group social. I guess what made me attend was the chance to try and get out there and meet new people and what I love about them is that it's generally treated like a night out and everyone is able to chat with no expectation or pressure with anything more.

Compared to clubs anyway where people also say you shouldn't have expectations but I feel like some people will only be receptive to chatting to those they find attractive or meet their preferences and I haven't found this to be the case with group socials.

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By *iscreetDad42Man
2 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Not been to one, but the thought of turning up and recognising someone I know makes me a bit nervous.

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By *ickylouCouple
2 weeks ago

birmingham

Love a good group social x

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By *ampireLoveMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

Only been to one and loved it. Met a lot of the lovely forum bunch who were so friendly and welcoming. Being able to talk to amazing people that I have spoken to on here and meet new people made me want to attend.

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Love a social event nice to meet like minded people

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By *icecouple561Couple
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2 weeks ago

East Sussex

We've been to a few and with one exception enjoyed them very much. It's a lot of fun

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

I used to love going to socials and making new friends

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By *aFemmeCoquetteWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in the middle not the.....

I used to go to them regularly, it was nice to put faces to names and meet them in the flesh so to speak

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By *rNaughty84Man
2 weeks ago

Derby

Would like to try some local ones

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

I'm not a swinger and therefore never been to a swingers social event. I suspect these are held in clubs...?

I enjoy the Fab group socials and attend a handful of them during the year. They are a great way to meet a wide gamut of Fab newbies and forum folk over a few drinks. It's nice to put a few faces to the names.

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 weeks ago

Niche

Considered it and decided against it. It's not my thing to be so cavalier.

Too many unstable folk.

I'd not trust the peaceful existence/safety of my family or my ability to pay my bills to strangers.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
2 weeks ago

London

I've attended many and find them warm and welcoming affairs.

I've even met some of the people in this thread.

Who's going to the next cnl?

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous Ones OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"I'm not a swinger and therefore never been to a swingers social event. I suspect these are held in clubs...?

“I'm not a swinger and therefore never been to a swingers social event. I suspect these are held in clubs...? “

A social event can be held in a swingers club. but they are often held outside of clubs.

If you are not a swinger then why are you on a swingers platform.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I think they are great for new people to gain confidence and make social friends at least. After attending a few I did find they became rather repetitive with a fairly small circle of attendees.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"If you are not a swinger then why are you on a swingers platform."

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This is a "swingers platform"?? 🤔

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous Ones OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"This is a "swingers platform"?? 🤔"

No it’s not a swingers platform…

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By *izandpaulCouple
2 weeks ago

merseyside

Swingers socials are a great, no pressure way to meet fellow swingers in a relaxed environment.

Usually just like meeting friends in a pub for a few drinks.

It also sorts out the timewasters from the real players.

Would recommend them to everyone who wants to meet and not just chat online.

Give them a whirl or organise one yourself, we organised many and all great nights.

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By *ollysgonelookingWoman
2 weeks ago

Caernarfon

Attended the Manchester lounge social a couple of times, a few years ago now tho. met alot of the people from the forums, made some great new friends. My anxiety was sky high, but once I was there and started chatting to people, I realised how friendly and welcoming they all was.

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By *layful Sub BratWoman
2 weeks ago

S. E. London

Been to a few of the social events and found them welcoming and inclusive. As a lone female, I was initially wary but then thought what have I got to lose!

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By *oop87Man
2 weeks ago

Salisbury

Yet to try one yet. But keen

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

We've been to a couple over the years. Its just a good opportunity to meet like minded people, makes some connections and have a laugh. However I think we just prefer clubs. We can do the same there but with extra options too.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
2 weeks ago

London

"We've been to a couple over the years. Its just a good opportunity to meet like minded people, makes some connections and have a laugh. However I think we just prefer clubs. We can do the same there but with extra options too."

Extra options are always good.

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous Ones OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Yet to try one yet. But keen"

See you on the 24th.

