FabSwingers.com forum: Comdom on or off?

By *ancman44 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

If you was given the choice my the female/male that you are having sex with what would your preference be?

Mine would be without (I'm straight)

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By *EriversidecplCouple
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

Both of our preferences would be without

BUT...safety first,always

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

On, unless I've known them well enough to trust them. Even then it's a risk you gotta be willing to take. Touch wood (all pin intended) been lucky so far

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By *urious8240Man
2 weeks ago

Ammanford

Off would be preferable but thats only an option for relationships, safety comes first always

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By *unkissedYorkieMan
2 weeks ago

BRADFORD/LEEDS

In relationships I've always never used a condom (no kids came from that).

But for casual sex I'd always go for being wrapped as you don't know if you were the first or the 3rd that day.

Someone who was clean 14 days ago might have got something 10 days ago. It's about safeguarding yourself and not the person's feelings

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By *WB85Man
2 weeks ago

Staffordshire

I dont see many people, I find the right people for regular meets.

Start with them, build up a level of trust and if the lady suggests it and it feels right I'm ok without.

Regular testing and trust are paramount for this to work though.

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
2 weeks ago

North West

I think everybody (certainly 100% of men) would prefer to have sex without condoms. I certainly would. But there are other considerations aren’t there if not monogamous with a long term partner?

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By *issmorganWoman
2 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

On, unless with my long term partner.

I wouldn't trust anyone else.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Safety first

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By *hisIsMe58Man
2 weeks ago

Winchester

Always safety first, which means using a condom, even though I find it more enjoyable without.

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By *onin25Man
2 weeks ago

Durham

This old chestnut. It does feel better without so I prefer it without. However, the difference is not worth taking a risk over so it'll always be with.

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By *olvesxcoupleCouple
2 weeks ago

Round the bend

This is why we prefer to find a regular 'friend', with someone who isn't banging anyone with a pulse. Condoms irritate me, and if I'm feeling irritated, I'm not enjoying myself as much as I should be. We get tested regularly, to be on the safe side. No issues so far.

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By *addy bareMan
2 weeks ago

southend

Always off.

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Off.. glaze my cervix like a doughnut.

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By *opman121Man
2 weeks ago

stoke on Trent

Guess it’s up to the person your having sex with

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Without for most it's down to who it's with.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
2 weeks ago

SW1A1AA

Condoms for casual, no condom for relationship

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By *uvs2watchherCouple
2 weeks ago

newcastle

Off totally!! Cant get pregnant xxxx

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By *uninlondon69Man
2 weeks ago

Tower Bridge

Off

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 weeks ago

Leeds

It feels amazing when off but in this day and age I'd rather not take any chances so ALWAYS on x

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By *andydan69Man
2 weeks ago

south west m5 corridor bristol to past exeter

Off n fill deep if safe & trusted

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

With TheHusband - without 😍

With TheBF - without 😈

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Without for most it's down to who it's with."

I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please

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By *tannersMan
2 weeks ago

stanley

Generally people prefer my head bagged more than my Willy 😂

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By *ancashireredheadWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Without for most it's down to who it's with.

I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please

🤣🤣🤣

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By *peedyGMan
2 weeks ago

Telford

"Without for most it's down to who it's with.

I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please

I hope your inbox is protected 🤔😂

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By *tannersMan
2 weeks ago

stanley

"Without for most it's down to who it's with.

I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please

How about FAF messages? 😂😂😂

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

"Without for most it's down to who it's with.

I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please

How about FAF messages? 😂😂😂"

Always open to those Stannners

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By *ypersoonMan
2 weeks ago

WHITCHURCH, Shropshire

On unless I'm lucky enough to have someone regular to trust me without

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By *ovelyDayXXXWoman
2 weeks ago

Niche

"If you was given the choice my the female/male that you are having sex with what would your preference be?

Mine would be without (I'm straight) "

Not sure what sexual orientation has to do with it.

I'd only go without if in a trusted, exclusive situation. And testing would come before any change to protection.

Pregnancy isn't the only concern. Nor is an STI. There's HPV-related cancer too. The silent lurker.

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By *vonne5exMan
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

"If you was given the choice my the female/male that you are having sex with what would your preference be?

Mine would be without (I'm straight) "
no brainer in this game.

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By *avidNPMan
2 weeks ago

manchester

On you don’t want to catch anything

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
2 weeks ago

Somewhere dark and gloomy

Without, what's life without a little risk!

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By *layfullsamMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Fantasy off, reality it doesn’t matter as I’m not getting lucky 😂

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By *ontyboi76Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypridd

Always want off, but so far only ever done that with my wife and got the kids to prove it lol.

But I grew up with great sex education and advice. Safety first.

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By *utsackerMan
2 weeks ago

north east

Being totally honest condom sex is shit would rather have a wank but I’m not into casual meeting

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By *rincipessaWoman
2 weeks ago

your wildest dreams,

Of course off is always a much better feel, but in the world of fab the answers always on as far as I’m concerned

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By *urry BlokeMan
2 weeks ago

A comdom?

My mind went straight to Mrs Overall on Acorn Antiques

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By *oelDorianMan
2 weeks ago

vanaheim

"If you was given the choice my the female/male that you are having sex with what would your preference be?

Mine would be without (I'm straight) "

Mine would be with as I always worry about my sexual health

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 weeks ago

someplace

Off with my fwb

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By *ancman44 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Manchester

"Off with my fwb"

Very nice

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By *inkPomPomWoman
2 weeks ago

Isle of Man

Always on unless in a relationship with someone

People are so loose with sexual health these days

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By *ightsOutCouple
2 weeks ago

It’s a long way

Condom off when it’s just us, condom on with anyone else.

