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By *ommyGun1 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

fobbing

Club advice and recommendations for a young new couple? Dont want to jump

In and be put off

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

We’ve been swinging and going to clubs for about 10 years happy to chat

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By *earditallWoman
2 weeks ago

Lancaster

Go with no expectations and socialise enjoy

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By *aitonelMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Find the biggest, baddest, meanest mother fucker in there and throw the first punch.

Oh wait, wrong place as a first timer.

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By *issLickalottapusWoman
2 weeks ago

La La Land


"Go with no expectations and socialise enjoy"

100% this

Have a look at the clubs website to see what is going on, i.e. any events. Most clubs have newbie nights which are worth going to

Also, make sure you are prepared. Some clubs are cash only, some are naturist and you need to bring your own towel, some provide towels

But we have all been newbies once

Being nervous is a good thing, arrogance is not

When you enter the club, tell the receptionist that you are new and they should give you a tour, which will help settle some nerves x

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
2 weeks ago

Chester

I'm happy to chat via inbox

I know what we were like when we started going to clubs, our first club was 10yrs ago but then didn't go to another for years after that. We attend more now, twice this weekend! We're more relaxed now but it is still daunting

Just remember, everyone else is there for similar reasons and not everyone is there to have sex

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Be normal. Chat to people, don't expect anything. Talk to each other about what you both want before you go. Also, be prepared for the male to be treated as the chauffer of the female and only given just as much attention as necessary in order not to mess up a chance with Mrs

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
2 weeks ago

Coventry

Literally go, see. You don't have to do anything. You can have a lovely hot night talking to people, watching whats going and soaking up the atmosphere. Treat it as a recce.

Anything more if the feeling take you you have a quick field discussion about. See if you're on the same page, adjust agreed boundaries. As long as your talking and on the same page you'll be ok. Remember only go as fast/far as the slowest partner (even if that is just going and having a look).

It's really not that deep. Just go, see and have a lovely night with no expectations.

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By *ew2buryMan
2 weeks ago

Newbury

Treat it like a social. If stuff does happen. Cool. Don't force it.

Observe. Etiquette etc

Don't drink too much.

Enjoy !

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By *ate2theparty808Man
2 weeks ago

Erdington

I’m hopefully going to start going to a club soon, I’ve done a bit of research and I’m hoping that I can pass muster.

From what I have heard it’s a much harder process for a single man, but to be honest the main reason I’m going is because of how many profiles I’ve seen that state they meet at clubs, that and because I would like more real life friends within the community.

I’m really looking forward to it.

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