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By *ercuryMikeMan
2 weeks ago

Newtown / Oswestry

Haven’t been to a ‘social’ yet but am really enjoying the social side of our little lifestyle it has surprised me that quite a few people I’ve met are in for the social aspects as much as the sexy ones.

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Some good, some bad. Some are like forum meet ups which is great if you know if you know a few people already I think the biggest factor is who is organising it.

We went to one last year it was organised by someone we had never heard of and it was awful, a tiny packed City Centre pub, too noisy, too small, nothing organised, basically felt like walking to any pub on Saturday night

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By *og and MuseCouple
2 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I'm not a swinger and therefore never been to a swingers social event. I suspect these are held in clubs...?

“I'm not a swinger and therefore never been to a swingers social event. I suspect these are held in clubs...? “

A social event can be held in a swingers club. but they are often held outside of clubs.

If you are not a swinger then why are you on a swingers platform.

Lots of married people on here cheating sleeping with others that don't class themselves as swingers and I would agree, there's a big difference between swinging/ENM & cheating.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
2 weeks ago

Hull

I don't like them. In my previous city they were attended mostly by people who couldn't get meets on here.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

The people attending put me off

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By *est-Yorkshire-GentMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds

I love the social events! Don’t get to go to as many anymore unfortunately. Always seem to be when I’m at my busiest 🙄 I’ve found they’re a good way to meet people who aren’t as confident on Fab or just prefer to meet people that way.

Made some great friends at events and always have such a good laugh with everyone

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
2 weeks ago

Hull

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By *eter304050Man
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Widower seeks a social to start. then you get to meet everyone first? then join/form a group and just meet when you fancy sex or whatever does it for you then you will know who to text (makes sense) after all were all here for sex xx

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By *ellinever70Woman
2 weeks ago

Ayrshire

The big group socials have never appealed to me

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By *ynamicnatureMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

I absolutely love going to socials when I can get the time to do so, ❤️

Nothing better than being I a room full of like minded people.

I'll be going to the booty social with my lovely partner up in Newcastle on the 18th and I'm already counting down the days.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I don't do group social events anymore, it feels to much like a club environment, which i dont really like.

I much prefer the one on one private social, it just fits my approach better. Also quite often group events show a lot of who's going, there never seems to be anyone thats my type, so it seems pointless.

I do really enjoy a private social, I enjoy learning about people and their journey on here and figuring out where it could lead. It's really exciting.

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By *he Filthy Gorgeous Ones OP Couple
2 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Cheltenham social on the 10th of April

And.

The New Gloucester Swingers social is on Friday 24th April.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's nice to be invited to them and I like to meet people on here whom I like

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

I’m looking forward to going to a social, as soon as I see one announced near me I’m in.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
2 weeks ago

Reading

I struggle with them a bit as I find small talk hard.

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By *estructionDollyWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

I've only been to one organised swinger social, I was nervous as hell but enjoyed it a lot in the end. I'd like to do more but not many seem to be in Manchester these days and I can't afford to be training it everywhere and staying in hotels.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I've been to a few with my partner.

Always made welcome and made more connections from them, than just relying in fab.

I was a bit hesitant before my first one, as I didn't know what to expect.

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By *sWyldWoman
2 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Some have been great. Some have been awful. I wouldn't rule one out but I'd have to have good reasons to want to go

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I'm not a swinger and therefore never been to a swingers social event. I suspect these are held in clubs...?

“I'm not a swinger and therefore never been to a swingers social event. I suspect these are held in clubs...? “

A social event can be held in a swingers club. but they are often held outside of clubs.

If you are not a swinger then why are you on a swingers platform.

Lots of married people on here cheating sleeping with others that don't class themselves as swingers and I would agree, there's a big difference between swinging/ENM & cheating."

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Who's married? Who's cheating?

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By *tormQueenWoman
2 weeks ago

Manchester

Ive been to a few fab socials, the quality varies but I generally have a good time. Its always nice to meet new people 😁

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