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By *ay234400Man
2 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

Definitely on safe sex every time can still be good fun and exciting

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By *un couple 2Couple
2 weeks ago

Tynemouth.

if there were no such thing as std's we would both be happy without.

if my wife is going to have sex with a guy, she may as well have all of him and she agrees.

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By *730tMan
2 weeks ago

werrington

On with someone new..until we feel comfortable to be without

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By *otBunsHunWoman
2 weeks ago

The North where we do what we want

I prefer without but playing safe is more important

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By *penminded7Man
2 weeks ago

Ebbw Vale

Off

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By *olywhoreessexCouple
2 weeks ago

Essex

Whore makes me wear a condom, but has been known to go bare with fuck buddies and always bare anal with her regular bf.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

Off every time in some fantasy world where there was no risks to worry about it. But sadly the world is not like that and we have to consider our own safety and that of our partners.

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By *zzzwazzzMan
2 weeks ago

Nuneaton

I guess it's very circumstantial based on the situation. If it's a partner or spouse, then obviously you're less likely to use protection compared to a one-off or casual set up. All parties have to agree on the decision. It's never fair to just ask the woman to take the pill either. For me, that should be a last resort as they carry too many side-effects for regular use and moreso than the inconvenience of using a condom anyway!

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By *dfabMan
2 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Can't remember the last time without a condom on but youngest is 14 so it's that long ago.

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By *aughty by nature 76Man
2 weeks ago

Walsall & Reading

Depends who it is

Regular and you trust them– no condom skin on skin

And a one night stand – 100% condom on

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By *hager777Man
2 weeks ago

Hereford

Prefer off, regularly tested and take event prep

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By *alph_0Man
2 weeks ago

Coventry

On best to be safe

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By *ornyguy666Man
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

Off

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By *est-Yorkshire-GentMan
2 weeks ago

Leeds

Preference is always without a condom but it’s not worth the risk! Safety first with strangers. I have known people catch things when they weren’t careful and it’s always scared me into being safe

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By *partharmonyCouple
2 weeks ago

Tonbridge

With each other: Off

With others: On

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By *eliWoman
2 weeks ago

In an idyllic utopia, none of the nasty stuff going around etc - there are still men I'd condom up with. A few I wouldn't.

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By *ax-switchMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

"With TheHusband - without 😍

With TheBF - without 😈"

😂😂🥵🥵

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By *ax-switchMan
2 weeks ago

Essex

"Without for most it's down to who it's with.

I meant most prefer it without not that I do it with most lol it depends who with if its casual its with, fml no more cream pie messages please

It could be said that you left your self wide open for that 😂

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By *irralmanCHMan
2 weeks ago

birkenhead

Off

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 weeks ago

East Lincs

We play between ourselves without condoms but with others we always play with condom unless they were a trusted regular FWB.

It’s only happened once where a regular FWB of over a year played without.

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By *oiluvfunMan
2 weeks ago

Penrith

On with randoms, off with trusted friends. Simples 😎👍

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By *imbob85Man
2 weeks ago

inverness

"On with randoms, off with trusted friends. Simples 😎👍"
agreed

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 weeks ago

Hiding

"On with randoms, off with trusted friends. Simples 😎👍"
same here. My health comes first.

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By *htcMan
2 weeks ago

Off because I get a really bad allergic reaction from them even non latex ones.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
2 weeks ago

Utero

What’s a Com dom?

Honestly, all these terms and acronyms and labels.

I just like doing the sex thing

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"What’s a Com dom?

Honestly, all these terms and acronyms and labels.

I just like doing the sex thing"

Is a non dom doing it bareback?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Chichester

Bb feels miles better

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
2 weeks ago

Rugby

I don’t know any man (or woman in fact) who would honestly say sex isn’t better without a condom, but it’ll always be safety first with us when we play with others.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
2 weeks ago

Poole

Off! I could'nt belive what a guy did on Sunday in a club. I was on the orgy bed. Bodies, arms, legs, body parts, you get the picture. A guy shoved a condom clad cock in my face for me to suck. As I grab hold, I realise he's got a condom on. "I'M ALERGIC, to latex" I scream, as I radpidly pull away from the offending cock.

Most guys don't know about latex allergy. Let alone condoms are made with latex. We have our own latex free version. For such occasions. But some thought, ask / tell before shoving cocks would be nice.

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By *eautyandthebeast86Couple
2 weeks ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

With each other we don’t use them but ALWAYS play safe with others.

We have said the only change to this is if were to find a regular play mate or couple that got tested as regular as we do but even then that’s still something yet to happen and might never happen.

I get it condoms don’t taste or feel as nice as skin but much nicer than what can happen if they aren’t used !

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By *ew2buryMan
2 weeks ago

Newbury

"I don’t know any man (or woman in fact) who would honestly say sex isn’t better without a condom, but it’ll always be safety first with us when we play with others. "
this.

As much as I'd love to find someone we can play bb with ... It's unlikely outside a polycule of sorts.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
2 weeks ago

Utero

"What’s a Com dom?

Honestly, all these terms and acronyms and labels.

I just like doing the sex thing

Is a non dom doing it bareback?"

A non dom com dom?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I think condoms are awful tbh but with any casual partners would always use them

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By *avexxMan
2 weeks ago

cheshire

"I think condoms are awful tbh but with any casual partners would always use them "
.. i agree

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