FabSwingers.com forum: Are women kinkier than men?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, are they?

The reason I ask is because of a posting on another thread whereby Serens sais that she used to date a guy some years ago who was totally into feet and that she learned how to love having her feet played with.

Which brings me to this:

If men are kinkier than women, and bring those kinks to each relationship he has, does that mean that women get to experience a more varied sex life than men, thus making them kinkier?

If women were more kinkier than men then I'd have had my prostrate milked already and I'd know what it's like to have been sprayed all over my face!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Well, are they?

Which brings me to this:

If men are kinkier than women, and bring those kinks to each relationship he has, does that mean that women get to experience a more varied sex life than men, thus making them kinkier?

If women were more kinkier than men then I'd have had my prostrate milked already and I'd know what it's like to have been sprayed all over my face!

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i wouldnt know wishy as im not kinky at all

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By *ary and BejesusCouple
over a year ago

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Im definitely kinkier than any man I know...but i guess it is reasonable to say there may be some out there kinkier than me.

Hard one...Do you think women are more likely to suggest different things than men and therefore being seen as kinkier?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im definitely kinkier than any man I know...but i guess it is reasonable to say there may be some out there kinkier than me.

Hard one...Do you think women are more likely to suggest different things than men and therefore being seen as kinkier?

Do women hold back when it comes to sex due to social stereotype conditioning?

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By *ary and BejesusCouple
over a year ago

Ye Olde Stable

"Im definitely kinkier than any man I know...but i guess it is reasonable to say there may be some out there kinkier than me.

Hard one...Do you think women are more likely to suggest different things than men and therefore being seen as kinkier?

Do women hold back when it comes to sex due to social stereotype conditioning?"

Not if they have any sense!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Im definitely kinkier than any man I know...but i guess it is reasonable to say there may be some out there kinkier than me.

Hard one...Do you think women are more likely to suggest different things than men and therefore being seen as kinkier?

Do women hold back when it comes to sex due to social stereotype conditioning?"
yes i think some do..i have to be totally at ease meself

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

"Do women hold back when it comes to sex due to social stereotype conditioning?yes i think some do..i have to be totally at ease meself "

Totally agree and once comfortable i can suggest/introduce a lot more "kink" - never had it refused yet lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think part of it is that there is this whole stigma attached to a woman who is seen as a 'go-getter'. Men are scared of them, so I think they do hold back to a degree, preferring to let the man take the lead.

But I also think women do tend to experience more different things with each male lover she has (even one-nighters) as men are more forthcoming with the things that turn them on.

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By *ary and BejesusCouple
over a year ago

Ye Olde Stable

"I think part of it is that there is this whole stigma attached to a woman who is seen as a 'go-getter'. Men are scared of them, so I think they do hold back to a degree, preferring to let the man take the lead.

But I also think women do tend to experience more different things with each male lover she has (even one-nighters) as men are more forthcoming with the things that turn them on."

If you are confident in yourself and know what you like then sharing that shouldnt be an issue.

After all it is supposed to be a pleasurable experience, how can it be that if you hold back and are not confident enough to share the information, or be comfortable enough in yourself to experiment.

I think Men on the whole have very basic needs, desires when it comes to sex, women tend to be more imaginative, even if they dont share it lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I don’t think its being male or female that makes one more kinkier but more the level of latent deviancy in the depths of your mind and your ability to activate this into more than thoughts.

Have to agree with you though wishy and say that men do seem to be far more forthcoming with what triggers them off.

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By *ary and BejesusCouple
over a year ago

Ye Olde Stable

"I don’t think its being male or female that makes one more kinkier but more the level of latent deviancy in the depths of your mind and your ability to activate this into more than thoughts.

Have to agree with you though wishy and say that men do seem to be far more forthcoming with what triggers them off.

I disagree, but then Im a woman lol

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